posted March 08, 2012 09:12 PM            

My commitment to the people who read my website and come to me for readings is honesty. With that caveat, I want to tell you what I believe about this topic. There are certain factors which spell certain levels of a relationship. It is clear by what touches what in synastry what the people will feel for each other imo. Synastry is a major reason people will consult an Astrologer. If the chart does not allow for something in the relationship, one cannot force it..The lack will be as real as an amputated limb.It is not there. No wishing will make it so. That is my experience. I will explain certain aspects in synastry and what they offer to a relationship and what the lack of them will do to a relationship imo.

Venus trine Venus—- The other person will be pleasing to your tastes. Your idea of beauty will be met by him. His idea of beauty will be met by you.

Venus square Venus–There may be some inkling that the person does not fit with what you find beautiful.

Moon trine Moon— true soul mates and true friends from the heart

Moon square Moon–you don’t “get” the person. You may be crying and the person will not be able to comfort you as they have little understanding of how you work

Moon oppose Moon–you do not “get” the person as your hearts see things very differently. Again, the person would have a hard time comforting you for the above reason.

Pluto trine Venus–this is raw passion combined with finding the person beautiful to your senses.

Pluto square Venus—this is raw passion which may explode into cats and dogs fighting

Pluto conjunct Venus–this is a feeling that you have found your true other half

Pluto conjunct the Moon–this is deep heart love combined with raw passion. This is the one of romance novels and once in a lifetime imo

Pluto trine the moon–raw passion and deep heart love without cats and dogs fighting

Pluto square the moon—raw passion with cats and dogs fighting

Mars square Pluto—raw passion with power plays which could get violent if allowed to do so
Uranus in any aspect—-intense attraction but no indication of anything past this

Neptune in any aspect–people may see with rose colored glasses. If there are abuse aspects, people may not be able to see it until they are embroiled. Then, there may be an awful wake up call. On the other hand, in a positive synastry Neptune can give the feeling of living in a musical

Soul mate asteroids–There are certain soul mate asteroids such as Valentine, Ceres, and Amor. There are many more

Abuse /Obsession asteroids–There are many of these such as Nessus and Dejanira.

This is a small sampling.Certain aspects are so strong and so pivotal that they can over ride others.I put moon aspects in this category. Moon trine Moon can overcome many aspects.Moon/Pluto is the same. In conclusion, knowing what the relationship will allow is wonderful information which which to be forearmed. Of course, one may decide to enter a relationship without good moon aspects. That is one’s choice but one will know, beforehand. That is my purpose for any of the work I do or articles I write.

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posted March 08, 2012 09:13 PM            

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posted March 08, 2012 09:27 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Great article ami

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Thank you Sweet One!

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posted March 08, 2012 09:36 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Ami I noticed that quite a few ppl have Uranus square Venus in the natal or composite. Do you think this is a divorce aspect? That's what I read from some posts.
Wanna know ur opinion on that.

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I cannot say that Sweetie. Uranus sq Venus would be someone who is afraid of commitment, afraid of losing his freedom in love, I think.

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posted March 08, 2012 09:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I cannot say that Sweetie. Uranus sq Venus would be someone who is afraid of commitment, afraid of losing his freedom in love, I think.

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posted March 08, 2012 09:42 PM            

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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:
While I agree that synastry is important and can tell how a relationship will go, I must tell you that I had Venus square Venus with a guy once and we both think of eachother as the most beautiful people walking this eart - to this day.

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Yes I felt insecure as I said that but let me ask you this SH. What did your moons do? I think Moons can trump anything at all!

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posted March 08, 2012 09:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

Yes I felt insecure as I said that but let me ask you this SH. What did your moons do? I think Moons can trump anything at all!

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posted March 08, 2012 10:03 PM            

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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:
My moon is trine his sun and our suns are in sextile. My moon conjunct his ASC. And his Moon is sextile my Mars.

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Yes, Moons trump all!

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posted March 08, 2012 10:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
ariesdragon your'e so cool

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posted March 08, 2012 10:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
ariesdragon your'e so cool

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posted March 08, 2012 10:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

Yes, Moons trump all!

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posted March 08, 2012 11:52 PM            

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Originally posted by amowls**:
This is too cut and dry. In general, squares create tension, but it doesn't mean it is an indication of less love.

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posted March 09, 2012 04:39 AM            

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Originally posted by amowls**:
This is too cut and dry. In general, squares create tension, but it doesn't mean it is an indication of less love.

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Thanks Amwols. You have a good point. I encourage everyone to give me feedback. Of course, I hope it is respectful as Amowls was. If it isn't, I ignore you

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posted March 09, 2012 04:41 AM            

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Originally posted by amowls**:
In my experience, trines are affection, but they don't create the burning/aching passionate desire that come with hard aspects (not saying that trines lack passion but you know).

But then again, I'm a romantic Pisces Venus square Uranus/Saturn.

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Good point Amwols.

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posted March 09, 2012 04:43 AM            

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Originally posted by VenusdeIndia:
With soulmates, Twin flames/souls you have to make a huge concession - luminaries and personals in hard aspects. I would personally say tight conjunctions,oppositions and squares will connect their energy blueprints more dynamically than the nice easy trines. Such relationships are never about easy,flowing interactions but upheavels and transformations.

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Please elaborate on specifics of Twinflames aspects, Venus. Thanks!

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posted March 09, 2012 04:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Lava Flower:
Ami Anne, what about natal moon exactly trine draco moon? The natal to natal trine is 7*.

The descriptions I have come across do fit, deep intuitive connection, meeting unspoken needs, etc. But we are both water moons so that comes naturally to us anyway? Of course I cannot expressed myself the same with other element moons..

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I don't do Draconic because I do not believe in past lives as I am a Born Again Christian and we believe we take this ride once

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