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Topic: Calling all Gemini experts!
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Randall
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From: Columbus, GA USA
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posted September 06, 2004 01:12 AM
 
Welcome!  ------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
sesame
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From: Oz
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posted September 22, 2004 12:28 AM
Yes, welcome. I'd suggest to do whatcha gonna do. I mean, ask him. We love being invited places. We are not all "I'm the man and hence instigator", in fact it's quite the opposite. We love being chased, but not too much. Everything's a game. Ask him and see what he says. If he says no, then he'd most likely ask you to the same thing at a different time and place - just to be different. By not asking him, you're deceiving him, which might be picked up by him. He won't know what you're deceptive about, but he could sense it's there, and hence you're in trouble. You have to be honest.Heaps of Love,
Dean. IP: Logged |
gert
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posted September 22, 2004 08:19 AM
Personaly I think that they are adorable.I don't know wether its just me but I tell you that everytime I meet a gemini I feel a need to nurture and expand their minds to deeper philosophies and theories.I have my sun in the eighth house and although my sun is in sag,I like to get deep and explore taboo subjects and never take things at face value. With my moon in cancer I like to talk about how I feel.Most of my friends are geminis and I remember one of my exes had her sun and moon in gemini and lets just say we always had something to talk about. There is something kinda sexy and naughty about geminis.I always get the impression that they are uninhibited and will try almost anything,and I mean ANYTHING atleast once. I get along with mostly a lot of them!!!! IP: Logged |
chiquita
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posted September 24, 2004 09:23 PM
okay...ya'll are AWESOME!! however, let me give u the recent low down...i actually did ask him. and whats nice is that he did actually go! rock ON! and twas GREAT!! we had the very best time...or at least i did. but that wuz two weeks ago. i took him to get his car the next morn...we 'hung out' if u know what i mean. but its been the same ever since...same ole same ole, meaning that he STILL doesn't want to be serious. he still wants nothing...and i guess, deep down, i do want more than this?? he hasn't asked me to do ANYTHING since i started asking him to do stuff. so, i'm stopping!! i don't know what else to do. i asked him - in a VERY nonchalant way - to go to another party tomorrow night. BUT, he wuz ASKING about it. get this, he never, EVER replied -it wuz in an email - to the question. that one night (and every other time i spend with dude) wuz great...but apparently i thought it wuz better than he did??? not to be conceited/arrogant, but i DO think he likes me, he's just got 'other' stuff going on. i'm thinking i'm ABSOLUTELY done cuz i don't know what else to do. but my question to you guys is, what do i do at work??? i mean i see him quite a bit and don't know how to act/what to do. its quite a quandry!! any suggestions?????!  IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted September 25, 2004 10:10 AM
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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Thethirdbenjamin
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posted October 01, 2004 12:51 AM
I will agree, there was this aquarious worker that had we stung, i didn't say i liked her or anything, but i mean you can tell, if you look closely.She ended up asking me if i wanted to do something?? Phase 2
You will know if he is still intrested in you if he kepts on puting you as somewhat of a priority. If he doesn't or all of a suden stops talking to you and doing things with you, on a daily basis. then somethings up. I said daily or weekly bases. IP: Logged |
chiquita
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posted October 01, 2004 12:36 PM
u make a such a great point about the priority thing. i guess i'm just not that good at the patience aspect. i mean, u get excited about someone and u want something to HAPPEN, right? and u know, perhaps i've ended it too soon because he emailed me again this week and i just haven't replied. i've also avoided anywhere i might see him. i truly don't know what else to do. i guess i just don't want him to be able to reject me AGAIN!! however, IF/when i ever see him/talk to him again, i'll be nice and - i guess? - up for having drinks or whatever. i think the bottom line is that he really doesn't want a relationship...and i guess i just thought - wrongfully - that night would change things. so i suppose i learned my lesson. u don't think i should keep asking HIM to do stuff do u? i guess i just thought maybe, just maybe he just 'might' come around??? IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted October 02, 2004 03:15 PM
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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Thethirdbenjamin
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posted October 03, 2004 10:00 PM
Well, maybe he wants to be just freinds with you and theres still something he wants that you don't have.Going back to that aquarious girl after that date with her i left her hanging, i didn't say anything. For an aquarious she was alot diffrent then what his gemini has seen before. She wasn't what i was looking for. We still talk but that pretty much it. It depends on each gemini guy, what they want will depend. He probible won't say anything but more or less you will have to read the clues he leaves behind. Try teasing him and flirting with him, thats
what got me intrested with aqurious girl #2 at my part time job. Act like your somewhat of a challenge, but with a little bit of a effort you can be his. Thats what stoped me from going all the way with aquarious girl #1 she seamed too easy, not worth the effort. Aquarious girl number #2 has a boyfriend, she teases me and gives me alot of attention. The chalenge is obviously the fact that she has a boyfriend, but at the same time with some effort she can be mine, at least i think so. afterall i have facts to back it up. I make more then him and i have a drivers liscens and a car, he doesn't. As well she hasn't seen him in awhile. at this point she had me frazled, she
had me on my mind, because i'm was trying to figure out why she's like this. At one point i was like either she wants this to go somewhere otherwise leave me alone, because i was thinking why does she always try to give me attention
whether it be by flirting with me or by getting me to talk she whould always try to get my attention. so i started acting up like a jerk on purpose to get her to back off.
She didn't entirly back off.
I was so grouchy, but she still tried other ways. The last time i saw her i was a complete opposite i was nice and friendly, and throw a celebration for one of the employees who's quiting. she payed attention to me and analysed it
along the way. She still pays attention to me and i still can't understand why, is she trying to make herself availble to me while still being somewhat of a chalenge i don't know. One thing is for sure she's on my mind and i think thats works for most gemini's. So try to get on his mind, make it seam like your worth his time and effort, be somewhat of a challenge, but not a complete challenge. I can't stress this enought get on his mind somehow, i'm still trying to understand aquarious girl #2. IP: Logged |
Thethirdbenjamin
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posted October 03, 2004 10:07 PM
Thanks gert,"Personaly I think that they are adorable.I don't know wether its just me but I tell you that everytime I meet a gemini I feel a need to nurture and expand their minds to deeper philosophies and theories." i could use some people like you, but the way i feel is you either love us or hate us. I'm suprised my family still loves me, for example all get into a big argument then they will make me nap for an hour, then everything is the way it started before we started fighting, and then some jokes and laughter. IP: Logged |
miss_apples
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posted October 19, 2004 01:20 PM
My boyfriend is a gemini and I have TONS of gemini friends and companions. From my experience you have to be very adaptable to get along with a gemini. Geminis are wonderful people but they have 2 sides to them. My boyfriend can be the nicest person in the world but can be really mean if you push his buttons the wrong way. Also, you can not control a gemini. Geminis really value their ability to do what they want to do. I have found that if I dont get in the way of the things my boyfriend wants to do...he is one happy gemini, and he brags about me to all his friends for being such a nice girlfriend...and that makes me one happy attention-seeking Leo. LOL!IP: Logged |
sesame
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From: Oz
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 20, 2004 10:00 PM
Here, Here! Welcome by the way!  It's hard for us to ask for the space though. We do need it. The freer we are, the more affection and attention we give. Unless we don't. I think sometimes we need wake up calls, but then doesn't everyone? Heaps of Love,
Dean. ------------------
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