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Topic: Let's Talk About- Lilith-The Dark Feminine
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Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 4477 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 21, 2010 01:31 PM
DD,Great points as usual! ------------------ Raymond Andrews, President,Executive Director of Developmental Neurodiversity Association Supporting the Neurodiversity Movement A Different Mind Is Not A Deficient Mind. http://www.facebook.com/#!/group.php?gid=131944976821905&ref=ts IP: Logged |
DD Knowflake Posts: 5754 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 21, 2010 01:33 PM
Thanks. IP: Logged |
StelliumH6 Knowflake Posts: 75 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 21, 2010 01:33 PM
Please tell me the meaning of this aspect in a synastry chart -- my Lilith oppos. his Venus 1*Always appreciated! IP: Logged |
jane Knowflake Posts: 985 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted July 21, 2010 02:12 PM
Somehow I've neglected the Lilith asteroid. I see now that I have it exactly cnj my Pluto (chart ruler). That makes it cnj my Sun/Moon mp as well. The BML's are strong in my chart too. Mean is square my Sun (0*) and trine my Venus (3*). True is square my Neptune, which rules my 5th house (0*). I experience BML as being connected to sex, our own primal drives and our right to express those drives. It's kinda like Mars in lingerie. I believe this is part of BML's essence, but I also realize the way I experience BML is shaped by my own chart and the particular transits I've had that brought BML to the forefront. (In particular, t.Pluto square my BML while cnj my Sun.) The myth reveals BML's nature. Lilith was kicked out of Eden because she refused to lie beneath Adam during sex. This is about sexual domination and the woman's right to enjoy sex just as much as her male partner. She's not a toy designed purely to please the man. She has her own will and her own desires, and she knows how to satisfy them. And she will get seriously p1ssed off if she's told they don't matter. This scenario can represent power issues in general. Lilith was offering an alternate way to experience sex that would've taken into account her own sexual satisfaction. She refused to let her own primal drives be made irrelevant. So Lilith is about equal expression of power, but I think it's significant that the power issue is based in a sexual situation. Lilith and Adam could've been battling wills over anything. That it was over sex tells us something about Lilith's essence. I'm unsure how to distinguish the various Liliths. I'll have to think about their differences. I suspect they're subtle. IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 4477 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 21, 2010 02:27 PM
I just want to point out that the mythology of Lilith originated as a Sumerian/Babylonian demon. Some say that she was a storm demon with wind and was thought to be a bearer of disease, illness, and death. It wasn't until around the Middle Ages, stories of Lilith as the first wife of Adam came to existence. Of course, Lilith was also thought to be a succubus too. It's like how the lunar nodes are associated with a demon that was slain by Vishnu and cut in half. Rahu (North Lunar Node) and Ketu (South Lunar Node) in result of that. I think that it's good to look at all aspects of Lilith when it comes to mythology and not just the one where she is the first wife of Adam. The Persian had similar creature Drug
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jane Knowflake Posts: 985 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted July 21, 2010 02:41 PM
Very interesting, Raymond! I'm curious to read about the various Lilith myths. I'd like to see how different cultures expressed what they saw as her essence through different details (stories).How does a storm demon transform into the Lilith married to Adam? What's the spirit common to both? Hmm... Free chaos, unperturbed by the harm it brings when being itself?
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jane Knowflake Posts: 985 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted July 21, 2010 02:44 PM
vertiver - your BML is exactly cnj my Moon. Raymond - your BML is exactly cnj my Asc.IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 1653 From: Ohio Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 21, 2010 02:49 PM
quote: Free chaos, unperturbed by the harm it brings when being itself?
This reminds me of a paragraph I posted elsewhere, from a book I'm reading. Something said at the end of the paragraph, reminded me of Pluto and Lilith - but I think I forgot to post the context. Several things had happened to stop this woman from putting her horse through a surgery that might have killed it - she had several warnings in the name of dreams (her own and those of a neighbour), and something else that I forget. She stood up for what she believed to be true, despite the opposition from friends and people in town, who believed that she was being silly. quote: The sense if gratitude and affection I felt for Rasa grew stronger as I accepted our fate. Somehow, she had awakened a more intuitive, creative, and compassionate spirit in me, one that had been suppressed by the cold cult of reason for most of my adult life. It was, indeed, time for the old king to die. With his imminent demise on the horizon, a new perspective emerged, and it was limping across the desert in the form of a night-haired mare named Tabula Rasa. I sensed that someday the colour of sacrifice surrounding us both would blossom into the rich red hue of empowerment, and at that moment I understood why the patriarchal Bedouin tribes were so afraid of dark horses. When feminine modes of wisdom are banished to the nether regions of the collective unconscious, they tend to manifest in disruptive, vengeful ways, but sometimes vultures, black mares, whirlwinds, and savage hounds are exactly what a woman needs to define her form and show off her best features. The Tao of Equus ~ Page 25.
That just reminded me of Lilith, when I read it. You (Jane) posted something in that thread that I wanted to respond to - I'd forgotten, what with other things happening last week. I also meant to post part of the opening of the book there... IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 1653 From: Ohio Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 21, 2010 02:51 PM
I have one Lilith at around 4* or 7*Pisces (maybe two of them?) conjunct my Mars, widely square my Moon, Venus, Nodes and Vertex, trine my Uranus/ascendant.BML is somewhere around 19*Pisces, in my fifth house. I have ideas on the role she's played for me, so far, but am not sure about the others. IP: Logged |
jane Knowflake Posts: 985 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted July 21, 2010 02:57 PM
teasel - quote: When feminine modes of wisdom are banished to the nether regions of the collective unconscious, they tend to manifest in disruptive, vengeful ways, but sometimes vultures, black mares, whirlwinds, and savage hounds are exactly what a woman needs to define her form and show off her best features.
Phenomenal! Look at you popping in like a ninja with exactly the thought I was looking for! *bows* (What happened last week? Are you ok? ) This thread was like magic for me. First Raymond letting me know about the other myths, and then you linking them for me. *kisses Lilith* IP: Logged |
vertiver Knowflake Posts: 676 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 21, 2010 05:25 PM
Glaucus, how do you calculate mean BML on astro.com? I think there must be something significant with natal asteroid Lilith being conjunct N. Vesta in the 9th house. I sometimes have had visions of being from ancient Greece, especially as a child, but then again that could just be natal Pisces Moon in the 3rd sextile Neptune talking. I love where this post is going! I've always been in awe of the dark feminine that is often represented in mythology from Lilith to Kaali to Hekate, for several reasons. First of all its not revered in our culture whatsoever, just look at the Salem Witch trials. Or the fact that Lilith was Adams first wife, and then she wanted her own freedom and left Adam to his other creation -submissive Eve, who ended up not being so submissive after all. There is definitely a theme of women and disobedience, which only explains that women are in fact a blend of both yin and yang, not just yin! In my own natal, my modalities are mostly fire and masculine. I have a hard time relating to Venusian energy, yet I'm quite feminine. Therefore, a feminine Lunar sign and placement can really have a hold on the female's external femininity. Then again gender roles are just a construct of our society, so what really is Venusian? IP: Logged |
DD Knowflake Posts: 5754 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 21, 2010 05:57 PM
"which only explains that women are in fact a blend of both yin and yang, not just yin! " And men are a blend of yang and yin.I think both sexes have yin and yang inside themselves, as we all have Sun and Mars, Moon and Venus in our charts.
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Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 4477 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 21, 2010 09:03 PM
"Or the fact that Lilith was Adams first wife"ummm I wouldn't say that's fact though. There are others about Lilith the older stories talk about Lilith as a Mesopotamian demon other cultures had their own Lilith-like creatures in mythology.
In Assyrian mythology, The lilitū In Sumerian mythology, it was Lamashtu also In Grecian-Roman mythology, it was Lamia in Persian mythology,it was Druj in Arabic mythology,it was Karina ------------------ Raymond Andrews, President,Executive Director of Developmental Neurodiversity Association Supporting the Neurodiversity Movement
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 524 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted July 21, 2010 11:00 PM
Ok I have an interesting question..Would Lilith transits cause a straight woman to have a fling with another woman.. I know someone that did this, in her transits she has T Lilith conj AC in natal 11th T MC conjunct N Lilith in the natal 8th. It was brief fling, and once it was over she no longer wanted to be with anymore women.
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vertiver Knowflake Posts: 676 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 22, 2010 03:34 AM
Perhaps the most primal urge for a woman is to be with another woman, Lioness? I've been far more attracted to women than usual and T. Lilith is conjunct my natal Moon. IP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 1481 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted July 22, 2010 04:26 AM
It's hard for me to see if Lilith in my chart is sexual before I meet someone who triggs it in thight orb exact as my venus/NN/mars must be triggs. Not everyone can trigg sexual feelings with contact to my "lilith" or ven/mars, sun, moon AC and so on.For me "lilith " shows on a primal deep animal instinct and if it will brings strong sexual feelings it must triggs from someone else. For me everything in a chart could trigg sexual feelings. IP: Logged |
meta_4 Knowflake Posts: 900 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2010 10:57 AM
I'm confused.I have Lilith at 19 degrees of Scorpio, in the 1st. So... this means that I can be a jealous, ruthless female? That I exude sexual Scorpion energy? This makes no sense- you would think with this placement i'd be a blundering slapper. But i'm not. I'm very guarded with my sexuality. I just don't know if i feel this energy. Honestly. And I mean, I'm a loyal fan of asteroids. But I don't think Lilith is sounding off on my radar... IP: Logged |
DD Knowflake Posts: 5754 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2010 12:00 PM
Lilith certainly is no slapper, her feelings are too deep and serious and intense for that. Also, still not convinced asteroid Lilith has the same implications as Black Moon.IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 4477 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2010 01:30 PM
"Also, still not convinced asteroid Lilith has the same implications as Black Moon."I believe that they don't. They are not astronomically related. I just think of the Black Moon as the shadow side of the Moon which means that it's about emotions,feelings,sensitivity,unconscious,intuition,mother,and women but in an hidden,subtle way that's not in "your face" I believe that Lilith is related to just social issues.
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Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 4477 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2010 01:32 PM
"I have Lilith at 19 degrees of Scorpio, in the 1st. So... this means that I can be a jealous, ruthless female? That I exude sexual Scorpion energy? This makes no sense- you would think with this placement i'd be a blundering slapper. But i'm not. I'm very guarded with my sexuality."I don't think sign placement matters much. I think that needs to have aspects to be felt. If you're referring to the black moon, then even more so. After all, it's not a physical object. It's just an abstract point. It is just the furthest point of the Moon's orbit from the Earth. ------------------ Raymond Andrews, President,Executive Director of Developmental Neurodiversity Association Supporting the Neurodiversity Movement A Different Mind Is Not A Deficient Mind. http://www.facebook.com/#!/group.php?gid=131944976821905&ref=ts IP: Logged |
jane Knowflake Posts: 985 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted July 22, 2010 01:56 PM
I'm thinking of BML as relating to the shadow side of our own Moon. It's intrinsically more personal than the Lilith asteroid, which is more about the Lilith archetype in general. But I may be thinking differently about this by tomorrow. By shadow side - I don't mean hidden. I mean it operates differently from our Moon. While our Moon is receptive and reflective, BML is dynamic and independent. She's a yang-ed up Moon. All those lunar drives that get pushed aside or held in check for social reasons (the Moon is linked with the public) find an advocate in BML. BML doesn't give a sh1t about propriety. She's fiercely independent and hungry. She's not here to please, but to get pleased. Both of my BML's are in Virgo in my 11th house. I mentioned their aspects in an earlier post. One way I think that works is I've never desired affirmation of my sexual desirability from the public. In fact, for years I'd feel a flash of rage when strangers would compliment me in that way. I think women can relate to how there's this expectation for us to please men with our appearance/sexuality, and that it's like we're being good girls when we do. That grates on me. I don't need anyone's approval. A chase for approval gives the one approving power since we'd need to shape ourselves to their standards. My BML placements contribute to how possessive I am of my own sexuality/appearance. Those are mine and I use them how I want to. IP: Logged |
jane Knowflake Posts: 985 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted July 22, 2010 02:10 PM
Lioness -I think those transits encouraged your friend to accept and act on any latent bisexual desires she had. IP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 1481 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted July 22, 2010 02:15 PM
When I feel special strong sexual attraction to someone I allways check BML and asteroid lilith connection. I cant deny they often in aspect in some way.IP: Logged |
jane Knowflake Posts: 985 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted July 22, 2010 02:17 PM
Popcorn -Yes, me too. I also know how I felt during t.Pluto square BML. I have no doubt sexual desire is a part of BML. It's wild and deep. IP: Logged |
squirrel Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Europe Registered: Jul 2009
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posted July 22, 2010 02:21 PM
@popcorndid you have any experience with Lilith conjunction or opposition Venus? When I'm attracted to someone there is always something connected to my Lilith in Gemini. I think she really decribes the way I act when I'm in love, even more so than my Venus in Leo. IP: Logged |