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GemGemGem
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posted October 28, 2009 04:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
Moon conjunct Uranus in their natal chart.

Just speaking from experience, it's like dating Jekyll and Hyde!

You will get your heart broken.

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posted October 28, 2009 04:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for letram     Edit/Delete Message
what happened?


how about other uranus-moon aspects?

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posted October 28, 2009 04:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lotion     Edit/Delete Message
yea what happened? :S:S
I have moon conjunct uranus, maybe i can explain?
we're sorry?

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Lucia23
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posted October 28, 2009 05:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
The guy I have a crush on has Moon-Uranus widely conjunct (close enough that I bet it's significant, though!)...he is difficult and frustrating and I'm not even dating him, though I'm not sure which aspect(s) is the culprit.

Please share some details, Gemx3!

This guy is complicated and exhausting and I am trying to keep from hooking up with him, but I will probably lose the struggle eventually.

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posted October 28, 2009 05:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
I guess it's always nice to have a reason to discriminate. We always find a way.

I have the opposition. If anyone is really interested, ask. Otherwise, bash away

It's threads like this which are the reason I'm leaving LL.

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Lucia23
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posted October 28, 2009 05:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
MVM, I think she meant it in a lighthearted, girl-talk-y way, to let off some steam--like my "share your bad date experiences" thread in "Soul Unions."

I find myself alienated and tempted to leave Lindaland more from the inane, semi-literate threads where people post long lists of "proof" that they're soul mates with no anatomization or discussion of the content of the actual relationship or the actual astrological energies at play...not to mention the sappy italicized 'spiritual' poems, cat pictures, and that guy who, when I wrote that I got stung by a Scorpio, got really excited about it and wrote in "Go Scorpios," but never explained way he was so pleased that both me and the Scorp I was seeing got hurt...or that poster making scary racist slurs and claiming to be a uniquely enlightened person...or especially the fact that the juiciest, richest, most astrologically informative threads seem to get dropped, while the most vapid ones burn with countless posts.

I like any thread where real-life case studies can be compared and contrasted so we can see how aspects might play out. Including Moon-conjunct-Uranus men...

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posted October 28, 2009 05:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
Moon conjunct Uranus makes for a fickle heart. A fickle heart creates an unstable love. Unstable relationship. One day they will love you and breathe you in like air, the next they will forget you even exist.

Tremendous heat followed by immense cold.
A dichotomy, so confusing and maddening it will break your heart.

Just my personal experience with the aspect. Two times out of two. No offense meant to anyone.

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letram
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posted October 28, 2009 05:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for letram     Edit/Delete Message
hahah!!!!!! you guys are FUNNY!.

no seriously, that is just funny.

Lucia, you have half my vote of agreement!

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Lucia23
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posted October 28, 2009 05:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you, Letram.

Gemx3, uggghh, I'm so sorry that happened to you (I'm assuming you speak from personal experience.) Of course there are other factors in the natal, the synastry, the circumstances of the relationship to consider too...

What house/sign does the Moon-Uranus conjunction fall in? And what is the Sun Sign?

EDITED: Hmm, it happened twice? Was it the same Uranus sign both times? (Seems likely, as it's generational)...If so, chances are this is also about how/where that Urtanus hits your birth chart...

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posted October 28, 2009 05:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
I've never been fickle in my life in regards to love. In fact, Moon/Uranus people are idealists most of the time. Loyal to the point of stupidity. But they're not needy usually - what they want is a person they can be best friends with as well as a romantic partner. They require something multi-faceted, multi-dimensional - but people like trying to box them into absolutes which is annoying and shallow for Moon/Uranus. We're capable of being close and also capable of being detached. And if you push for too much closeness and try to corner a Moon/Uranus person, I can assure you of the biggest, most impressive disappearing act you will ever experience. If you want to be close to them, back off lol. Don't PUSH, for god's sake.
Let things evolve. Let THEM see why you are the person who is ideal for them.
Be completely present when you are with them and don't smother them. We like our freedom. We like intimacy too. But we need to know that we're not being forced to choose one over the other.
I want someone to be free WITH, not free FROM.

Still, if a person is immature and a moron, that's not going to be an astrological aspect.
Although, I suppose it can be if you really want it to be.

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posted October 28, 2009 05:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Lucia.

Yes I'm venting cause sometimes love is great and sometimes it sucks and sometimes it's just easier to blame a natal aspect for everything and call it a day, than to have to dissect the whole psychology of the man's mind.

To answer your question, the conjunction is in the third house.


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posted October 28, 2009 05:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for letram     Edit/Delete Message
i think thats a very good way to look at uranus-moon people mvm.

im not sure if the uranus-square-moon in my chart counts, its Wide, but i felt like i could relate to the feelings of uranus-moon people there, not too heavily, but at least subtly.

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posted October 28, 2009 05:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Antiquarianbookcollector     Edit/Delete Message
Would a Moon sextile Uranus have the same implication as a conjunct?

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posted October 28, 2009 05:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
MVM, I think the conjunction is very, very different from the opposition.

Not that I am agreeing either is fickle--I don't know much about the dynamic...I just think ANY conjunction is very different from any opposition...with an opposition, the two planets/energies are in conversation, but each energy is individually evident and apparent. With the conjunction, the energies merge--sometimes just strengthening the effect (as in Sun-Merc or Moon-Venus), but if the planets aren't too compatible, the person can end up getting very black/white, either/or...I see this with my ex's tight Sun-Pluto conjunction, where the dude flips from being all la-di-da-di-da to Hades rising from the underworld...I see it with my Moon-Saturn conjunction in the 7th house, which is a bittersweet placement to say the least. It would be VERY different to have either my Moon or Saturn in Cap in the 1st...conjunct in the 7th, it's as if they're battling over how to express my 7th house energy.

In an opposition, I think potentially each planet's energy can be strengthened. Also they are placed in polar houses, so the oppositional energy of those two houses is reflected...whereas with the conjunction, the entire (non)conversation between the planets takes place in one arena.

I can see how Moon-Uranus could express as fickle in some charts, in some cases.

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We're capable of being close and also capable of being detached.

See, I think with a conjunction between planets that do not seamlessly conjoin, sometimes the native ends up flipping back and forth, overexpressing one planet at a time and/or being incapable of expressing EITHER, leading to a kind of uncomfortable chokehold in that house/sign. (At least this is true with the Sun-Pluto and Moon-Saturn cases I'm talking about...might be that way for some Moon-Uranus cases too.)

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posted October 28, 2009 05:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message

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posted October 28, 2009 05:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message
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I find myself alienated and tempted to leave Lindaland more from the inane, semi-literate threads where people post long lists of "proof" that they're soul mates with no anatomization or discussion of the content of the actual relationship or the actual astrological energies at play...not to mention the sappy italicized 'spiritual' poems, cat pictures, and that guy who, when I wrote that I got stung by a Scorpio, got really excited about it and wrote in "Go Scorpios," but never explained way he was so pleased that both me and the Scorp I was seeing got hurt...or that poster making scary racist slurs and claiming to be a uniquely enlightened person...or especially the fact that the juiciest, richest, most astrologically informative threads seem to get dropped, while the most vapid ones burn with countless posts.

I like any thread where real-life case studies can be compared and contrasted so we can see how aspects might play out. Including Moon-conjunct-Uranus men...


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posted October 28, 2009 05:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
In my experience, Uranus sextiles just add a tinge of unconventionality to the expression of the other planet--more causing eccentricity than an intense push for emotional freedom the way a conjunction, opposition, or square might play out.

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posted October 28, 2009 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
A chacun son gout.

If you like space and freedom then there could be a refreshing lack of possessiveness and jealousy with this aspect. My husband has the Trine. Moon/Uranus are only 9 degrees apart and applying on my chart. I can tick along with erratic and difficult. He can handle eccentric and difficult. Possessive and jealous would be my never date a person thing. I can't stand being checked up on, who am I talking do, where am I going later, back off! He never does that, neither do I, must be why we get along. We also have Sun CNJ Mars in Aqua.

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posted October 28, 2009 06:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
Lotion, how do you experience the conjunction?

Blue moon, do you mean you're both Aqua Suns with Sun-Mars?

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posted October 28, 2009 06:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
Sorry, no, he is Aqua Sun, I am Aqua Mars, 2 degrees apart.

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posted October 28, 2009 07:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lotion     Edit/Delete Message
well, I do experience shifts in emotions but I don't think i'm fickle, at least not in love relationships. It is either i like you or I don't, and if i don't i would want nothing to do with you. I can't stand to be friends with someone that has romantic feelings for me because i don't believe it to be pure friendship.

I think MVM sums it up pretty well for the most part, "i want someone to be free WITH, not free FROM". I think my emotions change frequently depending on what I am doing at the moment, i get very into the moment, so don't expect me to be thinking about you when I am hanging out with my friends. Even if I am thinking about you constantly, I would still keep the distance. Why? because I love that feeling of separation! I think the that feeling of yearning for something but not having them with you at the time is soul-wrenching, and when i finally see you, i will be AALLL over you! hahaha

Anyways, my moon is in sag and is also conjunct neptune... though I'm not sure how the neptune affects the uranus/moon conjunction...

What bluemoon mentions about possessiveness and jealousy, i think it also depends a lot on other planets. I have a scorpio stellium so i can totally be possessive and jealous sometimes. When my bf does that to me, my moon feels very "wtf?", but my scorpio secretly loves it :P
btw, he is gem moon, and venus aquarius, and we've been dating for 2 years (prior to this my relationships were all less than 2 months long)

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posted October 29, 2009 05:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message
just think of it as moon in aquarius, as a layer over the sign it is actually in.

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posted October 29, 2009 06:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
MVM, you are leaving? What have i missed?
I'm sorry to hear this. Hugs x

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posted October 29, 2009 06:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message
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I've never been fickle in my life in regards to love. In fact, Moon/Uranus people are idealists most of the time. Loyal to the point of stupidity. But they're not needy usually - what they want is a person they can be best friends with as well as a romantic partner. They require something multi-faceted, multi-dimensional - but people like trying to box them into absolutes which is annoying and shallow for Moon/Uranus. We're capable of being close and also capable of being detached. And if you push for too much closeness and try to corner a Moon/Uranus person, I can assure you of the biggest, most impressive disappearing act you will ever experience. If you want to be close to them, back off lol. Don't PUSH, for god's sake.
Let things evolve. Let THEM see why you are the person who is ideal for them.
Be completely present when you are with them and don't smother them. We like our freedom. We like intimacy too. But we need to know that we're not being forced to choose one over the other.
I want someone to be free WITH, not free FROM.

Perfectly stated.
(I have Moon/Venus inconjunct Uranus/ascendant, and my Sun oposite Uranus).

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posted October 29, 2009 07:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PeaceAngel     Edit/Delete Message
I have Moon trine Uranus and Sun & Ascendant opposite Uranus and I can very much relate to what MVM wrote. There's a Moon in Aquarius to add to the mix.

This is how it works for me. Don't even try to tell me what to do. Understand that I'll come and go as I please. Don't be clingy or insecure because that will make me pull away, which will most likely cause you to act more insecure. Be secure in the fact that I love you because I'm pretty upfront about that (loads of Aries) and that I'll come back to you, because I want to, freely.

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