posted January 14, 2012 10:28 PM            

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Originally posted by astro_flame:
If only she can be as committed as you Amelia then I prob wouldn't be in this state. Oh well!

Is there anyway to tell from her chart that she is afraid of commitment and what are her soft spots when it comes to love? Strangely enough she was in 2 previous rs where she was dumped cos of a 3rd party and the 2nd rs was a long term which I think was 6 years. So this time around she has decided to be the dumper!

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The ruler of her 7th is mars and pluto...her pluto is doing well but her mars and Saturn I see are the two planets with the most challenges in her chart.

Mars ruler of her 7th is conjunct saturn and both square chiron. I suppose this can manifest therefore similar to chiron in the 7th so she is now doing to others what was done to her as far as wounds relationship wise.

On top of it she has NN in the 7th. I would say she has a lot of karma revolved around relationships...this is the area she is here to grow on in this lifetime.

posted January 14, 2012 10:50 PM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
His: sept 30th 1980 Royal oak, MI

Mine: Sept 21 1983 Santo domingo, Dominican Republic.

We have composite stellium between aphrodite/venus/atropos all been trined by Neptune, ruler of our composite first house. Venus is our 8th house ruler in our composite chart. I wonder if this
explains some of our connection.

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No birth times?

posted January 14, 2012 11:09 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
No birth times?

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Mine is 12 noon and his 11:03PM....

posted January 14, 2012 11:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Raina18:
Doesn't sound like your soulmate to me

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posted January 14, 2012 11:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Raina18:
[b]Doesn't sound like your soulmate to me

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ouch!! :P

she was the one who said we're soul mates when we first met! well i was led into believing it too partly due to our synchronizations with our actions/thoughts on many counts.

just wondering if anyone has come across of twin flames separation?

posted January 14, 2012 11:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Raina18:
[b]Doesn't sound like your soulmate to me

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posted January 14, 2012 11:22 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Ok cool, we got that. He is just trying to get her back. Show some sympathy, no?

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posted January 14, 2012 11:50 PM            

That angle conjunction definitely indicates soulmates. That is not in doubt...although I'm not sure if you're 'together forever' soulmates. Someone on here said (a while back...I remember the tidbit of info from researching/googling) that in AC/IC conjunctions usually don't last and the AC person is the one that usually leaves (you're IC here...) In any case, I'm not going to discourage you from getting back together with her...but seriously that synastry makes me wince.

posted January 15, 2012 12:57 AM            

There was a period when I was having problem at work and that brought into my personal life. Somehow that got into her cos my patience was wearing thin and I got clingy during the end. Before all this work hoohaa we were really happy together and I believe that she was having prob staying with my family and I delayed the decision to move out.

posted January 15, 2012 12:57 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Ok cool, we got that. He is just trying to get her back. Show some sympathy, no?

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posted January 15, 2012 01:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
[b] Ok cool, we got that. He is just trying to get her back. Show some sympathy, no?

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Astro_flame: Hopefully you will receive an uplifting transit soon![/B][/QUOTE]

He needs to decide there's no hope for himself no one can make him see that for him. Plus, you're going to tell him they didnt have connection when obviously they did for 3 yrs.

posted January 15, 2012 01:16 AM            

If OP doesn't like my post then he can ignore it - It's not even that long.

posted January 15, 2012 01:36 AM            

i know everyone has different opinions and that is why this forum is for - to share your perspectives so that we don't see it from a single point of view.

yes i know that the synastry is bad and such and the reasons why my ex shouldn't be together but what i believe is that there is this strong connection between us from the start - it will never be broken. We started to have problems during the last few months which we didn't talk to resolve but instead let it manifest.

The reason why i posted is because i am keen to know if our soul mate connection was indeed present and if there's anything that we can do or at least on my part to be able to show my ex that the problems we faced before were temporary and it could be resolved if we have the right attitude to face it together. Thats what astrology is for eh? i.e. not using it to find your future perfect partner but to work out the differences if the connection is there. Why let something so precious go when issues can be resolved easily?

I'm sorry if my responses created some unpleasantness and that was never my intention in the first place.. I needed answers and I needed support hence I'm here.

posted January 15, 2012 01:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Raina18:
Doesn't sound like your soulmate to me

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posted January 15, 2012 01:39 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Soulmates ARE NOT all rainbows, ponies and candy floss, nor do they last forever. Real soulmates is not that fairytale idea of one. It involves alot more than that.

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posted January 15, 2012 10:33 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Well obv sth was working cos they lasted 3 years lol. Lots of relationships can't even last the first year alone.

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I agree....they lasted three years for a reason and if the synastry is bad ( I can't read well synasty charts) then it most be the composite why they got together bc I can see the composite and is good. With a bad composite probably the relationship would have not gotten started or at the very least would have not lasted 3 years for sure..

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The synastry is kind of strange.....not a lot of conjunctions true but one thing did catch my eye! Sun conjunct northnode!

I guess that is what brought them together...Northnode is powerful and then the composite must have quickly taken over.

Noted that also NN conjuncts Uranus so that could explain the breakup. I bet relationship started out of the blue and ended out of the blue.

I wonder what is the orb between possible cojunction in synastry bt pluto and venus...it looks like is wide and perhaps are not conjuncting but can't tell by the chart....

posted January 15, 2012 10:41 AM            

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posted January 15, 2012 12:56 PM            

Her nothnode also conjuncts your IC so I would think that points to past life connection as that would mean that her southnode conjuncts your MC.

posted January 15, 2012 10:04 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
^ Sure the Saturn squares are hard and is is the moon square uranus but I don't see how the synastry is that bad?

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oops have to edit bc I hit reply with no reply -_-

They have 3 saturn squares and two saturn conjunctions. For the entire synastry only 3 helpful aspects (pluto/neptune doesn't count, has been generational for many generations) and none involving the saturns... Other than the conjunctions, (which for most would probably be too wide) her Saturn in an important part of her chart is unaspected. Also his venus is unaspected (perhaps a wider one that astro doesn't count exists)

Their ascendants are square which means they look at the world in completely different ways. It's sets all the house overlays off too, where all the houses are square each other. I'm having a hard time finding the good things in the synastry. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that their synastry should be all blue lines, but I don't see in the 'black and white' of it, any common ground for these two to share on a day to day basis. The only reason they lasted that long is because of those saturn squares, and having my experience of relationships with hard saturn aspects, let me tell you, it's no fun. It's like the laughter and smiles are sucked out of it. The general 'rule' with hard Saturn aspects is that you start to resent the things you liked in the person after a while. I've experienced this quite a few times...It's not cool.

posted January 15, 2012 11:07 PM            

No worries about the r/s bashing - in fact I appreciate all of your time in replying to this thread.

I'm wondering will there be alot of differences in our synastry if I don't have her correct birth time? She wasn't sure of her birth time hence she gave me a "i think so" answer..