posted January 19, 2012 11:11 PM            

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Originally posted by maddi:
His gemini moon let me talk for hours without any interruption. He soaked it up, which is quite rare. Usually guys say I talk to much, but he let me...

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Okay, so he's got a Gemini moon. Oooo. Gemini moon and a Scorpio sun. Liar, liar pants on fire. Sorry, I have an Aries guy friend with a Gemini moon. Lies ALL the time. Fabricates, or even flat out makes up stories. Sometimes it's for humor and sometimes it's...I don't know. Just because? Really pointless when I have to call you out on it every single time.

posted January 19, 2012 11:12 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
He's also a Scorpio. I don't think anything turns them on more than yearning and dramatic longing like this. Ego trips! It happened with my Scorpio moon ex-boyfriend. He ended it with a text message (too bad I forgot about that song "You Can't Text Message Break Up!" by that comedian guy who sang about shoes. Kelly? I think? Anyway...) that was real dramatic and well-thought out. And he wouldn't respond to me after that (yes I'm embarrassed I even replied. Even 2 years later.)

Some months passed and he came back around gained my friendship, and then I broke it off with him a year into it. I couldn't take the constant power trips. They were subtle to and you can't really call them on it because it's all done in feeling, and non-verbal cues and whatnot. I sound crazy, but mark my words it was definitely a game.

I know your poor little Scorpio heart is hurting (being sincere), but keep in mind how you're going to evolve from this experience. You'll be the bigger person having not groveled for him to come back or anything. If you're a true Scorpio I know I'm wasting my breath but... it's worth a try.

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posted January 19, 2012 11:14 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Hanna see the post above where I quoted you. =) And nah, I'm a Virgo. Aries rising =) and stellium in libra (moon, venus and mercury). Oh! But I *do* have my sun sextile pluto by (1 degree) and 8th house pluto too. I just found out I have a singleton pluto too. It's my only fixed planet apparently. I don't think I act too much like a scorp, I'm too airy. My aries rising and libra comes through pretty strongly <3.

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posted January 19, 2012 11:16 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Especially when they play those games and you start feeling like YOU'RE the one that's going crazy.

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awww, but that's the fun part! .

posted January 19, 2012 11:19 PM            

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Originally posted by tautomer4314:
awww, but that's the fun part! .

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posted January 19, 2012 11:21 PM            

But I also remember that people have feelings, and you shouldn't write em off when they didn't do anything.

I wrack my brains every day, every single day, 'what did i do wrong?' "what should I have done?" "did it hurt him when I said this?" EVERY. DAY.

Sad as **** , man.

And Yeah, his gemini moon lied to me a few times, where i saw right through it. I was hoping "I love you" was something of meaning, and not a "must say something to get a reaction"

Whatever, I guess. When people say "hey you, youve gained some weight," it's very embarassing to think to myself, that I let him do that to me. It's even more embarassing to say it to people, "yeah, I'm getting over some heartbreak." My GYN laughed at me when I told her.

posted January 19, 2012 11:22 PM            

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Originally posted by tautomer4314:
awww, but that's the fun part! .

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posted January 19, 2012 11:26 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
lol yeah but I find people like that a waste of my time. Game playing are for kids. I want me a MAN. =D

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
FOR YOU! I can beat Scorpio suns no problem but Scorpio moons? After that last guy? No thank you. I wouldn't touch them with a 10-foot pole. Like they need to walk around with a "Don't Feed The Bears" sign around their neck, they're so (no, I'll stop myself and say they CAN BE) vicious. For no reason! And then you ask why and they won't tell you, like... what's the point.

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Oh I'm just teasing :-P. I can do stuff like that if I want, I just know better then to do it. My moon has stung a few people in the past without much effort on my end so I take the extra stride to keep it in check.

That being said, I am a scorpio moon, so not everyone can really mesh with me well. I do go deep and mind games (while well intended and usually for play) are simply just going to happen. I get bored without that. When I say mind games, I mean that in the sense of poking around in the others head and seeing what makes them tick. Not toying with being faithful and all of that childish crap.

posted January 19, 2012 11:26 PM            

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Originally posted by maddi:
I've got a packed 8th house actually, mars, saturn jupiter, north node. so I get it.

But I also remember that people have feelings, and you shouldn't write em off when they didn't do anything.

I wrack my brains every day, every single day, 'what did i do wrong?' "what should I have done?" "did it hurt him when I said this?" EVERY. DAY.

Sad as **** , man.

And Yeah, his gemini moon lied to me a few times, where i saw right through it. I was hoping "I love you" was something of meaning, and not a "must say something to get a reaction"

Whatever, I guess. When people say "hey you, youve gained some weight," it's very embarassing to think to myself, that I let him do that to me. It's even more embarassing to say it to people, "yeah, I'm getting over some heartbreak." My GYN laughed at me when I told her.

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posted January 19, 2012 11:26 PM            

I'm really sincerely trying to get better at this. I don't want to end up isolated and bitter. The thing is that I am trying to remember this caveat: Love others for who they are and not what they do. If it's blatant disrespect and betrayal, then I'm strong enough to know when to end it. But, if someone is just being a fallible human being and making mistakes, then I just have to accept them for who they are and know that -- even if it hurts me -- it doesn't mean they don't love me.

I feel like I am getting better at being vulnerable and open in this regard. I just try and take it one day at a time.

posted January 19, 2012 11:30 PM            

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Originally posted by the89freespirit:

(By the way, I am a strong Scorpio type, just in case you didn't get the implication)

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posted January 19, 2012 11:34 PM            

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Originally posted by the89freespirit:
And by that I meant that I have a strong Scorpio INFLUENCE in my chart. Haha. I wasn't trying to brag about moral superiority or anything.

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I'M A STRONG, INDEPENDENT WOMAN.

posted January 19, 2012 11:36 PM            

I guess I didn't feel betrayed. And the posters above are right. I'm glad I got out of that early enough, and you may feel that way too...
eventually.

posted January 19, 2012 11:39 PM            

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^ see that's why I don't think I can handle dating a water sign or sb with water sign placements. It's just tiring and unnecessary and DRAINING. MY GOD. The testing. The manipulation. Fcking sick of it now.

I dunno, I just like straight forward people. It's so easy dealing with people that don't have hidden agendas or are looking out to take advantage of you. I'm so over games. If anyone ever pulls that crap on me, I'll cut them out of my life.

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posted January 19, 2012 11:42 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
^ see that's why I don't think I can handle dating a water sign or sb with water sign placements. It's just tiring and unnecessary and DRAINING. MY GOD. The testing. The manipulation. Fcking sick of it now.
I dunno, I just like straight forward people. It's so easy dealing with people that don't have hidden agendas or are looking out to take advantage of you. I'm so over games. If anyone ever pulls that crap on me, I'll cut them out of my life.

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Yeah, that is the negative manifestation of Water. But, there are just as many Water people who really just want intimacy and honesty. I'd say they are the very mature and very evolved ones, but they're out there.

I think the hardest thing for a Water Sun or Water Moon is to break our habits. Everything for us is perception, subjective, and biased. The ones with Air influences might be less so in this regard, but it's still true. Therefore, we can just get deeply stuck in our unhealthy habits and behaviors because they make us feel safe and protected and because we're so used to being that way.

posted January 19, 2012 11:49 PM            

Heres the thing about Scorpios. They FEEL very strongly about EVERYTHING. There is no middle ground, so if they love is STRONG, if they hate, it's STRONG.

If you make them jealous by playing a game, the more unevolved types would make you jealous in return. Thing is, because of their strong feelings, their revenge seems extremely harsh, because he wants you to feel what he felt.

posted January 19, 2012 11:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
Just a question, if a Scorpio was jealous of you talking to others, would the Scorpio in turn try to make YOU feel jealous?

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I think it depends where their Mars is placed. My BFFs is in Libra so yes I know she would do that. She thinks the only way to resolve something is do it back to them. *facepalm.* #kindergarten

posted January 19, 2012 11:53 PM            

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Yeah, that is the negative manifestation of Water. But, there are just as many Water people who really just want intimacy and honesty. I'd say they are the very mature and very evolved ones, but they're out there.

I think the hardest thing for a Water Sun or Water Moon is to break our habits. Everything for us is perception, subjective, and biased. The ones with Air influences might be less so in this regard, but it's still true. Therefore, we can just get deeply stuck in our unhealthy habits and behaviors because they make us feel safe and protected and because we're so used to being that way.

It's not rational and we might even know we're being self-destructive (and I think most Water signs do, particularly the Scorpios), but to actually change the behavior is very, very difficult. It's like changing our entire world. Kind of difficult to explain but it's important to know that there's a ton of fear and insecurity driving this behavior, even when it just seems sadistic or melodramatic. It's not an excuse but just to help you understand better.

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