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ariesdragon
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posted March 27, 2012 05:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does anyone know what aspects and placements to stay away from when it comes to jealousy? What aspects, planets or placements make jealous ppl? It is so unhealthy and negative. Add jealous men to this too if you have encountered it in one.

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amowls**
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posted March 27, 2012 05:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls**     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Depends on what you mean. For instance, I've seen so many people who call anyone that dislikes them "jealous." Jealous of what? Maybe they just don't like you. It happens.

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posted March 27, 2012 05:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No it's not that but thanks lol

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posted March 27, 2012 05:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted March 27, 2012 05:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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^oh that is leo for sure.. (jealous of their radiance ofcors how could you not be?! lol!)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mbci0FtybVM

Sand LMFAO!!! who is that chick with Eddie?
She looks like a man and acts like a man hahahaha

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posted March 27, 2012 05:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted March 27, 2012 05:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sand:
grace jones lol!

LMFAO!!! Did I add Talks like a man 2 ahahahaha

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posted March 27, 2012 05:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nyah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
No it's not that but thanks lol

I have the same problem and would like to know! It's a compliment to have this problem, but it just makes it easier to hang out with guys instead of girls - don't you agree?

A female friend actually told a guy we both know that I'm "the girl every guy wants and every girl wants to be". Huge compliment of course! But her jealousy shines through when we meet, she can never be really happy for me and she often mentions that she'd like to do and have stuff I do and have. I try to be humble and understanding and I support her in everything she does. I want to make her feel more confident so she dare to go after the things she wants. It's not really working, and actually not long ago when I was telling her about future plans I was hoping for in my career her response was "isn't that difficult?!" and I'm thinking "Geez, I've been supporting all your ideas for years and this is what I get back?" Dah, I have other friends to hang with who actually give me good energy back.

Jealousy creates imbalance in friendships and it's just very uncomfortable.

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posted March 27, 2012 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Nyah:
I have the same problem and would like to know! It's a compliment to have this problem, but it just makes it easier to hang out with guys instead of girls - don't you agree?

A female friend actually told a guy we both know that I'm "the girl every guy wants and every girl wants to be". Huge compliment of course! But her jealousy shines through when we meet, she can never be really happy for me and she often mentions that she'd like to do and have stuff I do and have. I try to be humble and understanding and I support her in everything she does. I want to make her feel more confident so she dare to go after the things she wants. It's not really working, and actually not long ago when I was telling her about future plans I was hoping for in my career her response was "isn't that difficult?!" and I'm thinking "Geez, I've been supporting all your ideas for years and this is what I get back?" Dah, I have other friends to hang with who actually give me good energy back.

Jealousy creates imbalance in friendships and it's just very uncomfortable.


EXACTLY NYAH! You know what I'm talking about and ya I can totally understand why you'd rather hang out with guys! xoxo

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posted March 27, 2012 05:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nyah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think jealousy comes from low self-esteem. The Leo thing would be more "Hey, I'm the star, why aren't everyone looking at me?" and that is probably more of a hurt ego I guess it depends on what kind of jealousy we're talking about here.

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posted March 27, 2012 05:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let's listen to some house while we converse about jealousy and what it is... http://youtu.be/LSo_RkH0ak0

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posted March 27, 2012 05:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nyah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
EXACTLY NYAH! You know what I'm talking about and ya I can totally understand why you'd rather hang out with guys! xoxo

Aahh cool! xoxo

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posted March 27, 2012 05:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

It depends on the guy. The right guy for me won't make me jealous. Hell devote his time to me and not even mention other girls.
From past experience 1 guy was werepretty wishy washy. If you hesitated or weren't clear about liking them, they would move on and flirt with other girls the next day. That to me is not a guy I'm interested in.

I think its my venus in libra that keeps stringing them on with a "maybe or later" but its my mars in scorpio that doesn't follow though with the meaningless relations.
If I like someone, they know. If theyre confused about where they stand, it just means I haven't decided on them yet, OR If I already decided theyre a no, and have no intentions of dating them. I usually take a long tme sizing up a partner and when decided they're for keeps.

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posted March 27, 2012 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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It depends on the guy. The right guy for me won't make me jealous. Hell devote his time to me and not even mention other girls.
From past experience 1 guy was werepretty wishy washy. If you hesitated or weren't clear about liking them, they would move on and flirt with other girls the next day. That to me is not a guy I'm interested in.

I think its my venus in libra that keeps stringing them on with a "maybe or later" but its my mars in scorpio that doesn't follow though with the meaningless relations.
If I like someone, they know. If theyre confused about where they stand, it just means I haven't decided on them yet, OR If I already decided theyre a no, and have no intentions of dating them. I usually take a long tme sizing up a partner and when decided they're for keeps.
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I know guys who try to make girls jealous and they are just douche bags. I mean what's the point? Are you kidding me? A girl can get laid faster than a guy any day. Then there are the guys in relationships and are so insecure and "think" they want a trophy gf and when they have one, they hate fighting all the guys off! Like for real?

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posted March 27, 2012 06:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jealousy is naturally a pretty bad trait. Means you don't trust the person and trust is essential. I actually like when the person I'm into gets jealous. That mkes me feel loved. =D

Bad pluto aspects.... like pluto to venus would make a jealous bf in my opinion. Or pluto moon..

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posted March 27, 2012 06:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
I know guys who try to make girls jealous and they are just douche bags. I mean what's the point? Are you kidding me? A girl can get laid faster than a guy any day. Then there are the guys in relationships and are so insecure and "think" they want a trophy gf and when they have one, they hate fighting all the guys off! Like for real?


Lmao! That is so true. They're the ones with the cleavage! Lolz. Yessss. Those type of guys need to get their priorities straight.

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posted March 27, 2012 06:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
Jealousy is naturally a pretty bad trait. Means you don't trust the person and trust is essential. I actually like when the person I'm into gets jealous. That mkes me feel loved. =D

Bad pluto aspects.... like pluto to venus would make a jealous bf in my opinion. Or pluto moon..


I mean there's a limit to it, like when it turns to control is when it's getting ridiculous. Venus/Pluto squares are tough.
What other aspects do u think or anyone?

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posted March 27, 2012 06:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Off hand, I would say Venus in Scorpio may be more jealous as Venus does not like the intensity of Scorpio and all that entails i.e tendency toward obsession. Didn't I say that nicely

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posted March 27, 2012 06:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Off hand, I would say Venus in Scorpio may be more jealous as Venus does not like the intensity of Scorpio and all that entails i.e tendency toward obsession. Didn't I say that nicely

Unfortunately it makes sense...Everyone talks about how scared they are of scorpio's and they're so dark and this and that but WHAT are they so insecure about? I mean they're regarded as tough, scary and inside there is just a scared jealous child? I mean having Pluto as a father is scary but wouldn't it also be empowering. I just can't fathom every scorpio being like this. I know a scorpio girl and she does not like any other woman around her man, even if the ladies are mutual friends of friends.

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posted March 27, 2012 06:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted March 27, 2012 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted March 27, 2012 06:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
I have Venus in Scorpio.

Can't say that you're wrong :-p

And yeah, that probably was worded nicely.

I can get jealous. However, I've also learned to try to control it. At the very least, I try not to let it get out of hand. I let myself feel it, but I also try hard to be happy for the person of whom I'm jealous. It's easier said than done, though. It does take a lot of work, and I'm not always successful.

I don't really feel like people are jealous of me, though.

That said, however, I tend to be more suspicious and mistrustful than I am jealous.

^ me


LOL! thanks RP for letting us have a glimpse of your world darling

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posted March 27, 2012 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Leo for sure. She'll want to kick the butt of every woman that even looks in my direction.

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posted March 27, 2012 07:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Leo for sure. She'll want to kick the butt of every woman that even looks in my direction.

well I guess wifey wuv yu lots lol
and I bet that cap/gem will beat all them men flirting with her too

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posted March 27, 2012 07:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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