posted May 30, 2011 07:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I did not know that Mert.Can you explain more,please?

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well i found while i was searching my venus sign.

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"If your Venus is in Aries, you thrive on initiating new relationships, and don't shy from making bold propositions. There's an innocence to your invitations that softens the reserve of more guarded types. Your lust for life is contagious, but not everyone can live at your pace. You guard your independence, and would never do or say anything for the sake of the relationship. Others respect you because you stay true to yourself no matter what."

"ARIES
THESE PEOPLE ENJOY THE CHASE. THEY DESIRE OUTGOING ATHLETIC PARTNERS WHO CAN KEEP UP WITH THEM. ONCE THEY'VE COMPLETELY CONQUERED YOU, THEY LOSE INTEREST. THEY WAT YOU TO SAY "I LOVE YOU" FIRST, DON'T. THEY ENJOY TROUBLE IN LOVE, ESPECIALLY IF VENUS IS IN HARD ASPECT TO MARS. WHEN THINGS RUN SMOOTH, THEY LOSE INTEREST. THEY ENJOY SEEING THEIR PARTNERS GET JEALOUS, BUT ON THEIR SIDE, THEY COMPLETELY GO OVERBOARD.

THESE PEOPLE ARE SELFISH LOVERS, CONCERNED ONLY WITH THEIR OWN PLEASURE. HEADLOCKS WITH YOU ARM AROUND THEIR NECK, FIST ON THEIR CHIN, TURNS THEM ON. MESS UP THEIR HAIR IN THE SACK, KISS THEM ON THE EARS AND NECK. TOUCH THEIR LIPS, SOME VENUS IN ARIES WOMEN LIKE THEIR MEN WITH RAZOR STUBBLE, RUBBING AGAINST THEIR FACES WHEN KISSING THEM. SOME ENJOY ROUGH SEX. GIVE IT RIGHT BACK TO THEM. STAND UP TO THEM. THEY LOSE INTEREST WHEN THEY KNOW THEY CAN DOMINATE YOU."

posted May 30, 2011 07:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
If I had to put these 5 factors together at this point, this is what I would say.
You are a larger than life woman(Jupiter conjunct ASC)
You have Lilith conjunct Venus--raw sexuality.
You have an Aries Venus which can be very assertive with men.
You have an air void and Mercury combust the Sun which may make it hard for you to detach .You may miss cues which indicate you are going after the guy too strongly and he is uncomfortable.
Also, this may make you take any critisisms or slight too much to heart .You may THINK they guy does not like you when he does is what I mean.
This would be my current theory up to this point ,only.

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So you think I might be my own worst enemy and that I might be the one bailing out on guys or pushing them away if I think I'm being rejected?

posted May 30, 2011 09:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Well Jo
If I were you and I had someone like me who was willing to help you,I would go over all the various parts of my chart to see what I had to work with to address the problem.

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posted May 30, 2011 09:10 PM            

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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
well i found while i was searching my venus sign.

Quotes compliation
"If your Venus is in Aries, you thrive on initiating new relationships, and don't shy from making bold propositions. There's an innocence to your invitations that softens the reserve of more guarded types. Your lust for life is contagious, but not everyone can live at your pace. You [b]guard your independence, and would never do or say anything for the sake of the relationship. Others respect you because you stay true to yourself no matter what."

"ARIES
THESE PEOPLE ENJOY THE CHASE. THEY DESIRE OUTGOING ATHLETIC PARTNERS WHO CAN KEEP UP WITH THEM. ONCE THEY'VE COMPLETELY CONQUERED YOU, THEY LOSE INTEREST. THEY WAT YOU TO SAY "I LOVE YOU" FIRST, DON'T. THEY ENJOY TROUBLE IN LOVE, ESPECIALLY IF VENUS IS IN HARD ASPECT TO MARS. WHEN THINGS RUN SMOOTH, THEY LOSE INTEREST. THEY ENJOY SEEING THEIR PARTNERS GET JEALOUS, BUT ON THEIR SIDE, THEY COMPLETELY GO OVERBOARD.

THESE PEOPLE ARE SELFISH LOVERS, CONCERNED ONLY WITH THEIR OWN PLEASURE. HEADLOCKS WITH YOU ARM AROUND THEIR NECK, FIST ON THEIR CHIN, TURNS THEM ON. MESS UP THEIR HAIR IN THE SACK, KISS THEM ON THE EARS AND NECK. TOUCH THEIR LIPS, SOME VENUS IN ARIES WOMEN LIKE THEIR MEN WITH RAZOR STUBBLE, RUBBING AGAINST THEIR FACES WHEN KISSING THEM. SOME ENJOY ROUGH SEX. GIVE IT RIGHT BACK TO THEM. STAND UP TO THEM. THEY LOSE INTEREST WHEN THEY KNOW THEY CAN DOMINATE YOU."

"Venus in Aries people flirt by being up-front, direct, and even daring. They try to win you over by expressing how enterprising and independent they are. Their style of expressing love can be maddeningly "me"-centered, but the right person for them will find this approach charming. People get turned on by Venus in Aries' aura of innocent charm, even when they are being childish and impatient. "....
blaaa
since aries is a self-centered sign venus just bring original traits to surface.[/B]

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My love (in the sack) style varies, but mostly leans towards my Pisces sun. I like to be manhandled a little, but only on occasion.

My Capricorn moon prevents me from being childish and impatient. I cant' tolerate such behavior.

My Cancer ascendant craves peace, tranquility, and harmony.

posted May 30, 2011 09:17 PM            

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Originally posted by JoJo:
I'm willing Ami Anne and would love to have your help (if that's not selfish of me). What would you like me to do?

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No -it is not selfish at all. We all want to get to the bottom of who we are.Just don't fight ME when you see hard things.
I am here to help

posted May 30, 2011 09:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
No -it is not selfish at all. We all want to get to the bottom of who we are.Just don't fight ME when you see hard things.
I am here to help

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posted May 30, 2011 09:48 PM            

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Originally posted by JoJo:
I'm sorry. I didn't realize I was. I was just asking questions. Sorry if it came across like I was being difficult. That wasn't my intention.

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Well JoJo
Remember it is you that is hard to face. It is that way for all of us.
Someone who TRULY gives to us helps us face the truth, the truth of who we are.
That is where all healing begins.

posted May 30, 2011 11:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I want to give and share but I do not want to fight with a person's denial.
I will not persist if I find myself doing that

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I'm confused. I've gone back over this time and again and don't see me denying anything. When I was young I was very clingy, selfish, angry, insecure, and a drama queen among other things. But I didn't like myself too much back then and I wasn't happy with my life. Because of that, I've done a ton of work over the last two decades and it has taken everything I've had to seek out and deal with every bad part of myself that I either saw myself or someone told me I had. I have gone to the pits of hell inside my soul, wrestled with the demons there, and emerged as a better, stronger woman.

I know exactly how dark I can be and what I'm capable of, and make the conscious choice to not go there. I have incredible self control and have no problem walking away when I'm not wanted or when I don't want someone in my life. I am known for taking the high road, holding my tongue, forgiving others, and being extremely hard to offend.

These characteristics are mine as a result of hard work and conscious choice, despite what my chart may say to the contrary.

posted May 31, 2011 07:42 AM            

1. Chart Ruler Moon in 6th squared by Saturn.

2. Ruler of 7th is Uranus which is retrograde and is opposed by Chiron and conjunct Retrograde Pluto. Tough luck in finding a Soul Mate.

Solution: Neglect of Spiritual Talent is costing you dearly. A Pisces with a very rare Spiritual Grand Trine must use this "Force". Asc+Jupiter trine Neptune trine Chiron is exact. How many human beings get this blissful aspect?

Mentally let go of all the men you have been with.

Visualize the right kind of man you need, mentally visualize yourself doing the kind of things you want him to be doing,
start doing those in baby steps. Visualize you being appreciated unconditionally by this Mystery Man as well.

And voila... he will serendipitously appear.

And do try thinking of love while listening to this piece: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CQUGUDc-fZQ

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posted May 31, 2011 09:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Yrone:
Don't forget to breathe

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posted May 31, 2011 11:13 AM            

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Originally posted by JoJo:
LOL. So true. So true. It's funny you said that to me as that is my personal mantra. Thanks :-)

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It's a quote from a "cheesy" Hollywood Martial Art movie ( /shrug I like it a lot, it's fun, and with my favourite <3 Jet Li)

Basically, the student is all tense and anxious about the big destiny task he has ahead and is asking his teacher "what if, when if" etc

Teacher just smiles and says "Don't forget to breathe"

posted May 31, 2011 03:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Yrone:

It's a quote from a "cheesy" Hollywood Martial Art movie ( /shrug I like it a lot, it's fun, and with my favourite <3 Jet Li)

Basically, the student is all tense and anxious about the big destiny task he has ahead and is asking his teacher "what if, when if" etc

Teacher just smiles and says "Don't forget to breathe"

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What is more funny is that I had a long reply but suddenly decided to just post that ;p

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