posted January 19, 2012 11:57 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I think it depends where their Mars is placed. My BFFs is in Libra so yes I know she would do that. She thinks the only way to resolve something is do it back to them. *facepalm.* #kindergarten

I think a Scorpio sun would just go quiet and sulk, but you would definitely see the "rage" in their eyes. I heard Scorpio men turn very feminine once in relationships. Submissive is a better word maybe.

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posted January 20, 2012 12:03 AM            

I miss him. He read my mind all the time. I felt incredible energy pass between us. sometimes, I think I could feel him, even now, even after the separation.

I used to write him poetry. I should have realized that I was putting myself out there too soon, and too much.

posted January 20, 2012 12:07 AM            

And I thought I was nuts that I could still feel him.

posted January 20, 2012 12:07 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
@mintgirl123, it was stupid,basically i was having a really bad day,and had been having a bad week,and we were talking on the phone and she was being a b**ch to me and trying to pick a fight and i said im done with you and hung up on her,but i called her that night after i had cooled off and tried to apologize,but she wouldnt forgive me and acted like the victim when she was the one who had been saying mean stuff to me and i was going through a really hard time in my life,but she didnt apologize to me,i tried apologizing but she wouldnt forgive me

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Maybe Scorpio girls act like straight guys in relationships?

posted January 20, 2012 12:12 AM            

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Originally posted by maddi:
what do i do to cut it?

And I thought I was nuts that I could still feel him.

Could he feel me too?

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Pray. I was an atheist a couple of years ago, but now I believe in God. Okay what you need to do is pray honestly, and just say what's on your mind. Tell the angels what you've been feeling and ask Archangel Michael (it's on of the angels lol) to please cut the cords that link you to ___. And then you close your eyes and visualise yourself surround by silver cords extending outwards. Then visualise a big pair of scissors. Now see it cutting each cord and see the cords shrinking away and disappearing. Do this and pray a few times every week. It took a while for them to cut my cords, since I was too connected to the guy (or so I was told). It takes a while, you just need to have true need.
Things always get granted when you have true need.

posted January 20, 2012 12:14 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
@mintgirl123, it was stupid,basically i was having a really bad day,and had been having a bad week,and we were talking on the phone and she was being a b**ch to me and trying to pick a fight and i said im done with you and hung up on her,but i called her that night after i had cooled off and tried to apologize,but she wouldnt forgive me and acted like the victim when she was the one who had been saying mean stuff to me and i was going through a really hard time in my life,but she didnt apologize to me,i tried apologizing but she wouldnt forgive me

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posted January 20, 2012 12:17 AM            

I believe in God. I was attached to religion for a long time, but I'm starting to believe religion isn't for everyone, me included now.

I will definitely use this tonight. I'm interested in moving on...

posted January 20, 2012 12:47 AM            

Scorpio sun,moon,venus,mercury,jupiter here. (If anyone knows how a scorpio operates, that's me. If you want to isolate scorpio factor in his behaviour that is. It could be something else in his chart).
All of this talking about scorpio and 'mind game' and 'sensitive ego' is a contradiction to me. Why would a scorpio want to risk him being hurt by playing with other people's emotion? If a scorpio shuts you out, 99 out of 100 cases it's provoked. I'm currently shutting two of closest people in my life for being in relationship behind my back. I think its shady and total disrespect of our friendship. GOD know I hang on and looking for ways to rebuild the friendship, but when I caught my self crying at latest cold hard reality, I decided to move on. They're dead to me, cause no one is allowed to treat me this way.

So in my opinion, there's more to the story between you and him that's undisclosed here. Although its subtle, emotion is emotion and you can't help who you're hurting.

posted January 20, 2012 12:52 AM            

Which makes your situation really tough, Maddi, because you have no communication to support your feelings and viewpoints! I really feel for you. However, if he is unable to handle how he feels or is unsure of it, I would say that it is better for you that you're iced out rather then him continuously playing games! If he felt that you made him feel vulnerable or insecure (his perception not necessarily reality) then it was better to be cut off then the torture that would've probably happened with him trying to 'protect' himself and gain the upperhand. I've seen a close Scorpio friend go through these decisions when she's insecure and, believe me, the ones she ices out are the ones she has mercy on -Voldemort torturing Harry Potter has more mercy then a vulnerable Scorp- and, again, that vunerability and need for 'fight' mode may be completely in their perception and how they react only, not necessarily in what you're really putting out. Pluto and mars are very all or nothing and it is very hard for there to be an inbetween allowed. I agree with the fact that if any slight has been perceived it will take much knee-bending and apologizing for a shot at anything. However, I have seen Scorpios go back for innocent loved ones they've cut off. This re-meeting is very important because if the Scorpio doesn't feel a proper 'welcome back' they will probably cool out for good.

I hope that helps in some way and I wish you the best! I feel that closure is much like grief in that everyone has to find their own kind their own way. I really do wish you good luck

posted January 20, 2012 12:55 AM            

If I did something to offend him, and knew what it was, I would call him this instant and apologize...
And when he decided we shouldn't speak anymore, I asked if we could talk. When he didn't answer me, I Took it seriously and didn't annoy him with calls of attention. but I wan him to come back to me, at least that closure if he didn't want to continue.

posted January 20, 2012 01:03 AM            

I don't believe I can spend the rest of my
Life unable to see that beautiful face, his sweet smile or hear his voice when he would sing as he would work in his backyard.

posted January 20, 2012 01:20 AM            

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Pray. I was an atheist a couple of years ago, but now I believe in God. Okay what you need to do is pray honestly, and just say what's on your mind. Tell the angels what you've been feeling and ask Archangel Michael (it's on of the angels lol) to please cut the cords that link you to ___. And then you close your eyes and visualise yourself surround by silver cords extending outwards. Then visualise a big pair of scissors. Now see it cutting each cord and see the cords shrinking away and disappearing. Do this and pray a few times every week. It took a while for them to cut my cords, since I was too connected to the guy (or so I was told). It takes a while, you just need to have true need.
Things always get granted when you have true need.

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I visualized using an axe to cut the ties holding us together (he's a scopio sun n scopio mercury).. it didn't work... evn though i tried several times this way.

I got desperate... it was hurting me too much while it appears he didn't care, that I was a nobody... he went through so much effort to make me leave on my own accord only giving me the continous silence.

No closure. I understand, he didn't want me to fall out of love with him despite not giving what I want.

Finally, I visualized myself, first using an axe cutting on the chains that bind (yes, being the dramatic leo here w heavy scopio influences) violently slashing at him as I allow the axe to swing aimlessly. Blood gushing n all.

posted January 20, 2012 01:43 AM            

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Nptunes daughter, thank you for those words, it softens the blow somewhat. He wasn't sure how to incorporate me into his life, so he decided to end it. That was what I thought all along, but of course when I'm alone and thinking ugly thoughts begin to seep in, thoughts of blame and anger.

I don't believe I can spend the rest of my
Life unable to see that beautiful face, his sweet smile or hear his voice when he would sing as he would work in his backyard.

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Aww Honey, you'll get through it. It seems so far off but you really will. Let yourself feel everything YOU need to feel howe ver you need to feel it and let go piece by piece as you are able. Don't judge yourself for hurting/missing. The fact that you hurt and you miss only shows your ability to love and loving in itself is not a weakness.
I also had a very intense relationship with a very scorpionic man (he was sag sun tho) where we were psychicly intune and it was so hard to get over and deal with and get rid of those links.. But it's happened! And I am able to see the relationship better and to see him better and, in my case, it is for the better that it didn't work out. I just really looked at how we were and what happened and what was good and bad on every side and learned from it and I've used it to make adjustments so that I can make better relationship decisions and not call the negative aspects back again. That's just what worked for me. The thing I regret most is how I punished myself and dug myself a hole by gaining weight and kind of physically showing this barrier I put up inside at that time. Now I'm ready to date and I'm self concious about that! It was definitely not a self-loving thing for me to allow that! Ugh! Lol But we can always get our sexy back

posted January 20, 2012 04:02 AM            

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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
I visualized using an axe to cut the ties holding us together (he's a scopio sun n scopio mercury).. it didn't work... evn though i tried several times this way.

I got desperate... it was hurting me too much while it appears he didn't care, that I was a nobody... he went through so much effort to make me leave on my own accord only giving me the continous silence.

No closure. I understand, he didn't want me to fall out of love with him despite not giving what I want.

Finally, I visualized myself, first using an axe cutting on the chains that bind (yes, being the dramatic leo here w heavy scopio influences) violently slashing at him as I allow the axe to swing aimlessly. Blood gushing n all.

I got over him. . with help of 2 horary charts fr Ceriwen.

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posted January 20, 2012 04:03 AM            

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Hi..

Scorpio sun,moon,venus,mercury,jupiter here. (If anyone knows how a scorpio operates, that's me. If you want to isolate scorpio factor in his behaviour that is. It could be something else in his chart).
All of this talking about scorpio and 'mind game' and 'sensitive ego' is a contradiction to me. Why would a scorpio want to risk him being hurt by playing with other people's emotion? If a scorpio shuts you out, 99 out of 100 cases it's provoked. I'm currently shutting two of closest people in my life for being in relationship behind my back. I think its shady and total disrespect of our friendship. GOD know I hang on and looking for ways to rebuild the friendship, but when I caught my self crying at latest cold hard reality, I decided to move on. They're dead to me, cause no one is allowed to treat me this way.

So in my opinion, there's more to the story between you and him that's undisclosed here. Although its subtle, emotion is emotion and you can't help who you're hurting.

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They play with emotions to test you out and see how you feel about them, what makes you tick, what your weakness is, how much control they have over you, what kinda things they can do to control you etc etc they also seem to often have the mentality 'gotta hurt you before you get the chance to hurt them'

Water signs are NOTORIOUS for playing mind games. Maybe you don't, but a lot of them do. Just google it. I even gave them the benefit of the doubt, but every water sign guy I've been properly involved with has acted this way- that's cancer, scorpio and pisces.

posted January 20, 2012 04:36 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
He's also a Scorpio. I don't think anything turns them on more than yearning and dramatic longing like this. Ego trips! It happened with my Scorpio moon ex-boyfriend. He ended it with a text message (too bad I forgot about that song "You Can't Text Message Break Up!" by that comedian guy who sang about shoes. Kelly? I think? Anyway...) that was real dramatic and well-thought out. And he wouldn't respond to me after that (yes I'm embarrassed I even replied. Even 2 years later.)

Some months passed and he came back around gained my friendship, and then I broke it off with him a year into it. I couldn't take the constant power trips. They were subtle to and you can't really call them on it because it's all done in feeling, and non-verbal cues and whatnot. I sound crazy, but mark my words it was definitely a game.

I know your poor little Scorpio heart is hurting (being sincere), but keep in mind how you're going to evolve from this experience. You'll be the bigger person having not groveled for him to come back or anything. If you're a true Scorpio I know I'm wasting my breath but... it's worth a try.

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This sounds familiar! I had an aries/scorpio moon ex. He and I broke up first time due to HIS betrayal,I cut him off as have proud leo moon. Some months went by, he came back wanting forgiveness and I cut him off cause I didn't trust him. Then I contacted him some time later wanting to re-connect, we did and for 6 months is was kinda ok, but YES power games, who has the control. Too much for me, no commitment and in the end he let me down badly.

So yeah, they do come back around but not always.

posted January 20, 2012 04:54 AM            

for me i will never go back when i am void of feelings for the person - i will run, very far and hope the person will get the idea.

but i will hang around and be back with you in a heartbeat when i still have feelings for the person.

posted January 20, 2012 04:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreamy_AriesGirl:
What I cant stand with Scorpio man anymore is the double standard.

YOU have to be very careful not to hurt them.
YOU have to be true to yourself
You always need to tell them the truth
YOU cant play games with them
You have to be strong,

but then THEY have no problem
-hurting you
-playing stupid mind games and tests
-being easily offended
-lying to you

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hmm that sounds about right. unfortunately.. but i'm trying not to be the vengeful scorpio. :P

posted January 20, 2012 05:22 AM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Darn. That's sad. Guess she's not sb that can messed around with (not that you were messing around with her, just saying she doesn't give chances does she). Have you tried to contact her?

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