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BelligerentPygmy
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posted November 13, 2011 04:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BelligerentPygmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
^ woah lol what's your sun, moon and asc?
A cancer mars that's straight forward, wow. That's a first haha.

Leo sun
Libra moon
Aquarius Ascendant

My Mars is squared by like, Pluto, Saturn AND Jupiter though.

I've actually proposed to guys before as well.

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RedScorp
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posted November 13, 2011 04:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by BelligerentPygmy:
Leo sun
Libra moon
Aquarius Ascendant

YEEYEYE I was right! :'D

I remembered, go me.

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BelligerentPygmy
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posted November 13, 2011 04:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BelligerentPygmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
YEEYEYE I was right! :'D

I remembered, go me.


LOOOOOOL

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posted November 13, 2011 05:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xiiro     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Venus is in Scorpio and Mars is in Leo too. If I like a guy, I'll manifest the perfect scenario for him to pursue me. Then I sit around looking pretty and being super interesting until he is unable to resist my shiny magnetism (aka manipulation skills LOL). Back when I dated women, it was more a situation of pursuing a deep, meaningful, and playful rapport. Then things just kinda fell into place from there.

For general pursuit of objects or goals, I try to understand everything about my goal and how to acquire it. I then use that understanding and a bunch of creativity to earn whatever I am trying for.

Yay Venus/Mars Manticore!

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RedScorp
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posted November 13, 2011 05:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Xiiro:
Yay Venus/Mars Manticore!

AW YEAH! And high five fer the same Venus/Mars combo! *high fives* What's yer houses at, yo'?

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Xiiro
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posted November 13, 2011 05:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xiiro     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
AW YEAH! And high five fer the same Venus/Mars combo! *high fives* What's yer houses at, yo'?

Venus in the 8th and Mars in the 5th. =)

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posted November 13, 2011 07:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Swift Freeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by BeholdAstarte:
my venus is in scorpio and my mars is in libra. but my venus is conjunct pluto in 7th and my mars is conjunct my sun/merc in 6th. so im sure that makes a bit of difference.

when i like someone, i get really obsessive, not outwardly though. i dont make it really obvious or anything but ill think about them allllll the time and go out of my way to try to see them or whatever. i think mars in libra falls head over heels pretty fast plus scorpio venus/pluto makes me fall even harder and very deep. all my attention usually goes to whoever i like and ill be pretty assertive in my affection once i know the other person likes me. the flirtation is sorta sensual, i like to touch and be close. intellectual rapport is always the best too. but i tend to hold myself back until i know its safe to fully express how much i like someone, i usually feel like my feelings are a lot stronger than the other person so i just keep them to myself and show only half of what im really feeling cause i dont want to get hurt i guess. if im going on a date i usually like to wear something really sultry and dark/sexy complexion.


Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Libra

I can say you pretty much got the description down BeholdAstarte. Thats almost exactly how I feel. However, it doesn't usually progress to the point where I can be assertive about my feelings. Maybe this is because i'm a guy and most women tend to either be coy or play coy and don't really let me know where I stand with them. You'll know I like you if i'm looking at you across a crowded room or just generally watching you with fascination.

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posted November 13, 2011 07:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartless     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i'd take my sweet time observing them for ages and ages (they would not know i even exist). i'd do some 'research' during this time (moon square pluto). one day they, somehow sense a tension, approach me (i never approach them).

my Mars and Venus are in Taurus (H8).

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posted November 13, 2011 08:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for enchantress     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
Haha, naw man, I be a guy. ;D

woopsies! my bad! haha, swear you 'sounded' like a girl to me!! anyway..i don't really know which house his moon is :/ i just hope he won't become a huge flirt! cause i can get jealous so easily -__- and tend to hold on to things far too long that it hurts >.< he's going to this party and i'm not sure if i could come..i'm really hoping he isn't going to flirt with anyone but that sounds a bit ironic for anyone with mars in leo haha

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posted November 13, 2011 10:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey

Libra mars and venus (is it a good thing to have same sign for both love planets?) Does this make me a libra when it comes to love and expression of love?

I do not chase as such, but I like to start off communicating to see if I like you or not. I do get love and friendship confused cause it is important for me to friends with my lover.

I suppose I do "chat" someone up in I am interested but if the verbal chemistry and banter is not there, i do lose interest.

Details are important to me, my venus in virgo, mars in taurus friend noticed that I had pretty napkins etc and this made me very happy for some reason!

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posted November 13, 2011 10:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Aqua here.
I don't chase. My Venus would love to be more aggressive but she's in square with my Mars and opposition with my Moon, so most of the times, I let them come to me.
I do flirt though. And I will talk to them. As a Sag Sun, I like a level of friendship before things can proceed at all.
My Mars in Aqua on my Asc makes me seem aloof to the men I like. Many have told me that I don't come across as "interested" in them. You have to get to know my Venus in Scorpio before you can see how interested I really am. True.

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heartstrings
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posted November 13, 2011 11:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for heartstrings     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^^ yeh, a lot of people have no idea at all how much we're actually in-love with someone, even those ones that are close to us we don't really like chasing cause we hate coming off as 'cheap' (can't really think of other words to describe it)

scorpio venus here!

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RedScorp
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posted November 13, 2011 12:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Man! Lotsa Scorpio Venuses here! Maybe because I have it in the first house I'm supah expressive about it?

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heartstrings
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posted November 14, 2011 03:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for heartstrings     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
Man! Lotsa Scorpio Venuses here! Maybe because I have it in the first house I'm supah expressive about it?

hey, i have mine in the first house too!..but i'd say i'm not expressive at all! everything's just subtle but at the same time making sure that i drop hints here and there to show that i like him i'm never really straightforward about it

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posted November 14, 2011 10:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by heartstrings:
hey, i have mine in the first house too!..but i'd say i'm not expressive at all! everything's just subtle but at the same time making sure that i drop hints here and there to show that i like him i'm never really straightforward about it

It actually turns out my Venus be in the third, yo'.
Communication house = talking about it?

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posted November 15, 2011 03:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
coquette.

mars in scorpio/ venus in taurus.

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The key and the strategy of The Coquette is to never offer total satisfaction. We imitate the alternating heat and coolness. One might be wise to remind themselves that The Coquette is a seducer type and not a victim type. Rationally speaking and is the preferred seducer of the masochist, the unwary and the neurotic. Many are not yet aware of the particular neuroses that will bind us together to the Coquette. You may even discover this Coquette who is so skilled they can literally make us “crazy for them”.
Coquettes know this and don’t want to have a billboard over there head that says “He is a Coquette, run now”. No way, it is Ok for you to see The Coquette tease others but for you it will be different (wink).
What does this feel like? Well you really shouldn’t even think about this to start... Ok for example, what would it feel like if you started talking to me suddenly you began to feel this odd sensation or an itch only I could scratch and I was not doing it? And you might find yourself beginning to focus on me and my unique ability to be the only one to properly scratch that itches, well that would be crazy right? And then maybe I would come over and leisurely give you a light scratching and let you notice how absolutely blissful this feels…and then without notice STOP! Why did he stop?
The itch hasn’t yet been full scratched, I am the only one on this planet who can do it, and begin again with relative ease but I will not, Why? This perplexing is only interrupted with this growing wonder, desire and need to the point where having to have the itch scratched again and the half itching has now only made the compulsion that I finish scratching it exponentially amplified. Notice what it’s like with something as simple as this back scratch, imagine what if that scratch was all you emotions, motivation and sexual desires. For me it is not necessary for you to find yourself pondering that this is the beginning. To realize that you are feeling incredibly connected, enchanted and yes perhaps unbelievably horney to let this magic begin to happen deeper the sooner the better.
With me, Coquetry is seduction that appears to defy logic yet I am convinced at the effectiveness. I would invite you to notice why would some who wants to seduce another act contrary to the overt behaviors of attraction? This apparent inconsistency has to do with how humans response to the law of scarcity and Sir Isaac Newton

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posted March 18, 2012 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Melodie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Capricorn
Mars in Scorpio

Coy. I think that would be the best word to describe me. But I don't like it when guys do the chasing (much to the dismay of my somewhat traditional Asian mom). It makes me feel pressured and cornered. I choose you and I'll get to you on my own time, bud :P.

I watch and observe. I won't treat you any different, but I will make more of an effort to engage in conversation. If I know I'm going to run into you, I'll make sure to look my best, but not overdone. Once I lure you in, we get to know each other until that underlying tension gets to be too much and I have to talk about our feelings. Do we continue or stop there?

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posted March 18, 2012 09:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Gemini
Mars in Taurus

Honestly I don't directly pursue anyone. I don't even like when men aggressively pursue me i find it to be a turn off; being emotionally intense or intellectually intense is closer to my preference. There have been a few times when I don't realize I am flirting with someone even when I am not exactly trying to....The things that please me romantically and sexually are quite different.

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posted March 19, 2012 01:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Charlotte_E     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm.

Venus - Pisces (8H)
Mars - Pisces (7H)

I have been approached for sex a number of times, to my shock. :O

When they do, I get scared and elude. Men seem to think I am parading my ass to them. (???)

Most recent happening was probably some guy with a Mars in Scorpio who offered me 70 thousand dollars to marry him. Well, at least that one made my day!

(Didn't accept, of course...I had a BF with Mars also in Scorp -- though he is broke, I love him all the same! LOL)


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posted March 19, 2012 02:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fondue Knight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Taurus, Mars in Cancer.

I don't chase...


I have a LOT of feminine energy in my chart, and one manifestation of such is that I prefer to attract suitors to me like a delicate flower in a garden. Unfortunately, I must give off the vibe of a Venus Fly Trap because I haven't been pollinated in a damn long time.

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posted March 19, 2012 02:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Charlotte_E     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Siren here. Always respectful of the skill

quote:
Originally posted by sand:
coquette.

mars in scorpio/ venus in taurus.

[QUOTE]The key and the strategy of The Coquette is to never offer total satisfaction. We imitate the alternating heat and coolness. One might be wise to remind themselves that The Coquette is a seducer type and not a victim type. Rationally speaking and is the preferred seducer of the masochist, the unwary and the neurotic. Many are not yet aware of the particular neuroses that will bind us together to the Coquette. You may even discover this Coquette who is so skilled they can literally make us “crazy for them”.
Coquettes know this and don’t want to have a billboard over there head that says “He is a Coquette, run now”. No way, it is Ok for you to see The Coquette tease others but for you it will be different (wink).
What does this feel like? Well you really shouldn’t even think about this to start... Ok for example, what would it feel like if you started talking to me suddenly you began to feel this odd sensation or an itch only I could scratch and I was not doing it? And you might find yourself beginning to focus on me and my unique ability to be the only one to properly scratch that itches, well that would be crazy right? And then maybe I would come over and leisurely give you a light scratching and let you notice how absolutely blissful this feels…and then without notice STOP! Why did he stop?
The itch hasn’t yet been full scratched, I am the only one on this planet who can do it, and begin again with relative ease but I will not, Why? This perplexing is only interrupted with this growing wonder, desire and need to the point where having to have the itch scratched again and the half itching has now only made the compulsion that I finish scratching it exponentially amplified. Notice what it’s like with something as simple as this back scratch, imagine what if that scratch was all you emotions, motivation and sexual desires. For me it is not necessary for you to find yourself pondering that this is the beginning. To realize that you are feeling incredibly connected, enchanted and yes perhaps unbelievably horney to let this magic begin to happen deeper the sooner the better.
With me, Coquetry is seduction that appears to defy logic yet I am convinced at the effectiveness. I would invite you to notice why would some who wants to seduce another act contrary to the overt behaviors of attraction? This apparent inconsistency has to do with how humans response to the law of scarcity and Sir Isaac Newton


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posted March 19, 2012 02:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars in cancer
I don't chase. If no one chased me, I would sit forever waiting.

Venus in Gemini--I flirt

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posted March 19, 2012 02:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for enchantress     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Mars in cancer
I don't chase. If no one chased me, I would sit forever waiting.

Venus in Gemini--I flirt


I agree with you Ami about the mars in cancer, i am one too. Even if i see a perfect opportunity to tell the other person what i really feel, i tend to hold it back to myself and rather wait for them to do the first move..the downside is this usually leads disappointment to my venus in scorpio because it wants the object soo baaad, but its mars isn't doing anything to get it!!!

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posted March 19, 2012 02:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for popcorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im venus in gemini in conj to NN in conj to mars in cancer in house 11.

Im talking and passive. I not chase. All my relationships start by friendship. I grasp him and put him on the bed when the time feels right lol..

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posted March 19, 2012 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nyah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Capricorn Venus, Aquarius Mars here.

I prefer to be chased, but may flirt occasionally. I flirt and make the first move if it's a guy I feel confident I can get. If I meet a guy that I can see myself really fall for I'd actually look away. I'll do anything except show interest. I'll probably just try to bump into him and look nice and be cool (and intelligent, funny and successful... and maybe a bit odd, like doing something a little bit weird but cool and bold just to be interesting) so he can notice me and approach me. I will keep my cool as he does that and I'll take forever to admit any feelings. The guy always do that first, and it's not even intentional for me - it's just how it has been and I'm trying to break that habit and be more open. Because apparantely people can't read my feelings on my forehead even though it feels that way The more intense my emotions are, the cooler I act. Until one day I explode and tell him everything with sudden intensity and he'll usually run away.. I blame my Moon/Venus square Pluto.. and my Cap Moon. I think people with Scorpio influences are the only ones who doesn't get scared by that... I seem fun, casual and cool to people who doesn't know me, but o'boy what I can go deep in emotions, geez

And to all of you Scorpio Venuses... I'm into one and I think he likes me because when I look away I can see him study my face in the corner of my eye... Does that sound familiar (and cute/creepy )? And also his pupils get really large when we sit in front of each other (in a restaurant or whatever). And he keeps touching me, just enjoying the body contact. I love that! He has Pisces Mars so he's not moving anywhere fast though.. But I'll wait, because I've already had two emotional breakdowns on him and he hasn't left yet...

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Ascendant: Gemini
Sun: Pisces
Moon: Capricorn
Mercury: Pisces
Venus: Capricorn
Mars: Aquarius

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