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Topic: Venus + Mars. How Do You Chase?
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RedScorp
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posted November 12, 2011 09:47 PM
  
So this thread, http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/210502.html, got me thinking and wondering: How do you pursue yer object of affection?BettyBoop, you especially got me thinking with yer little monologue about da Pisces and all dat. :'D I have a Venus in Scorpio and a Mars in Leo. How do you think I chase my lovers? And what about you!? How do you chase your lovers? IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 12, 2011 10:18 PM
Venus Cancer
Mars LeoIm super passive/aggressive... I will do the Leo thing, and do some flirting. 
I will show the interest. I may call the guy for a few days.. Talking and asking a lot of questions.. Then bam I will just stop, no phone calls, no nothing...
IF he doesnt call me, or show me an effort, I just kind of back off. Figuring he's not interested.
If he does call, then I will continue the flirting, and calling until bam again nothing... LOL
I guess Im super flaky.. here.
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RedScorp
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posted November 12, 2011 10:38 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
...I guess Im super flaky.. here.
Lmfao! I don't think that's flaky. Mmfph, the Leo thing. I like the Leo thing. I also do the Leo thing - shameless and unconditional flirting. AS I'M SURE EVERYONE HAS SEEN ALREADY............................. EDIT! I regret nothing. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 12, 2011 10:41 PM
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
Lmfao! I don't think that's flaky. Mmfph, the Leo thing. I like the Leo thing. I also do the Leo thing - shameless and unconditional flirting.AS I'M SURE EVERYONE HAS SEEN ALREADY............................. EDIT! I regret nothing.
LMAO!!!
Yeah.. but its all harmless joking around... Its very natural for me to flirt... I do it, when Im not even thinking about it... LOL
Even though its perfectly innocent. Thats the Leo thing...  IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan
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posted November 12, 2011 10:42 PM
Good question. How do I chase...Well, I've got Mars in Aries and Venus in Leo. I'm a patient pursuer. I like to take time to evaluate people. Months even. Once I decide their worth it, I make myself known (Venus in Leo). I try to stand out and draw attention to myself, in a subtle way. Laughing, smiling, wearing clothes that are vibrant and eccentric. And once I've gotten their attention, I'll ignore them completely  . Until they approach me. And then it's like the sun is shinning all over me. I'm glowing and charismatic (Venus in the 7th) and engaging. I smile a lot and throw in a few pouts, and of course my seductive grin. The chase for me is all about attention. If I don't get any, my fire burns out (Mars and Venus in Fire).....  IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted November 12, 2011 10:48 PM
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Originally posted by NativelyJoan:
...Laughing, smiling, wearing clothes that are vibrant and eccentric...
Oh, you sound beautiful. quote:
I'm glowing and charismatic (Venus in the 7th) and engaging.
Uh, side question, but how would a Venus in First be like? >w> IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan
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posted November 12, 2011 10:59 PM
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RedScorp: Uh, side question, but how would a Venus in First be like? >w>
Thanks for the compliment . Well Venus is at home in the 7th, and having Venus in the 1st would make the expression of this particular placement through the realm of the personality itself. It would be similar to Libra Rising. In addition to the ascendant and other first house planets. They'd likely be charismatic and attractive, having Venus Rising is a very beautiful thing! Venus/1st House (short excerpt) "The placement of Venus in the first house places high value on being well-liked, and may be occupied with the way they look, dress and behave. The individual goes out in the world wanting to please and cultivate a pleasant persona. They are also likely to be concerned and preoccupied with their own attractiveness. While not always classically beautifully, there is something delightfully charming, gracious, and attractive about them, and these endearing qualities are pleasing on first meeting."
(http://theastrologyplace.blogspot.com/2011/01/venus-in-1st-house.html) IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted November 12, 2011 11:03 PM
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Originally posted by NativelyJoan:
It would be similar to Libra Rising. In addition to the ascendant and other first house planets. They'd likely be charismatic and attractive, having Venus Rising is a very beautiful thing!
...I have a Libra Rising as well. *self-confidence boost* IP: Logged |
downtomars
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posted November 12, 2011 11:27 PM
I don’t pursue, I am pretty passive when it comes to starting relationships and I let the men pursue me (Venus in Leo conj DC and trine MC). They often go out if their way to get my attention or impress me (Leo 7th house). It usually gets pretty intense quickly if I am also into them and it starts from there (Only means that I heavily flirt back not physically intense! Mars trine Moon-Pluto conjunction in 9th-8th house). I haven’t really had a crush to pursue since I was in high school. Back then as soon as I was interested in someone I became their friends and I told them right away, often in some dramatic letter! (Mars in Gemini in the 5th). Sometimes it would work out and we’d “go out” or start “talking” and sometimes I’d get rejected. I never believed in the “I’ll die if he finds out” super-secret thing because what is the worst that could happen? (Aqua Rising, Venus trine Uranus <widely> )…IP: Logged |
Leenie16
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posted November 12, 2011 11:48 PM
Hi Venus in Taurus
Mars in Aries I put myself in situations where I know I'll have interactions with whoever I'm into. I wait for them to talk to me. If they start flirting with me I'll do the same. If not I keep it friendly. Sometimes I get what I want and sometimes I don't. Then if I'm dating a guy they have to call me or text me first. I have some sort of problem being vunerable and them knowing how much I like them. It takes about a month before I'll intiate any kind of contact. Basically till I'm sure where we stand relationship status wise. IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted November 12, 2011 11:54 PM
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Originally posted by Leenie16:
...Basically till I'm sure where we stand relationship status wise.
All sounds very Taurus, :'D. IP: Logged |
Leenie16
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posted November 13, 2011 12:00 AM
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
All sounds very Taurus, :'D.
So funny because when I was typing my answer out I realized how big an impact that taurus is on me! Interesting. You made me think RedScorp IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted November 13, 2011 12:05 AM
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Originally posted by Leenie16:
So funny because when I was typing my answer out I realized how big an impact that taurus is on me! Interesting. You made me think RedScorp
Aw, you flatter me. c: IP: Logged |
BeholdAstarte
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posted November 13, 2011 01:01 AM
my venus is in scorpio and my mars is in libra. but my venus is conjunct pluto in 7th and my mars is conjunct my sun/merc in 6th. so im sure that makes a bit of difference. when i like someone, i get really obsessive, not outwardly though. i dont make it really obvious or anything but ill think about them allllll the time and go out of my way to try to see them or whatever. i think mars in libra falls head over heels pretty fast plus scorpio venus/pluto makes me fall even harder and very deep. all my attention usually goes to whoever i like and ill be pretty assertive in my affection once i know the other person likes me. the flirtation is sorta sensual, i like to touch and be close. intellectual rapport is always the best too. but i tend to hold myself back until i know its safe to fully express how much i like someone, i usually feel like my feelings are a lot stronger than the other person so i just keep them to myself and show only half of what im really feeling cause i dont want to get hurt i guess. if im going on a date i usually like to wear something really sultry and dark/sexy complexion. IP: Logged |
BeholdAstarte
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posted November 13, 2011 01:04 AM
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
So this thread, http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/210502.html, got me thinking and wondering: How do you pursue yer object of affection?BettyBoop, you especially got me thinking with yer little monologue about da Pisces and all dat. :'D I have a Venus in Scorpio and a Mars in Leo. [b]How do you think I chase my lovers? And what about you!? How do you chase your lovers?[/B]
well, i dunno the rest of your chart but i would think that in a way you would go after your loves like me i dont know how intense it is though haha it might be lightened. fall head over heals and bitter if the love isnt returned or appreciated. IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted November 13, 2011 01:10 AM
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Originally posted by BeholdAstarte:
...go after your loves like me....
Do you have the same Venus-Mars combo? O: EDIT! OOPS, I didn't see your first comment. IP: Logged |
hannarama
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posted November 13, 2011 01:16 AM
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
I have a Venus in Scorpio and a Mars in Leo. [b]How do you think I chase my lovers? And what about you!? How do you chase your lovers?[/B]
Hmm I see you creeping up real slow and stealth like and then walloping them over the head and dragging them off to your cave, never even revealing your last name. Or you pursue very big and confident and then you show (show... I mean HOOK) them with your sensitive side. ME? I don't anymore. I just have a good time and if I get approached cool, if I don't - I feel a little crummy drunken strangers don't find me ******** enough but my life goes on. When I LIKE someone though I usually just befriend them and see if how they react to me. If the vibe is comfortable enough I might test the waters a little bit, but if they talk about other girls they think are hot I immediately change my perspective and set myself up for a passing friendship. I guess you could say that's a defense mechanism but eh... I'm not very competitive in love. I don't feel I should have to be, he should know I'm the **** by knowing me already. Venus in Aries (H11)
Mars in Gemini (H12)
And for what it's worth: Moon in Taurus (H11) IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted November 13, 2011 01:22 AM
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Originally posted by hannarama:
Hmm I see you creeping up real slow and stealth like and then walloping them over the head and dragging them off to your cave, never even revealing your last name. Or you pursue very big and confident and then you show (show... I mean HOOK) them with your sensitive side.
LMAO IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 13, 2011 01:34 AM
I tease and playfully banter with somebody I'm interested in. I might diss them and "put them down"(not in an offending way, more benign and not offending lol). I might challenge them and try to bring out their 'competitive' side. I may laugh and act alittle coy at times... But back in the past, sometimes my aries asc side shows and I dn't beat around the bush, but generally, you can't really tell if I like someone. I don't make it very obvious? I act kinda oblivious to them lol... At times and may be alittle cold. It's just cos I'm alittle shy haha. I may smile sweetly and avoid their gaze haha or beam and give them my dimpled smile.
But generally... Kinda nonchalant and apathetic. Damn my virgo mars lol.
I like having long conversations with sb I'm interested in, and show them my understanding side. I'm a very good listener lmfao.Libra moon+venus+mercury ---7th house
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amowls**
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posted November 13, 2011 01:38 AM
Wait until a cute dude shows me interest, flirt shamelessly, sleep with them and then treat them like we're good buds. If they want to date, cool, but if not, on to the next one. I don't approach. I lie in wait.Venus in Pisces (square Saturn/Uranus & Chiron)
Mars in Sag (mutual reception trine to Jupiter, opposite Chiron) IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 13, 2011 01:40 AM
^ wow so you take sex pretty casually yeah?IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted November 13, 2011 01:42 AM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
^ wow so you take sex pretty casually yeah?
Must be the fire, 'cause I kinda take it casually as well. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 13, 2011 01:43 AM
But I'm an aries asc, and I'm passionate and love sex... But I sure aren't the type to jump into bed just cos I fancy them. Gotta be more than that.IP: Logged |
frankie2912
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posted November 13, 2011 01:44 AM
Venus in Scorpio (1st house)
Mars in Pisces (5th house)After the prying for info, lurking, etc. I tend to make conversation with him..being friendly, flirty, but not overtly direct unless it's been bugging me for so long that I finally just blurt out "YEAH, I LIKE YOU. A LOT." I did that once and then awkwardly slammed the door in the guy's face and made him go home. I'm awkward when it comes to pursuing a guy...I actively do so, but I'm a weirdo about it. IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted November 13, 2011 01:45 AM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
But I'm an aries asc, and I'm passionate and love sex... But I sure aren't the type to jump into bed just cos I fancy them. Gotta be more than that.
Where's yer Mars? IP: Logged |
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