posted February 22, 2008 12:09 PM         

But then there is highschool. I don't know what kids that age learn from their peers. I guess i can't control that.

posted February 23, 2008 12:37 AM         

When one is fully conscious, would one still have a need for a relationship? Would a man still feel drawn to a woman? Would a woman still feel incomplele without a man?

Enlightened or not, you are either a man or a woman, so on the level of your form identity you not complete. You are one-half of the whole. this incompleteness is felt as male-female attraction, thepull toward the opposite energy polarity, no matter how conscious you are. But in that state of inner connectedness, you feel this pull somwhere on the surface or periphery of your life. Anything that happens to you in that state feels somewhat like that. The whole world seems like waves and ripples on the surface of a vast and deep ocean. You are that ocean and, of course, you are also a ripple, but a ripple that has realized its true identity as the ocean, and compared to that vastness anddepth, the world of waves and ripples is not all that important.

This does not mean that you don't relate deeply to other people or to your partner. In fact, you can relate deeply only if you are conscious of being. Coming from being, you are able to focus beyond the veil of form. In being, male and female are one. Your form may continue to have certain needs, but being has none. It is already complete and whole. If those needs are met, that is beautiful, but whether or not they are met makes no difference to your deep inner state. So it is perfectly possible for an enlightened person, if the need for the male or female polarity is not met, to feel a sense of lack or incompleteness on the other level of his or her being, yet at the same time be totally complete, fulfilled, and at peace within.

posted February 23, 2008 08:36 AM         

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Enlightened or not, you are either a man or a woman,

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What is a male or female was discussed here:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/016317.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/016317-2.html

Historical/Myths http://users.skynet.be/lotus/andro/andro0-en.htm

The people with a balance of what is termed by some as having male/female "energies" is discussed here.
http://www.angelfire.com/biz/mereproject/intro.html

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Androgyne=andro+gyn=man+woman (in a single form); [Greek].
This (and the following) page is about humans who are androgynes;
persons who live simultaneously as both genders.

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posted February 24, 2008 08:50 AM         

because it seems that whatis wanted is read

posted February 24, 2008 02:50 PM         

your so apprreciative :-)

at work in the young and dynamic place there are only 3 people single: me, Zane (official, just came out Gay boy) and Kate (very quiet, focused girl).
Others are not happy and fighting with partners, some are quiet wars, some are bloody ones for decades...Chaos.
Rarely a soulmate couple.
Newtown is the place of gay community in Sydney. Why i love to walk in Newtown, becuase i dont subscribe for either man or female point of view.Kings street there is my street in the city "lonely" :-) There are no such just a female or male "energy" . NEVER was.

posted February 24, 2008 03:05 PM         

Sincere