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posted February 11, 2010 07:45 AM         

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I asked this question on PDF's thread.
Why would one person's unaspected Venus be bad when the partner DOES aspect it?
Wouln't that be the imprint of a match that was "made for each other"?
We are all looking for love. We, all have flawed charts, I would think.
So, when one person's unaspected Venus meets another persons Pluto(less than one degree)--isn't that a beautiful thing? Thanks very much Ami

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posted February 11, 2010 05:09 PM         

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Is everyone sick of this topic? Ami

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posted February 11, 2010 05:33 PM         

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I'm kind of sick of it.

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posted February 11, 2010 05:35 PM         

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I meet once a time a man. His venus was not in aspect. My venus/NN/mars stellium was in sextil to his venus. My saturn in opp his venus. I get the feeling of the man that he want to be alone. It was not easy to get near him. I always feel the strong distance from him,

My exhusbands mother have hers venus conj NN in SAG and not in aspect to anything else. She have problem with men. She love men but have problem to be intimately. She always got problem after a while. She had many friends but now she are an old lady and still without a man in her life.

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posted February 11, 2010 05:39 PM         

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Sorry I don't answer you on the question. You ask about synastry. I think about alone venus...

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posted February 11, 2010 05:53 PM         

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posted February 11, 2010 05:54 PM         

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Are you seriously sick of the topic, Diana, or are you just kidding? Ami

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posted February 11, 2010 05:58 PM         

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unaspected venus doesnt mean she has pain. infact, i can almost guarantee it is aspected...

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posted February 11, 2010 06:01 PM         

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posted February 11, 2010 07:46 PM         

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Ami - I like Venus-Pluto trines. Most of my life I've experience a Venus-Pluto opposition with several men - which is harsher lol

The trine is more supportive. Pluto is still controlling but his manner of control and where this leads ultimately is positive for the Venus person. I've had this by transit lately with T. Pluto trining my Venus.

And yes it can also be healing.. but with an un-aspected personal planet I would prefer to see *other* personal planets in aspect. His Sun is opposite her Venus which is also good. He would put emphasis on her love-nature.. and in contrast to him, she'll be more aware of her own feelings and manner of expression.

Do you have an un-aspected Venus yourself? If so - what sign is this in? and have you checked if it is in aspect to any asteroids?

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posted February 11, 2010 08:14 PM         

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A little bit of both.

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posted February 11, 2010 08:33 PM         

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Hi Vapor
I have an unaspected Venus in Gemini.How do asteroids work? Ami

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posted February 11, 2010 08:34 PM         

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Why are you sick of it Diana? Ami

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posted February 11, 2010 08:37 PM         

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So many threads on "soul mates" and "Prince Charming" gets tiring at times.

I wouldn't have said anything but you asked if we were sick of it...

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posted February 11, 2010 08:40 PM         

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Ok Diana. I thought you were just sick of that particular thread.
I guess we all want to find love so badly that that is why there are so many threads like that. x o x Ami

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posted February 11, 2010 08:46 PM         

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No, not any particular thread.

Yes, everyone wants love. The best way to get it is to work on yourself. Everyone should be going over their own chart with a fine tooth comb.

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posted February 11, 2010 11:28 PM         

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That's GREAT advice Diana. Romance is an illusion and this comes from a romantic Pisces sun, Taurus moon. Your first soulmate is the Creator/your Christ consciousness. When you feel the love of the Spirit within you, well you will then be the LOVE and LOVE All. If you research the great mystics it is quite a process. You will eventually find the love you seek. So yes, this takes lots of hard work on knowing thyself, being your true self, taking off the mask, knowing you are loved unconditionally because you were masterfully created by the Divine. The time of your meeting is preordained, a great mystery. This love finds you. So yes, try to create only good Karma, take care of your Flesh temple, etc...be in the world but not of the world. Looks like you are on the Path. The Romance period in history is the time of King Arthur/Camelot, a far cry from our modern picture of romance. It's only human to want the fairy tale, perhaps relevant to cultivating our hope. This is the planet of opposing forces and if we didn't know loneliness or have broken hearts we wouldn't know the greatness of the other side, the joy of union. To live fully is to have experienced both sides.

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posted February 11, 2010 11:32 PM         

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I'm with Diana.

And mermaid, that was a really beautiful read.
Romanticism; I love it.

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posted February 11, 2010 11:36 PM         

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Fairy Tale Surrender

My mask is off and now I surrender.
I'm the great fairy tale pretender.
My cold hard heart wouldn't let me believe
a prince would seek my soul to weave.

But now I want him to come rescue me.
I'm so worth the hunt don't you see.
I've got to have faith I am worth this great love,
truly a gift from the heavens above.

Now I see clearly I'm a princess child of God.
He'll guide my prince to me with staff and rod.
Joined we'll inherit his golden palace
and drink from the fount's eternal chalice.

My heart has now been split wide open.
I await for my prince's words unspoken.
My God you control the magical time
when two hearts meet to beautifully rhyme.

Heavenly Father may your path continue to lead
this dreamer's bounty of planted seed.
Your kingdom come, your will be done
for all eternal lovers under the sun.

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posted February 11, 2010 11:38 PM         

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AMAZING poem!

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posted February 11, 2010 11:45 PM         

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Ami, yes. You still have the child like mentality, once they see a disney movie about a poor girl who will someday find a prince that makes her happy, in your head. They created a dream for you and you won't stop living in it. They do this to keep you distracted, to keep you "hoping for a prince someday", and the whole ride you are miserable. Then you wake up one day sick on your deathbed and your prince never came. There are more important things in life other than becoming Sinderella. True love isn't premeditated or even thought about once, it just happens at the right time out of nowhere in a strange place. This is when it is truly magical.

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posted February 12, 2010 12:13 AM         

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" True love isn't premeditated or even thought about once, it just happens at the right time out of nowhere in a strange place. This is when it is truly magical "

Wouldn't this be YOUR fairy tale tho?

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posted February 12, 2010 12:17 AM         

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Bingo. You get it.

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posted February 12, 2010 12:35 AM         

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isn't premeditated or even thought about once, it just happens at the right time out of nowhere in a strange place

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All my significant relationships (not only romantic) started out like this.

So it works for me.

What's going on with your Venus Sanchenuss? Any aspects to Uranus or maybe it's in the 11th house..(You must've looked up enough astrology to answer that, since your interest is thriving..)

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I've heard of people in pre-arranged marriages who did find true love with their spouse for example.. so it doesn't always have to start in the manner you described.

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posted February 12, 2010 12:54 AM         

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I don't really have a desire to keep up with my astrological chart. Why dont you tell me

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