posted January 27, 2011 05:05 PM            

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It's just how Scorpios won't give themselves fully unless they are 100% sure that things are mutual and real.

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posted January 27, 2011 05:12 PM            

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Originally posted by maddi:
Could a Scorpio just say "no" when it comes to love.

What I mean is, perhaps the Scorpio meets someone while with another person, even better matched than the current partner, and intrigues and attracts the Scorpio. Would a Scorpio forfeit their chance to get involved with the other person because of loyalty?

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Staying in a relationship out of obligation/loyalty is just wasting the time of all concerned in my opinion.

posted January 27, 2011 07:16 PM            

on busy days, I sometimes do less socializing and keep quiet so I can concentrate better

posted January 27, 2011 07:24 PM            

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Yeah... well if only Scorpios would give the same kind of consideration as to how other people might like to be loved and understood. We should have to conform to everything you like just because you are a Scorpio. The problem with Scorpios is not that they are all crazy stalkers but that they are unable to understand that a person needs to have something in their life other than the Scorpio. The other person with the Scorpio only get nervous and runs away because it constantly feels like the Scorpio is trying to take everything from the other person in the relationship to the point of where the other person feels like if they stay with the Scorpio they will lose themselves entirely. I admire a lot of things about various Scorpios in my life but it get exhausting trying to constantly tip toe around and try and not make them upset because then they get way too sensitive and suspicious. It's like they expect that no one else should want privacy or their own space. It's annoying as heck. I wish Scorpios didn't have that weakness.

And I dislike Pisces even more. Bleck. Too many bad experiences with them in my relationships. I don't find them innocent or romantic or pleasant to be around. So it's not like everyone thinks Pisces are harmless either.

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Jesus Christ, this quoted my thoughts VERBATIM. I can appreciate what these people go through as well, but the uppity attitude leaves them persona non grata many a times. Totally with you on this one.

I haven't met a huge number of Pisces, then ones I know seemed nice enough, nothing terrible. But my experience with a Scorp friend is just awful. The self-absorption, righteous attitude and demands of this person were out of this world, and what was the reward they wanted to give you for all that? More of themselves! (read my adjectives above).

Yeah, no thanks.

posted January 27, 2011 09:22 PM            

I agree with mostly everything that's been said. To love/get along with a Scorp just make sure you...

posted January 28, 2011 11:21 AM            

Hi ! Maddi

I presonally feel that there might be initially attraction and would suss the new person and prospect. Wouldn't say directly NO. Would toy with the idea of having relationship with new better person. If Scorpio is sure that this is the best relationship and better deal then they wouldn't say NO only because they are feeling guilty. Ofcourse there would be confusion and would try to minimize the damage to the old partner.There can be some confusion state but after once the decision made it would be fixed.Fixed.
There can be also possibility when Scorpio realises that what he has is much better than new one.

Scorpio would want to work out relationship and try to ammend and change relationship but wouldn't want if it is damaging & just bringing unhappiness to all involved.

Another question I have is the push/pull hot/cold question. Do Scorpios realize they do it? Do they realize, for example, that they are friendly one day to someone and then the next, turn their backs as to not have more than "hello" said to them?

No, we don't relaise we do anything like that. We feel over whelmed as well or bored? We also have other things to do. Since we lack in multi tasking. We can't be thinking about something completely else and also manage same type of conversation for next day. I know to some signs it come naturally. They are always same & happy. For Scorpions relationship doesn't end- when you see it they are cold. They think ok! I have made so much progress in my personal life or with you or in this relationship. Now, let see where do I need to put my attention to? Career, new friends or family.You are still very fresh in our minds. Just hang around without getting upset or feeling ignored. Our priorties change everyday and there are other pressing things to do.

posted January 28, 2011 02:10 PM            

Very well written, and informative post!! Thank you so much for taking the time shed a bit of light on what makes our Scorpion friends tick. Just out of curiosity – do you have some heavy Sag somewhere in your chart? Or 9th house energy? You are far more open and honest about the intricacies of your sign than most would be, I think.

I think it’s lovely and refreshing though!

Kindest regards,

posted January 28, 2011 03:54 PM            

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when he tells me Pisces... I'm definitely not thinking what you are thinking. LOL. I would run from a Pisces than a Scorpio anyday. lol

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lol racole! I had a bad experience with a Pisces man...but they are not all that way...I have met several who are wonderful as well...it was just who he was...it just struck me funny, because it is now a very funny story...it wasn't then however! Just proves you can forgive, but never forget!

posted January 28, 2011 04:06 PM            

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Originally posted by WateryAir33:
Awww I lub my Scorpie Worpies! They're really great people and not as negative/evil as people claim them to be. Kind of complex but then again we all can be sometimes regardless of our sign/charts.

I agree with mostly everything that's been said. To love/get along with a Scorp just make sure you...

1.)VALUE their PRIVACY,
2.)Don't snoop or try to pry information out of them,
3.)Don't try to analyze them,
4.) Have substance
5.) Dont do things that clearly get on their nerves,
6.) Don't betray them,
7.) Be yourself. Scorpio is one of the psychic signs so they can see through you anyway and its not because of that penetrating stare either.

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Yeppers!

posted January 28, 2011 05:59 PM            

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Originally posted by WateryAir33:
Awww I lub my Scorpie Worpies! They're really great people and not as negative/evil as people claim them to be. Kind of complex but then again we all can be sometimes regardless of our sign/charts.

I agree with mostly everything that's been said. To love/get along with a Scorp just make sure you...

1.)VALUE their PRIVACY,
2.)Don't snoop or try to pry information out of them,
3.)Don't try to analyze them,
4.) Have substance
5.) Dont do things that clearly get on their nerves,
6.) Don't betray them,
7.) Be yourself. Scorpio is one of the psychic signs so they can see through you anyway and its not because of that penetrating stare either.

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7.) Be yourself. Scorpio is one of the psychic signs so they can see through you anyway and its not because of that penetrating stare either.[/B]

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A few more things.....
Do not ever hit me.
You do and its goodbye.

Do not lie to me.
Not even white lies.

Which leads to another thing.....
honesty.....
if you do not like something about me or my looks.....
or do not agree with me....
do not use false flattery om me....
do not tell me you like something just to please me....
patronizing me will **** me off.

posted January 28, 2011 06:02 PM            

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well maddi I personally do that sometimes

on busy days, I sometimes do less socializing and keep quiet so I can concentrate better

I do this because when I do socialize I want to 'be there'

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posted January 30, 2011 09:03 AM            

I always felt they were misunderstood. Some say they are self-serving, and use people. I don't see it that way. Their "selfishness" and "manipulating" sometimes was to their benefit, but for those they care about, it works for them too.

For example, my Scorpio brother asked me the other day if I would like to go with him and a few of his friends (I know them) to Times Square. He said that we could take my car, instead of dealing with the trains and subways to get to Dave and Busters. Now, my other siblings groan and immediately think "he's using you for your car." But I see the positive (Aries silver lining).

The positives being: Haven't gone out in a while, I'll be with some people I know, not dealing with the trains, and above all else, it's Times Square. When he pitched the 'car idea' he also thought of my benefits, that I'd have fun. I've been somewhat of a hermit lately, so he wanted to kill two birds with one stone, so to speak. I feel I "get" Scorpios, in that regard, where others just see manipulation and selfishness.

Something about Scorpios makes me want to sit them in my lap and cuddle them, even the unevolved ones. Like I want to make them happy, and penetrate that "misunderstood" wall they put up.

posted January 30, 2011 09:38 AM            

Are you an Aries Sun?

I can be very impatient with other signs, but with Scorpio I can wait. I admire their intensity and depth of emotion.

I know they're sensitive but they'd never admit it and sometimes I forget how sensitive they really are.

There is one Scorpio who means the world to me. Their life isn't easy right now but they said they'd love me forever and that's how long I will wait for my Scorpio

posted January 30, 2011 12:01 PM            

I wouldn't wait so long for anyone else.
But I guess romantic relationships aren't that important in my life right now (focusing a lot of my job and life right now)

I have quite a lot of Air in my chart so I enjoy my space and don't want a partner on me all the time.

Although I wish my Scorpio was a little less distant but I trust them. They live out of state and only talks to me so often.

Saturn currently is Opposing my Sun in my 5th house so I'm learning a HUGE lesson in romance and other 5th house areas.

I'm not sure what it is about Scorpio..
It could be my 7th house ruler Jupiter in Taurus opposing Pluto in Scorpio.

posted January 30, 2011 01:33 PM            

I am very intrigued by the thought of someone obsessed with me and being possessive. Which oddly conflicts with my "space loving" motto.

My Mars Squares Pluto.
I have a T Square with my 7th house ruler, Jupiter, Mars and Pluto.

I don't know. Scorpio/Pluto is just so amazing to me But I'm starting to love Capricorn/Saturn as well.

posted January 30, 2011 02:15 PM            

Acting very "Saturn" like. Distant, acting like they don't care but really does.

I'm there for my Scorpio and always will be and I've told them time and time again.

posted January 30, 2011 03:37 PM            

I've known several people who were just natural flirts and that was as far as it went.
If it is simply idle flirting and I know I can trust whomever I am with;
generally I am OK with that.

posted January 30, 2011 04:43 PM            

Don't you think Scorpio might do that to reassure themselves that you really do love them? If you react to it that means you really do care.

A Scorpio I know would do that. She would say things that would be upsetting, (she knew exactly what upset me!!) and would sit back and "watch" my reaction and be stone silent. This was all with texting, that's how we would talk. This same Scorpio has a Libra Mars and Rising, so maybe the passive-aggressive traits were there. Also has a Sagittarius Venus

posted January 30, 2011 05:01 PM            

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Interesting because I've seen some Scorpios play games and try to make me jealous, like the one I'm in love with. Than again they were 21 at the time.

Don't you think Scorpio might do that to reassure themselves that you really do love them? If you react to it that means you really do care.

A Scorpio I know would do that. She would say things that would be upsetting, (she knew exactly what upset me!!) and would sit back and "watch" my reaction and be stone silent. This was all with texting, that's how we would talk. This same Scorpio has a Libra Mars and Rising, so maybe the passive-aggressive traits were there. Also has a Sagittarius Venus

I was always curious about how Scorpio, Libra, and Sagittarius blends.

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I know what you mean.
I've known some folks like that.

I have no desire to intentionally nor accidentally make anyone jealous.

I can however see how this:

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Don't you think Scorpio might do that to reassure themselves that you really do love them? If you react to it that means you really do care.

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PS. Got a head cold so kinda doofy brained at the moment.