posted November 19, 2013 03:01 AM            

1. Venus in Leo, Mars in Leo (very casually)

2. Venus in Taurus, Mars in Capricorn (he was scared of me, liked my dominating personality, pursued me off and on over the years but consistently, if that makes sense)

3. Venus in Cancer, Mars in Leo (VERY HANDSY, annoying.)

4. Venus in Aries, Mars in Aries (liked to pretend he was a casanova, overconfident, pride was easily offended)

5. Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Aquarius (Always chased me when he was in a long term relationship. …)

6. Venus in Aquarius, Mars in Taurus (I liked this one, he paid me attention consistently, complimented me, was very traditional in his approach.)

7. Venus in Aquarius, Mars in Scorpio (pursued me obsessively, to the point that I was scared to breath online because they'd message me, or tell them I was at work because I knew they'd stop by)

8. Venus in Virgo, Mars in Virgo (he was really annoying, didn't pick up hints very well or know how to pull back. But he was nice and seemed pretty sweet. He was a Cancer Sun.)

^ Weird! I've never put them in a list before, Mars in Leo really likes me apparently! I don't like how they pursue though (at least from what I can remember.) They were all sexual towards me which is a turn off for my Taurus moon.

Who I chased:

1. Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Scorpio
2. Venus in Sagittarius, Mars in Leo
3. Venus in Sagittarius, Mars in Scorpio
4. Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Pisces
5. Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Pisces
6. Venus in Taurus, Mars in Gemini
7. Venus in Gemini, Mars in Aries

posted November 19, 2013 07:16 AM            

1st guy I was in love with was scorp sun, capricorn venus and scorpio mars. He was very shy and didn't chase me, but was friendly. We talked a lot through the internet. One day at a party I kissed him, then we initiated a very slow connection through 1 year where we were together. We were together for 2 years, but the last year was very dramatic, but it was worth it though.
2nd guy I've really liked was Aqua sun, capricorn venus and taurus mars. He chased me the whole evening and finally got me. He was very up front the whole time and very sexually aggressive. We where together for 1 year, but it was all very dramatic between us.
3rd guy is the one I am with now, and he is the best so far. He is libra sun and venus with gemini mars. He is very shy and talkative most of the time, he has some REALLY good manners and knows exactly how to treat me nicely. He isn't dramatic at all (yet) and he balances everything very nicely, so he is both chasing and being chased by me.
It was me who kissed him first, but it was him who hold the contact between us when I tried to drift away. So he is the one who keeps us together, and I'm happy because it makes me feel loved and appreciated

posted November 19, 2013 07:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Venus in Cap/Mars in Virgo: very chivalrous (Mars in Virgo) and gentle (due to the trine). Cautious though, won't pursue unless he's sure of success. That would be the Cap Venus.

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^ The Sun can modify the approach a little, but if he gets turned down, he'll take his sweet time to decide he wants to give it a second shot.

This is my experience with a Sag Sun-Moon / Aqua Asc, at least... Very quick and sure of himself to ask me out in front of everyone in our workplace, but got a reality check when I had to said no (for various reasons). He could see my interest, but he got extremely passive about things, waiting for me to make a move.

We don't work together anymore but we live in different cities now, so we keep in touch by e-mail. Still has that damn passivity about him, but reacts badly if I respond to it in any capacity, like flirting with him. I think this is because I'm not physically nor emotionally available right now, and he's very serious about this type of thing, for some reason.

posted November 19, 2013 10:37 AM            

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Originally posted by elixir:
How does a guy with venus virgo and mars leo chase a woman?

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Mars Leo - very showy chaser
Venus Virgo - virgos usually try to stay around the person they like and be helpful.

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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
I'm a Mars in Scorpio, Venus in Libra man.
How do you think I approach this?
Anyone?

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Mars Scorpio - intense chaser
Venus Libra - u try to charm the ladies but if it takes too long, you probably end up indecisive and leave.

General observation from this thread is that:
Mars sign - impulse to chase
venus signs - attention span (lol)

Fire signs chase,
Air signs come and go and see if you are still there,
Earth signs think chasing is by being around the person
Water signs are just passive (except scorpios who do chase)

posted November 19, 2013 10:40 AM            

He knew I had a crush on him so we went on a date but I was late ! He had even bought flowers. Despite him being a Virgo and me being so late on our first date ever, he was ok with it and we had sex that night. Soon after he said he was in love with me and thought that I was the one. He lives abroad so it didn't work out but my virgo mars found him really hot. He was so romantic, honest, so direct and so loving. I don't know why he loved me because usually he likes very natural girls who are into outdoor sports or traveling. He had a lot of friends. He critisized my approach to love.

Scorpio Venus/Libra Mars-

My first love, a Capricorn sun *sigh*. He didn't make a move until we knew each other for 4 months. I'm a scorpio sun and he also had scorpio moon, so our connection was deep. However, we never truly surrendered to each other, except for in the bedroom.. He was passionate but not romantic. Together we had this sarcastic sense of humor and we questioned everyhting, lol. He needed a more bossy girlfriend and later found one, although there were a couple of times he hinted that he wanted us to get back together.

Gemini Venus/Pisces mars-

Also a cancer sun. This guy was such a sweetheart. He loved talking, not to anyone but me and his few close friends. I can say I learned love through him. He loved me no matter what. He did anything to make me satisfied sexually. BUT he lacked confidence. And complained about life a lot. So that kind of turned me off

Aquarius venus/ Taurus mars-

posted November 19, 2013 11:38 AM            

We initially met through a penpal service. He found my Facebook initially wanted to be friends and chat we live in the same city.
Impressed with my ambition but kind of intimidated in a good way. Foot in mouth syndrome. Wanted to make me a part of his world but I was too busy in my own world. Constantly tried to arrange meetings together to get to know his friends. Subtlety sexual. Obviously likes the chase two years still interested. A bit if a ladies man at least outwardly.

posted November 19, 2013 11:54 AM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
^what's wrong with the first guy?

After going through this thread, it seems Mars determine whether men do the chasing.

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posted November 19, 2013 11:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:

Venus in Aries
Mars in Taurus

He was either too aggressive or too passive - going back and forth. Our energies were never completely in sink. I think this guy needs to find a balance.

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This ^^ here.

My last ex had this combo and he was exactly this way. I eventually got tired of him and left! He faked "shared" interests/hobbies just to get me to pay attention to him -- he thought he could fool me. Uh...No dude.

posted November 19, 2013 03:11 PM            

Surprisingly most of my boyfriends had Mars in Leo. Wonder why.
The ones whos birthdays I remember:

Mars Leo/Venus Cancer - sticked to me like a glue. When I broke up with him he cryed, was depressed, called, mailed, texted and stalked me many years after that. That was a nightmare.

Mars Leo/Venus Cap - gentelman. Conservative and very loyal. Boring regarding love and romance. More analytical approach tw life. We allmost never went out together, he loved to lean on couch with me even friday nigts, come on. I broke up with him. He told if you leave me then never come back. He came back though, we managed another year. But it didn't work anyway.

Mars Gemini/Venus Aqua - romantic mails, texts, words and dates. Lovely approach. Sweet and soft. Not for me.

Mars Leo/Venus Gemini - was kind of shy, waited for me for some approval if I like him or not.

Mars Leo/Venus Sag - he used his eyes mostly, was staring at me a lot, and I mean A LOT. We worked together. He asked me to join him to some 3 days trip (it would be our 1st date!), I rejected, he got upset till death, never asked me again.

Mars Libra/Venus Cap - he is chasing me for years but with intervals of many months. He has a steady girlfriend. But he pursues me consistently when we meat (through common friends or so) like asks dancing or just sits with me very close and so on. I just flirt, nothing more. This keeps him interested I guess.

Mars Aries/Venus Leo - it took a year for him to ask me out. Then after the first date he asked me out about once per month but when did then it was like a wow, candles, champain, nice dinner etc. Bad kisser. I didn't go any further. Kissing is a must for me.

Maybe I will edit later with more.

posted November 19, 2013 03:13 PM            

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Originally posted by IrisRainbow:
I was REALLY attracted to him and he was to me.Actually I think I fell for him hard that period but his sun and mars fall in my 12th house so there was uncomfortable energy going on between us.

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posted November 19, 2013 11:01 PM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
let me try.

Mars Scorpio - intense chaser
Venus Libra - u try to charm the ladies but if it takes too long, you probably end up indecisive and leave.

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posted November 20, 2013 02:36 AM            

Some people can be in-your-face chasers but they never know it.

posted November 20, 2013 07:44 AM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
I suppose complimenting is the way libras charm. ^ Pretty close to what i said except i don't know your sun. I don't want to come off as a know-it-all but sometimes you don't know how you really come off flirting unless someone tells you. lol.

Some people can be in-your-face chasers but they never know it.

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posted November 20, 2013 08:15 AM            

Guy #1

Scorpio with Taurus Moon
Libra Venus
Libra Mars

He came off very gentle and passive, just sort of slowly inserting himself into my life. He lives in Europe, and would make frequent (5-6 times in one year) trips to the US to see me. He was very complimentary and flattering, very lighthearted and charming. This was sort of a mask, though. While he could be all of those things, he was also exceptionally possessive and intellectually combative. He kept trying to convince me to drop everything and move to his country, but I wasn't really game. I didn't feel like it was serious enough to warrant such a dramatic change, and it came to an end shortly thereafter.

Guy #2

Libra with Gemini Moon
Venus in Leo
Mars in Aries

His approach was very direct, very forward, and very sexual. He was primarily interested in sex, and terrified of talking about his own feelings. He was very concerned with small facts: the first time he saw me was in a coffee shop, and he memorized my name and drink order from the cup. The next day, he waited around and ordered/bought it for me. He then invited me to a happy hour that evening...which turned out to be at his place, lol. He tried to get me to have sex with him the first day we met! In terms of the way he flirted, he wasn't very touchy/tactile, but he was very verbal. Very complimentary.

And since no one has done my combo, I'll give my own, hahahaha

Venus in Pisces, Mars in Aquarius
I'm not that direct at all. I won't go up to someone and compliment them or even just introduce myself. If I like someone, I'll usually do small things for them rather than tell them. Additionally, If I'm interested, I'll usually position myself in such a way that invites conversation, or if I think they'll be receptive, I'll strike up a conversation myself. It has to be situational, though. I could never just go up and introduce myself to someone I'm interested in. Additionally, I'm not very consistent in my pursuits. Even I will admit that I tend to run hot and cold. If something seems off, I'll find away to sneak off and let it just peter out rather than be direct.

posted November 20, 2013 08:28 AM            

9th house libra sun, 8th house Venus/mars/moon in virgo: I made the first move, it was a bit of a surprise to him, but he was very courteous and kind. Affectionate and sweet. Flirty, sexual but subtle.

posted November 27, 2013 12:58 AM            

both VERY sneaky cheaters!!!!!!

1 guy with
pisces sun
cap venus
sag mars

total psycho stalker

1 guy with cap sun
sag venus
pisces mars

flakey but good hearted and dependable. Made a point not to lead me on but chased me after I had moved on to the next guy.

1 guy with gem sun
leo venus
gem mars

posted November 27, 2013 12:40 PM            

ME:
Venus in Aries, Mars in Gemini
(Pisces Sun, Aqua Moon, Libra Rising)

The CEO
Venus in Gemini, Mars in Cancer
(Gemini Sun, Aries Moon, Taurus Rising)
He was going out with a friend of mine when we met, and I didn't like him cause I felt like he was messing with her head. I was cold and sometimes even mean to him. He pursued me so hard, was incredibly persistent despite my abuse. But he was so charming, and such a good talker, I eventually gave in. He was super successful, young, clever, and handsome. He took me to a lot of nice dinners. I felt like we had nothing in common when it came to taste or opinions, but that made it really exciting, and we learned a lot from each other. Though he can be incredibly aloof and disappear sometimes without a peep, he ultimately wants someone to just take care of him, cuddle with him, watch movies with him. He's a big flirt with a lot of game, but once you get past that he's very homey.

The Philosophy Student
Him: Venus and Mars in Aquarius
(Sun and Moon in Aries, Taurus Rising)
I was his server, and he kept looking and smiling nervously every time I'd come by the table. He left me a sweet note and his number on the check. I never call guys who leave me their numbers at work, but his was so sweet and genuine I thought I'd try. He was very gentlemanly, liked to have long dinners followed by long walks, and lots of deep conversation. We'd talk for HOURS, and had a lot in common in terms of tastes, opinions, and belief systems. However, we never really did anything else other than talk. He was too responsible, always went to bed on time for class in the morning and would only text me to plan for a date a couple days later... I got bored with how slowly things were moving physically, and communication dwindled.

The Childhood Flame
Him: Venus in Libra, Mars in Gemini
(Libra Sun, Sag Moon, unknown rising)
We knew each other since elementary school, and after high school had a brief fling. He is my physical ideal, so I thought about him every now and then over the years. After I graduated college and came back to town, I made a point to go to a party I knew he'd be at, and we ended up rekindling things. I could tell he was interested cause he'd gaze at me lovingly. He was a wonderful activity partner. Our first date we went camping. We hiked and swam a lot. We tripped acid together. We rock climbed. He was very much won over by anything poetic that I said, but when he'd try to say something poetic it would sound quite cheesy and sometimes I'd laugh. He was A LOT like my exboyfriend whom I had only just said goodbye to (see below), but not as smart and I kept noticing that and comparing them. He eventually got back together with his ex-girlfriend.

The Big Ex:
Venus in Libra, Mars in Gemini
(Sun in Libra, Moon in Aries, Cancer Rising)
We lived in the same dorm freshman year of college, and I noticed him immediately. He was my physical ideal (lots of similarities between him and the above mentioned). He always seemed aloof and distant, was doing his own thing and I liked that. I would insert myself into his presence and talk to him, and I could tell it made him like me. We flirted for a very very very long time before anything happened. The tension was evident to everyone around us. When we finally did hook up, we were an on-again-off-again relationship for the next four years. We were super in love, and he was/still is one of my closest friends. He was so affectionate, dirty, compassionate, and deep. He would let me know he was thinking about me by planning surprises or small gifts, and would do any favor I asked of him. He was an incredible boyfriend, though he was deeply troubled by his own moral shortcomings and sometimes would act out in strangely uber-rational ways to try to compensate for that.

The FWB
Venus in Gemini, Mars in Aries
Sun in Gemini, Moon in Taurus
He was super aloof, very clever, and incredibly fun to hang out with cause he was both chill and spontaneous. We were watching a movie together one night and I asked him if he wanted to make out. Thus it began. Our double Venus/Mars conjunct made sex really hot. Orgasms were unstoppable. We partied a lot together. I loved hanging out with him, but he had a huge ego and that just made me feel like I could never love him. We stayed friends after I got back with my exboyfriend, and I still fantasize about him sometimes.

The Torrid Love Affair
Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Gemini
Sun in Scorpio, Moon in Aries, Leo Rising
We met at a dance party and the chemistry was instant. He looked at me with so much lust it was irresistible. He thought I was the sexiest and smartest and most interesting girl he'd ever met, and this was a huge turn on. Our affair was pretty secret, and we hardly ever interacted outside the context of my bedroom. We fell confusingly in love, but there was so much darkness around it I ended it to be with The Big Ex. He acted like he didn't care, but when he was drunk or we'd run into each other, he'd let me know with longing looks or words that he still loved me. We still talk now, and he tells me he still thinks about me obsessively sometimes.

The Sensitive Man
Venus in Gemini, Mars in Taurus
Sun in Cancer, Moon in Taurus, Sag Rising
He kinda fell in love with me at first sight while we were at school and sent me a Facebook message saying he really wanted to meet me. We hung out a lot, and had so much in common and a lot of fun together. He wanted these hang outs to transition into my being his girlfriend, but this terrified me. I got so uncomfortable whenever he'd try to talk about his feelings or hopes for us being together. He was so sweet, but I felt suffocated by the idea that I was his dream girl and how badly he wanted to make me his world. I tried to date him, but it ended terribly cause I couldn't even kiss him without feeling suffocated. I broke his heart when I ended it. We stayed friends, though this has been hard for him at different times.

The Emotionally Unavailable Ex
Venus in Taurus, Mars in Gemini
Sun in Taurus, Moon in Sagittarius
He asked me to be his girlfriend after our first date, and though I liked him a lot I told him we should wait. We connected over shared tastes in movies and music. I was the more aloof one at first, but when I did become his girlfriend it was the opposite. He made me feel really bad about everyone I had slept with before him. He was really jealous and would make scenes in public places if he thought I was looking at someone else. He made me feel like I was a bad girlfriend, so I kept trying to be a better and better one in hopes that it would make him love me. He never was going to though, and it devastated me when I realized this. He sucked.

posted February 18, 2014 08:37 AM            

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Aquarius venus/ Taurus mars-

and Capricorn sun *sigh again*. He was so hot that I was turned on all the time. Unfortunately, he also has aquarius moon and he just got out of a 3 year relationship so he just wants to be friends and have sex. Probably not just with me but with the whole world, lol. He likes funny girls, into art or acting or music. He is both down to earth and high at the same time. Very friendly. Very sexy [/B]

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can you explain to me more about this one? i have someone with this exact placement (sun in cap, venus aqua, mars taurus) that caused the exact impact (so hot, looking at him turns me on no joking haha).

how's he like, what is he looking for in a woman (looks, personality), how did he express sexual interest, etc.