posted February 10, 2011 11:08 AM            

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Originally posted by letram:
honestly?

i wouldnt be surprised if those cancers are the girls that go for badboy types then when they **** on them they complain and ask where all the nice guys are, someone just doesnt point over to the virgo crowd over there for them, but even if they do, well, where are we?

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i have to say that I just once dated a virgo who was very undecided and i met in the meantime the one that was my husband for 8 years. when he decided i was in a relationship with the one would be my husband. so he missed the chance and my husband was not aries but taurus and we had a very good relationship until it lasted. so no a typical jerk you are talking about.

I dated an aries and although it did not ended in marriage he was not a jerk to me. so frankly, this does not ring a bell to me.

i guess you are missing the part. it is not about JERKS or bad boys. I am not specially attracted to aries and from what I have read, most of the cancer women here either, but the questions was "would you date and aries or a virgo" and the choice was aries, but it does not mean that aries was the favorite in the horoscope

maybe astrology needs some correction. my both parents are virgo, that may be the reason i am so familiar with the virgo energy. i dont think i get anything out of virgo that i cannot get inside myself or taking to my mother. so, normally we are attracted to people who can bring something complementary or new to our lifes and something that we need. i dont think i need all the worries of virgo and negativity. cancer has enough of that. i prefer the positive outgoing aries that may not understand me as i would like too, but would not depressed me with their coldness or their worries or the tiny details.

posted February 10, 2011 03:37 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Jaw drops. Arent these the signs that r supposed to hurt us sensitive Cancerians, though?

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Mehh..I'm sensitive to a point. I do think lots of cancers dramatize and exaggerate the "oh-i'm so sensitive" .. attribute. I've been in a relationship with an Aqua for three years, and I can count the times I've been hurt by him with the fingers of one hand. My ex was a Leo and he I had to appologize to him for anything I said because "I was too blunt and hurt him" (his words).

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Virgos are shy and passive a lot, that's true. But there are definitely lots of virgos out there with personality.

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I agree; a close friend of mine is a virgo, and she has plenty of personality.
However I can't quite point my finger to what is missing, so I'll just round it up as "spark" :P

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By the way, thanks for giving me hope that there are actual nice guys out there. Lol

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Lol I'm sure you'll find the nice guy you're looking for, there's plenty of them and they're everywhere..maybe you have to be the bad girl lol.

posted February 10, 2011 05:10 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Oh so true about Leos being sensitive.

Aquas too. The aquas i've been friends with demanded a lot of me, saying that i was inconsiderate towards them and needed to be more this way or that way, then when i asked anything of them they'd run away.

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posted February 10, 2011 07:21 PM            

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Originally posted by letram:
honestly?

i wouldnt be surprised if those cancers are the girls that go for badboy types then when they **** on them they complain and ask where all the nice guys are, someone just doesnt point over to the virgo crowd over there for them, but even if they do, well, where are we?

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Wouldn't that be true for most women who are into bad boys? The one aries I was attracted to was *not* a douchebag btw. In fact, he was really sweet....nothing like the rest of them, haha.

posted February 12, 2011 11:31 PM            

sssSSMOTHA. Ssslowly

Like a
Sssssnake.....

Ssssssssssssss...

Haha okay im done

We are not that bad. But yeah i've seen other cancers be clingy and suffocating towards me.

posted February 13, 2011 12:57 AM            

I gotta say Virgo's are just too complicated. I actually dated a guy with a Virgo Moon and Aries Mars and when things first started his Mars came out and he was nice and aggressive...BUT AS SOON as emotions got into things for him his freaking Virgo Moon came out and he became WAY passive (even in terms of initiating sexually) and just too complicated. He needed to analyze EVERYTHING...this didn't help anything as my Taurus Venus got annoyed and just wanted us to be able to be physical without over complicating things. I think the only reason I was able to deal was because I am a Cap Moon...but its in the 7th so its pretty airy and not much for complicating things lol.

posted February 13, 2011 01:04 AM            

Imagine an Aries/Taurus mix, sensual, passionate, daring, and stable.

In this case Aries/Cancer is the one that I have experience with and that guy was really caring and nice, we didn't date or anything like that. It was just he was a good friend and person and his gf's always seemed to be in good hands and overall happy.

He could be adventerous and be a homebody, I think thats what made him a lovable guy and made many girls swoon.

I think with us Virgos, were hard to date because we THINK way too much. By the time were done thinking, the person has already moved on lol.

Then there's the worrying part, we worry over every little thing about our partners. We want to make sure our partners have the upmost care, but even though we think it's helpful, most see it has annoying and controlling.

Virgos can be spotaneous creatures and curious as well, and we do get bored easily we may not be all witty and fast paced like a brethean Gemini, but we are ruled by Mercury after all and we kinda have that nervous energy and needing to move around just a bit.

So Virgos do have some quirks.

When Virgos and Cancers get togther it is really easy going and comfortable, I think of a relationship like that would be great when I want to be ready to settled down when I'm older.

But..when your in 20's and out and about discovering the world and yourself, I think the Aries is the best hands down.

If you want some seriousness and to settle early Virgo.

Even better Aries with some kind of female energy as stated.

Anyways theres no real gaurantees in life, we all have to find out what works for us.

Also, reading your other thread about the Virgo Sun/Pisces Moon, opposition/full moon people are extremely fickled and indecisive, if you need a straight and quick answer we suck at it lol. We need lots of patience and thinking time and his "attitude" and influence by his brother is making it worse because we have a hard time coming to decisions on our own and look to outside forces to make decisions for us, it's really sucky I've had to depend on my Saturn to balance out the wishy washness. So maybe someone whose Sun and Moon are in agreement would be a good one to look at it.

posted February 13, 2011 06:34 AM            

So if someone asks us out we think how it's going to go, and all the possibilities; negative or positive.

Basically we analyze the unknown to death, I honestly believe some of us are afraid of what the unknown holds, it's new and different.

We get called "know it alls" because of it, but deep down we don't know anything unless we actually go through with it and that sounds uncomfortable for a typical Virgo because there's no control..there's no telling what's gonna happen.

By that time, the person as moved on, probably with a typical Aries type because Ariens are very action oriented and they usually "test" possibilities out instead of "think" them out.

I believe in this day and age Aries is favorable because courtship is sorta non-existant, it's kind of a "Hey lets jump in and see what happens" dating scene.

posted February 13, 2011 09:58 AM            

Also, I didn't know you changed your name again.

posted February 13, 2011 02:11 PM            

I have another friend who is a Cap with Virgo Moon and Sag Asc and Mars...and while she can be VERY outgoing in the typical Sag Rising and Mars way (plus Aqua Venus and Mer) she has quite a few quirks. Especially romantically! Its very much so her Virgo Moon coming into play. We feel at home with each other (which is what I felt with the Aqua). But I have a Virgo IC...and being that I am a Cancer its very strong in me. So I get the Virgo energy so much.

posted February 13, 2011 08:02 PM            

You should try to adjust your way of behaving and loving and being friends with people. Don't smother someone to death, they will not like you for it.

Anyway, I would rather date someone who's a suitable match for me, who balances out all my deficiencies and positivities, if I'm a lazy type, then I'd go for the Aries, as I already said, I need that kick to my ass!