posted February 12, 2010 07:55 AM         

arent you int he steve pavlina´s thread?if not,you should.cause in all your posts i see similar perspectives of the ones that there are in that forum.

and i also see myself in most of your posts

Thank you for that.

in my perspective,every guy or girl that loves us for who we are,without wanting to change our essence,are our Charming Prince and Princesses.

Mermaid is right:we can only attrat that person(s) when we trully love ourselves the way we are erfect in all our Essence.

and i think that although our choices leads us to diferent paths,there are some meetings that are predetermined really...sometimes when you are living at your best possibility,it comes those moments of pure magic when a synchro appears:a word,a stranger,some movie or even just a glimpse of a remenbering..transports us to a new perspective that....WOW there is really something out there that is guiding me torwards somehitng...or someone.

posted February 12, 2010 08:24 AM         

i heard that having an unaspected venus works similar to have retro venus.

i have retro venus.

what i found out by personal experience is that retro might be there in natal cause it is an issue we must work on,and it comes from our past life.something that happened or we made,that caused us to have issues translated to this life.

to me it means that in love,im very reserved,i have difficulty to trust,really trust who i am and who i think to the others.it is like i have a wall between me and that to take it all down,i need to take a deep breath,find courage in me and knowck it down,by showing myself to others,without any masks whatsoever.

you wknow what? i did that!i am constantly challenging my retro venus,whenever i am asked to showw myself the way i am,without fear of repression or jjudgement.

i did that the 1st time to m current partner who is,sort to say my darling Charmming Prince.and he is tht to me,cause he really showed me that he loves me the way i am.he never judges me.it is quite surprising to experience that.we always think that we would have something in us that would push away the other...but no.it is possible to share this love.but only and when first, you learn to accept yourself the way you are.you face your own issues,and accept that ok..i am like this but i want to be better today than what i was yesterday.,,and so on!but on the same line,you love yourself without judging yourself too!

that is the key really.

at least it was it for me.

posted February 12, 2010 09:17 AM         

So teach me, what is Venus retro? I'm Pisces sun, Venus in Aquarius...so Venus back a sign or two, your description fits me like a glove, as I am unfolding and emerging more Piscean.

posted February 12, 2010 10:22 AM         

you can see if your venus is in retro,if by seeing your natal,there is an (r)besides the planet venus.

the description i found to be more accurate for me,it was this one from skyviewzone:
http://www.skyviewzone.com/astrology/retrogradeplanets.htm#venrx

"A natal Venus retrograde can cause you difficulty achieving fulfillment or finding your right romantic partner. You may be more in love with your ideas about love than you are with any real person you know. In karmic terms, you need to complete a life lesson about giving and receiving love and affection. You are here to determine what is truly of value to you and learn about creating a balance of give and take in your romantic life. Your romantic dialogue has a tendency to be far too internal at times, causing you to inhibit the flow of good things into your life. You will have to be willing to experience loving and being loved in order to attract what you desire into your life and create the feelings of security you need.

posted February 12, 2010 12:10 PM         

i dont really know what is the main difference,i just remember that ive seen someone saying it in astrology forum.

that a retro venus works similarly to a unaspected venus.
i wished that someone more aknowledgeable than me would explain it

posted February 13, 2010 06:46 PM         

but the last person has chiron right on my retro venus, and I gave myself helplessly to him right away.

for me venus retro means i know love is extremely important in my life. i will not waste love and i expect alot from love. i don't give my heart away to anyone unless i know they are important to me the moment i meet them. there is no one that i fell in love with 'overtime'; i have always experienced love at first sight with all that i have ever loved.

posted February 13, 2010 06:49 PM         

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Having an unaspected planet doesn't relate to it in any way being like it would be as if it were retrograde.

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I was about to post this and you beat me to it

Diandra - I'm not sure who said that to you, but I think they were a bit confused about the different meanings. A retrograde planet is moving backwards. It is often connected to the past. You might, for instance, vividly remember past loves and sometimes past-life lovers.
With R planets I find the energy is more introverted and directed inwards.. It's not easy to express outwards. A Retro Venus can be either aspected or unaspected..

posted February 13, 2010 07:02 PM         

The problems I've had were:

- insecurity! They asked me if I really loved them all the time and never believed me.

- an obsession with the way things appear socially, rather than the way things actually *are* between us. So for example we'd have an argument and I'd think the guy is still upset.. but we'd go to a social function and out of the blue he'd be on his perfect behavior, "loving" - caring.. and all over me. As soon as the social thing ended, he'd be "upset" again.

^ This made me wonder how much of our relationship is put up as a front for his friends and family.

- one particular guy I see as a narcissist because he is in love with his "image" while hating himself (his personality).

posted February 13, 2010 07:03 PM         

do yourself a favor and think before you post...