posted February 25, 2011 12:07 AM            

OMG all this is soooo true. I am a cancer my boyfriend is an aries and he does the most romantic things in the world for me and just wants to share his amazing life with me. He loves taking me out and he’s artistic and loves the finer things in life and doesn’t mind paying for it either. And incredible in bed he’s always about pleasing me but he wants it everyday which is hard when I’m not in the mood. But I think even though aries are physically and emotionally demanding, they are so worth it. They will give you the world and hold the strongest morals. He is also very trustworthy I don’t know if that’s an aries trait or just him. I love being his damsel in distress it’s like a fairytale .

I am a cancer woman who has been in a relationship with an aries man for over 7 years now. He is so the knight in shining armour, always makins sure I have what I need at all times. He is so strong and his masculinity pours out of him. I get emotional, jealous and moody at times as a typical cancer girl, but he has always tried to assure me that he is very much in love with me and I have helped him become more emotionally expressive. I think this relationship can be the strongest yet because cancer girl and aries man make one heck of a strong team when working together!

This is so true!! i never read cancer and aries r compatible together.. i’m head over heels with my aries fiancee and he loves me even more, we’re planning to get married soon isA. thnx u gave me hope!

posted February 25, 2011 12:10 AM            

I have been dating an Aries man for 2 months exactly now. I’m cancer sun, scorpio moon and aquarius rising and its amazing how we just cannot get enough of each other. I love the way he just takes control, he’s a real manly man and it makes me crazy. We spend every weekend together and I dont have to beg him, he does it out of his own. He is 34 and never settled, i’m 28 and divorced with 2 kids, so my mind is way off kids right now. Just want to enjoy life. I would say that i’m a bit more adventurous than he is and maybe a bit more exciting. He’s kinda boring in that he just wants to stay in all the time. I do get moody but i let him have it, then its over and i can breathe again, instead of keeping it in and sulking. Tried that, but he’s way too stupid to notice that i’m being ugly with him…hehehe

`i’M A Aries women and I met a cancer man and he is everything that i need, he is loving, caring and romantic and express how he feels all the time, i love that about him. I’ll just pray for our future to be healthy and strong.

posted February 25, 2011 12:11 AM            

I am so so happy with my Aries man. Reading horoscopes made me a bit skeptical because every review I read on Aries and Cancer was absolutely awful. That affected me a little as a Cancerian girl, i take almost.. everything to heart, but I know what is real with him and that is that we work really really well together. I dont mind him being bossy and controlling, I love it when he takes charge. I do take charge in some ways. I was always looking for a man that could stand up to me and take control and I found him. I hate weak men that I can boss around, which I did in most of my relationships. Its such a huge turn off. Let me tell you, reading some of these comments have assured me that it can work, which I already knew, but it just confirmed it. In my case, my Peter Pan was still being a boy while I was settling down and when I came out of that when it didnt work, he was ready to settle down. I got him at the right time. My guy is the one who doesn’t like sex and I being Cancer, am very sexual. My guy is the one who stays in all the time and never wants to go anywhere cos he’s quite an introvert and shy. But not at home, when he’s with me, he’s the funniest guy in town, I have so much fun with him, its laughter all the time. We’ve had 1 fight in 9 months, but made up in the same hour. Its been 6 months since my last comment and still going strong. So, dont write off a Cancerian or an Arian, it just depends on the person. You could be missing out on the ride of your life….

Most of this is true. I’m a female aries & i’m very passionate & loud lol. I will try anything & i give amazing head I would have to say my best in bed is leo then cancer & worst is virgo then capricorn..boringgg

hi I’m a 21 year old Aries and I just started dating a cancer guy,. Well so far he is been great!, we talk a lot, he even talks more than I do (that’s incredible!). He always asks me what do I want and asks for my opinion…I just hope it stays this way because he is great….

Im a cancer woman currently dating an Aries of 2 yrs and LOVE HIM! He’s so easy and far from demanding. Maybe he’s different because I don’t fit a mold. To come to think of it, my closest female freind is an Aries too and I’ve made 4 Cancer friends through her. Is that odd or the norm?

posted February 25, 2011 12:12 AM            

” For this relationship to work there must be total understanding of the other’s needs and a lot of patience” I would like to know which relationahip on earth doesn’t need understanding & patience??? And as far as finding another easier relationship is concerned, I guess we all have our options. Anyone can walk out of a perfect relationship & not just a specific sun sign.

I am a 16 yr old cancer and i am dating a 17 yr old aries.reading some of this comments gave me hopes.ive know him for a year and some months.he does like to take control all the time tho,but i love this! he is the one that turns on the relationship.just like the crab i am i will not let him go.hes help me be more outgoing and craul out of my shell.at the beginnig i didnt have hopes for both of us.scince he would alway party and had a social life and im not that type a girl.i like for of a calm climate.but as much as hes taught me so have i.

I’m so in love with my Aries Man it is scary. He is so good to me. But I finally realized what makes him very angry with me. It’s when I get jealous (trait of the Crab) No I dont act out. But to me he is so amazing I know so many other females must see what I see. Yeah he is very friendly but I have to keep it in the perspective that it is just his charming personality.I have to remember to pull back because I can swallow him up whole because he is just that good to me. So when I back up that is when he is really at his best. To be honest when I ignore him, he wants to release more love but when I get so mushy he backs up. So i have to keep it in the middle. I know he likes mushy sometimes but I think he prides himself in that false cocky exterior that Aries really think they must maintain in order to be in control, I think our sweetness can possibly weaken them a trait they don’t want to acquire. Three years so far

Im a 17 year old -(CANCER]* I qo w. a 19 year old -(ARIES]* We been toqether since summer 08. So that makes about 10 months. He has a real big prooblem stayinq faithful . He still talks to his X from time to time . It bothers me alot but i really dont arque with him because i no he is qoinq to do what he wants reqardless. He is very bossy (&&] aqqessive bhut ; but at the same time sweet (&&] carinq . Tell you the truth his aqqressiveness turns me on. He is very sexual and always wants to make love/sex. Beinq that i lost my VIRGINITY to him ; he thinks he owns me. He is my very first love. Maybe since im a cancer i have a hard time describinq how i feel. I never told him i love him before. He ended up telling me first. I love him so much that it scares me . Im so afraid of qettinq my heart broken (&&] him leavinq me. I dont know what else to do i mean i tried everythinqq !

Sex is defo amazing, wouldnt have it anyother way, that cancer of mine rocks my sheets winks -Aries female

Im head over heels in love with my cancer. He is honest, loving, sweet ,passionate and caring. and sex is literally AMAZING. We balance eachother quite well. and frankly, i need him to calm me down and help me make smarter decisions, especially with money !

i'm going thorugh the same thing. Im a cancer ( 14 ] && my Bf is an aries ( 16 ]. I love the Aries Confidence and cockiness,Its a true turn-on to me.The aries takes me out of my shell,appreciates me,Loves me, Protects me, stands up for me && is always supporting me.

Hi. I am an Aries Bloke (Man dating a Cancer Woman. I can tell you that this is the most amazing union I have ever had. We are so compatible in many ways. I know she can get moody but I love her so much. I know you need to have patience and eventually she will come around when he have altercations. The thing is with Aries is though we are always looking for greener pasteres our true core belief is to find someone who is totally committed to the relationship and I can tell you you will never find anybody that is more committed than a cancer girl especally when it comes to family. She will show you love in many ways and you just have to be carful not to take it for granted. She does have the tendancy to be jelouse at times because I can be very friendly yet in a secret kind of way all Aries men kind of like it because they know at least she notices you and that she cares about you…. I am so attracted to her motherly ways and how she is so sweet and tender in her intimate mments. It makes the aries man want to get stronger and very protective because the aries man knows a good thing when he has it. The aries man can be very fierce when it comes to protecting thier love. Love between a Aries man and Cancer woman can be one full of passion and excitment coupled with caring and nuturing

posted February 25, 2011 12:14 AM            

I’m a female Aries and I definitely love the beard,lol.I'm under 29,but I have to say my favorite signs are Capricorn,Taurus,and Cancer

I’m an aries man…. i also looooooove the chase because it is so fun and exciting but whenever i begin dating them i become very bored and dump them or chase someone else at the same time and then dump them….. im dating an amazing cancer and its amaaaazing

Cancer understands Aries need to dominate. Aries understands Cancers need for security. Sexually these two play their roles flawlessly.

Works Best When: Aries plus Cancer works best when the protective side of both signs is balanced with the courage to take risks and open up emotionally. Wow Factor: There is a soul mate quality here when it works. The fact that little is said but a lot is understood makes this connection powerful. The Aries should get plenty of nurturing and the Cancer will secure a sense of safety and protection. When the Cancer trusts its partner, it will reveal its darker and kinkier side when it comes to sex. If the Aries is not a prude, then it will enjoy this adventure into someone else’s fantasies. The connection has to happen in the ether, if their ideals and imagination clash then it won’t work. But if they don’t clash then love can last forever. Be Aware: If the Cancer is closed down emotionally or too needy and the Aries is too dominant, then there will be control and even abuse issues here. The Aries Lesson: The chaos of emotions, the mystery of instinct and the unknown, this undefined power is what connects an Aries and Cancer to the sexual dance. The Aries must learn that mystery is not conquered through force, or by demanding actions or proof of affection. What needs to happen is the relinquishing of control to the spiritual and emotional energy and let it lead the way. The Cancer Lesson: Cancer’s tend to identify with their weaknesses and not their strengths and so they need to learn to see their feelings as something with value. The Aries is attracted to their emotional intensity and once the Aries has been enchanted by their aura, they stay close and learn how to feel without having to express it in words or provide an explanation. This teaches the Cancer that its emotional side is truly powerful.

posted February 25, 2011 12:14 AM            

its a pretty good combo cuz aries is drawn to the ultra feminine charm/looks of cancer female. and cancer feels protected by the strong masculine effects of the aries the combo is quite magnetic but also have jealousy issues. Source(s): seen lots of good aries/ cancer combos whose relationships have endured long term.

Who is my soulmate? I am an aries.

I am also Aries, my guy is Cancer and we are compatible so I’d go for Cancer ;-)

This can be a passionate combination with the potential to fulfill your romantic fantasies. You like to keep each other guessing.

– Aries : This is an action plus union. Aries – Taurus : Sensual and romantic togetherness. Aries – Gemini : Captivating conversation keeps interest.

Aries – Cancer : Mind, body, soul, connection.

Aries – Leo : Passionate – Life in the fast lane! Aries – Virgo : Opposites attract (sometimes). Aries – Libra : Aries, Assertive – Libra, Passive. Aries – Scorpio : Intense and electrifying connection. Aries – Sagittarius : Deep heart-to-heart soul bond. Aries – Capricorn : Go-getter on purpose energy. Aries – Aquarius : Quirky and adventurous – it works. Aries – Pisces : Wild and expansive imagination.

Cancer – Aries : Fast energy, quick minds, and inquisitiveness.

I Am A 18 Year Old Female, Also An Aries, And Im Engaged To My Girlfriend A 18 Year Old Cancer. The Relationship Is Amazing, It Started Off Rocky Because Of My Inconsideration For Her Feelings. My Strong Personality Caused A Few Disagreements But With Patience And Understanding It Worked Out. My Girlfriend Tends To Want My Attention All The Time But I Don’t Mind, I Actually Enjoy It. Both Of Us Can Be Equally COntrolling But Its Never A Problem. We Have The Same Goals An Dreams We Want To Accomplish Together, And We Respect Each Other, As Well As, Tend To Each Others Needs. The Sex Is Amazing And Wild, So Im Always On My Toes With What To Expect Next So Not All Cancerians Are Dogs, Cheaters, Clingy, Argumentative, Or Selfish. Its Just How You Go About Solving Problems.

I’m a cancer female and happily married to an aries for almost 12 years and the sex is unbelievable. The other signs are boring as hell. He definately loves to be on top and enjoys my orgasms.

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My notes: I noticed virgos and cancers seem to have a deeper emotional connection and call each other soulmates, and say each has a "deep love" for the other. ONE of them say the sex is good. Lol. But with Aries there's more misunderstanding, but the sex seems to be better. They write about each other in a more emotionally distant, more awkward way. It seems more like an admiration society between two very different people. 

posted February 25, 2011 12:47 AM            

In the end, it seems virgos and cancers have a soulmate connection, and aries and cancer have a more wild (passionate) connection based on diferences because it seems to be sexually charged.

posted March 01, 2011 09:06 AM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
i have to say that I just once dated a virgo who was very undecided and i met in the meantime the one that was my husband for 8 years. when he decided i was in a relationship with the one would be my husband. so he missed the chance

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Exactly. That's the definition of Virgos right there. Indecisive. That's why so many of them are bachelors. They want everything to be so perfect that they hide away analyzing rather than actually being in the relationship with the person, testing things out, (because that's the only real way to know). Or better yet they should commit to a person they like and be loyal to them and love them unconditionally...like cancers do

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Originally posted by GrlyGirl20:
I've actually dated both an Aries and Virgo lol...I prefer Aries men hands down. But then again I'm a 1st house Sun and Mars Conjunct my Asc in Cancer and for the most part I LOVE how aggressive and straigtforward they are...I'm the same way.
I gotta say Virgo's are just too complicated. I actually dated a guy with a Virgo Moon and Aries Mars and when things first started his Mars came out and he was nice and aggressive...BUT AS SOON as emotions got into things for him his freaking Virgo Moon came out and he became WAY passive (even in terms of initiating sexually) and just too complicated. He needed to analyze EVERYTHING...

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Oooh that wasn't just that one virgo honey! That's ALL virgos. Complicated with a capital C. Passive, indecisive, push-pull, in denial, hide from their emotions, appear cold, extremely shy, the works.

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Originally posted by Maka:

I think with us Virgos, we're hard
to date because we THINK way
too much. By the time we're
done thinking, the person has
already moved on lol.

Relationship wise, Virgos think
about how to go about
something "right" the first time
i.e the relationship. So if someone asks us out we
think how it's going to go, and
all the possibilities; negative or
positive. Basically we analyze the
unknown to death, I honestly
believe some of us are afraid of
what the unknown holds, it's
new and different. We get called "know it alls"
because of it, but deep down
we don't know anything unless
we actually go through with it
and that sounds uncomfortable
for a typical Virgo because there's no control..there's no
telling what's gonna happen. By that time, the person as
moved on, probably with a
typical Aries type because
Ariens are very action oriented
and they usually "test"
possibilities out instead of "think" them out. I believe in this day and age
Aries is favorable because
courtship is sorta non-existant,
it's kind of a "Hey lets jump in
and see what happens" dating
scene. Well, atleast for now on the
college scene, though not all
folks are like that.

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