posted March 19, 2012 04:25 PM            

This kind of thing is happening again now, because people seem to think that I am with Gemini guy although we haven't had this 'talk'.. about whether we are in a rel or not.. but he is always with me, so people assume he's my bf.

It's very strange actually. I don't know what would explain this in my chart. It could be my Mars/Neptune conjunction in the 7th house of relationships - since nothing is ever clear... and things just drift along into a relationship... I definitely don't clarify things, because I don't feel like I want to clarify - whether we are friends or something more. I kind of feel like I don't actually care.. as long as I'm enjoying myself. So I go with the flow and enjoy whatever I have with someone.

My conj is in earth sign Cappy and also trine Venus in Taurus.. My Taurus Venus is just very laaaaaid back. I will always like a guy who makes me feel good on a physical level.. who takes me out to places where I am happy and comfortable like my fave restaurants and my fave outdoors places.. who is very calm and creates a nice sweet atmosphere in the air.

posted March 19, 2012 05:13 PM            

If I'm in love with someone , I'm sure most people would know because I suck at hiding those lovey dovey feelings. I would probably want to do somethng about those feelings. (not THAT, you pervert!! Hahaha)

For me, I need to be friends with them or atleast can see us having conversations that are not "romantic" but pretty casual and fun.

my scorpio mars sees sex as a "serious thing" oh me oh my, but in all honesty I like if he always look sexy..

I once liked a venus in virgo mars in leo and after we did somethin quite romantic and signifying of love, he surprisingly acted very cold towards me. :/
(It actually was not direct but unxpected. Like my natal venus aspects suggest.)
I actually acted very giddy and playful. Naturally he embodys those qualities and me not so much.( Lol sad truth xD )

Now he tells his venus in scorpio mars in sagittarius sister to tell my sister "he likes her". My sister is a virgo with venus in leo mars in leo. He's a libra. I don't want it to work, but I also don't care if it does. He will never know how hurt I am. :/
Obviously he is not interested in me. If I see him I'm just going to treat him like a stranger and if he approaches me, ill be my very best but expect nothing of it. If we ever get close again, ill ask him why he did what he did, but probably be kind of cautious. Stupid misunderstandings.

posted March 19, 2012 06:40 PM            

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Originally posted by frankie2912:
Venus in Scorpio (1st house)
Mars in Pisces (5th house)

After the prying for info, lurking, etc. I tend to make conversation with him..being friendly, flirty, but not overtly direct unless it's been bugging me for so long that I finally just blurt out "YEAH, I LIKE YOU. A LOT." I did that once and then awkwardly slammed the door in the guy's face and made him go home.

I'm awkward when it comes to pursuing a guy...I actively do so, but I'm a weirdo about it.

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posted March 19, 2012 06:48 PM            

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When they do, I get scared and elude. Men seem to think I am parading my ass to them. (???)

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posted May 18, 2013 04:56 PM            

Once I notice a guy I like to do my research and observe a guy before I ever think of pursuing them or in better words making them notice me. I like to see how they interact with friends and just how they are in general. If I see things I don't like (if they end up acting like a jerk or talking about this or that girls a**, etc.) I lose interest and start the process over when I take notice to another guy.

Once a guy has caught my interest AND after my careful watching I still like him, I usually turn on my libran charm and start to interact with his friends and work my way to him and I kind of do this in a bubbly social butterfly way lol. Sooner or later once we've exchanged numbers I like to text guys in a friendly/flirty harmless way just to test the waters but once things get serious and I know the feelings are reciprocated my scorp mars comes out more.

posted May 18, 2013 05:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
If I like someone but am not sure they like me, not a single soul on this entire planet would have any idea I'm interested. Id just be friends with them and work my way up. At the best moment possible, id make my intentions clear or thoughts revealed.

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For me, I need to be friends with them or atleast can see us having conversations that are not "romantic" but pretty casual and fun.

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posted May 18, 2013 05:36 PM            

I do my best to look appropriate (not that I didn't before), don't push myself onto him not to pressure them. Wouldn't want to be seen by him looking like a slob or with my hair out of place. I listen to them, try to find things we have in common (but I'd do that for anyone I'm fond of - that's the problem). I love play-banters, but I have to be really comfortable to do it. And helping of course! Classic Venus in Virgo. You can call me awake at 4 a.m. and I'll answer and try to talk you through your problems. It sucks to lose some valuable sleep over that, but meh, you're more important at the moment. I also make more physical contact. Light, quick touches, but they're there. ^^

After months of trying to get a feel of it, I end up getting frustrated by my own insecurity, so I confess. They never see it coming. I totally catch them offguard with it.

If it's clear it's never going to happen, I keep it to myself and just... wait until it finally fades. I don't want to mess up the relationship. I'd rather it'd be me who's awkward than them.

posted May 18, 2013 09:08 PM            

Air placements in water houses hmmm. Never had a boyfriend before

posted May 18, 2013 10:18 PM              

If I sense they flirt back then I'm kind of sensual and coy, I have Gemini rising and a Taurus moon so it's easy to look mischevious. When there's a witty banter going on, and double if there's chemistry - think Blanche from Golden Girls.

If they don't get my sense of humor, then I become their friend first. I joke, I act like I don't care. Ease them into all that is "me." LOL! I never show them I'm sensitive, but I'm as much of myself as possible. If it's a stranger, I'll just keep looking over and hope they like me too, haha! I'm too shy to approach people but I'll show off and be loud (I know that doesn't work all the time and some find it annoying, etc. but it's like a knee jerk reaction that I do that. >.< ) Whatever the case is, I'm NEVER straightforward in my approach. I say it all through actions.

posted May 19, 2013 08:57 AM            

Having said all that, I don't think that matches my venus and mars descriptions though.

posted May 19, 2013 09:16 AM            

I'm hyper aggressive otherwise, but I never chase. Either they like me or they don't. If they like me, then the interest is mutual. If they don't, then it's obvious. If they want me to chase, then they'll have to look elsewhere because I don't like chasing.

posted May 19, 2013 10:17 AM            

Mars in Aquarius 10th house; Shall I really say more? I'm like a Gemini, super flirty and flaky(Moon in Gemini ). I like experiencing new things with different people, I can't have do the same thing with everyone. I analyze a person so I can accommodate myself for them. I like treating people like they deserve to b treated.

posted May 19, 2013 10:25 AM            

I don't chase. But I could bother to do a secret research, especially astrological if I had DOB

posted May 19, 2013 01:06 PM            

When I was young I flirt like leo and hunt like scorpio
Now I'm not young anymore , I think the right one should not been chased , if some guy value you enough ,he will not hesitate to contact first, if not I will assumed that he may not interesting and if I use my allure magic (by leo venus) plus my secretly seduced(by scorp mars) , he will def. had that intention but will that last? when magic run out? This is what I'm scraed of and not try to seduced any...

posted May 19, 2013 04:39 PM            

i wait until i feel that pull towards someone, that cosmic connection where something inside me does a backflip, then i awkwardly attack which usually means me trying to start conversation with them until i get shy or scared and peace out and then try again another time as long as my pride will let me hahaha. i try to be around them as much as i can, i'm always as attracted to the vibe somebody gives off as their personality and appearance, and let's be honest... i creep on them on social media sites.
but unless they give me something to push off of or some kind of reciprocation that i can absolutely sure of, i tend to get scared and shy away and worry that the attraction was all one-sided in my head. Being a combination of aggressive and passive (fire mars and venus in water), i usually attack and then if i feel like i'm putting too much of myself into the effort, i back away and hope they'll show me their interest by pursuing me even a tiny bit.

posted May 19, 2013 05:49 PM            

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Uh, side question, but how would a Venus in First be like? >w>

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posted January 06, 2017 08:57 AM            

Still if I like the guy a lot and I want to get his attention, well I just give him gooey eyes, smile a lot, try to be nice and talk to him, ask him about himself, etc. I think he must notice it on my face XD

posted January 06, 2017 09:02 AM              

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Originally posted by RedScorp:
How do you chase your lovers?

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