posted March 22, 2012 04:33 AM            

I have Mars in Cancer, in the Fall. I have a very hard time with aggression and anger. I attribute this to the Fall position. I say this only to say that I wonder if a woman's comfort level with her gender and female self is related to her moon sign( and aspects too)

Thanks for your help.Please add details, if you care to, so I can feel out your Moon position. One only has one's own placement to draw from unless one gets experiences from others.

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posted March 22, 2012 04:52 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
interesting that you should post this because i have noticed women with masculine moons have a resentment towards men, however i am not trying to say that includes all masculine moon women, just most of the ones i have observed.

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Right, I was wondering a similar thing.I have always had very easy relationships with men. I have had little to no sexual harassment. However, aggression and anger are hard for me with Mars in the Fall. I really think the Domicile, Fall etc is a bigger deal than people realize. That was part of my reason for writing this, too.

When one has a Domicile position, it is like the Trine.One has an easy relationship with that energy.One is so natural with it that one is surprised when others are not.

I feel this sense of awe for the strong Mars such as Aries and Scorpio.

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posted March 22, 2012 04:58 AM            

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I have always had very easy relationships with men. I have had little to no harassment

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I feel the same way! My Moon - as you know is in Cappy in the 7th house.

The problem is - Do you know what some 'good samaritan' will come in and tell you now?
They will tell you that you are brainwashed by this patriarchial society and you THINK that you are not being harassed and oppressed because that is what "they" (read: the men of the world) want you to think.. and it is all a big misogynistic conspiracy.

posted March 22, 2012 04:58 AM              

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
interesting that you should post this because i have noticed women with masculine moons have a resentment towards men, however i am not trying to say that includes all masculine moon women, just most of the ones i have observed.

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My mum has the most feminine of Moons and she has an extremely bleak view of men.

A woman's Sun & Mars and how they are aspected reflect how she perceives guys.

posted March 22, 2012 05:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I feel the same way! My Moon - as you know is in Cappy in the 7th house.

The problem is - Do you know what some 'good samaritan' will come in and tell you now?
They will tell you that you are brainwashed by this patriarchial society and you THINK that you are not being harassed and oppressed because that is what "they" (read: the men of the world) want you to think.. and it is all a big misogynistic conspiracy.

Oh Brother.. Don't get me started.

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I am the same. If a man thinks I am attractive, I love it. If I am not interested, I am careful not to hurt his ego, as we all have one lol

You have a Cappy moon which is a masculine moon so maybe the moon theory is not the factor. However, the moon IS one's female side. So, it would have to be some factor. Do you all agree with that?

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posted March 22, 2012 05:49 AM            

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Originally posted by s4nd:
moon in pisces is masculine no? some seem so comfortable in the feminine gender role..

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posted March 22, 2012 06:02 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
Yes, I have a Moon-Mars opposition. Scorpio Venus.

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OK--Mars is masculine energy and the moon is feminine energy I think one could say although Venus could be said to be feminine energy but I think the moon would be one's female side and Venus is what we find beautiful so your female side may war with your masculine side Regardes. Do you feel that?

Scorpio venus is one of the hardest placements as it is in it's Fall( or detriment lol)

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posted March 22, 2012 06:03 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
As for a man's ego: honestly, I don't care. I protect myself and keep myself safe. I do NOT feel OK if certain men find me attractive. If I know and trust the person, and know intuitively that the person is "safe"--if my intuition is sending me the OK signal--I don't get as bothered. A little weird, but I "know" when a person is OK. So, I'm not going to freak out if someone who gives me an "OK" signal says that I'm pretty--and that's all that a person in that category would say; it wouldn't go over into anything inappropriate or vulgar.

With others, though, I do not care if they're offended that I don't speak to them. I have to be safe, and I don't OWE another man conversation, a date, sex, or anything. I'm a person, not an object. I would rather be considered rude and/or an "ice queen" than be raped, groped, beaten, otherwise harmed, or dead.

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posted March 22, 2012 06:10 AM            

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a Cappy moon which is a masculine moon so maybe the moon theory is not the factor

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posted March 22, 2012 06:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Capricorn is a feminine sign, so it can still work! All the earth & water signs are feminine. But Taurus and Cancer are extra feminine because they are also ruled by feminine planets.

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Ok Thanks--Yes I forgot that Betty lol

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posted March 22, 2012 06:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I am the same. If a man thinks I am attractive, I love it. If I am not interested, I am careful not to hurt his ego, as we all have one lol

You have a Cappy moon which is a masculine moon so maybe the moon theory is not the factor. However, the moon IS one's female side. So, it would have to be some factor. Do you all agree with that?

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posted March 22, 2012 06:44 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i like the way you think ami, i wish more women had the same feelings, i have gotten bad reactions from women just from saying they are pretty,i have had them quit engaging me in conversation,or lash out and say well i think you are ugly or a creep,and im left standing there thinking wtf all i did was pay the lady a compliment and im a nice guy,heck i would be thrilled if a woman was to approach me and tell me that im handsome regardless of whether i was also attracted them,it would still make me feel good. i just cant understand why people would respond negatively to a compliment, i dunno maybe i am being insensitive

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I am with you, Aquaguy. I appreciate a man thinking I am attractive. I can tell a man No without it being weird as I try to handle any situation so that both people can retain their sense of dignity to the best of my ability.

If a man is interested in me and I am not, I can let him know where he does not feel like a fool. I would want the same respect for my feelings from someone. "Do unto others as you want them to do unto you" is what I try to live by.

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posted March 22, 2012 07:38 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i understand that certain women have bad experiences and i find it appalling when men "harass" women,however i am not talking about harassment,i am talking about a guy seeing a woman he is interested in and politely approaching her,if she is interested they exchange numbers etc or if she is not,she politely declines,which most dont do by the way,and the guy goes on his merry way, yes i could kind of see why it would be scary for a woman when a man approaches her that she doesnt know,but think about it,before you met your friends werent they strangers? you will never get to know someone unless you talk to them, in the dating world the burden is usually on men to make the first move,usually not always, and what women dont realize is that putting ourselves out there is just as frightnening as it is for you,men face rejection every single day from women who can be very rude, it can be very scary ,h*ll it terrifies me to approach a woman ,but as i said women usually want a guy to make the first move,so it has to be done. so do you honestly think all men should pay for the actions of a few? should we just not talk to women at all? i mean i have had bad experiences with women, should i assume all women that approach me are liars,manipulative,or narcissitic? no im not going to do that, because thats not fair to women,everyone is innocent until proven guilty, i understand why you are hesitant ,but you can keep yourself safe while not being so closed off.

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posted March 22, 2012 07:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

You have a Cappy moon which is a masculine moon

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Actually Cappy is a feminine sign (water and earth contains feminine signs; air and fire masculine signs).

Personally though I think Sagittarius, Cappy, Aquarius and Pisces are somehow something different alltogether. lol