posted October 31, 2010 12:10 PM            

From my understanding
Men's venus is how he chasing a woman
Men-s mars is what he wants in a woman

Women's Venus is what she wants in a man
Women's Mars is how she chases him.

Me
Venus in Cancer
Mars in Leo
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Male with
Venus in Cancer
Mars in Aries

Well this guy called me ALOT.. I received lots of attention from him.. We could talk like there was no tomorrow..
When I would go out, he would show up where I was at, and stay with me the whole night..
Never really asking me out.. I had to be with one that said hey lets go here.. He was like yah lets go... I found him very passive.. Which I kinda liked,but yet felt I was doing all the work..
This guy waits for the women to say whats up, and goes with her flow...
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Him
Venus =Cap
Mars = Aqua

This guy talked about money ALOT.. To the point of bragging..
When we were alone, I was the only thing he would give attention to.. Very attentive when alone, but at other times he was like you dont matter..
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Him
Venus= Scoprio
Mars = Aqua

This guy walked up to me and said hey Im really attracted to you, I want to take you out and lets see what happens.. He didnt call alot, but when he did it was straight to the point, Lets get together on Sat.. Ok cool I see u then around 8.. He wouldnt call again until Fri.. Just to re confirm.
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Him
Venus= Scoprio
Mars = Sag

Ok this guy he straight out said Hey I jus wanna F*&#. Well he got an ear full from me, and I never heard from him again...
Ok yeah its funny...
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Him
Venus= Leo
Mars = Leo

He would tell me to get rid of the guy I was seeing and come and be with him, because I would fall in love with him, and he would give me so much love.. He would also stand back and watch me... One day he showed up at my house and professed his "love" for me.. Saying he wants me and only me ... Once we did get together he never left my side we were always together..

posted October 31, 2010 12:33 PM            

Mars is your drive in going for what you want.

I think this is the same in both sexes.

posted October 31, 2010 01:31 PM            

I have Sun in Aries and Mars in Taurus, and I can see some of the Aries and Taurus traits as ideal traits in a man, while I have Moon and Venus in Aries, and I can see some Aries traits as ideal traits in a woman.

posted October 31, 2010 01:55 PM            

My contribution:

1st Boyfriend:

Venus in Sag
Mars in Libra

He sat down to me in class on the first day, and I said, "It's okay, I don't bite... hard." I don't know why I said this, but that Friday he kissed me at a football game. He told me almost immediately that he was in love with me. Lots of attention and affection, and always wanted to be together. He didn't let anyone else know what was going on in our relationship (Scorpio Sun) and thought we'd be together forever.

2nd Boyfriend

Venus Sag
Mars Libra (again, but born different years!)

HE was passive aggressive in his pursuit. But once we got together it was like living in Viagra-ville. He was possessive, jealous, insecure, and also wanted to be together forever. Once I ended it he tried very actively to get back together. When I told him no way, he started dating someone else almost immediately. (Libra Sun)

Friend

Venus in Virgo
Mars in Leo

He likes to nit-pick at me and tell me how ridiculous most of the things I think and do are. He coaxes out of me Leo-like behavior, like dramatically defending myself against his dumb accusations. He likes to call me and ask to spend hours and hours together. He's not afraid to be direct and tell me i'm attractive and that we should get together. When I shoot him down, he lets it go. But never really gives up.

Friend

Venus in Aqua
Mars in Taurus

Now this guy I really wanted. And he wanted me too. He liked to complement me on my intelligence, and how I wasn't like everyone else. My uniqueness. He was passionate, and outgoing but very wounded. He was sappy romantic, and not very creative. All about the roses and the popular love songs. Kinda disappointing for an Aqua. When I turned him down he withdrew and found someone else.

Friend

Venus in Aqua
Mars in Aqua

He told me after we graduated high school that we was in love with me our entire high school career. Through a facebook message. I was his closest friend. He joined the army and wrote me letters. When I told him I wasn't interested he hit on my best girlfriend.

Friend

Venus in Cancer
Mars in Taurus

What a sweetie this one. But OVERLY flirtatious. Outwardly, he was very touchy feel-y. Liked to slip in little comments about my sexiness, or casually hint that he had feelings for me. Never a big declaration. When we were alone together he would tell me how he wanted me to hold him and take care of him, and that he wanted to do the same for me. He admits openly now of his feelings, but respects that I don't feel the same.

Friend

Venus in Capricorn
Mars in Scorpio

He carved my name into his wrist. He wrote me love poetry. He told me flat out that he knew we were supposed to be together, that he would never love another person in his entire life, and that he thought I was the epitome of perfection. He became a best friend, but never anything else.

Friend

Venus in Aries
Mars in Aries

He called me and told me, and I quote, "I wanna f*&^ your brains out." I told him in 200 languages that it wasn't going to happen (though i was attracted to him) but he was relentless. He called, he wrote. He was soooo fine, but had serious emotional issues. When I would tell him no, he would tell me i was being ridiculous and that I should give in to him. He was a predator, really.

3rd Boyfriend

Venus in Sag
Mars in Capricorn

We never officially dated, but we were both in love with each other. He was so sweet. God.. sending texts, and messages and going to parties and places just because he thought i'd be there. We spoke the same language. He was one of those Victorian romances. Like we sit next to one another and say nothing, but both are dying to say something, or hold the other person's hand. Oh, bliss! He told me all of this only when he was drunk (he was a very controlled Cappy Sun, with Libra Rising and Moon/Jupiter/Saturn/Pluto in the first conjunct ASC). He was also very secretive about his feelings for me- didn't tell anyone else, that i know of.

posted October 31, 2010 04:56 PM            

Ex 1 -

Venus in Aries
Mars in Taurus

He was either too aggressive or too passive - going back and forth. Our energies were never completely in sink. I think this guy needs to find a balance. He was also conflicted about what he wanted. Looks wise - he didn't really have a type (because he was attracted to a huge range of appearances). He is the epitome of always wanting what you can't have.

Ex 2 -

Venus in Libra
Mars in Virgo

He was very upfront about his attraction. We were friends to begin with. He was always affectionate and demonstrative. He told me he cared about me and loved me. He always pointed out specific things he loved about me (Virgo? lol). He initiated a relationship and it lasted.

I'll do more later...

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Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Libra

Very intense emotionally but also very fragile and easily hurt. Takes a long while to open up abut feelings. He bottles things for a long time. When he finally opens up it is dramatic and he does not shy away from making a scene. He often liked women (including me) who were taken -- which is just a great set up for him to make a scene.
He threatened suicide when I rejected him and he scared many people into thinking he had disappeared. He finally got psychological help and became a more emotionally adjusted person.

Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Capricorn

posted October 31, 2010 06:07 PM            

Took his sweet time lol. We'd hang out and I'd stay over but he never EVER made a move because he was too nervous. Finally he got drunk one night and went for it.

Venus = Libra
Mars = Virgo

Saw me at a party and kept trying to make eye contact and stuff. Then he Facebook messaged me and started inviting me to parties and stuff but still kind of ignored me at said parties lol.

Venus = Capricorn
Mars = Aries

This guy was def all about the chase, but the most traditionally gentlemanly. Like he opened doors for me and all that crap.

Venus = Gemini
Mars = Aries

Sexual texting

posted November 01, 2010 09:37 AM            

My mars is in virgo, I secretly obsess over guys for ages..sometimes years and never make a move...I also have a thing for guys who are "taken"...but obviously I would never make a move on anyone else's man, thats a low move imo.

My last boyfriend had his venus in scorpio and his mars in aries....he was still in love with his ex...he just wasn't aware of that fact lol. I met him one night at a party and in a state of alcohol induced euphoria I ran up to him randomly and hugged the life out of him.....and then ran off to find lollipops...(random I know )

posted November 01, 2010 10:08 PM            

It does, however come into conflict with my cap moon/sat in the 1st, and my taurus sun and need for that earthly stability in relationships. (or at least at the start).

I have found though that I just need him to love to talk, my most recent ex

venus in taurus
mars in aries

he DID NOT LEAVE ME ALONE!, his gemini made him super super chatty which totally tickled my venus gemini and kept my interested (always my problem)

I typically always just fantasize about having romantic and fun/exciting flings with multiple guys. (total venus in gemini in the 5th) I'm so in love with love.

my ex before that

mars in libra
venus in sag

total mess. he wanted NO commitment what so ever, and was too wishy washy for me. although he has a scorpio sun he just couldn't man up. totally avoided me after he kissed another girl and didn't call me for 2 weeks. then said sorry through text when he was drunk.

both guys, COMPLETE opposites, one more aries/taurus driven.....the other libra/scorpio.

god i love boys. sorry i just had to add that.

posted November 02, 2010 08:20 PM            

Tell me more about this guy:

Venus Gemini & Mars Leo,
Complete sweetheart. Very up front, one of the most up front of the bunch about letting me know he was interested, caught me off guard, it was pretty point blank. Lots of talk, not a lot of action.

posted November 03, 2010 06:19 AM            

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Ha (!) I bowl em over when I get impatient. That's my romantic pursuit lol inviting myself into their lives when they won't. Kinda arrogant but cute at the same time, who could resist?! In fairness this follows on the hind legs of a very very long waiting period/patience. Seriously. And I have to really like them, not just sort of. Mars Libra, Venus Capricorn

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This is fantastic! LOL!

posted November 03, 2010 07:37 AM            

I did the chart for the day/moment we first met, and the vertex of that moment conjuncts his libra North Node, which also conjuncts my juno and the juno for that day conjuncts my vertex to the degree. And a bunch of other stuff. That day was sooooooooooo magical. We spent like two days just magically bonding psychically and every which way (but not sexual or physical at all... THANK GOD)... and then I freaked out in my head because I knew if I talked to him again/looked him in the eyes, it would be way too intense and real and honest so I just avoided him, and he did NOT like that, and then it became this weird energy between us and we started to be mean to each other... yada yada... it was like 3 months ago... I would like to let the whole idea of him go so I don't have this sadness in me, but every time I decide I am going to, I get these really intense and unmistakable reminders of him from the universe. WHAT in the WORLD???? He won't even talk to me on facebook now. I was a total psychopath toward him, too. I am awful and dealing with men and strong emotions. No skills in that department whatsoever. I have a Scorpio moon in my 12th house conjuncting my Saturn and Ascendant with very tight orbs. If you don't readily know what that means, it means I usually have a control over my emotions... too much control... and when I DO feel something, it's strong and overpowering and I don't know what to do with it and try to stifle it down out of confusion, I guess. Ugh.

He's a Taurus, and his moon is in 1 degree of Taurus, almost in to Aries. Gemini Venus and Leo Mars, of course.

I'm an Aquarius, Scorpio moon, Venus and Mars both in Aries.

posted March 14, 2012 03:25 AM            

MARS WHAT SHE WANTS
VENUS HOW SHE GETS

IM A
VENUS LIBRA
MARS SCORPIO

I blame my mars sign for not 'getting out there' and dating someone. I've just been too preoccupied with life.

I'll just name a few.
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BACHELOR #1
venus aries/mars leo
There was this ASC CANCER/SUN Taurus/ moon in cancer. His venus aries, mars leo. Our personalities didn't mesh AT ALL. His flirting style was way different than mine, but it did show up. His earthy/watery personality turned into this confident/macho guy. I knew it was fake, I knew from ASTROLOGY! (i spent every day with this guy for a year. so no one think I made any irrational decisions. because i didnt, i've observed well.) I also hated how the next class period if I wasn't all super talkative and fun like I normally am, like if I was in a bad mood, he would act like it didn't matter and talk to my aries friend with venus gemini/mars aries. he wouldve probably moved on to liking her, if I hadn't kept him liking me. I had to, she was my astrology novice and I needed that extra ounce of respect/admiration. lol.

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BACHELOR #2
VENUS VIRGO/MARS LEO
I have so so many guy friends with this placement who originally liked me and I transformed them into friends. Lets call them letters.
A. He became really talkative/very witty. Making lots of jokes and giving me hugs more frequently. He tied my shoe, offered to carry my back pack, sat with me and my group of friends. (THE GUY WOULDNT LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!) -_- I was being nice..... but then it got to a point where I had to get to a class, he was blocking me, AND I WAS Pmsing that day, so my scorpio mars got mad and yelled at him "WHY DO YOU FREAKING KEEP GIVING ME HUGS? DO YOU THINK I LIKE YOU? I DO NOT LIKE YOU LIKE THAT ____, YOU ARE MY FRIEND! JESUS!!"

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BACHELOR #3VENUS VIRGO/MARS LEOWas a good friend. Walked around with me a lot during lunch, to keep us entertained. We were getting close but he started liking me. I remember one day he was poking me and he wouldnt let go of my hand he just held it for a second. Does that sound romantic to you? No. It was THE MOST awkward moment of my life! (Ok im exaggerating) but this guy mustve been blind or something. He's a leo. no offense, but we had NOTHING--- I was so suprised. I didn't even know where that came from . he hadnt shown a sign of interest at all then boom! welp, as you can guess, i rejected him.

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BACHELOR #4
MARS GEMINI/VENUS VIRGO
I'm not sure if it was his cancer sun or asc/or his mercury in virgo,but. He gave me hugs whenever he saw me. Then over time his hugs got more intimate (WHICH I DID NOT LIKE. I liked it a little, yay physical affection, but im not dating this guy so it was WEIRD) he would stand over me. ask to play games with him. (he was very active in groups. very popular, which i loved. at the time i was so obsessed with my reputation i normally wouldve dated him just for that, but because of the fact that hes dated so many girls and publicly made out with them ,it was just a turn off.)

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#BACHELOR #5
Venus Virgo/ Mars Leo (sun libra/ascaries)

This guy I legitamately liked. I really wanted to go out with him. SO badly. When I first met him I knew that I could love him, that he was like me. People are either my kind or not. He screamed perfect. lol. He was very leo throughout my entire time flirting/trying to make him like me, with him. But then we actually did something that made it awkward. We cuddled for a while .... long story short, I was trying WAY too hard. If I was myself it would've worked naturally. But I was an idiot and was confused about mars and venus signs.(lol. I BLAME MY MERCURY SQUARE NEPTUNE!!!!) If anything went wrong, or I suspected he stopped liking me, I would try to make him happy, make him laugh. something--- I danced, sang, to get his attention. But thats not what he needed. He needed my mars in scorpio.
I should've been myself. Now I lost him to a stupid mars in leo venus in leo which will be TERRIBLE FOR HIM. If he couldnt take me faking a leo, how will he take that leoness? It won't work. :/

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Bachelor #6

Venus Gemini/Mars Scorpio (taurus/asc leo)
The best friend who turns into a lover.
Its simples, it works.
I don't get why people don't just date a person with a compatible venus and compatible mars. Sure it won't flow naturally, but things will work out. You'll have the same temperaments, same attitudes towards friendship/life... It's just easy.
We're really great friends with crystal clear communication. We keep eachother on our toes. Not once has it been boring , ever in my time of knowing him.
I don't think I'll date him. I love his personality and adore him, though. He's also like me.

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BACHELOR #7 ???
Venus Libra/Mars Scorpio (sun libra/asc aqua)
Like me! :O

I had a crush on this guy our entire friendship. We had a crystal clear understanding of everything... Our entire charts are very similar, especially the neptune aspects and both of our mercurys are retrograde. I loved who he was as a person. He's a moon in scorpio, im a moon in sagittarius. Our synastry had venus/uranus and venus/neptune and moon conjuct pluto. It was so intense/so hot/etc. Only problem is one day I left... because I was mad. And instead of him coming back after me and saying "look I'm sorry about this and that.. want to sit together again?" He does nothing. Eventually I confront him. "Hey what happened? Are we still friends?" He treats me like a stranger.
I don't get scorpiop moons. They're so indirect about what they want. Okay, first of all, I have a life. You are not the only person in this world pal, as much as I love you, you see that I have other friends that I cant just ignore. He put up with me for a little while. I was faking it for this guy at the time, trying to be all leonine and It made my libraness very direct. I would tell him we were going to sit in the cafeteria and boss him around and we did it. But eventually I stopped so then he stopped. IF HE CARED, HE WOULDVE ASKED ME. Shouldnt of let our relationship just die like that. W,tf.

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Bachelor #8
Venus cancer, mars aries