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Topic: So tired of jealous girls...
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ariesdragon Moderator Posts: 4339 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 28, 2012 12:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: [QUOTE]Originally posted by ariesdragon: [b] Did u say he was a leo lonake?
Worse. Scorpio Sun sq Pluto in Leo. Regular Scorpios are not like that. But this one was not reh-gu-lah lmao.[/B][/QUOTE]sun square pluto he must have some identity crisis lol geez IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Moderator Posts: 4339 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 28, 2012 12:41 AM
I bet you are way happier without him lol and are better off without him  IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8763 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 28, 2012 05:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by ariesdragon: sun square pluto he must have some identity crisis lol geez
He ended up calling himself charismatic. Just on a whim. Not repeating what anyone had said, just cos he thought that. lol Now he's 'charismatic' all by himself. Hope his TV set is enraptured by him because I'm not.
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sand Knowflake Posts: 6997 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted March 28, 2012 05:08 AM
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Delilah Knowflake Posts: 684 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 28, 2012 05:59 AM
I have a friend/acquaintance who is jealous of the successes of her friends. She's very competitive with everyone to the point where those of us who really know her don't care to be around her for long. The only thing that I can see in her chart that confirms this is Mars in her 11H. She's always trying to prove that she's better than everyone else. A little off, but we once had tarot readings and the reader told her point blank to stop competing with herself and comparing her successes to others. She has not taken his advice and she's become twice the pain in the who-ha. She's very talented, but if she'd just stop trying to make everyone else feel like garbage for what they've accomplished she'd be a great person to hang out with. Not to mention she cannot see that anyone has had as hard of a life as she has had or worse. She may feel this way because her 1H Jupiter doesn't aspect anything in her chart. She has been lucky, but doesn't see it or appreciate that a lot of people would trade places with her. Her 5H is in Leo and she shines in art, with guys (seriously, they drool over her), and entertainment. Yet, not only does she need to feel that someone is below her, but she practically licks her lips when they admit that they're going through a hard time. IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Moderator Posts: 4339 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 28, 2012 10:03 AM
Thanks for the examples everyone. It makes me feel better that I'm not the only one who sees this type of behavior as nonsense IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Moderator Posts: 4339 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 28, 2012 01:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by sand: I don't mind jealous types. I doubt I'd ever give reason for it anyway. I've never been given reason for it as well but for sure I am the type.  with other's success tho i am not the type. i am no hater lol!
LOL sand you make me laugh which is great bud IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 1780 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 28, 2012 04:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by ariesdragon: Does anyone know what aspects and placements to stay away from when it comes to jealousy? What aspects, planets or placements make jealous ppl? It is so unhealthy and negative. Add jealous men to this too if you have encountered it in one.
Anything Scorpio and Pluto. Sun, ASC, Venus, Mars, etc. Taurus is possesive not jealous. Scorpio is jealous and killer.Question: Are you an Aries with Mercury and Venus in Pisces? If yes, don'y go for a Scorpio. Search for a person with Sun in Leo and planets in Cancer. No jealousy at all.
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4494 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 28, 2012 04:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: [QUOTE]Originally posted by ariesdragon: [b]Does anyone know what aspects and placements to stay away from when it comes to jealousy? What aspects, planets or placements make jealous ppl? It is so unhealthy and negative. Add jealous men to this too if you have encountered it in one.
Anything Scorpio and Pluto. Sun, ASC, Venus, Mars, etc. Taurus is possesive not jealous. Scorpio is jealous and killer.Question: Are you an Aries with Mercury and Venus in Pisces? If yes, don'y go for a Scorpio. Search for a person with Sun in Leo and planets in Cancer. No jealousy at all.[/B][/QUOTE] actually from my experience leos are incredibly jealous if you arent paying all your attention to them. IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian Knowflake Posts: 1050 From: Your ♥ Registered: Jan 2010
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posted March 29, 2012 12:14 AM
Jealous girls I know, Moon Opp Pluto, Venus Opp Pluto, and some squares, but pluto oppositions I've noticed as the worst. Generally they say scorpio/pluto. Hard aspects make the jealousy come out easier, and if they aren't mature. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4494 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 29, 2012 12:14 AM
me to brother man lmao, some people take it way way too far.....IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Moderator Posts: 4339 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 29, 2012 12:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by CrazyAquarian: Jealous girls I know, Moon Opp Pluto, Venus Opp Pluto, and some squares, but pluto oppositions I've noticed as the worst. Generally they say scorpio/pluto. Hard aspects make the jealousy come out easier, and if they aren't mature.
Thank u for the info  IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 1780 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 29, 2012 01:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: actually from my experience leos are incredibly jealous if you arent paying all your attention to them.
Anything Scorpio is jealous WITH OR WITHOUT ATTENTION. Its in their nature! IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Moderator Posts: 4339 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 29, 2012 01:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: Anything Scorpio is jealous WITH OR WITHOUT ATTENTION. Its in their nature!
lol thanks Rosalind IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4494 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 29, 2012 03:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by CrazyAquarian: Jealous girls I know, Moon Opp Pluto, Venus Opp Pluto, and some squares, but pluto oppositions I've noticed as the worst. Generally they say scorpio/pluto. Hard aspects make the jealousy come out easier, and if they aren't mature.
i have moon opposition pluto,both squaring venus,so i must be a jealous gurl huh? lmao IP: Logged |
appleberry Knowflake Posts: 944 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted March 29, 2012 02:36 PM
Isn't jealousy more about synastry? Because one can be jealous of one person but not of another...IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Moderator Posts: 4339 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 29, 2012 03:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by appleberry: Isn't jealousy more about synastry? Because one can be jealous of one person but not of another...
That sounds right appleberry...It's hard to get someone's chart info sometimes though. I know ppl who don't want to give their age. Also a lot of ppl don't know their birth time. I also don't think it's right asking random strangers their birth info lol ya know what I mean?  IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 5849 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 08, 2012 02:15 AM
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Planet Queen Knowflake Posts: 301 From: Portlandia Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 08, 2012 02:26 AM
I can definitely be jealous at times. I have Sun (Leo) square Pluto (Scorpio), but its not crippling nor that bad compared to some.My best friend can definitely get jealous of other girls and me, she has Taurus Venus (5th H) Opposite Pluto in Scorpio (11th H). She also has Moon square Venus, so she has issues with women in general. I try to help her out though. IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8763 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 08, 2012 02:50 AM
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lilithpluto Knowflake Posts: 1454 From: pluto Registered: Dec 2011
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posted April 08, 2012 02:52 AM
Sigh... the guys I loved dun get jealous when other guys flirt or pursue me until we are no longer together. Well, they had nothing to fear so why be jealous when I only have eyes on them. Its different when they know they no longer have any hold on me. Then they panic.  Leo Sun, Aquarius Moon, Gemini Venus Mars Libra. I get jealous of any other girls hovering over my guy but I don't do dramatic actions as I have guys flirting with me too similarly. To be fair, since I felt nothing from the attentions so I persume he should too.. IP: Logged |
Planet Queen Knowflake Posts: 301 From: Portlandia Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 08, 2012 03:01 AM
Lonake, you sound like a really great mom. My mom was also very protective of me and definitely gave me a lot of wisdom about not taking other people's crap. I also have Pisces Moon like your daughter, but its square Jupiter. And I definitely took a lot of crap from school mates, etc. But my mom's advice has always gotten me through rough times and her Moon is exactly opposite my Moon and our NN are exactly conjunct in Pisces. IP: Logged |
Planet Queen Knowflake Posts: 301 From: Portlandia Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 08, 2012 03:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by lilithpluto: Sigh... the guys I loved dun get jealous when other guys flirt or pursue me until we are no longer together. Well, they had nothing to fear so why be jealous when I only have eyes on them.
Unless your into polyamory? I always go for guys that are NOT jealous or protective. It works out because I can flirt to my heart's desire with others and not feel any guilt because they are cool with it.
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RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 5849 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 08, 2012 03:19 AM
what really constitutes as flirting, though?anything sexual to me is a red flag, but just being friendly towards the opposite..without playfully touching them or giving them flirtatious looks and stuff like that, that's what i consider "platonic" What do u consider to be appropriate and inappopriate flirting?  IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8763 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 08, 2012 03:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by Planet Queen: And I definitely took a lot of crap from school mates, etc. But my mom's advice has always gotten me through rough times and her Moon is exactly opposite my Moon and our NN are exactly conjunct in Pisces.
I am so sorry you had to experience that. Being a mother for me has thrown the entire experience of what happens at school & its demands on its head. I'm also happy that your mother helped you because a lot of children don't have that support. I didn't have that support from mine, but I did from my grandmothers & my aunt, all of whom I was closer to.
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