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Topic: RULER OF your 8th House and your SEXUALITY
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FireWire Knowflake Posts: 372 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 24, 2012 03:14 PM
The only thing in my 8th is my NN in Taurus (it looks to be on cusp depending on which housing system I use).Not sure what it means, per se. But, I take sex very seriously and it is very spiritual for me and I am VERY sensual and appreciate intimacy. I like the feeling of completely being lost into one another. Oh just the thought. Some Scorp on the board mentionined wanting to 'inhale' someone and I know exactly what they mean, as all of my senses are full engaged, active and stimulated for good lovin'. I could go on, but I won't. Can't reveal it all...  IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 7102 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted February 24, 2012 05:52 PM
The ruler of my 8th house is Sagittarius but....my Venus is Gemini and mars in Taurus. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 71789 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 24, 2012 06:17 PM
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Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 3842 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 24, 2012 09:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by alaz7200: @Desiring Shadows: Your 8th House is ruled by Capricorn, which would suggest your teeth (not likely) or knees (more likely) as your erogenous zone. Yes/no?
The knees are not my erogenous zone. Personally I like when someone I care for unexpectedly whispers something warm in my ear, or cuddles with me. I like the idea of having cold toes with warm toes. (NOT A FOOT FETISH. NOOOO!!! ) But, yeah.
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ail221 Moderator Posts: 7102 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted February 24, 2012 09:52 PM
I'd say because my mars sign is Taurus and my ascendant is Taurus, venus in the second house. I am really big on sensuality, indulgence etc. But my 8th house has Sagittarius. I don't really have one erogenous zone probably my neck and my hips. More of the try everything once kinda of girl. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12072 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 24, 2012 10:01 PM
i have a think with hair, i like playing with a hair and having mine messed with , i dont know how my chart would apply to that perhaps just my taurus moon sensualness , i also get turned on by the smell of certain perfumesIP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12072 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 24, 2012 10:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: i have a think with hair, i like playing with a hair and having mine messed with , i dont know how my chart would apply to that perhaps just my taurus moon sensualness , i also get turned on by the smell of certain perfumes
sensuality XD IP: Logged |
alaz7200 Knowflake Posts: 293 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 24, 2012 10:33 PM
@AquaGuy91: Is Aries prominent and/or linked to your sexual points anywhere in your chart? I have found many of the Aries babes I've been with LOVED their hair played with.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12072 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 24, 2012 10:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by alaz7200: @AquaGuy91: Is Aries prominent and/or linked to your sexual points anywhere in your chart? I have found many of the Aries babes I've been with LOVED their hair played with.
aries is my 2nd house cusp, and the only planet in the 1st is venus IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 3842 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 24, 2012 10:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: sensuality XD
Did you really just comment on your own post? ..such an AQUARIUS!!! Lmao!
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12072 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 24, 2012 10:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by Desiring Shadows: [b] Did you really just comment on your own post? ..such an AQUARIUS!!! Lmao! [/B]
just a correction XD, and you sure have a thing for aquarius .. haha IP: Logged |
alaz7200 Knowflake Posts: 293 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 24, 2012 11:30 PM
@AquaGuy91: Is Aries prominent and/or linked to your sexual points anywhere in your chart? I have found many of the Aries babes I've been with LOVED their hair played with.IP: Logged |
AscTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1201 From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa Registered: May 2009
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posted February 25, 2012 04:38 AM
I have Sagittarius in 8th , ruler of 8th(Jupiter) is also in 8th. Jupiter forms a conjunctiuon to my Sun,Neptune(in eighth). Uranus is also in Eighth, but it forms no close aspects to Jupiter, Sun or Neptune.I like watching porn and am actually a litle afraid of sex. To me sex is always an anti-climax and I sometimes feel I am better off doing it alone.I haven't had a really good experience with it and my fear of it may stem from the fact that having someone there, means that you have to "fake it" so that the perosn doesn't feel bad. So, I'd rather go at it alone. I also have Saturn in Scorpio(which I believe has more to do with it than the 8th house). Saturn conjucts my Venus by 6 degrees; I tend to reserve love a great deal(which is true)and am not easily impressed. Idealistically, I'd love a really emotional partner to hard Venus-Saturn Scorpio conjunct. I have many fears about sexual intimacy, but they can be overcome. Both Saturn and Venus fall in my 7th house btw: Highlighting also how realtionships make me tense with emotions that are not easy to express.
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Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 29896 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 25, 2012 06:55 AM
On the sexual profile:These are two articles by Basil Fearrington http://www.themetaarts.com/archives/200310/basilfearington.html http://www.themetaarts.com/archives/200311/basilfearington.html "it is important to understand that the analysis must work within and through the total expression of identity as is suggested by the entire horoscope" "In modern times, there has been much debate between astrologers as to whether the 8th House is the House of sexuality or the 5th House. The sexual identity is found first and foremost through analysis of the 5th House of the horoscope; that is, the ruler of or a planet in the House (which ever is the most dominant). "
" A person's sexual identity is found in the 5th House. That is, the attitude about sex, the sexual orientation, the comfort level, proclivities, etc., are all found in the 5th House. The 8th House becomes important in sexuality as a symbolism of a person's comfort level when engaged in the sexual act with another. The relationship between the 5th and 8th House in sexuality is pretty similar to the 1st House - 7th House relationship. The 1st House symbolizes one's identity. The 7th House tells us about the relationship capacity of that identity as it merges with others within relationships. Using another example, the 10th House symbolizes the professional profile but the 2nd House, on an outer level, gives insight into one's earning capacity. The 5th House symbolizes the sexual identity; the 8th House symbolizes the capacity that the sexual identity has to fulfill itself when sex is shared with another" "As a very general rule of thumb, when either significator (the planet ruling it or a planet placed in the House) of the 5th House is involved in tension aspects with outer planets, there are suggestions of challenges and concerns within the sexual profile that are of importance."
"When hard aspect contacts involve an 8th House significator, the suggestions are the same as with the 5th House except that the focus is on the fulfillment or lack of it when engaging in sexual relations with another." (from the first link) I agree with this. It makes sense that the 5th house is about sexual identity and sexual expression in general terms and the 8th house is about sexuality in relation to others, how you express your sexuality with someone else.
The reason for why I believe this to be true is that the 5th house is on the lower half of the chart, which represents the "I"; it is only in the 7th house that another person is present, or we relate to a direct other, thus the 8th house falls into the quadrant that deals with personal relationships. imo both houses and their ruler and respective aspects have to be taken into consideration.
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 20055 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 25, 2012 12:04 PM
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sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted February 25, 2012 01:24 PM
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SaggiMC unregistered
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posted February 25, 2012 02:25 PM
As a Modern Astrologer I will have to disagree with Ceridwen theory of 5th being house of sex. for me it's the house of romance, not sex per se. Sex and conception is the 8th house domain and to re affirm this I offer the following... The Eighth House - conception “The eighth house covers sex, death, and other people's resources. Most beginning astrologers question how these areas of life are related, and the explanation offers insight into some of life's most intriguing activities. The lives of others impact our lives on a moment-to-moment basis. Every human interaction engages the mental, emotional, material or spiritual resources of at least one other person. Sexual response and sexual expression form a fundamental area for us to cultivate the spiritual connection with others through the physical connection.” http://www.llewellyn.com/encyclopedia/article/130 “deepest fears, obsessions, denied dreams, ability to love and care for children, sexual hang ups, obsession/relationship with money, need to exploit others, length and breadth of vanity, secret desire to rule the world, {Or at least, your world and everyone in it} and every religious neurotic tendency you could ever invent, relate to, dispose or crave. According to traditional astrology the 8th house is the precarious domain of sex, death and money. But, it has been my experience that the 8th house goes much deeper than these obvious realities” http://www.articlesbase.com/astrology-articles/face-the-boogey-man-your-incessant-spectator-mind-and-how-it-works-8th-house-deal-949018.html “One way to read a birth chart is to start with the Eighth House, where conception begins. During the nine months of pregnancy, the cycle travels from the beginning of the Eighth House to the ascendant, which represents the moment of birth, the baby's first breath” http://www2.canada.com/topics/lifestyle/astrology/health/pregnancy/index.html Now as the OP has venus conj pluto, will describe his purpensities, whether venus were the ruler of 8th or not... Planet IN a house have FIRST SHOUT and how they are aspected will show how they functionn in that house. Then we look at house cusp rules to make a link or 'join the dot's between houses. For example OP has ruler of 8 in 2nd house... Ruler of the Eighth House in the Second House "Other people's money or resources can strengthen your own financial picture. Other people's values can influence your own value system. The field of metaphysics could be a source of income for you. Deep intimate bonding with another person is something you feel strongly about. You tend to bond with others emotionally as well as sexually and it's difficult for you to separate these feelings" http://www.skyviewzone.com/astrology/houserulerships.htm#hr8 Basic astrology forum, House meanings http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000683.html
------------------ I love the parable, “If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day, BUT if you teach him how to fish, you feed him for life.” IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 29896 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 25, 2012 03:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by SaggiMC: As a Modern Astrologer I will have to disagree with Ceridwen theory of 5th being house of sex. for me it's the house of romance, not sex per se. Sex and conception is the 8th house domain and to re affirm this I offer the following... The Eighth House - conception “The eighth house covers sex, death, and other people's resources. Most beginning astrologers question how these areas of life are related, and the explanation offers insight into some of life's most intriguing activities. The lives of others impact our lives on a moment-to-moment basis. Every human interaction engages the mental, emotional, material or spiritual resources of at least one other person. Sexual response and sexual expression form a fundamental area for us to cultivate the spiritual connection with others through the physical connection.” http://www.llewellyn.com/encyclopedia/article/130 “deepest fears, obsessions, denied dreams, ability to love and care for children, sexual hang ups, obsession/relationship with money, need to exploit others, length and breadth of vanity, secret desire to rule the world, {Or at least, your world and everyone in it} and every religious neurotic tendency you could ever invent, relate to, dispose or crave. According to traditional astrology the 8th house is the precarious domain of sex, death and money. But, it has been my experience that the 8th house goes much deeper than these obvious realities” http://www.articlesbase.com/astrol ogy-articles/face-the-boogey-man-your-incessant-spectator-mind-and-how-it-works-8th-house-deal-949018.html “One way to read a birth chart is to start with the Eighth House, where conception begins. During the nine months of pregnancy, the cycle travels from the beginning of the Eighth House to the ascendant, which represents the moment of birth, the baby's first breath” http://www2.canada.com/topics/lifestyle/astrology/health/pregnancy/index.html Now as the OP has venus conj pluto, will describe his purpensities, whether venus were the ruler of 8th or not... Planet IN a house have FIRST SHOUT and how they are aspected will show how they functionn in that house. Then we look at house cusp rules to make a link or 'join the dot's between houses. For example OP has ruler of 8 in 2nd house... Ruler of the Eighth House in the Second House "Other people's money or resources can strengthen your own financial picture. Other people's values can influence your own value system. The field of metaphysics could be a source of income for you. Deep intimate bonding with another person is something you feel strongly about. You tend to bond with others emotionally as well as sexually and it's difficult for you to separate these feelings" http://www.skyviewzone.com/astrology/houserulerships.htm#hr8 Basic astrology forum, House meanings http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000683.html
What are your reasons to come to this conclusion?
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 7201 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted February 25, 2012 08:25 PM
Sorry to be rude but I'm a Capricorn. My erogenous zone is my right rear hip where my pants pocket is because that is where you'll find my wallet.  Fastest way to get me to orgasm is a stack of Benjamins.  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12072 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 25, 2012 08:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Sorry to be rude but I'm a Capricorn. My erogenous zone is my right rear hip where my pants pocket is because that is where you'll find my wallet.  Fastest way to get me to orgasm is a stack of Benjamins. 
lmao, and a stack of bejamins also helps turn on the ladies ,so its a win win situation XD
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mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2400 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted February 25, 2012 08:59 PM
House 5 is more house of playful sex, and 8th house is more sensual, intimate sex.Seems from what I see, people with venus, mars or planets in the 5th house have a tendency to be promiscuous - or seem to view sex as more fun while people with planets in the 8th view sex as something more meaningful. IP: Logged |
AmethystOrnella Knowflake Posts: 83 From: New York, NY Registered: Dec 2010
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posted February 25, 2012 09:00 PM
Taurus at the 29th Degree (Virtually Gemini), Moon in the 8th. Dirty Talking is my Poison.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12072 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 25, 2012 09:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by mintgirl123: House 5 is more house of playful sex, and 8th house is more sensual, intimate sex.Seems from what I see, people with venus, mars or planets in the 5th house have a tendency to be promiscuous - or seem to view sex as more fun while people with planets in the 8th view sex as something more meaningful.
yea i think theres truth to that, i know a girl with a loaded fifth house and she has been around the block plenty of times,
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12072 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 25, 2012 09:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by AmethystOrnella: Taurus at the 29th Degree (Virtually Gemini), Moon in the 8th. Dirty Talking is my Poison.
XD i am a gemini mars, and dirty talk is really fun IP: Logged |