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LadyAries*
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posted January 30, 2011 05:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LadyAries*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes that does make sense.

Do you mean that Scorpio would "test" you and slowly start showing their darker emotions, to help you realize if you really want Scorpio or not?

Is it normal sometimes for Scorpio to be very intense and almost obsessive at the beginning of the romance and than slowly show those darker emotions I mentioned, like depression, anger, etc?

I mean I guess It's normal for people to be on their best behavior at first and than life takes over again. Honeymoon phase as some people call it.

The Scorpio I know was so in love with me, and even told me that and than now it's like they're dead But I believe that they do love me.

They keep coming back and Scorpio wouldn't come back unless they care, right?

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posted January 30, 2011 05:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lady Aries;

You said you are interested in how sco/sag/lib blends. My bf is:
Sco/sun
Sag/moon & Venus
Libra/Merc & Jupiter.

It makes for a very interesting person!

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LadyAries*
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posted January 30, 2011 05:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LadyAries*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GypseeWind:
Lady Aries;

You said you are interested in how sco/sag/lib blends. My bf is:
Sco/sun
Sag/moon & Venus
Libra/Merc & Jupiter.

It makes for a very interesting person!


How interesting? Could you please explain?

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GypseeWind
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posted January 30, 2011 06:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He also has Sag/Neptune.

Explain...hmm..
Well, he's a very intense person.
His MC is Aries, so with that plus the sun in scorpio, he is just vibrating with intensity.
People usually like or dislike him before even speaking to him! I've never seen anything like it in my life.

For ex. a few weeks ago, we decided to shoot a game of pool. We stopped in this other place first b/c it was on the way to where we were going.
We've never been in there together before, and he's never been in there AT ALL b/c it's totally far from where he lives.
So, once inside we noticed that this place had a brand new pool table, just installed, so we decided to scrap our other plans and just play there, as the place was empty and we had the table to ourselves.

We were having a fine time, all in our own world, as it were, and then these two ladies came in.
They were intoxicated, this was obvious, but still...

So, they put their quarters up to challenge, and I spoke for the both of us, him and I, as I usually do, and told them it would just be a minute, and we would be finished up...

The one older lady took one look at my guy and just started acting so weird.
Within like, 10 minutes she was calling him all kinds of profane names. It was so odd!
I asked him if he was sure he didn't know her, and he said he didn't, but that he's had this happen to him before.

It was realllllly uncomfortable.
Anyway, that's when the Scorpio influence comes out, cos obviously nobody wants to take that kind of stuff.
So, I talked him into leaving.

But, anyway..
He's got the Libra parts of being balanced.
He has to balance work and play.
He's very fair.
He also takes forever to make up his mind, and is chronically late.
He's got the Sag athleticness (is that a word, lol) in him. He is good at ANY sport he plays, but mostly he likes to ski, skateboard, bike, hike, play basketball, and swim.

Socializing is where it gets strange.
He is a very social person, but only to a point.
I mean he would never be intentionally rude to someone who dropped by, or a family member of his or mine.
But, he isn't really into the bar scene or crowds. He hates crowds. I know that is a scorpio thing, because my Dad and brother are the same way, so is my son.

So, it's like, he likes people around him, but only the people HE chooses, in the settings that feel comfortable to him.

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maddi
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posted February 03, 2011 09:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for maddi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can a Scorpio flirt with you, make googlie eyes at you, and act like he likes you, but in real life, doesn't mean anything by it?

Does he just want to be friends, then, even though the two of you had some sort of feelings earlier on?

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nabokov2011
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posted February 08, 2011 11:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nabokov2011     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.astro.com/col/zodiactopia1_e.htm

Something about scorpio, cancer, pisces.

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Frozen Queen
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posted February 09, 2011 01:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Frozen Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Ask Me anything. Anything. I will contrive to bring you the answer. The whole universe will I use to do this. So be on the lookout. This book is far from My only tool. You may ask a question, then put this book down. But watch. Listen. The words to the next song you hear. The information in the next article you read. The story line of the next movie you watch. The chance utterance of the next person you meet. Or the whisper of the next river, the next ocean, the next breeze that caresses your ear—all these devices are Mine; all these avenues are open to Me. I will speak to you if you will listen. I will come to you if you will invite Me. I will show you then that I have always been there. All ways.

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posted February 09, 2011 01:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Frozen Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks nabokov!! Cool one

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Ask Me anything. Anything. I will contrive to bring you the answer. The whole universe will I use to do this. So be on the lookout. This book is far from My only tool. You may ask a question, then put this book down. But watch. Listen. The words to the next song you hear. The information in the next article you read. The story line of the next movie you watch. The chance utterance of the next person you meet. Or the whisper of the next river, the next ocean, the next breeze that caresses your ear—all these devices are Mine; all these avenues are open to Me. I will speak to you if you will listen. I will come to you if you will invite Me. I will show you then that I have always been there. All ways.

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LEXX
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posted February 09, 2011 10:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Frozen Queen

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LEXX
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posted February 09, 2011 10:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by nabokov2011:
http://www.astro.com/col/zodiactopia1_e.htm

Something about scorpio, cancer, pisces.


Thank you!
I shall watch for the next signs!

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posted February 09, 2011 12:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, the thread is back.
Funny cartoon, btw, love the facial expressions!

Here is my thoughts as of recent events that have come to pass:

My Scorpio SO professed his love preferance for me over another girl, in front of that girl around 1.5 years ago.
I was flattered, of course, but didn't proactively DO anything about it.

A couple weeks ago, I did the same thing for him. That is; profess my preferance for him aloud to another person.

This one act flipped the script completely.
I can't believe I was so dense as to not think of this before.
They say a Scorpio will test you..
I've always believed this to be true in varying degrees.
BUT, alot of the times you don't know what the test IS exactly.

Now, it seems I've hit on the magic quotient or something, because we are now in constant contact, whereas before, we would go a few days without talking.

I guess He needed some concrete proof of my true feelings.


Just throwing this out there, in case it can help someone else.

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LEXX
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posted February 09, 2011 09:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
GypseeWind
Sweet!

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posted February 10, 2011 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ihab     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol.. What a Coincidence. I am a Pisces and my Close friend is a Scorpio and just today we were talking about Relationships and all. My friend, Scorpio guy, is one determined person.. And has always been claiming that he doesnt want to be in a relationship and would rather have One Night stands.. but today, He actually confessed being a "passionate" person and is scared of being in a relationship due to the paranoi of the girl fking him over..

The funniest part of our conversation was when we discussed what we would do If our GF's cheated on us. I was like "I will cry, and then get lost in my dream world.." And he was like "I would kill that b#tch". Lol, I am sure he wouldnt do that but My friend is one guy who does like taking revenge..

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maddi
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posted February 10, 2011 02:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for maddi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wonder, do Scorpios believe in the "innocent until proven guilty" approach, or "guilty until proven innocent."

They are so careful, so scruitinizing in their approach to creating a bond with someone. So are they naturally weary, or have they been hurt to be so stealthy?

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posted February 10, 2011 09:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for impulsv     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In another site another scorp described how we place all our cards in the table then observe how you react. If misuse then we slowly take our cards back until there are none. Then it to late we will never trust you again.

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nabokov2011
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posted February 11, 2011 03:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nabokov2011     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My brother is aries, and he always listens to his scorpio girlfriend. I am not sure if he really loves her so much or he is afraid of her.

By the way, how do you paste photo??

Here is the next comic (but it is for libra): http://www.astro.com/col/zodiactopia2_e.htm

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4lifephrases
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posted February 11, 2011 07:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 4lifephrases     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Damn ! I wrote whole long post. gone now.Would re-write later.
Anyways Nice posts from everyone.
Really impressed where the discussion is headed.

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maddi
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posted February 11, 2011 12:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for maddi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I believe we touched on it, either in this topic, or one similar, but I'd really like a thorough chit chat about Scorpio Projection.

An innocent glance that lasts a little too long, for example. Or a hug that was two seconds longer. Or a flash of tender emotion, that's frozen over in an instant.

I was told that Scorpio Projection, like 'what you think you saw' in their eyes is not what it truly means.

My Scorpio Moon sister got me thinking, she gave me an example of how a guy liked her. She didn't like him, but his interest in her, made her interested in finding out more about the guy. She still didn't like him, but followed him around a few times "just to make sure what I thought was true."

I asked her, "don't you think you're giving him mixed signals?" She didn't think so, but I do.

If anyone would be kind to elaborate on this, or perhaps knows anything about it I would greatly appreciate it.

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posted February 13, 2011 09:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for specialistangel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
maddi I like your choice of name, it's cool!

as for the topic, of how to love a scorpio, I guess the obvious way would be to have sex with it? Oh my god like how else?! There is no other way.

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maddi
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posted February 14, 2011 11:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for maddi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Specialistangel.

I think this topic is dying. I would love to keep it going, as Scorpios are a different species from the rest of the zodiac. I need to learn about them...

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LEXX
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posted February 14, 2011 01:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by specialistangel:
maddi I like your choice of name, it's cool!

as for the topic, of how to love a scorpio, I guess the obvious way
would be to have sex with it?
Oh my god like how else?!
There is no other way.


Wow! Really?
If that is all a person wants from this Scorpio....
it is bye bye so long here!
Stimulate my mind firstly, or forget the rest.
I can take care of my own sexual needs solo, without the help of a rutting idiot.

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GypseeWind
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posted February 14, 2011 04:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
it's just an old myth that to get to a scorpio, you use sex.
If you are using sex, then are going to know, and probably treat the relationship accordingly.

Maddi- what are the kinds of things you want to know?
Are you already involved with a scorpio?

My Scorpio SO had a two year relationship once with someone he didn't love.
So, just like anyone else, they can have casual romances, it doesn't always have to be super intense.
It depends on the people, like with anything.
I asked him why he dated someone for two years that he wasn't in love with, and he said, "for the companionship."
But, he has a Sag Moon/Venus, so he's into the friends/comraderie aspect of r/ships as well.

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4lifephrases
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posted February 18, 2011 03:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 4lifephrases     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Isolaede: Yes, I have Saggi Planets. I have Asc, Merc and Jupiter. 9th house leo.

maddi: We not always be curious because we like someone.We get attracted to people and there is an intution which we follow. Is their logical explanation no?
We like to know what ticks people.Sometimes we do things to learn things.There might be lesson.

Really if you ask your sister do not ask her in a negative manner like why are playing with fire and why are you turning on that man when you aren't interested. Be more open next time she tells you anything. She is still unsure to categorize the guy. She would be testing and knowing guy.

Scorpios believe that you can't handle truth and if you can truly show that you can they would tell you. If you do not know how to react when Scorpio opens up best thing is to be quiet and listen. Just don't freak out.

I have spent sometimes 7 months to figure out whether I like that person or not. Whether we learnt out of it yes great deal.

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4lifephrases
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posted February 18, 2011 03:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 4lifephrases     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Liked all cartoons...lol...really fun...whether true or not don't know.

Just to add Scorpions and power thing. That we so much like to be in power.I don't think Pluto would have liked to be dwarf planet then.

maddi : If you like a Scorpio you would get honest reply from Scorpio provided you reassure them whether they like you or not your relationship would remain same and PLEASE BEHAVE NORMAL.I am sure Aries Sun shouldn't have problem.

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posted February 18, 2011 03:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Can a Scorpio flirt with you, make googlie eyes at you, and act like he likes you, but in real life, doesn't mean anything by it?

YES! Some Scorpios (just immature ones) enjoy this kind of game.

In your case, Maddi, it sounds like the guy is involved with or interested in someone else, and he is vaguely enjoying your obsession with him, but is not interested enough to cross a line into a real, mutual relationship. Some of them, before they're mature, enjoy this kind of interplay of energy.

Your obsession might be less about a connection with him, and more about his lack of availability. It gives you a place to focus all your intense energy, rather than looking at what feels incomplete in your actual love life.

Often when a woman wants a real, mutual relationship, she starts being turned off by mixed-signal guys who make prolonged eye contact or whatever, and looking for guys who are single, ask her out, take her to dinner, get to know her, let her know they are interested.

Some (very immature) Scorios get a masochistic pleasure from the fact that they're NOT going to have actual sex with the person they're vibing, just the way a fire sign gets a thrill knowing they ARE going to eventually hook up. But when a Scorpio is interested, just like the other 12 signs (unless they are so immature, damaged, or troubled that they are not able to be with anybody)--he will pursue a real relationship, not just send mixed signals.

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