posted March 07, 2011 12:51 AM            

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Originally posted by littlecloud:
yea.

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Poor thing!! IDK if I would ever want to feel that moon/pluto thing again.. It was to much for me..

posted March 07, 2011 01:55 AM            

And now, when circumstances are different, it just isn't the same. I'd love to see the first meeting chart (and the subsequent meetings as they all seemed so significantly placed). They do leave quite an indelible mark on our psyches.

One Gem I was with had a Scorpio moon, the other, Virgo. Both never forgave me for not marrying them. It takes so much to scratch under their veneer and get to something real that if they ever peep out and you do something to hurt them, you'll have to move heaven & earth to get back in their good graces.

In your case, he at least admits fault, but look at how he's making it so hard to reconnect. You are both free to try again at what seemed like something so great but was it? Reading thru it, there was quite a lot of drama (oh gawd weren't we insane in our 20's?). This smacks of unfinished business.

He's playing coy and putting up walls. You want to knock them down and get real finally! I think unconsciously you are the instigator in this relationship. Just your mere presence or force field impacts him so greatly that he's literally a bit scared of you. You had an overwhelming affect on him and Gem's are a live wire; sensitively tuned into high wave frequencies such as yourself.

posted March 07, 2011 07:25 AM            

As far as moon Pluto, it might not be as harsh because he has this aspect in his natal. From what I've come to understand hard aspects like that in synastry are dealt with more easily when one has it in the natal. But therein also lies the factor of self-awareness and maturity. I have mars quinsunx pluto which would explain why I get attracted to people that I have mars square/opposite pluto with. We also don't have moon/pluto in the composite which might make things easier.

posted March 07, 2011 10:24 AM            

He's actually the only person that I remember what time I met.. IDK even what time I met my husband... lol

Here is our 1st meeting chart and also the reunion chart..

When we first met Mercury was in Rx also rules the 5th...

First Meeting Chart

The Reunion

posted March 07, 2011 10:37 AM            

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Originally posted by littlecloud:
Lioness-
It seems you guys have reached a turning point. I'm really happy for you.

As far as moon Pluto, it might not be as harsh because he has this aspect in his natal. From what I've come to understand hard aspects like that in synastry are dealt with more easily when one has it in the natal. But therein also lies the factor of self-awareness and maturity. I have mars quinsunx pluto which would explain why I get attracted to people that I have mars square/opposite pluto with. We also don't have moon/pluto in the composite which might make things easier.

oh btw, my nn sits right on your asc Lioness.

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Makes sense

Yeah for me I have Venus sq Pluto natally it hasnt been to bad for me in synastry.. Although I do have my personally issues on it.. lol

But that moon/pluto knocked my off my feet..

posted March 07, 2011 12:53 PM            

Your correct my Venus does like like Aries Mars.. Protect me Protect me!!! lol
My Leo likes it tooo!!!

Only he doesnt show me the Aries Mars anymore

I think he shows me his moon.. (Pisces)

posted March 07, 2011 01:00 PM            

As a Gemini, he needs LOTS of communication, however, his Pisces moon needs sensitivity even more. By calling him "stranger"... even casually or playfully... can give him the wrong idea, especially when you're not officially a couple yet. His Gemini sun can be very playful, but only when his Pisces moon feels "safe". His emotional needs come first although he may not want to admit it.

Leos are sensitive creatures in that their pride is easily hurt. You want him to be open and expressive, but his Pisces moon won't allow that UNLESS he is sure he is not going to be rejected. He needs to know YOU want him. Unfortunately, that doesn't sit well with Leo. You need to be loved, admired and romanced, but this Pisces moon guy isn't giving you any of that. So... you back off. Unfortunately, Pisces moons don't have the thickest skin around and they WILL take it as rejection, and retreat.

And this:
"We went out last weekend.. I told him where I will be this Sat coming up, lets see if he shows.. I gave him enough notice.. I told him he's more than welcome to come and join me.. "

posted March 07, 2011 01:44 PM            

This is the way we are with each other.. Even back then.. I always tell him, where I will be at, and he just shows up.. (maybe his aries mars)

Ive texted him, having a get together at my house, swing by if you want... He does.. 9 out of 10x he comes.. Very rarely will he not.. IF he doesnt he will call me and let me know he cant. Or why he didnt..

We are both insecure with each other.. Not sure if you read the story of what happen..

We both have trust issues with each other, which is the main problem..

One night I told him I was going to go to a private part.. (meaning, a bar was closed to the party, it was by invite only)

He totally got the wrong impression, after I was there for about an hour or so, he texts me...
Have fun at the PRIVATE party, and dont forget to tip the strippers! Cuz private parties dont mean they are serving milk and cookies.... SO BYE!!! ttyl!!

LOL... IDK where that came from???
He just seems to think the worst of me.. HE's the one that did all the CRAP!!

posted March 10, 2011 01:04 AM            

Hummm something changed... Im not sure if its for the good or bad though... I have to sit on this one for a while and think about, or just wait and see how it plays out...