posted February 23, 2012 10:46 PM            

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@Moonfish: Why do you feel that's the case? Is your age a factor, or is it simply that you value sex too much to make it casual? One would expect all that Scorpio energy to need release, but the 8th House always makes things enigmatic.

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posted February 23, 2012 10:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Fondue Knight:
SO I could probably take up residence in a nunnery right about now.

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posted February 23, 2012 11:33 PM            

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Originally posted by alaz7200:
@YoursTrulyAlways: Neighbor? OP, meaning me? Explain! I would imagine 8th House Scorpio to be very sexed.

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posted February 23, 2012 11:42 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Yes. You. And No. By "Neighbor" I mean Greenwich

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posted February 23, 2012 11:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Fondue Knight:
I used to work in Greenwich... it's like another fricken planet.

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posted February 23, 2012 11:58 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
As opposed to Freak Show Central NYC (where I work)?

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posted February 24, 2012 12:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Fondue Knight:
Let's just say that dealing with people who have more money than god on a daily basis was a bit of an adjustment for me. Fascinating, nonetheless.

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posted February 24, 2012 12:16 AM            

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Originally posted by alaz7200:

@Stawr: Interesting to hear how Uranus/Neptune manifests in the 8th House. Would you say you're kinkier than norm?

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Hmmm....I wouldn't think I am too out there. Plus the only guy I have had it with was pretty vanilla...not saying he sucked...but it wasn't all that exiting. Yeah we would change positions...but he wasn't all that creative...like it was effortless, and meaningless. (I would get in those 'oh I'm bored...this again...whatever lets do this...' (he's bipolar like really bipolar...he would flip a table if said I was sick of doing this position...the last time I told him something I didn't like during sex he flipped out and punched a metal closet and his hand started to bleed and had to get stitches)

There is a Sex and the city quote that goes something like there are certain things a woman will always remember...(she lists all this stuff and then continues to say) the first time you have sex, and the first time you have really good sex'

LOL and I was thinking I bet I'll relate to that one day!' Cause people like him are not my type at all anymore.

But I feel like I am still evolving and more in touch with my self now.

Things I know I like are...
being man handled
being held/squeezed really tight
chocked
off the top of my head these are a few of my favorite THINGS! And then I don't feel sooOOh baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad! ;p haha! Sorry I couldn't help it since I was kinda listing my fave things! lmao
(I don't mind giving or receiving for those things...maybe receiving a tiny bit more but I like being boss sometimes)

oh and I think being whipped only feels good when I am high.(no didn't learn that from ex at all cause we never did anything like that) Learned that from this punk goth dude in high school I hung out with(liking it) and then at spencer's once of my girl friends grabbed one and gave a whip. And I was like "OOOWWWW! that f*cking hurts!!(when not high)"

posted February 24, 2012 08:17 AM            

Shocked and choked at the same time?

posted February 24, 2012 10:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
^ What's "chocked"?

Shocked and choked at the same time?

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posted February 24, 2012 10:06 AM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
I have Taurus on the 8th house cusp too and Venus is in the 9th house.

Men with strong Taurus really turn me on. And if they are foreign it's even better.

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Hi athenegoddness!!! You just discribed me!

I too have Taurus in 8th house cusp and Venus (Gemini) is in 9th house... Venus trines Moon (Aquarius) Exact and squares Saturn (Virgo) Exact.

posted February 24, 2012 11:48 AM            

Pluto in Eighth - Libra , quincunx Venus-Chiron in Taurus in 3 rd which is also quincunx Neptune.

No, not a horndog on the loose. FAAAR from it, I need the whole shabang, gimme transformational, high voltage merging or I am a happy monk.

Fetish..... neck and breasts.

posted February 24, 2012 02:37 PM              

Neptune in 8th House – succeedent house
Psychic tendencies, often manifested in spiritualism and ¬clairvoyance. Unusual secret circumstances may surround partners money insurance, taxes, and inheritance.
Ideal attitude to partner of how they want to share money, body (including sex), resources (shared money) and values, being the opposite of 2nd house. May never know how much their partners earn! Want a lot of romance in sex life, and to have all the trimmings with good aspects. Easily swept off their feet by knight in shining armour syndrome. Can even wear the rose tinted glasses here, because you will think they were worth it. Bad aspects cause disillusionment, even so would have been worth the price! May marry a wanderer.
May have spiritual psychic abilities, whether recognised or not!

The sign position of Uranus (albeit generational) indicates our restlessness and what for us is individual, modern and thrilling. The house position of Uranus indicates where we desire free expression, seek to be different, and where things get turned upside down! Shocks, surprises, upheavals, freedom, independence. Uranus being a higher octave of mercury, like Neptune is a higher octave of venus. The house Uranus is in is where we seek to be different, want free expressions and where things get turned upside down.

Uranus in 8th House – succeedent house
You will be concerned with life’s mysteries, ie; ¬Astrology Spiritualism etc. You could have sudden changes of fortunes, through partnerships or inheritance. It will not be easy to settle down to a hum drum marital routine. Unstable joint finances.Could stop conception. Sexual impulses need controlling (all or nothing) or possible unusual/kinky sex. Very strong psychic feeling as well as keen intuition. Unexpected and sudden upsets where deaths are concerned.
Difficulties in inheritances but if well aspected could mean an unexpected windfall. By experiencing others "turning upon them," they can endure intense states of psychological abuse that can appear sadistic. The abuse dynamic linked with violations of trust can also include sexual abuse in a variety of ways. The sudden loss linked with partnerships wherein a merging of resources and realities had occurred can create fundamental psychological trauma that impacts on their ability to trust ever again

"Saturn’s" influence seems to be more obvious in the houses than in the signs can rule the life with an iron rod, although invisible, by undermining the sense of ¬self worth and making it difficult for the individual to permit any close emotional contacts.

Saturn's sign indicates what you find uncomfortable and must learn to manage.
Where and how you feel a lack of confidence -- the house position of Saturn defines where
you need to establish your skills, an issue you worry about and wish you could depend on !

Lovely anecdote about Saturn from member mahaira on astrologyweekly.com,

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There's an interesting thing I read somewhere, which I would never take as a rule as it oversimplifies matters - we can guess where someone's Saturn is placed, broadly speaking, by asking him/her "What do you want (or did want) but don't have?"

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Takes 28 years to go around zodiac. Stays in each sign of approx 2.1/2 yrs
Keywords: Saturn = Structure, duty, limitation, restriction.

When Saturn and Uranus fall in the same sign or house we get caught in a cleft stick, wanting to make changes but fearing to let go of the old.

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Saturn in the 8th house
Strong sensuality needs restraining. Lesson to learn where sex attitudes and appetites are concerned. Attitudes to sex are serious and can be inhibited. Too much or too little is out of balance. Person has a long life due to Saturn's staying power.Partner's money can cause distress if Saturn is afflicted. Financial difficulties in partnerships, whether business or marital.There is often a deep interest in occult mysteries.These people are usually responsible with money, but need to take care of investments. Normally not inherit, but if did, would become a "yoke" around your shoulders, and probably more trouble than it is worth.

Pluto in 8th House - succeedent
Occult things born with interest in psychic awareness.Always interested in partner and feelings. Can be obsessed with sex. Sexual problems if badly afflicted
Shrewd in business and dealing with other people's money, inheritance, Wills, insurances

Also aspects like OP with venus conj pluto seems quite highly sexed but there are quite a few others. High on my list would be venus/mars aspects

posted February 24, 2012 02:42 PM            

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@Desiring Shadows: Your 8th House is ruled by Capricorn, which would suggest your teeth (not likely) or knees (more likely) as your erogenous zone. Yes/no?

@athenegoddess: Is your neck also your erogenous zone? I'm assuming you're a Libra rising. Hear me out: Because this makes ruler of the 1st also ruler of the 8th, I feel there is an emphasized 8th House need for sex/intensity in the lives of Libra Asc. Do you resonate?

@Moonfish: Why do you feel that's the case? Is your age a factor, or is it simply that you value sex too much to make it casual? One would expect all that Scorpio energy to need release, but the 8th House always makes things enigmatic.

@Fondue Knight: Sounds tricky, but your response was very witty. Thanks for that!

@aquaguy91: Sounds like that mutual 1st/8th House dynamic would make your sex drive especially strong. Perhaps your ego is heavily invested in sexual affairs?

@Ami Anne: Male. Why do you ask?

@Stawr: Interesting to hear how Uranus/Neptune manifests in the 8th House. Would you say you're kinkier than norm?

@YoursTrulyAlways: Neighbor? OP, meaning me? Explain! I would imagine 8th House Scorpio to be very sexed.

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posted February 24, 2012 02:43 PM            

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Originally posted by alaz7200:
@Desiring Shadows: Your 8th House is ruled by Capricorn, which would suggest your teeth (not likely) or knees (more likely) as your erogenous zone. Yes/no?

@athenegoddess: Is your neck also your erogenous zone? I'm assuming you're a Libra rising. Hear me out: Because this makes ruler of the 1st also ruler of the 8th, I feel there is an emphasized 8th House need for sex/intensity in the lives of Libra Asc. Do you resonate?

@Moonfish: Why do you feel that's the case? Is your age a factor, or is it simply that you value sex too much to make it casual? One would expect all that Scorpio energy to need release, but the 8th House always makes things enigmatic.

@Fondue Knight: Sounds tricky, but your response was very witty. Thanks for that!

@aquaguy91: Sounds like that mutual 1st/8th House dynamic would make your sex drive especially strong. Perhaps your ego is heavily invested in sexual affairs?

@Ami Anne: Male. Why do you ask?

@Stawr: Interesting to hear how Uranus/Neptune manifests in the 8th House. Would you say you're kinkier than norm?

@YoursTrulyAlways: Neighbor? OP, meaning me? Explain! I would imagine 8th House Scorpio to be very sexed.

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posted February 24, 2012 02:52 PM            

I am sexually turned on by people I find attractive. I can grasp the idea of casual sex, but the idea of random casual sex with unattractive people (just for the sake of getting off) makes me feel sick. I had a roommate who frequented bathhouses and all judgments aside, I lack total comprehension of how someone can do that and not walk away feeling like crap. Oh well, we're all different.

It may sound shallow, but I believe attraction is an indicator of initial synchronicity. It may never result in something long term, but it nourishes a need in a whole way (that is pretty, I think I will screw it). Where as "I don't think that is pretty but my body wants to use some one as a jerk off toy.... you'll do" to me translates to eating crap just because you are hungry. Sure it will fill you up, but you are never going to be able to brush that taste out of your mouth.

Being conjunct NN, I also tend to not be interested unless there is a prospect for relationship. Even if nothing comes of it. I am more turned on by people I relate with and could consider in a long-term situation, than I am in other cases. This is part of the reason I don't have sex with women. I have an equal sexual attraction to both men and women, but psychologically I have very little interest in a long term, sexual relationship with women. This influences the depth in which I end up being capable for attraction. I may meet a beautiful woman, who has an amazing sense of humor, a brilliant mind, and an adventurous spirit, and though she is everything that attracts me to a person, I am unable to be as deeply attracted to her as I would be a man of lesser value, because the dynamics of long-term commitment with a woman are not at all as attractive to me, as the dynamics with men. Ironically enough, I could see my self in a relationship with a transgendered gay man (having been female), because the transgendered men I have met have all been psychologically men in my opinion.