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Nerwin unregistered	posted September 02, 2003 04:59 AM I've just started dating a gemini, and boy he's one of a kind, i really haven't met anyone like him.. and oh so TALKATIVE.. he wont keep his mouth shut!! In Linda's Love Signs, she says that Pisces and Geminis are classical foes, and it's true i don't have many gemini friends, but this gemini and I get along real well. Anyway, I just wanna know if anyone has any tips on geminis, what they like, how to keeo them interested? IP: Logged
silverbells unregistered	posted September 02, 2003 07:28 PM I'll tell you right now, in my experience if a Gemini says that they really really don't want to talk about something at the present moment, Do Not Push Them to. Because in my experience if you keep pressing them to talk about it NOW they will make up some lie and they won't even care if it is an obvious lie and if you say that it is a lie they will say that it's not and get mad that you won't leave them alone "even after they just gave you an "answer"". For that particular trait to dissapate (not all the way, but then again maybe) you have to develop trust and love and more trust so that they know that you will not try to play mind games and not use their answer even in some abstract way against them.(personal opinion and observation: they suspect other people of the mind games and using the information to you're own ends because that is what they do BUT because they love mental agility, not because they are mean and want to get over.) AND Pisces, if Mr. Gemini thinks that you are keeping secrets, which I hear AND observe that Pisces are prone to do, you will have a HARD time gaining that trust. It seems that all of the Geminis that I have met have had trust issues and that might be reason for a lot of coldness and/or distance that you may sense at times, but the ones that I have met are very loving, good, good people. Don't lose that trust or violate a developing trust in any way, because if you do: get out while you still can because you may be open to all kinds of betrayal, deception and meaness; because those are the rules that YOU introduced and put into play by insulting them and playing with their agile mind and making them think that 1)they cannot spot a lie or game as quickly as they are supposed to and consequently that perhaps their mind is not as agile as they KNOW it is, and 2) You have no respect for their quick mind and intellect by trying to pull the wool over their eyes! NOt to mention hurting their feelings. And if the infraction was big enough, they will play with you like a ball of string until they eventually lose interest and drift away to find someone that they can trust and be honest with and who realizes that their intelligence is nothing to take lightly and their feelings of course are not to be trod on. I think that might go for all air signs but since I am Libra raised by a Gemini I'm not entirely sure what about me is nature and what is nurture. Could be both...but I digress. Not to imply that because you are a Pisces then you do not tell the truth.(above) But I do know that Pisces like to keep secrets for no Detectable reason.(None that I can detect). And you know what else, Geminis are very straight-up, real people. If they have something to say, they will say it and they are usually not scared of anything. They are very loyal to friends, romantic relationships are iffy but again you have to foster trust and love; and they stick to a code like nobody's business. The thing is: figuring out exactly what their code is. And exactly what rules are they playing by? I'll try to think of some more things. They sure are one-of-a-kind people in a very falling in love kind of way, a MAGIC, touch-your-heart kind of way, and a "Man you're a REALLY GOOD friend/person" way. IP: Logged
silverbells unregistered	posted September 02, 2003 09:54 PM Oh yes. Clever and witty conversationalists and so very intelligent (book learned or not book learned). IP: Logged
silverbells unregistered	posted September 03, 2003 09:56 AM Just putting this thread in Today's Active Topics. IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 1218 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Apr 2009	posted September 06, 2003 12:27 PM ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged
Nerwin unregistered	posted September 08, 2003 11:23 AM Hi Silver bells, everything u said, so very true Pisces don't enjoy telling lies, it's just that sometimes the truth is so BORING we have to spice it up a it.. And sometimes, a lis just slips out for no could reason, I really can't explain it.. but no, we honor the truth and we CANT STAND liars, but it's just.. I don;y know how to explain it, but it's like a part of u is being stripped away when the person in front of u knows everything there is to know about u. We need our space and our privacy.. oh and another thing, its seems that in past experiences, whenever i was 2 honest in a relationship, it somehow backfired on me, no idea why, guys seem to like it when ur mysterious, or so i hear. As for mr. Gemini.. one day he's so sweet u cant believe, we talk til the morning and I fele so close to him, u know, like we connect, and its so BEAUTIFUL, but then the next day he wont answer my msgs, and when i call him he sounds so aloof and distant.. but then a few days later he calls me and is as amazing as ever.. Linda Goodman said something about that in Sun signs.. Oh well we'll see what happens IP: Logged
silverbells unregistered	posted September 08, 2003 08:11 PM IP: Logged
thesag unregistered	posted September 10, 2003 03:39 PM Hi there. I'm new to all this but I really wanted to comment on the Gemini topic. I have been with a Gemini for over 19 years. They have some great Qualities. Tender hearted, smart, witty!! I have found the not so great qualities to be lying, cheating and talk you in circles until you have now Idea what the original convesation was about. If they are questioned concerning their activities.... you'll never get a straight answer. In fact almost all questions are answered with a question. They have to have a LARGE number of female friend? The feel the need to be everyones "Fixer" when they are not qualified for the job. Mine loves to talk and talk and talk ...AT me not to me. I'm a SAG w/ Virgo moon and Aries Rising. I have never been able to get his time of birth. He's a Gemini with either a Leo or Cancer moon. I feel he's a Leo moon. If you can deal with the fact that you'll never have all of him things will be fine. They are like a big Apple pie. It has the best ingredients, fresh sweet apples, FLAKY crust and it's the best apple pie you'll ever have. If he actually gives you some. I find that mine only gives me the crumbs. So, focus on the good stuff and Do Not be a PUSH OVER! Hope this helps? IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 1218 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Apr 2009	posted September 10, 2003 04:28 PM Welcome! ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged
Toritorres unregistered	posted September 13, 2003 01:20 PM Hi, I am a Pisces, and my mom and daughter are Gemini... it is so hard... let me explain. My mom and I were fine except when I was between 10-19 years old, now we are best friends again... my daughter and I are great now that she is 4, but from birth - 3 years old, we did not bond... Gemini and Pisces are not doomed in a relatinship, it is just that Gemini seem shallow to Pisces, not shallow in a stupid way... I mean, just not super deep. Example... my mom and daughter are super sweet, if something really bad happens then they are upset just like anyone, but... if something really great happens 1 miunute later, they totally move on! And, me, the Pisces, is left still crying!!! HAHA I haven't had experiences with Geminis being liars, but I have heard that Geminis, if they want, are excellent at using people without feeling guilty. They are survivors and don't enjoy emotional suffering. They have good self-esteem and figure they deserve the good life... they get along with Aquarius and Leo for that reason. just my 2 cents. IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 1218 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Apr 2009	posted September 13, 2003 02:44 PM Welcome to the site! ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged
bauschd unregistered	posted September 15, 2003 11:06 PM Man, I LOVE talking about Gems, it always makes me laugh! I don't mean it as a game thing I have with the rest of you, I just find it funny I LOVE Pisces as well. I totally understand the lying thing. Most of the times I like it - it depends on the situation. Two things to remember about Gems: We're VERY sensisitive - even if we seem like we don't care about other peoples feelings, our own are VERY sensitive. The other is freedom. The reason he'll talk to you happy as larry a few days later is because he's registered all that is said, and then he starts remembering YOU again. I mean, he hasn't forgotten you, it's just that there's an order. I've talked to a Pisces all night before on several occasions. Afterwards, I really needed space to just digest the feeling and the moment. I'll never forget Linda's "Strawberry and Cream/Arabs and Jews" remark because that is VERY true. I just blame the times when we're on tangents on the stars and wait for them to come back again. My current GF and I get on like crazy, but sometimes I feel restricted. I usually just ignore it and kiss and hug her more and it goes away The best of luck with your relationship! Dean/o. ------------------ Love and Light to aLL My numerology program according to "Star Signs" by LG. Magically Logical Magic is Logically Magical Logic (and vice versa)! IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 1218 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Apr 2009	posted September 16, 2003 10:44 AM ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged
alchemiest unregistered	posted September 23, 2003 12:10 PM ooh, nerwin, that is soooo true! anyway, to keep a gemmi occupied, lesseee.... from a gal's perspective anyway, i need a guy who keeps me BUSY!!! change change change!!! i hate predictable!!! be spur of the moment! don't get stuck in a rut, cause that just irks me to no end in a guy- especially if he wants to pull me into that rut with him!!! i'm moody, so i understand moody, but if you're going to be moody, don't be so in a boring way, if you know what i mean. i have a couple of friends who have pretty strong pisces in their charts (hmm, they might be pisces actually, i'm not sure...) and we get along just fine but i was born on the 22nd of may, so i do have a slight taurean influence on me, as well as a libra ascendant, so i don't know if that plays into it some. oh, i used to rock at this astrology stuff a few years ago, but i'm so out of touch now... pting pting!! I am so HYPER right now!!! I'm gonna go put on my hulk hands and play with a watergun now!!!! IP: Logged
alchemiest unregistered	posted September 23, 2003 12:15 PM oh before i go berserk though, just wanted to add, don't mistake him if he keeps distancing himself from you periodically. it doesn't mean he doesn't care- it's just the way he is. we're not very trusting by nature. Oh, well, we ARE, but not in a complete way, it's hard to explain. until we KNOW you, we won't, you know, KNOW you- or let you know US. until he completely trusts you, he's not going to share his flights with you but once he DOES trust you, ooh girl! you're going to see what gemini flights are all about!!! IP: Logged
Nerwin unregistered	posted September 23, 2003 03:11 PM Hi all i'm sorry I havent been online in ages, I had exams, and in fact I have another exam tomorrow so I can't stay long.. but anyways thanx alot everyone thesag: yes thanx u really helped.. ur rite about the apple pie thing, but seeing as I'm a Pisces, I need a lot of emotional support and so a piece of pie can never be enough for me. I have so much to give and I expect the same in return.. oh well.. toritorres: I dont think that geminis are shallow, oh I don't know, I find them to be very smart and intellectual, and I find that very attractive, but maybe emotionally they aren't that deep.. my sister is a Gemini and she can never understand it when I get emotional, she just rolls her eyes, nothing can keep her brooding for over a minute.. blauschd: 'I've talked to a Pisces all night before on several occasions. Afterwards, I really needed space to just digest the feeling and the moment' hmm, I'm not sure if this is true but I'll choose to believe it. u really made my day thanx alchemiest: u are sooo right.. it's not difficult to see how easily geminis get bored.. they need constant stimulation, but I'm sure Pisces, with its influences from all the sun signs is more than capable for the job Oh and u are so right about them not trusting.. I tell him EVERYTHINg and he is so vague it drives me nuts!! He can talk for an hour without saying anything.. it's so frustrating.. still waiting for him to know me well enough to let down his guard... wish me luck!!! IP: Logged
Virgo-AriesArtist Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Royal Oak, MI USA Registered: Jun 2009	posted October 08, 2003 09:37 AM So, Nerwin, how's it going with your Gemini guy? I have a special relationship with one as well, and he certainly keeps me alert. They're such sweet guys, and I adore their child-likeness. Brings out the sensitive side of me. ------------------ -K "Most people love with restraint As if they were someday to hate We hated gently, carefully As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged
silverbells unregistered	posted October 08, 2003 02:30 PM Nerwin-I just came back to this thread after a long time and I was re-reading and saw that I put a thumbs-up under one of your responses that I do not remember putting there. I only mention it because it seems that I would have had something to say about what you posted but instead there is only a thumbs-up, I don't know what that is about. I am almost certain that I did not put that there. Anyway, Good Luck . ------------------ Get some Love in your groove, just get hip to Forgive...- Michael Franks IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 1218 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Apr 2009	posted October 09, 2003 02:43 AM Maybe you slid into an alternate Uni-verse, Silverbells! ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged
silverbells unregistered	posted October 09, 2003 05:52 PM Well things are certainly confusing enough for it to be a possibility. IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 1218 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Apr 2009	posted October 10, 2003 02:11 PM I've experienced a few of those. ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged
Discreteiden unregistered	posted October 10, 2003 02:57 PM Newin I totally understand what you are dealing with, I just met a Gemini three weeks ago, gave him my number and after talking on the phone for two weeks, everyday, we decided to see each other again, this time letting our guards down, (Last Wednesday). There were sparks everywhere, it was just great, we talked once more after our first date and did not hear from him again until yesterday. He called like nothing happened ... I was not sure how to react, but very much like the typical proud Leo that I am, I totally showed no emotions and did not show him that it bothered me at all, now I am stuck, because I like him so much but do not feel comfortable yet telling him that I wish he wouldn't disappear like that. When we are on the phone or together, he is great, he makes me feel as if I am IT, but then I wish he would be more consistant that is all. IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 1218 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Apr 2009	posted October 11, 2003 04:24 AM Welcome! ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged
bauschd unregistered	posted October 17, 2003 02:57 AM Yes, the biggest "problem" of my existence is consistency. I'm constantly just learning to live around it. Good luck! And Welcome!!! Dean. ------------------ Love and Light to aLL My numerology program according to "Star Signs" by LG. Magically Logical Magic is Logically Magical Logic (and vice versa)! IP: Logged
bauschd unregistered	posted October 23, 2003 01:02 AM I know that Gems are considered as inconsistent, but check this out: Virgo Moon Sag ASC Neptune (Pisces) in the first house And Gem Sun! These are 4 by dual signs! Not to mention my chart is completely on one side of the wheel (another dual?) I honestly don't know how I can consistently breath! Dean. IP: Logged

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