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Topic: RULER OF your 8th House and your SEXUALITY
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ail221
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posted February 25, 2012 09:10 PM
  
There could be a eight house connection with the 9th http://www.elbertwade.com/page113.html IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted February 27, 2012 10:11 AM
^ That's a good article, thank you.IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted February 27, 2012 03:12 PM
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whaaat
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posted December 28, 2014 03:53 AM
My 8th is in Pisces, and I've been thinking a lot about Pisces lately and how whenever I find someone's manner attractive, they usually have one or two personal planets in the sign. My darkest fantasies tend to involve sleeping/sick/unconscious partners ...
 Could be due to Pluto opposing my Venus as well  IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted December 28, 2014 04:11 AM
Aquarius rules my 8th house. I have Uranus in that house in Aquarius and it's conjunct Neptune in Capricorn.My sexual fantasies are crazy (like tree sex) and I like freedom in sex. I am turned on by the thought of having it outdoors where we almost get caught. I appreciate the act of sex instead of the idea more. I don't feel a draw to Aquarian types. I am more attracted to Aries especially with people that have Mars in it. But then again, I have Saturn in Aries and Saturn does co-rule Aquarius. I do appreciate the calmness of Aquarians when it comes to sex, though. They act like sex is just another normal activity people do (like jogging). Oddly enough, I am bot attracted to lesbian porn or other girls. I am very straight. Not sure what causes that, though. IP: Logged |
unforgiven_soul
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posted December 28, 2014 05:59 AM
My 8th house cusp is in Libra and my Venus is Rx in my 12th house in Aquarius. This is what I found and it's all true!!"Ruler of the 8th house in the 12th house
The activities of the 8th house serve the agenda of the 12th house. Transformation, attitudes to life and death, other people˘s resources, sex and the desire to dig deep serve the need to release grief and sorrow, spend time alone, melt into formless bliss, escape from reality and become aware of our own self-undoing. Emotional entanglements help you release grief and sorrow. Sexual activities help you release grief and sorrow. You use your capacity for research and investigation to explore the paranormal. Inheritances can be the self-undoing. Debt can be the self-undoing. Tax evasion can be the self-undoing. Your attitude to life and death influences your interest in dreams and the paranormal. You investigate dreams. Your become a dream researcher or dream therapist. Dreams are intense experiences. Your capacity for deep emotional interactions with others can be a way for you to escape from daily responsibilities. Sex can be a way to escape from daily responsibilities. Sex can be the self-undoing. Your interest in the occult can be the self-undoing. Your interest in hidden things leads you to explore dreams and ghosts. Your understanding of the motivation of other people makes you want to be alone. Sexual experiences come through meditation. Peak emotional experiences come through charitable activities. You take your interest in sex to institutions. You explore the sexual activities of the incarcerated and institutionalized. Emotional baggage adds to your karma." IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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posted December 28, 2014 06:16 AM
8th house ruler in the 9th. I'm only attracted to priests. Fortunately most of them can't resist me. They're so delighted to finally have sex and with a babe like me on top of that, they're eager to fulfill my every wish. A couple of them even wore a demon mask for me.------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted December 28, 2014 07:19 AM
8th house is sexual only in relation to another person; the sexual profile itself is found in the 5th house, so I think these 2 have to be combined with each other (cause let`s face it, usually when we have sex, there will be another person present  )But 8th house is how you express sexual intimacy with someone else. 5th house is just how you express yourself, including sexual style. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted December 28, 2014 07:23 AM
for me that is:5th house in Taurus, Venus in Capricorn in 1st house, square Pluto (r11 and r12). But also being on the exact Jupiter/Uranus-mp, widely sextile both (4-5 degrees each).
8th house in Cancer, Moon in Aquarius in 2nd, unaspected save for the exact quinkunx to Saturn and the exact quintile to Mars.
Saturn, rx, in Cancer in 8th house itself, quinkunx Moon, exactly trine Juno and also trine Jupiter (r1) in Pisces in 3rd. In my case the 5th and 8th house go hand in hand, though I could have picked an easier one before my birth, I mean Saturnian 5th and 8th house? Decidedly NOT sounding like fun.  IP: Logged |
PisceanDream
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posted December 28, 2014 07:59 AM
Interesting... Nice distinction, Ceri!The rulers of my 5th and 8th are Mercury and I have it in Pisces in the 1st. I do exude a powerful sexual energy but am still very reserved. I notice that I like sexual talk but usually do not let things escalate beyond just that, unless I am extremely comfortable. I have my Moon in the 5th and no planets in the 8th. So the "talking" is very emphasized So I guess my sexual style and expression of sexual intimacy are the same. IP: Logged |
Vajra
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posted December 28, 2014 12:00 PM
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SirHorns
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posted December 28, 2014 12:39 PM
5th house[Leo] = Chiron in Leo
8th house[Scorpio] = North Node in Sag
Sun aspects: opposed mars, conjunct uranus and neptune, square jupiter and asc.
Mars aspects: opposes sun, uranus and neptune, trine pluto, square jupiter and sextile moon.Sag 9th house with Mercury in Cap. *Shurg* ------------------
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charlie
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posted December 28, 2014 12:43 PM
Mars rules my 8H and Mars is in 12H. Don't know what this means! I do know I want sex to be deep, spiritual and flowing. Just like water.IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted December 28, 2014 12:52 PM
8th Taurus
Jupiter in 8th
SN and Lilith there too
Jupiter trines my Mars, Mercury, and asc.
Square sun. Venus is in Virgo, 12th, conjunct Mercury (loosely) and square Neptune in 3rd. Ummmm... I don't even know!
The fantasy of sex is as powerful as sex itself. Sex is consuming. If I can't get lost in it, I don't want it. The physical act of it, all by itself is not important. Hence, one night stand situations were very few and unfulfilling.
I need to lose myself in the person. I feel like that doesn't make sense. I can't make it make sense. IP: Logged |
frankie2912
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posted December 30, 2014 02:55 AM
Gemini 8th house, nothing in it (except Chiron)Mercury in 2nd house in Sagittarius conjunct Sun & Neptune in Capricorn. Conjunct Uranus in Sag and square Mars in Pisces. Um...I have no idea. lol. My sex drive is mostly in my head. I can separate love and sex, both in real life and in my fantasies. Though my most intense fantasies involve either complete detachment (me being used) or complete and absolute merging with someone I want to move on a very deep level. Must be the Neptune talking, now that I think about it..plus the Pisces energy from my Mars and, of course, Neptune. I am into control (master-slave) type of scenarios, me being the submissive one. Again, Pisces. I like some pretty taboo fantasies that I won't discuss with any living soul. Oh, my Eros is in Pisces, too. I love dirty talk. That might just be Mercury ruling the 8th in Gemini. Honestly, I often prefer masturbation to sex. Sex is always better in my head. My only erogenous zone is my mind. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted December 30, 2014 06:36 AM
I honestly don't think one aspect alone describes my sexuality because there's so many explanations!I have Sun, Mercury(r), Venus, Jupiter, Pluto, & descendant in Scorpio ALL making a stellium in my 6th house.
I have a Taurus ascendant so my Venus in Scorpio is my chart ruler.
Scorpio is the ruler of my 7th house. My mars is located very close (almost right on top) to my 7th house cusp. My mars is in Sagittarius (1st degree)
My mars conjuncts Pluto and opposes my Ascendant. Sagittarius rules my 8th house & jupiter is located on my 6th house cusp in the sign of Scorpio. Amor is in my 8th house & Eros is in my 9th house.
Uranus & Neptune are also located in my 8th house!
My sexuality is very raw, intense, and almost hard to tame. I've always been very sensual, secretive, and seductive. my sexuality has been bursting out since I was a very young girl. I haven't had sex with a ton of guys, but the guys I did have sex with always believe I'n this shy, harmless young girl with no sexual experience whatsoever. little do they know what they've gotten themselves into  it happens every time. Long story short, most guys are intimidated by my sexual honestly and directness. threy'll either end up running or end up resenting me for it. I believe I cause a lot of men to feel uncomfortable or stripped of their manhood after we have sex. it's that intense and deep. passion is the best work to describe my entire being. If I love someone or at leasr have strong feelings, we HAVE to have sex on a regular basis. it's a requirement. It's the knly i can fully express myself. IP: Logged |
praj1740
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posted December 30, 2014 06:44 AM
My ruler of the 8th house is saturn and is pplaced in 7th in the sign of jupiter(saggitarius).im straightIP: Logged |
Belba
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posted December 30, 2014 10:41 AM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
8th house ruler in the 9th. I'm only attracted to priests. Fortunately most of them can't resist me. They're so delighted to finally have sex and with a babe like me on top of that, they're eager to fulfill my every wish. A couple of them even wore a demon mask for me.
Hahaha, I almost peed myself I mean, who's never ever had priest related fantasies? We've all been there.. they are usually so timid, submissive and humble, especially the young ones, that they make you wanna use them Hm, I've got my 5H and 8H ruler in seventh house, so I strongly suspect I have to marry to experience some real good sex too bad affairs never satisfy me. IP: Logged |
venus2tinkerbell
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posted December 30, 2014 11:03 AM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
8th house ruler in the 9th. I'm only attracted to priests. Fortunately most of them can't resist me. They're so delighted to finally have sex and with a babe like me on top of that, they're eager to fulfill my every wish. A couple of them even wore a demon mask for me.
oh my gosh! LOL! IP: Logged |
FayeMaye
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posted December 30, 2014 03:10 PM
Aries - Mars (8th house ruler in 10th)What does that mean? ahahah according to this subj. IP: Logged |
Selenite
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posted December 30, 2014 03:19 PM
Pisces, so Neptune, sexuality is undefined (or pansexual), I like to lose myself with the other person.. Escape. Unclear boundaries. Unhealthy sometimes.
Interesting8th house ruler in the 6th
Square moon
Quintile Venus
Conjunct Uranus IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted December 30, 2014 08:11 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
8th house ruler in the 9th. I'm only attracted to priests. Fortunately most of them can't resist me. They're so delighted to finally have sex and with a babe like me on top of that, they're eager to fulfill my every wish. A couple of them even wore a demon mask for me.
HAHAHAHAHA! But it begs the question, can they resist anyone?  I was told I'm going to Hell for even THINKING of a prank to play while pretending to be a new convert that held an X-rated element (though no nudity or sexual contact between people). Maybe I'll share later, but probably not, especially as it has more to do with my warped sense of humor than sexual feelings. OTOH, I used to be close to a Catholic who told the most outrageous stories of going to a Catholic school...all in all the education was generally much better but the sex was more deviant, common, and prone to happening at younger ages than at the public schools I went to (and just about any I've heard of in real life, not to be confused with the fictional ones in the serials & movies). And the Catholic jokes (shared by Catholics) were so filthy that I've been unable to share the vast majority of them on LL.
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PixieJane
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posted December 30, 2014 08:26 PM
Since I left a reply I guess I should answer the question...My 8H is Pisces though I think my Scorpio Jupiter affects it and rules more transformations than sex. My sexuality (which I separate from love and am not including in this, though of course they affect each other) seems more ruled by my 5H Sag stellium which includes moon, Mars, and the asteroid eros (I also have a Leo ASC that I think exerts influence over my 5H placements) which has me treat it as more of a game...but I find more fun in other activities (and the drama that sex brings often ruins my fun as well as threatens my independence, perhaps why I've shied away from sex unless I knew it was a fling at most, and even then I usually didn't go looking for it other than the notable "experimental phase" where I even joined an exclusive sex club). I also love sexual role playing (but then I love role playing of all kinds) which is probably tied to both my 5H fun & creativity (and Leonine love of props and costumes) but could include the Pisces energy that's so mutable and takes on aspects of everyone else (and also my Gemini MC). I once had a semi-romantic and very sexually adventurous relationship with a guy once who saw himself as female inside. We both had Sag Uranus which can cause people to question gender roles and we did that both philosophically (including what was hardware and what was software, so to speak) and sexually. It was intensely exciting for me while it lasted though I've never sought to repeat it...been there, done that, learned what I wanted to learn (he was also a Pisces sun which also meshed with my 8H Pisces for both transformation and, I believe, sex). IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted December 30, 2014 08:36 PM
Seeing the bits above about slavery, submission, etc, reminded me of a fun anime scene in which one claims a guy as her slave (literal, I think) and the jealous woman thinks they've been playing naughty games and expresses how she's fantasized about being his slave:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0VWyNBEiShY A bit grainy so I suggest going to full screen if you can to read the subtitles. I think this preceded the fight (and is a lot less grainy):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e5X4qk0ksg8 Anime loves to joke about that. One was based on Alice in Wonderland and had at least a few S&M, B&D jokes, many of them too subtle for me to catch at first though one guy being pulled in both directions made me laugh where one woman yanked him yelling "Let go of my slave!" and the man pulling him on the other yelling, "Let go of my master!" (Though why she couldn't accept them both as her slaves wasn't apparent to me.) IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted December 31, 2014 01:27 AM
Behold, 8H Virgo sexuality!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rBrjaPit7vQ IP: Logged |
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