posted February 18, 2014 11:20 AM            

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Originally posted by micromermaid:

[b]The Big Ex:
Venus in Libra, Mars in Gemini
(Sun in Libra, Moon in Aries, Cancer Rising)
We lived in the same dorm freshman year of college, and I noticed him immediately. He was my physical ideal (lots of similarities between him and the above mentioned). He always seemed aloof and distant, was doing his own thing and I liked that. I would insert myself into his presence and talk to him, and I could tell it made him like me. We flirted for a very very very long time before anything happened. The tension was evident to everyone around us. When we finally did hook up, we were an on-again-off-again relationship for the next four years. We were super in love, and he was/still is one of my closest friends. He was so affectionate, dirty, compassionate, and deep. He would let me know he was thinking about me by planning surprises or small gifts, and would do any favor I asked of him. He was an incredible boyfriend, though he was deeply troubled by his own moral shortcomings and sometimes would act out in strangely uber-rational ways to try to compensate for that.

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Aaaaaawwww! I'm dating a guy with EXACTLY the same placements, except he got PISCES moon and not Aries moon! (and I'm not sure about his ascendant though)

But your description is so accurate! This guy I'm seeing is so wonderful and affectionate, he does everything for me if I ask him (but I don't cause I'm not gonna be dominating)
and he is very romantic!
The way I met him was SO random, he isn't the kind of type who ever drink alcohol that much, but that evening he was and me too…the only reason why I ever approached him on that bar was because I had a little drinking, otherwise both of us would be too shy! But luckily we met, and it was totally love at first sight.

posted February 18, 2014 03:34 PM            

My ex's

Venus in Aries, Mars in Libra.

Sincere and physically attractive. But I saw him more as a friend than anything else.

Venus in Gemini , Mars in Scorpio

We can't be around each other without touching. He literally avoids me when our mutual friends meet.

Venus in Gemini, Mars in Capricorn

Very good friend. Very smart and quite reserved. Surprisingly sensual, but it was platonic.

The Crush

Venus in Libra, Mars in Sagittarius.

We flirt a lot, but nothing is done about it. He is very indirect and as much as I'd crushed on him, I could sense that he was a bit of a player.

My current

Venus in Capricorn , Mars in Scorpio.

posted February 18, 2014 08:35 PM            

I am: Sun Pisces, Moon Leo, Libra Rising, Merc Aqua, Venus Aries, Mars Cappy, Pluto Scorpio

Ex: Sun Sag, Cancer Moon, Leo Rising, Merc Sag, Venus Scorp, Mars Pisces, Pluto Scorpio

In the beginning, he reached out to me and suggested we hang out. He was gung-ho for the relationship from the beginning, all in. It was more of something that developed steadily for me over time. He was very thoughtful an gave a lot gifts. It became apparent that he was facing some insecurity issues, jealousy, etc., and he was super secretive/had trouble talking about his feelings. The sex always had to be initiated by me, and he was like a dead fish. He'd always be like, "That was really good..." REALLY?! You were like a baked potato. You laid there. Eventually we broke up and have parted ways.

Current Love: Sun Scorpio, Moon Cappy, Scorpio Rising, Merc Sag, Venus Scorpio, Mars Sag, Pluto Libra

posted February 18, 2014 11:12 PM            

TUFF TUFF COMBO
i just like a warm women with good conversation skills dosent even have to be deep or high energy i like to sit back and just talk subtle ..good conversation.

like a mother figure pref the nurturing side but i prefer to be nurtured and spoken to ..

like a back rub while we talk after work..

dam im a baby lol

posted February 19, 2014 05:04 AM            

Libra Sun (conjunct Mercury which is closely conjunct Mars in third)
Virgo Venus (conjunct Pluto in first) (this second stellium in Virgo)
Leo ascendant conjunct Uranus

If a guy isn't INTELLIGENT and can't carry on a decent conversation, forget it. It's over. But if he's so attached to his intelligence that he uses it both as a battering ram and as a shield, that's over too.

I'm on the quiet side (at least in the beginning) and yet I seem to be attracted to guys that aren't. One thing I've always wanted is a guy who understands cherishing. Probably all of the Virgo who gives this way and wants to receive in the same way.

I've never figured out what the Leo ascendant is doing. I'm really pretty reserved. Not showy. The only trait I see as applying is being deeply loyal. Any input here?

I seem to always be attracted to and attract men with a fair amount of earth in their charts.

posted February 19, 2014 01:31 PM            

Capricorn Mars and Capricorn Venus

posted February 19, 2014 03:17 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Since I haven't seen anyone post it…

Capricorn Mars and Capricorn Venus

Flake. Moves fast, leaves fast, but likes being told no and not getting his way, boring, controlling, but very physically affectionate. Ugh what an ass.

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posted November 08, 2014 03:30 AM            

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Originally posted by beckylee:
Virgo Venus/Mars- (also sun)

Aquarius venus/ Taurus mars-

and Capricorn sun *sigh again*. He was so hot that I was turned on all the time. Unfortunately, he also has aquarius moon and he just got out of a 3 year relationship so he just wants to be friends and have sex. Probably not just with me but with the whole world, lol. He likes funny girls, into art or acting or music. He is both down to earth and high at the same time. Very friendly. Very sexy

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Beckylee, the guy i have a crush on has this EXACT combo - sun in cap, moon and venus in aqua, mars in taurus. Can you recall him and tell me how is he, personality wise. How does he express attraction, how does he pursue? *this is an old post i know, hope you still read through.

posted November 08, 2014 03:43 AM            

This guy with this combo, but he chase like a Scorpio (chase and observe his girl), and the stable and persistent affection, I believe it is due to his Taurus rising. Nothing related to his Virgo Venus/Mars.
I didn't believe his B-Day until I confirm it with his driver liscense, lol.

My Aquarius Venus cannot handle any romantic 'prince charming' guy. Those type of guys never was what I want, and it just will scare away my Aqua Venus.

posted November 09, 2014 06:35 PM            

Pisces Venus
Pisces Mars

posted November 09, 2014 08:50 PM            

Uhm, I think Pisces is very shy to date again once they've been burned good enough. I know a Pisces sun girl who didn't get in another relationship too quickly or find one that lasted after that great, big love. Same with another Pisces girl, and the Venus in Pisces guy I like dated a Leo for 3 years but I think ever since then he's been just roaming.

posted November 11, 2014 04:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
I'm a Mars in Scorpio, Venus in Libra man.
How do you think I approach this?
Anyone?

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posted November 11, 2014 09:46 PM            

1st Libra:
Venus scorpio
Mars Libra

The only traditionally romantic yet sexually intense person I've dated. We were always driving somewhere fun and different and I would sneak him into my bedroom Friday nights. We even got caught by a cop having too muchfun in his car parked outside a zoo once..haha most embarrassing yet exciting night. We knew each other all high school but kicked it off the very end of senior year. It started off with crazy puppy love and he said I love you really soon and I freaked out and said it back even though I didn't mean it...Reason was because my friend had rejected him a year or so before and he got sour about it so part of me must've been scared haha. It was a good 1.5 years but I moved to the city for college and it got boring and I'm really good at reading people and I knew he still liked her. But yeah I dragged it out too long and he eventually forced me to break up with him threw text and got really mad. A month or two after he started talking to me again and 6 years later we're still friends but I suspect he still has a thing for me.

Pisces Bf#2
Venus & Mars in Aquarius
Uhh yeah 9 months of bull and that's when I really learned to trust my intuition. He brought out the possessive insecure side of me but I think I was picking up on lies and secrets. Plus I tried too hard to impress him in the start which isn't me so it never felt secure from the start. He had no motivation and we had different lifestyles. He Just checked his fb for his bday and he's engaged so good for him at least!

Cancer Bf#3
Venus gemini
Mars pisces
We met in the basement laundry room in college. He initiated the convo with slight flirtation and told me which number he and his roomie lived in and to come hang sometime. We three hung out all the time and became great friends. I got introduced into their friend circle which led to some of the funnest years of my life. I dated Bf #2 before this happened and I'd get drunk calls from him telling me that I should be with him instead. He was definitely the fun and goofy kind which I liked but it was off and on for a year and a half. He asked me on multiple occassions if I wanted to have sex and I said no and he was always respectable and I appreciated the polite directness. We never properly asked each other out so it was a pretty chill relationship. I was his "girl" I would always be the one to break things off and he'd be ok with it and just as easily agree to start things up again. What caused me to never fall in love with him, is the fact that he still clearly loved his ex and took forever to get over her...which I assume is when he stated he was starting to fall in love with me the day I finally broke up with him. We stayed friends but don't talk as much anymore. He was a great best friend.

Current Taurus Bf#4
Venus aries
Mars pisces
We met through his band and he randomly added me on Facebook one day. We would message each other until the sun came up and text nonstop throughout the day. It felt magical and super ideal. He felt like "the one". It took us a really long time to have sex because he was still a virgin and a little younger than me. Three and a half years later and it's been quite a challenge. He can be self-pitying in a selfish way when we fight but I tell him straight up that's acting like a child We both get competitive when fighting and won't give up until we both know who's right, which is me a lot of th timw lol. Definitely. The most transformative and teating relationship

Capricorn Friend
Venus capricorn
Mars taurus
He has always complimented me on something since the beginning of our friendship. He will even point out when Im wearing perfume or an essential oil. He stares with a twinkle in his eyes and I don't want to look away. It's like being hugged by his eyes (cancer moon). One time at a bar, I took his beer or something and he told me to put my hand out over the table and poured salt in it but then grabbed my hand for a good 5 seconds and dear god I wanted to die. When drinking he will try to touch my hand anyway possible. Touchy feely indeed. Our communication is great and can go on and on forever except for expressing our feelings about each other considering I'm in a confused relationship and he's always single. His friends gf told me that he loves me and always asks if I'll be around when they invite him somewhere. Even his mother told me that I'm very special to him and that he never brings any other females over.I will be the one to say something because he drives me crazy, in a good way. He's like a modern day james dean and even owns a vintage motorcycle and plays four instruments. I want to marry him and have his children. I basically already have his mothers approvable which should be very important to a cancer moon He is forsure testing my inability to break up with someone.at the proper time.

I'll cut it short and do 2 more with the same placements.

Aries sun
Venus taurus
Mars gemini
Wow both of these guys were very straight forward, especially physically. They were both very short lived crushes but it was hot even though I never slept with either due to no emotional connection or spark. Both freakin great kissers though. The best!
#1 the first day we hung out he kissed me and we coudled in his bed aka me laying on top of him haha. We talked about music and such. A lot of touching on his part but my mars finds a lot of aries sexy so I didn't mind. The best moment was meeting him under a street light and he grabs and kisses me. Um wow. But yeah no connection therwise I'm sure the sex would've been great

#2
Probably wouldve slept with him if he hadn't asked me repeatedly to take a shower with him then get mad when i said no. He even left haha

posted November 14, 2014 07:59 AM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Been reading this thread with some amusement. As a guy with Aquarius Sun, Venus in Pisces, Mars in Capricorn, I tend to go the traditional route, yet can throw curves balls of excitement and surprises my woman's way. I've read guys with Venus in Pisces and Mars in Capricorn described as shy/quiet/etc. This can be true. As far as having to make the first move, all I can say is, every time, and I mean EVERY TIME I have initiated things, it's rarely gone beyond the first date (and I've tried, believe me). The only time anything has gone any further is when the woman interested in me has asked me out. So, yes, we Venus in Pisces / Mars in Capricorn men can be quiet, but this is your opportunity, ladies, to initiate things.

Also keep in mind, with each of these Venus/Mars placement, to consider other planetary aspects. That could compound things and explain certain Venus/Mars behavior more than those placements alone would.

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posted November 15, 2014 01:23 PM            

When I was in high school, I have a crush on this older guy who have Scorpio Mars and Scorpio Venus. He was the definition of what a 'fineeeeeeeeee' man should be.
And even 10 years later, my heart still beat fast for his beautiful face, lol.

It turn out he is a player, he have 4 kids with 4 different women, yet still not married and still sleep around.
He is a Sag sun though, maybe this explain his "bachelor at heart" traits.

posted November 15, 2014 02:10 PM            

1: cancer mars/pisces venus (Pisces Sun, Scorpio Moon, Cap Asc)

2: cap mars/pisces venus (Aries Sun, Taurus Moon, Pisces Asc)

I am a Cancer Sun, Venus, Merc. Cap Moon. Virgo Asc, Mars.

posted November 17, 2014 01:01 AM            

Great website for combinations.

I have Aries Mars and Venus Libra and they call my combination the "Embarrassed Extremist"

It is accurate. Coupled with my 7th house Sun I always have a crush and I'm not shy about asking people out

posted November 17, 2014 08:34 AM            

Our type, for both men and women, is a combo of the two (plus Sun Moon DSC etc.)

Men identify more with their Mars, women identify more with their Venus.