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mintgirl123
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posted November 13, 2011 01:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Virgo lol. But I have a scorpy eros and my pluto is in my 8th house in scorpy conjunct eros by 1 degree, so I'm really into sex? Just not casually??

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posted November 13, 2011 01:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Virgo lol. But I have a scorpy eros and my pluto is in my 8th house in scorpy conjunct eros by 1 degree, so I'm really into sex? Just not casually??

Yee, I suppose it's the fire Mars influence. c:

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posted November 13, 2011 01:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BelligerentPygmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars in Cancer, 6th house
Venus in Virgo, 7th house

My brain is hard-wired like a guy's; I basically make it pretty clear that I'm interested then wait and see if it's reciprocated or not. If not, on to the next one. I'm usually the one doing the approaching in some way.

The way most women do things is weird to me. Trying to play hard to get, waiting for the guy to come to them and everything. That's just silly to me and wastes a lot of time. Why not just make it clear that you like them and see where the chips fall?

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posted November 13, 2011 02:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ woah lol what's your sun, moon and asc?
A cancer mars that's straight forward, wow. That's a first haha.

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posted November 13, 2011 02:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
^ woah lol what's your sun, moon and asc?
A cancer mars that's straight forward, wow. That's a first haha.

LET'S SEE IF I REMEMBAH! BP has a Leo Sun, Libra moon and...and Air Asc. if I recall correctly!

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Virgo Asc/Cap Sun/Aqua Moon/Scorp Venus/Cap Mars

I just let guys approach me. If he's coming on too strong or acts stupid, then ignore. If he's classy, then I'll be very sweet.

I don't have crushes. I think it's Moon conjunct Juno that makes me only interested when they're interested in me. Also, I'm scared of being hurt when vulnerable so I play it safe.

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posted November 13, 2011 02:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls**     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Virgo lol. But I have a scorpy eros and my pluto is in my 8th house in scorpy conjunct eros by 1 degree, so I'm really into sex? Just not casually??


Virgo makes you picky, Scorpios/8th house stuff tend to make you want something deeper.

For me, Pisces is into LOVE but it goes beyond sex. I can love someone but have it be a completely platonic relationship. Sex is separate. As far as getting off goes, I like variety and novelty. One night stands aren't a big deal to me. F*ck buddies aren't a big thing, either. Sag, for you.

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posted November 13, 2011 03:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for enchantress     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey redscorp, r u a girl or a guy? is this how you would act if you like someone? do you casually flirt with girls/dudes, even with those ones you dont really like? do you try to do something silly just to get notice by that 'special someone' (mars in leo?)? would you try to talk to them a lot but still try to act cool so that people won't get suspicious that you like that preson? (venus in scop?) u'll try to show off, hoping that she/he will notice you? you're not really good at chasing someone you like because you're araid of rejection..unless you're really really sure that your 'crush' likes you back..am i right? these are just based on my observation with someone who have the same placements as you, but please feel free to tell me how else you usually do the 'chasing', cause i'm currently trying to figure out my crush with the same placements as you

me: venus in scorp (H1), mars in cancer

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posted November 13, 2011 03:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by enchantress:
hey redscorp, r u a girl or a guy? is this how you would act if you like someone? do you casually flirt with girls/dudes, even with those ones you dont really like? do you try to do something silly just to get notice by that 'special someone' (mars in leo?)? would you try to talk to them a lot but still try to act cool so that people won't get suspicious that you like that preson? (venus in scop?) u'll try to show off, hoping that she/he will notice you? you're not really good at chasing someone you like because you're araid of rejection..unless you're really really sure that your 'crush' likes you back..am i right? these are just based on my observation with someone who have the same placements as you, but please feel free to tell me how else you usually do the 'chasing', cause i'm currently trying to figure out my crush with the same placements as you

me: venus in scorp (H1), mars in cancer


Well Im not red (he he he) But I have Leo Mars Venus in Cancer..
(Venus square pluto)
I would have to say YEAP... only you left out putting on the charm

OOOO how I can charm..

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posted November 13, 2011 03:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Intense_Aquavixen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus: Capricorn
Mars: Scorpio

I'm the aggressor, but methodical. I have to size up my prey (that's what they are in my mind) I'm very blunt (Aries Moon) I go after cautiously and particulary with strategy, and I'm really about mental connections so I execute with great word play (that Cap Venus conjunct 3H) and then I come on very intense and somewhat seductive (that Sco Mars conjunct Asc)

Anyone coming at me is under microscope and at a good distance. This would be the full on Cap/Sco combo...I'm skeptical and I need to size YOU up and choose you, not the other way around in most cases...

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posted November 13, 2011 03:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by enchantress:
hey redscorp, r u a girl or a guy?

Well what do YOU think? Read a few a my comments and stuff or something, then take a guess, okay? C:

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do you casually flirt with girls/dudes, even with those ones you dont really like? do you try to do something silly just to get notice by that 'special someone' (mars in leo?)? would you try to talk to them a lot but still try to act cool so that people won't get suspicious that you like that preson? (venus in scop?) u'll try to show off, hoping that she/he will notice you? you're not really good at chasing someone you like because you're araid of rejection..unless you're really really sure that your 'crush' likes you back..am i right?

Casually flirt? HELLZ YEAH. And I act to the special someone how I would anyone else (in person), but maybe ramp up my normal theatrics. Laugh more, smile more, talk to their best friends, anything ta at least get them ta notice me.

And I talk to like, a lot of people about who I like and stuff. I'm pretty open and honest, lol. I don't exactly chase them, per se. I let my feelings develop, fester, and when I'm ready, I'll tell 'em! What happens next I'll never know!

But that's when I'm not using my powers of attraction... ;D

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posted November 13, 2011 03:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for enchantress     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
venus in scorpio
mars in cancer

if i like someone but we're not friends (acquaintances) i tend to just watch them and become shy around them.. sometimes i'll stare at them and see if they'll stare back..i'll repeat doing it for a couple of times (but not constantly of course!) and if they will still look back at me, then i'd start to be a little friendly with them and i would try to be around them as much as possible

if it is someone that i am friends with' i'm more likely to act friendly around him, i'd like to talk to him as much as possible but not making it look like i'm interviewing him LOL, i'll ask him about himself and stuff, i'll try to hint him that i like him but also not giving everything to him all at once..i'll try to be mysterious hehehe, sometimes i would just shut down and ignore him and distant myself from him if he did something that made me jealous and wait for him if he would still come around..if he flirted with other girls, then i'd flirt with other guys too while in front of him, if he'll come to me the next day and will try to talk to me, be around me, or try to get my attention from afar, that's when i know he likes me but i would always do nothing about it but only drop hints that i like him, you can never ever make me confess that i like someone unless i'm sure that he likes me back and has given me signs that he likes me back..but i still think the other party has to make the first move though..

i almost told my guy friend that i like him before we left school, i just got nervous and froze inside and changed the topic..very rare for a scorpio venus with mars in cancer person to even think about admitting that they like someone unless they've fallen heads over heels for that person

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posted November 13, 2011 03:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MertSerimer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am Sun Conjunct Venus in sagittarus, opposite mars in gemini... I dont chase

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posted November 13, 2011 03:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for enchantress     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
okayy i'll take a guess and say you're a chic , what sign is your moon? this guy i'm talking about has moon in scorpio and has 5 planets in scorp..maybe his mars in leo makes him a flirt but not a terrible flirt because of his moon? what do you think?

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posted November 13, 2011 03:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Venus in Scorpio (1st house)
Mars in Pisces (5th house)

After the prying for info, lurking, etc. I tend to make conversation with him..being friendly, flirty, but not overtly direct unless it's been bugging me for so long that I finally just blurt out "YEAH, I LIKE YOU. A LOT." I did that once and then awkwardly slammed the door in the guy's face and made him go home.

I'm awkward when it comes to pursuing a guy...I actively do so, but I'm a weirdo about it.


ROFL!!!

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posted November 13, 2011 03:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by enchantress:
okayy i'll take a guess and say you're a chic , what sign is your moon? this guy i'm talking about has moon in scorpio and has 5 planets in scorp..maybe his mars in leo makes him a flirt but not a terrible flirt because of his moon? what do you think?

Haha, naw man, I be a guy. ;D

And I have my moooooon in Capricorn. What house is his moon in? Mine's in the third house, so that could explain how much of a "hoe", as some of my friends call me. The planet of emotions in the house of communication...easy and lively expression?

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posted November 13, 2011 04:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Haha, naw man, I be a guy. ;D

REALLY!!!!!!! Wow scratching head... LOL

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posted November 13, 2011 04:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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REALLY!!!!!!! Wow scratching head... LOL


...
YOU DIDN'T KNOW?!
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

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posted November 13, 2011 04:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for L0veLess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i have venus in cap and mars in sag.
I get a lot of weirdo bleh guys into me. I guess i kinda lead people on. But some guys i see as easy and i find a way to get into conversation with them and then i ask them things and give unexpected responses and i guess thats how i get them to think i'm into them. I just like to charm them and make them feel special. buuut if it's a guy i actually liek then i turn cold and act like they don't exist and I never get anywhere. -_- So oh well. I've never had a boyfriend. I hardly see guys that really interest me.
Also, kissing kinda gets boring to me. I'm a terrible kisser but i can't spend forever making out it's just kinda meh.

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posted November 13, 2011 04:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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...and act like they don't exist and I never get anywhere. -_-


LOL

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posted November 13, 2011 04:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for L0veLess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
it's tragic really! :/
I have to act like my emotions are some big secret. I'm uncomfortable saying how i really feel.

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posted November 13, 2011 04:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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YOU DIDN'T KNOW?!
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

IDK first I thought tux was female, but then later thought differently I then changed my mind and said tux is male... So then you just kinda fell into the female group... LOL

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posted November 13, 2011 04:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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IDK first I thought tux was female, but then later thought differently I then changed my mind and said tux is male... So then you just kinda fell into the female group... LOL

HAAAAHAHAHA. Oh Lioness, I like you a lot. c:

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posted November 13, 2011 04:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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HAAAAHAHAHA. Oh Lioness, I like you a lot. c:

LOL... Dont worry Im sure that wont last long

hahahhahahahhahah

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posted November 13, 2011 04:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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it's tragic really! :/
I have to act like my emotions are some big secret. I'm uncomfortable saying how i really feel.

Aquarius?

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