posted September 23, 2013 05:45 AM            

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Originally posted by bethbabe:
Hey dreaming! sorry about the late response! I have been....well down and busy lately! I know this will take time to heal and I really hope the best for you and for all women who have been in your shoes (our shoes, lol).

I would really appreciate a reading if you don't mind. My mom's going through a final divorce and she's been coping it well. I, on the other hand, have been stressed out with school and work. I am a nursing student and am currently in one of the toughest terms in my program..i'm taking pediatrics and obstetrics (not my favorite areas), and I hope I can pass my classes this term. Could you please do a reading and see if I'll successfully pass this term please? Despite whether the reading turns out to be good or bad, I am still going to give my 100% in passing the classes!

Thank you so much dreaming! feel free to talk about your problems with me

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Ten of pentacles = yes!

Why not take your mom out to live with you or to starbucks and you guys can read together?

posted September 23, 2013 05:54 AM            

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Originally posted by redshoes:
You are welcome. i guess the more we do to heal the stuff, the healthier it is for us. I have decided from now on to put my first. i am feeling much stronger now a decision has been reached to move on. My son is great!! He is one of the more mature males in my life...he is 14 lol

Be well! xx

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I am so glad.

Im with you.

I just messaged him. I will post what I said below.

Anyway, I was just wasting my time, efforts, energy on him for no reason. I am sick of him now. Honestly when it mattered he was not there for me. I keep telling myself this. I dont want a guy like that.

I dont care anyore if he marries someone else or if he hugs kisses or sleeps with someone else. What he did to me might just carry on.

Things happen for the best and we seldom realize it then because it is too painful.

But there are better things at least in my life that have happened when I least expected them or borne out of heartache.

Im just going to be strong now. Gosh I was such a wuss and a sap. lol...

My offlines to him:
sept 18th:
Hi
So what kind of classes are you taking?

sept 23rd 3 am:
You know what, I agree. This is awkward. We shouldnt even be talking or whatever you call this. We probably shouldnt have even had that *catch up* conversation on your birthday.

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Those were the offlines...

I left no goodbye, no good luck with life, no Im sorry.

Nothing. Im done with being polite, nice and forgiving to people who dont give a damn. Done.

Thank you to everyone who put up with my whining and confusion. If I didnt have you guys I would be in a pathetic situation. Thank you!!

posted September 23, 2013 01:14 PM            

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Originally posted by redshoes:
Good for you Dreaming. Always bring it back to your and how it is feeling..do you feel safe, nourished, honoured etc, if not then it is a big NO

(((hugs)))

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Hugs you too.
We'll get through these moments and arrive at the path of something much much better. We just have to keep faith.

Thank you so much for trying to guide me through this and being so patient with me.

posted September 24, 2013 03:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Hugs you too.
We'll get through these moments and arrive at the path of something much much better. We just have to keep faith.

Thank you so much for trying to guide me through this and being so patient with me.

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Yes!!! I ssecond that! Thank you so much for the reading.

posted September 24, 2013 04:22 PM            

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Originally posted by bethbabe:
Yes!!! I ssecond that! Thank you so much for the reading.

You are making the right decision and by doing so you will go down a better path! sisters, we got this!

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You are welcome.

Yes, we will be on a better path. It is difficult to get through this and keep that better path in mind...but it must be done.