posted February 05, 2011 03:25 AM            

Think of the hottest Virgo you know, and the hottest Aries you know lol

posted February 05, 2011 07:41 PM            

I get you seeleah. I agree that it's very comfy with virgos, but also kinda boring only because you are both pretty shy and reserved. But with an aries, though it's really hot---they are like the hotness of a scorpio times 5 to us cancers i think---but the fact is it's hard to connect emotionally with them. Kinda feels like they could leave at any second or something right?---opposite of virgo. But i found one now I have sun conjunct venus with in the composite, so let's see how this goes bc it seems that we are extremely gentle and caring towards each other. And at the same time i almost always find him sexually attractive---whereas with virgos i do only every other day.

But for me, a virgo has a lot of benefits also. Though we may not be sexually on all the time i think there is a definite sensuality and affection that always stays. And the emotional connection is def there and is very very strong---at least for me. But with Aries we cancer girls feel more girly, right? It's also more fun. But with virgo it's more cloudy and confused, you're not sure whether they're "the one" because you are both so shy that it feels sometimes like you dont even have chemistry.

posted February 05, 2011 10:00 PM            

I need a sense of impulse, straight-forwardness, an uncomplicated attitude to life and love, and a passion I can feel is about to explode when he's around me. I have never felt that with a Virgo (who, granted, made for fun conversation and smartass observations, but absolutely nothing to turn me on).

In today's day in age, you need plenty RAM in your hard drive. Even a Virgo knows this.

posted February 06, 2011 03:51 PM            

quote:

---

In today's day in age, you need plenty RAM in your hard drive. Even a Virgo knows this.

---

Ugh no. Not this Virgo. Aries turn me off so much. However, that Cancer I dated did have an Aries Mars, and THAT I didn't mind.

quote:

---

Even if sex isn't wildly passionate, there could still be a lot of love and caring in it, right? Isn't that okay, too? Someone help me with this..

---

posted February 06, 2011 04:25 PM            

Especially as refers to the problem with the lack of strong sexual attraction with the virgo

posted February 06, 2011 07:57 PM            

I'm very surprised you are all saying Aries.

I'm an Aries myself with a Cancer AC. I would strongly prefer to date a Virgo.

In my experience Aries-Cancer marriages end very badly.

posted February 06, 2011 08:56 PM            

Lol. I am also surprised that so many cancers have said Aries! I think all of them chose Aries, right? Omg. I guess they must have had some EXTREMELY boring experiences with Virgo...to choose ARIES.

I've met my share of annoying Aries guys. But I love Aries women, they're great..no problem ever getting along with them. I have also had my share of Aries friends...but absolutely no attraction to those. I've only met two Aries which I really liked non-platonically and got along really well with. I love the enthusiasm, the get up n go! and also the tender quiet side that lies underneath, and just everything about the Aries guys I've been attracted to AND actually gotten along with. These guys made me feel like the most loved girl in the world....it truly felt like i was dating a GUY for once. They would always take the initiative, and they made me feel oh so protected and like they really really appreciated me---an incredible feeling.

For me, virgos not expressing how they feel was never a problem. Sure, they are uber uber shy, but they always found the sweetest most subtle way to show how they felt, and it was the most romantic thing to me.

Even something as seemingly trivial as a kind, shy smile from them would make me melt and make me feel like it was the most romantic thing in the world, just because of the way they express love with their eyes. And the fact that they are always there willing to help and are oh so considerate is so nice. But still, i'm a cancer. I'm lazy. I need someone to put a firecracker in my butt and make me do stuff with enthusiasm. And virgo's criticism does the opposite of that. Aries on the other hand

posted February 06, 2011 09:21 PM            

The second example is my step dad and his ex wife. Again, he is a Cancer and she is an Aries. Again they were married for years. I am not sure how long exactly but it was something like 20-25 years. It ended very bitterly and the divorce itself was extremely painful for the children who were dragged through unpleasant situations and bitter financial arguments. He wishes this relationship never happened.

I don't know others that lasted as long. I remember two people from Uni who were dating for a while. She was Cancer and he was Aries. For some reason, after their breakup she was really embarrassed because he was spreading nasty rumors about her. I'm not sure exactly what happened between them. I don't even remember what the rumors were, but I know that it left her feeling very hurt and depressed. This left an impression on me because I walked into the women's bathroom once and she was bowling her eyes out in a corner because of something he had done.

posted February 06, 2011 09:30 PM            

quote:

---

I love Aries women, they're great..no problem ever getting along with them.

---

Run Around Screaming - It's funny how it's often easier to get along with the same sex of your squares. I've noticed a lot of people saying the same thing. I usually like and befriend Cancer women - as long as they have some air & fire in their chart. If they are *extra* watery, it can get tricky.

I can't really see myself dating any of the Cancer men I've met so far.

posted February 06, 2011 09:38 PM            

I do only get along well with aries with mercury in pisces, though. lol
I have merc in cancer

Oh my god, those are some pretty bad "experiences." Gah. I know a lot of square sign marriages, though, and they seem extremely happy. The rest of the marriages i know are either opposites, or neighbors in the zodiac. The opposites i know seem um, satisfied but emotionally drained at the same time, and the zodiac neighbors seem like they dont fit together at all, but somehow they look pretty happy.