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Topic: Jon Hamm Says He'd Be A "Terrible" Dad
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Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1954 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 03:13 PM
http://www.yourtango.com/2012147148/jon-hamm-says-hed-be-terrible-dad I actually feel the same way about my mothering skills (why I have no intention of ever having children) and I have the same Venus-Mars sign combination as Jon - Venus in Aquarius, Mars in Sagittarius.
Can this combination of signs produce a personality that abhors the thought of marriage and children? (I've noticed Jon has done neither despite being with his girlfriend for something like 15 years). IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4492 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 03:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aquacheeka: http://www.yourtango.com/2012147148/jon-hamm-says-hed-be-terrible-dad I actually feel the same way about my mothering skills (why I have no intention of ever having children) and I have the same Venus-Mars sign combination as Jon - Venus in Aquarius, Mars in Sagittarius.
Can this combination of signs produce a personality that abhors the thought of marriage and children? (I've noticed Jon has done neither despite being with his girlfriend for something like 15 years).
i have an aquarius venus and gemini mars and i want to be a daddy someday,but i really think the moon is most important when looking at things like this. lol plus you will probably change your mind,my sister said she hated kids and never wanted one, than only a few years later she made me an uncle lol IP: Logged |
s4nd Knowflake Posts: 487 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 03:31 PM
yeah agree with aqua guy, it's the moon.mine is in leo, h10, squared by pluto, venus, mercury. i also have lilith in the 5th house pisces. i don't think it is for me but maybe if things fell into place.. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1954 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 03:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: i have an aquarius venus and gemini mars and i want to be a daddy someday,but i really think the moon is most important when looking at things like this. lol plus you will probably change your mind,my sister said she hated kids and never wanted one, than only a few years later she made me an uncle lol
I most certainly will not. Childfree people call this "bingoing" when people try to illegitimize our feelings about not having children in this way. It's seen as disrespectful. I'm sure this is not your intention but it's just a little FYI  IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1954 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 03:36 PM
I have moon in Pisces in the eighth house.I also have Saturn in the fifth house of children - ding ding ding! LOL. Could be it. Then again, Jon Hamm is a Pisces sun, just like my moon. Maybe it's the Pisces (though I doubt it). Aqua and Sag are signs that aren't exactly known for their love of domesticity, though, so it was the first thing that I thought to attribute it to.
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Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1954 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 03:39 PM
Straight up, Aquaguy91, if I got pregnant I would have an abortion. No qualms about it. As a sort of precautionary measure, I've gone online and looked up how to induce miscarriage, what I termed "home remedies." I told my Virgo friend that, she was pretty offended at my choice of words. What is your moon sign, Aquaguy?
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 2168 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 26, 2012 03:46 PM
Aquaguy has a Taurus Moon!Oh that's a very interesting topic. I think Regardes Platero here doesn't want to have children, either.. I know she has a Cancer Moon, and a bunch of Libra and Scorpio placements. I don't know what would cause that astrologically speaking, but I think Saturn in the 5th may play a role in it!
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Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1954 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 03:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Aquaguy has a Taurus Moon!Oh that's a very interesting topic. I think Regardes Platero here doesn't want to have children, either.. I know she has a Cancer Moon, and a bunch of Libra and Scorpio placements. I don't know what would cause that astrologically speaking, but I think Saturn in the 5th may play a role in it!
Definitely, it makes the idea of childbearing seem waaaaay too heavy and unappealing.
I also noticed that both Oprah and Jennifer Aniston are Aquas with Sag moons and neither of them have children. So I think there may be something about the combination of these two signs that makes the idea of kids really seem like the proverbial ball and chain.
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sfaithj Knowflake Posts: 32 From: Berkeley,CA Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 26, 2012 03:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aquacheeka: http://www.yourtango.com/2012147148/jon-hamm-says-hed-be-terrible-dad I actually feel the same way about my mothering skills (why I have no intention of ever having children) and I have the same Venus-Mars sign combination as Jon - Venus in Aquarius, Mars in Sagittarius.
Can this combination of signs produce a personality that abhors the thought of marriage and children? (I've noticed Jon has done neither despite being with his girlfriend for something like 15 years).
my ex is venus in aquarius. i couldn't even convince him to be in a monogamous relationship with me. marriage? ha! nice try. my current sweetie is mars in capricorn. i think i'll have an easier time convincing him that marriage is a good thing. :-)
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amowls** Knowflake Posts: 1918 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 26, 2012 04:14 PM
I don't want kids. I'm an Aqua with Mars in Sag but Venus in Pisces. I have a 5th house Libra Moon.IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 4363 From: Surfing Kite. Seriously. Registered: Aug 2010
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posted March 26, 2012 04:20 PM
Oh,Don... What's Jon asc??
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Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1954 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 04:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by amowls**: I don't want kids. I'm an Aqua with Mars in Sag but Venus in Pisces. I have a 5th house Libra Moon.
lol @ the same three signs.
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alaz7200 Knowflake Posts: 264 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 04:33 PM
I'm a Sun/Mercury/Mars in Sag, Saturn in Aquarius.Have always wanted children... since I was a child. I have Cancer on the MC though... IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 868 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 26, 2012 04:45 PM
My mother has Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Capricorn and she always wanted to be a mother. She is a very free spirited person but she told me that having a child never seemed like a burden to her. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4492 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 04:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aquacheeka: I most certainly will not. Childfree people call this "bingoing" when people try to illegitimize our feelings about not having children in this way. It's seen as disrespectful. I'm sure this is not your intention but it's just a little FYI 
i wasnt meaning disrespect,obviously children arent right for everyone, but just pointing out that peoples attitudes do tend to change on this as we get older, heck im 21 years old and i will be the first to say i dont want kids now, i want to have fun,get established in a career and travel ,and get down to babymaking maybe in my 30s haha, and yea my bro has saturn in the 5th he also said he dont want kids and if he does,much later in life. IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8763 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 26, 2012 06:05 PM
Sagittarius & Aquarius are both associated with a love of freedom. And honesty, and an intellectual bent.IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 26, 2012 06:17 PM
sfaithj - quote: My current sweetie is mars in capricorn.
I have this Mars.. I know I do want kids now.. but I didn't always. I am almost 26.. 5 days to go... lol I won't have a child in the next 3 yrs though. Actually, I even know the person who I want to have kids with, if everything works out, fingers crossed. Late 20s, early 30s is a good time imo What is your Venus/Mars combo? And also - what sign is his Venus? IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 4367 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 26, 2012 07:49 PM
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Desiring Shadows Moderator Posts: 1669 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 08:55 PM
I don't think it has to do with the attraction placements.... LOL.My friend has moon and sun weirdly aspecting uranus and neptune. she also has saturn in the 1st and mars in the 1st and she doesnt want to have kids. But I know she will because I'm going to make her. lol.
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4080 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted March 27, 2012 12:07 AM
This thread saddens me. Oh well. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4492 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 27, 2012 12:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: This thread saddens me. Oh well.
me too, i want an aquaguy jr , i will call him A.J hahahaha IP: Logged |
sfaithj Knowflake Posts: 32 From: Berkeley,CA Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 27, 2012 12:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by Betty Boop: sfaithj - I have this Mars.. I know I do want kids now.. but I didn't always. I am almost 26.. 5 days to go... lol I won't have a child in the next 3 yrs though. Actually, I even know the person who I want to have kids with, if everything works out, fingers crossed. Late 20s, early 30s is a good time imo What is your Venus/Mars combo? And also - what sign is his Venus?
actually, he's known he wants to get married and have kids for at least a few years (he's 24 years old) but trust me, he's in NO RUSH to get married and have kids. i'm almost 28 and feeling ready to settle down and get pregnant. sigh. there's def something to be said for dating older men. we are both venus in aires and i'm mars in scorpio. IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 868 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 27, 2012 04:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: This thread saddens me. Oh well.
You don't need to feel sad about this. It is actually a good thing that some people don't want children. The planet is overpopulated as it is. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 7217 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 27, 2012 05:04 PM
My fellow childfree-ers make me happy, not sad. I find their comments refreshing.In this day and age it takes courage to follow that path, if it's in your heart. Usually it's best to keep quiet about it though, and just.....quietly not have babies. LOL  Otherwise you will have to get an earful from people .... which, you actually will anyway.... and they also tend to look down on us and feel free to voice their opinion to us. I avoid the whole topic usually. anyway, thumbsup to you! IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 7217 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 27, 2012 05:25 PM
& I do love kids. Most people don't believe that when you say you don't want any.I like other people's kids & they seem to LOVE me too. Somehow I turn into a human jungle-gym, or "ride giver" to the little ones. I can get crazy with them. Just don't want any of my own. Any other childfree people feel the same? I love the little devils, but don't want one of my own.... IP: Logged |