posted March 19, 2012 01:23 PM            

Having a Pisces Mars lets me get into the barriers of Scorpio men sometimes, and I get the privilege of learning their strategy.

One of the extreme things I heard would probably be from a particular Scorpio Mars man who held a grudge against this particular Libra Mars man, because the Libra Mars cheated with his girlfriend.

posted March 19, 2012 05:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Charlotte_E:
He could be plotting on something bad.

Having a Pisces Mars lets me get into the barriers of Scorpio men sometimes, and I get the privilege of learning their strategy.

One of the extreme things I heard would probably be from a particular Scorpio Mars man who held a grudge against this particular Libra Mars man, because the Libra Mars cheated with his girlfriend.

Scorp Mars guy loathed the Libra afterward -- "I pretend now that I have forgiven him so no one will suspect me one day. I can wait years. If it takes a decade, I don't mind. One day he will just get shocked that his children are dead and his wife has been gang raped."

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posted March 21, 2012 10:16 AM            

To make things worse, I was so disgusted with myself that I hid it from him for a year. When my conscience couldn't bear it anymore I told him straight out, online too. He was murderous with rage. If I told him personally I think he could have killed me.

Anyways, the good news is that -- remarkably! -- he forgave me eventually. I had to shun all my social contact for months in order to prove myself, only speaking to others if it was a professional matter and necessary. Of course I was required to pretend that the Libra guy no longer exists, and delete all contact with him. This was quite easy for me to do given the fact that this particular Libra ended up being a coward and sold me to Scorpy when a confrontation arose.

What an incident!

We are still together, and much stronger <3

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
Wow he mustve been so hurt. I'm sure my words were similar to my sun virgo, venus libra, mars scorpio ditzy friend who had my exboyfriend do some not so approrpiate things to her. My ex boyfriend was a pig, to put it in short. But she was honest and told me what he did. Then he told me what happened and I lashed out at her. I still am to this day just like "wtf" whenever I first see her, no matter how much I forgave hr and how we re "friends" again its always going to be there. It wasn't her fault though and the third time she told me what happened she sounded very sad about the ejntire situation, like he forced it upon her. Unwillingly!. So I stopped the hate mail towards her and sent it to him. She literall cried herself to sleep many nights and had her parents think she was all bad things because I just thught id emphasize what she did when they called me asking wy I was bullying her and told me to stop. Now I'm one with it all. The second I was no longer heart broken the second all of the bad went away. I know it bearly hurt him, but her way more. Can't undo what it done and am okay with that. I'm a libra with venus libra and mars scorpio. I'm not ridiculous in behavior like that anymore. I was very immature and had a lot of hidden rage.. anyways, that's probably why most scorpio mars don't react. They just give up on the person. I originally woulv gave up on this girl, but she wouldn't leave me alone. She really wanted to be my friend.

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posted March 21, 2012 02:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Charlotte_E:
I'd hate to tell you this, but it was me who was that guy's girlfriend who cheated on him. I hope you don't judge me, we were at a difficult time -- I was a naive fish and he was doing the typical Scorpio emotional distance, at times he would even abuse me physically and emotionally. It was a very difficult time indeed, it hurts me to remember! The Libra guy was a dear friend that time, I thought I could trust him, and one night after my Scorpy (my nickname for him) and I fought, I just couldn't take it anymore and I ended up making a mistake with the Libra guy.

To make things worse, I was so disgusted with myself that I hid it from him for a year. When my conscience couldn't bear it anymore I told him straight out, online too. He was murderous with rage. If I told him personally I think he could have killed me.

Anyways, the good news is that -- remarkably! -- he forgave me eventually. I had to shun all my social contact for months in order to prove myself, only speaking to others if it was a professional matter and necessary. Of course I was required to pretend that the Libra guy no longer exists, and delete all contact with him. This was quite easy for me to do given the fact that this particular Libra ended up being a coward and sold me to Scorpy when a confrontation arose.

What an incident!

We are still together, and much stronger <3

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posted March 21, 2012 02:32 PM              

I don't understand people who "confess" their cheating in order to clear THEIR OWN conscience. That can't turn back time and all you accomplish is hurting someone. The only time I find it acceptable to tell is if it's endangering someone's physical health.

posted March 21, 2012 05:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Of course he'd be mad.

I don't understand people who "confess" their cheating in order to clear THEIR OWN conscience. That can't turn back time and all you accomplish is hurting someone. The only time I find it acceptable to tell is if it's endangering someone's physical health.

If you cheat, the best punishment is to let the knowledge fester inside as you take it to your grave. And let the other keep their bliss.

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I agree.

We were talking about this with my best friend the other day, and she said that she told her boyfriend, that if he ever wants to cheat on her, he'd have to do it so she doesn't know it, and he should keep it for himself. That way, she doesn't get to suffer while he feels guilty inside.

posted March 21, 2012 10:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Of course he'd be mad.

I don't understand people who "confess" their cheating in order to clear THEIR OWN conscience. That can't turn back time and all you accomplish is hurting someone. The only time I find it acceptable to tell is if it's endangering someone's physical health.

If you cheat, the best punishment is to let the knowledge fester inside as you take it to your grave. And let the other keep their bliss.

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To be honest this is the very reason i kept it from him for a year, because i was debating on what was the right thing to do. When i told him the truth we were at a happy time. I decided i couldn't make him believe that i am something i am not. If i were him i would prefer to know the truth. It also gave him the upper hand, making him the victim, to allow him to be cruel to me. That is in itself a pleasure to a Scorpio Mars. Everyone wants an excuse to lash out, deep in their hearts. Not everyone wants to keep their head up in the clouds you know. That's why we have astrology, to know the differences.

posted March 21, 2012 10:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I agree.

We were talking about this with my best friend the other day, and she said that she told her boyfriend, that if he ever wants to cheat on her, he'd have to do it so she doesn't know it, and he should keep it for himself. That way, she doesn't get to suffer while he feels guilty inside.

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Actually, i find that a little naive. The world is full of cheaters, liars, imperfect people. I wouldn't be love if you couldn't accept your partner for what he/she really is.