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letram
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posted February 06, 2011 09:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for letram     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
im surprised by the answers in this topic, i was curious to read about it because, my partner is a Cancer ASC (though her Moon, the ruler, rests in the opposite sign - Capricorn).

shes an Aquarius Sun.


it made me a ltitle concerned because i have virgo Mars and Mercury (with 3 outer planets in capricorn,) and i feel in general senses i relate to being really earthy (though firey too).

i'm a LEo Sun & ASC with an Aries Moon, (depositor is Mars in virgo, combination of "both worlds" ?)

i just hope despite how earthy i am, my aries moon and fire placements give the spark for her cancer asc, but maybe shes really into my earth that i worried for after reading this aha, (she has a 6th house mars, 10th house venus, cappy outer planets and cappy moon, though mars and venus are in aries/sagittarius).

does anyone think i should worry after reading tis thread?

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posted February 06, 2011 10:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ummm...no this is strictly about virgo sun and aries sun lol

The aries i liked a lot actually only had his sun in aries and everything else in his chart in earth signs, and then he had mercury in pisces and pluto in scorpio. And the other aries i liked, but not as much has his sun in aries and the rest of his chart equal amount earth and water, but then a leo moon like me and a venus aries to go with my venus in leo.

and the ones i didnt get along with have a lot of air and/or fire in their charts

so, see! we need that fire sign spark, but also a whole lot of earth and water.

so don't worry. plus how does that even relate to ur relationship lol...come on..

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posted February 07, 2011 12:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moons Of Jupiter     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Ugh. I dont really understand your last post, MOJ. Lol. Could you explain? I'm sorry..I just don't get what ur trying to say

That's ok. I'm saying that, you know how there is a lot more to a relationship than just the bedroom part, right? Everything you do leading up to the bedroom is 'foreplay'. I'm saying that an Aries (in my experience) is as passionate about life, outside the bedroom as they are inside the bedroom, whereas I find Virgo is a little less passionate outside the bedroom than they are in it. Virgos make great lovers, but when you're outside of the bedroom, just being and relating, a Virgo is a lot more 'clinical' and subdued. Again, this is just MY experience, I adore both of them.

Just for me personally, since the question WAS who would you rather date as a Cancer, I'd say Aries, because I need someone who is more often than not on fire.

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posted February 07, 2011 01:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol MOJ you are funnay chiquita ..on fire is good way to describe Aries men.

Haha.

Hot hot hot.


Anywhos, have you experienced hell in relationships with Aries at ALL...as astrology would make it seem?

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posted February 07, 2011 06:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Choc     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I tend to attract Aries guys, Virgos not so much.

[biased opinion]
Uunfortunately most of the Aries fellas that surround me have cheated at least once in their past relationships..

So, I don't know who to choose. Can I say neither?

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posted February 07, 2011 06:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
A question for Cancers only:

Think of the hottest Virgo you know, and the hottest Aries you know lol

Who would you choose if you had to pick one?
---the Virgo or the Aries?!


I am a sun cancer venus-mars in cancer all in conjunction. I will prefer an aries 1000 times than a virgo. the nitpicking criticism of virgo turn me off completely. the courage and action oriented of aries as well the capacity to raise easily from failure are qualities I admire in people. I am talking about a person who reflects this arian qualities of course.

they are not the most intelectual oriented people, but with a moon in cancer and everything in fire... I am more than ok. that may be because my chart has just one planet in fire and I get a lot from interaction with people with lots of fire. but VIRGO? no thanks!!!!

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posted February 07, 2011 06:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Lol why cant u stand virgo men?are you a cancer sun?

I get you seeleah. I agree that it's very comfy with virgos, but also kinda boring only because you are both pretty shy and reserved. But with an aries, though it's really hot---they are like the hotness of a scorpio times 5 to us cancers i think---but the fact is it's hard to connect emotionally with them. Kinda feels like they could leave at any second or something right?---opposite of virgo. But i found one now I have sun conjunct venus with in the composite, so let's see how this goes bc it seems that we are extremely gentle and caring towards each other. And at the same time i almost always find him sexually attractive---whereas with virgos i did only every other day.

But for me, a virgo has a lot of benefits also. Though we may not be sexually on all the time i think there is a definite sensuality and affection that always stays. And the emotional connection is def there and is very very strong---at least for me. But with Aries we cancer girls feel more girly, right? It's also more fun. But with virgo it's more cloudy and confused, you're not sure whether they're "the one" because you are both so shy that it feels sometimes like you dont even have chemistry. But then you find you cant live apart.

Aries is definitely more fun---nights out on the town, seeing future possibilities in ur life, feeling inspired, and feeling very alive. Sex is always on lol, but the connection is not always fully there emotionally.

Virgo is more emotionally thrilling---you can talk to each other with your eyes, it's very nurturing--also sensual, kind of off in the sex department sometimes lol, but always there emotionally. It's a slower pace and you feel more like equals, whereas with aries you feel like you're jane and he's tarzan and sometimes you dont connect emotionally--feels like you always have to work to stay emotionally connected. But he does do all the things to sweep you off your feet and make you feel loved, which virgo is too shy to do. But then again virgo is always there for you and always willing to listen and to help---quite different from aries who is way moodier lol.

I think i would choose virgo, though i might regret it later. I dunno lol. Okay, virgo because the being able to communicate with ur eyes part is pretty important lol, they're like a rock you can rely on, and u feel more like equals since they are almost as emotional and sensitive as us...which is better in the long run for mutual understanding.


i think you did a good description of how a cancer woman feels with an arian man. tarzan jane. at least it fulfills a fantansy. I cannot see that nurturing you mention with virgo. I dont know why, but VIRGO is the sign I can stand less in both women and men.

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posted February 07, 2011 06:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I don't know. Even if sex isn't wildly passionate, there could still be a lot of love and caring in it, right? Isn't that okay, too?

Someone help me with this..


if you experience that with a virgo, let me know. so far, I have never felt anything with them.

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posted February 07, 2011 07:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
LOL...interesting. i get ya....

But it's still interesting how you still chose the Aries whom astrology always says is a match made in hell with cancer, over the Virgo whom astrology always says is a match made in heaven with us !


it is interesting, because i feel very much attracted to Libras and get along with them easier than with virgos. maybe my moon and mercury in gemini, but my sun-mars-venus in cancer square the sign. so, i suspect there is something odd about these thing of sun-sign compatibility. probably the original caldean 8th signs were more accurate than the 12 signs?

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posted February 07, 2011 07:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
This has been an interesting read --- because -- if only I'd have a penny for every Cancer/Virgo and Cancer/Taurus couple I've met and known in my life!

I'm very surprised you are all saying Aries.

I'm an Aries myself with a Cancer AC. I would strongly prefer to date a Virgo.

In my experience Aries-Cancer marriages end very badly.

I'm not sure about dating and sex..
But if you want something long term -- Go for Virgo -- for goodness sake!! lol


You probably feel that way because you are already an Aries. You dont need the aries spark. you already have it. But at least me, with my stellium in cancer and only one planet in aries, i prefer 100 times an aries. not that aries is my favorite or anything, but between them, not doubt i will go for the aries. not sure i will marry him though. but i wont marry a virgo for sure. will kill him first.lol

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posted February 07, 2011 07:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
One example is one of my closest friend's parents. He is a Cancer. She's an Aries. They divorced after 20 years of a very unhappy marriage that my friend and her brother are still in therapy about.

The second example is my step dad and his ex wife. Again, he is a Cancer and she is an Aries. Again they were married for years. I am not sure how long exactly but it was something like 20-25 years. It ended very bitterly and the divorce itself was extremely painful for the children who were dragged through unpleasant situations and bitter financial arguments. He wishes this relationship never happened.

I don't know others that lasted as long. I remember two people from Uni who were dating for a while. She was Cancer and he was Aries. For some reason, after their breakup she was really embarrassed because he was spreading nasty rumors about her. I'm not sure exactly what happened between them. I don't even remember what the rumors were, but I know that it left her feeling very hurt and depressed. This left an impression on me because I walked into the women's bathroom once and she was bowling her eyes out in a corner because of something he had done.

That's all the "experience" - I recall of the top of my head.


I suspect that cancer men with aries woman is not such a good match. but the other way around is more suitable given that the signs are more with their gender.

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posted February 07, 2011 07:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Run Around Screaming - It's funny how it's often easier to get along with the same sex of your squares. I've noticed a lot of people saying the same thing. I usually like and befriend Cancer women - as long as they have some air & fire in their chart. If they are *extra* watery, it can get tricky.

I can't really see myself dating any of the Cancer men I've met so far.

Though, I know of two Cancers ---- (one was a poster here, *ahem* -Seeing Stars - *ahem*) and one is famous ---- both of whom I found sexually attractive, judging by photos only. They both have a fire Mars.. Aries & Leo respectively.


that happens to me with Libras, I have had so many good libra friends, but also dates.

me having enough water in may chart with my stellium in cancer+neptune in water, i shy away from too much water. when i have been atracted to cancer men. they alway had the mars in leo

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posted February 07, 2011 07:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by letram:
im surprised by the answers in this topic, i was curious to read about it because, my partner is a Cancer ASC (though her Moon, the ruler, rests in the opposite sign - Capricorn).

shes an Aquarius Sun.


it made me a ltitle concerned because i have virgo Mars and Mercury (with 3 outer planets in capricorn,) and i feel in general senses i relate to being really earthy (though firey too).

i'm a LEo Sun & ASC with an Aries Moon, (depositor is Mars in virgo, combination of "both worlds" ?)

i just hope despite how earthy i am, my aries moon and fire placements give the spark for her cancer asc, but maybe shes really into my earth that i worried for after reading this aha, (she has a 6th house mars, 10th house venus, cappy outer planets and cappy moon, though mars and venus are in aries/sagittarius).

does anyone think i should worry after reading tis thread?


No with a sun and AC in leo

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posted February 07, 2011 08:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 07, 2011 07:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Benedict Moon*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe no one answered virgo because the sextile isn't dynamic enough to generate attraction? Though that wouldn't explain why I'm very attracted to Taureans.....


Anyways, if there was an option for 'neither' I would definitely go with that just because my general experience with the males of both these signs have sucked majorly. But the OP asked for the best experiences (or the only) of the two signs that I could think of, and based on that...I'd go with aries and once more I *stress* that it was because of the Neptune in his chart.

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posted February 08, 2011 04:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay. Thanks for coming back and adding that tidbit.

Sooo which sign would you pick instead? Capricorn? Pisces? Taurus? I'm very curious to see what u'll say.

And I am attracted to Virgo guys. Just not anywhere near as sexually attracted as with Aries guys.

By the way MOJ, I'm glad u cleared that up because it's pretty true. Virgos are so passive! Not personality-wise...they have a strong will---but when it comes to taking initiative, they are.

As far as being friends with libras goes, nordicsoul. I love libras...but who doesn't? They are just so charming and nice. But there are a few libra guys I can't stand just because they seem sooo detached. That's usually a problem for me and any libra friend I make--the detachment. I cant connect emotionally with them, and it feels like I'm with a capricorn who holds back emotions so much. (but at least cappies eventually show their emotions a LOT once they open up) It's alien and repressive to me. It's a similar thing with Aquarians...and it can get depressing. Gemini's too, but not so much, bc they are pretty expressive with their face a lot of times. I've found that libras really dont care how nice a person you are, what matters to them is that you're not needy and that you're smart and know about things, are quick-witted, and can express yourself in a way that shows you're smart. Pretty superficial. Same with the rest of the air signs. However, i understand where they're coming from because my name makes me like a gemini, so i can judge others that way sometimes, too.

I sometimes feel like that with Aries and the fire signs---like they're detached. But the feeling goes away quickly. Their faces are very expressive and they seem pretty fond of showing emotion generally. Taurus and Virgo, I think, also show a fair amount of emotion as well. Capricorns do too, but, sometimes they really dont at all and that can feel alien to me. What i mean by alien is that i'm not comfortable with it. It feels cold and depressing, and i dont understand it. Not that it's a big deal, though.

I'm fine with people not expressing emotion or w/e. It's not like i judge them for it, or like i wouldnt want to be their friend. I'm just saying that i couldnt see myself with a libra as a life partner because i really really need that emotional feedback from the other person to feel happy!

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posted February 08, 2011 05:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think this article describes what you guys have been saying about Aries well
http://mobile.associatedcontent.com/article/1900630/cancer_dating_aries_compatibility_astrology.html

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posted February 08, 2011 05:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Umm...wha??

That's not how Virgos really are.

Is it?

They make them sound like sociopaths.
http://www.astromitra.com/dating-compatibility/virgo-astrology.php

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posted February 08, 2011 06:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for letram     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sexual chemistry seems to be a theme here, which makes absolute sense why these women would flock to aries..

think of an analogy of trying to start a fire with the barest materials out in the woods, waht do you need? friction.

square = friction. = fire = noticeable, hot.

but lasting compability? virgo ought to make things more peaceful and lasting.

fthese cancers i mean

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posted February 08, 2011 02:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Letram..I agree. And brilliant analysis!

But then again why are so many cancer girls saying "ugh, i could never be happy with a virgo." ??

Something strange be hap. eh.

Nin.

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posted February 08, 2011 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for letram     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
honestly?

i wouldnt be surprised if those cancers are the girls that go for badboy types then when they **** on them they complain and ask where all the nice guys are, someone just doesnt point over to the virgo crowd over there for them, but even if they do, well, where are we?

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posted February 08, 2011 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are u saying all Aries boys are douchebags and badboys?

I'm not sure....I guess they are...even if they seem all docile n stuff i'm guessing they would love to be the badboy

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posted February 08, 2011 09:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Benedict Moon*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Sooo which sign would you pick instead? Capricorn? Pisces? Taurus? I'm very curious to see what u'll say.


I'm usually attracted to Taureans and Geminis primarily (especially geminis with cancer planets), and the scorpio mooner/sun. But it looks like I'm a bit partial to anything in water too (God Help my Cancer stellium).

Its odd: I have an Aries Mars so you would automatically think I'd be attracted to aries in droves, but no...they usually get on my nerves. I also have a Virgo Moon too, but I've only had one Virgo guy experience (two if you count the guy I was sure was an aries or leo)...I just don't seem to run into them that often. My ex had a virgo mars, and I'm pretty sure thats the closest I've ever come to a romantic relationship with anything Virgoan.

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posted February 09, 2011 06:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lehia2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm I've never dated douchebags. All my relationships endly nicely and I'm still friends with some of them. So no..I wouldn't say I like "bad boys", however I've never dated an Aries. I dated a Virgo loong time ago for a few months. He was a sweetheart, but I just got bored of him, I felt like he didn't have much of a personality. I love all that action-driven Aries personality.

I'd say that the signs I've been mostly attracted to are Aquas and Leos.

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posted February 10, 2011 01:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jaw drops. Arent these the signs that r supposed to hurt us sensitive Cancerians, though?

Virgos are shy and passive a lot, that's true. But there are definitely lots of virgos out there with personality.

By the way, thanks for giving me hope that there are actual nice guys out there. Lol

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