posted August 18, 2013 04:26 PM            

And after that day he tried to kiss me i ignored him the bext day at a get together and he stayed depressed sitting apart from his friends trying to talk to me the whole night and looking like he was going to cry

He has the same date of birth as my best friend from elementary who i still miss. I have double whammy venus pluto withthat birthdate

posted August 18, 2013 04:36 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
It was very intense between me and that guy. We would walk at the same pace, shoulder to shoulder, steps taken at the same time. I'm sure out pulse rate was at the same level as well. Body language sites will tell you the pulses being at the same rate and side byside walking takig the same steps indicates a strong link in a couple. He would also always make sure to stand next to me wherever we went, it was like we were silently hugging. Because he would always stand as close to me as he could. And the eye contact... he would always shoot me these puppy dog looks.
and even when he was ina group of his friends he would look out at me to see what i was doing. There was also tremendous sexual tension and when he laughed at my jokes his laugh would be innocent like a babys laugh, you could tell he rly thought it was funny
And he would talk to me in a sweet delicate tone as if i would break if he spoke any louder.
One time he hugged me in this special way after a certain thing had happened and it was the most consuming hug of my life.

And after that day he tried to kiss me i ignored him the bext day at a get together and he stayed depressed sitting apart from his friends trying to talk to me the whole night and looking like he was going to cry

He has the same date of birth as my best friend from elementary who i still miss. I have double whammy venus pluto withthat birthdate

But anyway, yeah it's your choice. Personally i wouldnt even deal with it unless he completely completely changed and was not able to have meaningless or casual sex ever again in his life. Especially someone who has the capacity to hurt me so much i would want to have a healthy way of thinking about such things. Would you date a thief, a thug, or a drug user, a compulsive liar? No i dont think you would, bevause despite themselves and despite all the love they might have for you, they would still do you wrong. Because they dont even know how to love themselves first so howcan they love you the right way. You think someone who sleeps around a lot can love themselves very much? If they dont respect themselves and their body and their own nakedness, how will they respect your body and your nakedness

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Wow!! Aw, he sounds very sweet and gentle towards you. Maybe you should contact him sometime? I'm such a romantic... you guys sound like you have a lot of potential.

I understand what you're saying. And you are right. I just become so weak when it comes to him and I'm not a weak person. I don't know what I'll do... What will happen will happen. I don't think I'll ever initiate things with him, I always let him do that. But i do have one more question: Why did you say he truly loves me? Do you know that for sure? And what made you think that? Because i spend so much time debating this in my head and you said it with such confidence lol. do you think he will come back around to me or do you think the emotional conversation we had the other night scared him off?

posted August 18, 2013 04:46 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I know how hard it is to find people who will listen and give you good helpful advice so that's why i try to help

Well, you have a love stellium. And in my experience I had mutual feelings of love with every person i had that with in composite (sun-mercury-venus conjunction) whether male of female. I bet he's looked in your eyes with sparkly / puppy dog eyes plenty of times hasn't he? And there's a lot of affection too isnt there. And he talks to you very sweetly, no?

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aw, well thanks

posted August 18, 2013 04:58 PM            

But kissing him or having sex with him is a choice dear

Read that again c-h-o-i-c-e

posted August 18, 2013 05:00 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
^falling hard is okay

But kissing him or having sex with him is a choice dear

Read that again c-h-o-i-c-e

Remember that next time you're in that situation with him. You have a choice. And you have the control.

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posted August 18, 2013 05:11 PM            

I think thats different.
Yeah dont kiss him again.

posted August 18, 2013 05:24 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Ohhh okay. You mentioned sex so i was confused!!

I think thats different.
Yeah dont kiss him again.

Either way i feel like he should be chasing you if he likes you a ton like he says. Love stelliums are love but they dont always indicate the person is crazy about you or anything like that. So take note of that.

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posted August 19, 2013 12:11 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
If you pay for a reading it'd just be the synastry and starmatch report

It might confirm/show how he feels for you
If you have any uranus in synastry i'd advise you to stay away from that.

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posted August 19, 2013 03:11 AM            

aspects can also be produced onto a basic Synastry Aspect Chart, a color coded chart. Review the

sample chart at your leisure. It may help you gain even more insight than you currently have.
http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting

posted August 19, 2013 03:42 AM            

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why is that?

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because it'd mean he'll never be willing to commit to you the way you want and the way he treats you would always leave you feeling off

also venus-pluto in starmatch shows a strong connection, but also i think when it says "so so thinks so and so is sexy" then that confirms for sure that he likes you a lot

you probably dont know what im talking about since you probably cant do a starmatch.com report :P since you dont have an account

Also some of the most important synastry aspects are: venus and mars, mars and mars, and venus and venus aspects because harmonious aspects and conjunctions between these indicate similar values, especially venus-venus.

Sun-jupiter is very important and will make any relationship feel very happy and bonded

sun-moon is more rare to encounter but harmonious aspects will show similar values and quite a bit of loyalty and closeness between you. You'd "get" each other right away. But at the same time, imo, this aspect doesnt guarrantee anything worthwhile or longlasting..like sun-venus and venus-venus is probably more important imo

sun-venus is one of the most loving bonds in synastry, especially the conjunction.
moon-venus is very sweet and loving, but most of all the square, and to a lesser extent the trine.

moon-uranus trine or sextile is pretty fabulous for good physical and sexual chemistry as well as joking around with each other in general

posted August 19, 2013 10:02 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
because it'd mean he'll never be willing to commit to you the way you want and the way he treats you would always leave you feeling off

also venus-pluto in starmatch shows a strong connection, but also i think when it says "so so thinks so and so is sexy" then that confirms for sure that he likes you a lot

you probably dont know what im talking about since you probably cant do a starmatch.com report :P since you dont have an account

Also some of the most important synastry aspects are: venus and mars, mars and mars, and venus and venus aspects because harmonious aspects and conjunctions between these indicate similar values, especially venus-venus.

Sun-jupiter is very important and will make any relationship feel very happy and bonded

sun-moon is more rare to encounter but harmonious aspects will show similar values and quite a bit of loyalty and closeness between you. You'd "get" each other right away. But at the same time, imo, this aspect doesnt guarrantee anything worthwhile or longlasting..like sun-venus and venus-venus is probably more important imo

sun-venus is one of the most loving bonds in synastry, especially the conjunction.
moon-venus is very sweet and loving, but most of all the square, and to a lesser extent the trine.

moon-uranus trine or sextile is pretty fabulous for good physical and sexual chemistry as well as joking around with each other in general

Overall, id say those are the most important aspects. What you want to avoid is hard aspects (includes conj) with sun moon or venus to uranus saturn or mars. or mars being afflicted by outer planets (indicates this tension that feels like an ego conflict and can be scary sometimes too--feels like there might be physical violence one day between you). But along with good synstry you need an afflicted sun-venus conj or opposition in the composite for the relationship to be worth it imo. You can have great synastry but without a worthwhile composite it will all just be a passing attraction eventually, and will even feel unhealthy and unloving.

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Wow did you just do an analysis for me?!! Haha I was gonna pay you for that! Anyway, I'm going to make it my mission to find out exactly what you mean cuz I'm so new to astrology.

posted August 21, 2013 05:07 AM            

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Originally posted by confused_libra:
Wow did you just do an analysis for me?!! Haha I was gonna pay you for that! Anyway, I'm going to make it my mission to find out exactly what you mean cuz I'm so new to astrology.

Also, shouldn't I just find out now if he will never treat me the way I want? I mean I'd rather know than not know and pretend he will one day come around. I either have Uranus in my chart or I don't, right?

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I didn't do an analysis actually. I did not look at your synastry ir starmatch : P I was just speaking in general. Sorry for the confusion.

To know if he's ever going to commit to you I would ask for a tarot reading in personal readings or ask a good psychic. Astrology is less able to give you definite answers like that.

posted August 21, 2013 10:52 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I didn't do an analysis actually. I did not look at your synastry ir starmatch : P I was just speaking in general. Sorry for the confusion.

To know if he's ever going to commit to you I would ask for a tarot reading in personal readings or ask a good psychic. Astrology is less able to give you definite answers like that.

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