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Topic: So tired of jealous girls...
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sand
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posted April 09, 2012 10:18 AM
  
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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
hmmmm.... u mean u just sulk at a corner til it goes away like a leo? but that's so unlike a scorpio dominant chart.u gotta hv to b more creative than that! What do you really do when you r jealous? investigate? Stalk? hehe.. share. I'm curious! 
it's a bad story and maybe more revenge than jealousy. i typed it out but man i don't have the guts to click submit reply haha! i will send it to ur email f u want. maybe even dat i am thinking is not such a good idea now ack! IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
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posted April 09, 2012 10:24 AM
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Doux Rêve
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posted April 09, 2012 10:26 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
it's a bad story and maybe more revenge than jealousy. i typed it out but man i don't have the guts to click submit reply haha! i will send it to ur email f u want. maybe even dat i am thinking is not such a good idea now ack!
Hey that's not nice, now that you've piqued our curiosity, spill!
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Doux Rêve
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posted April 09, 2012 10:27 AM
*sulks* I want to know, too.IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
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posted April 09, 2012 11:49 AM
I'll wait for your email.. 
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ariesdragon
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posted April 09, 2012 12:28 PM
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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
I'll wait for your email..
Awww lol so cute!!! Come on sand tell all lmao IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted April 09, 2012 01:08 PM
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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
hmmmm.... u mean u just sulk at a corner til it goes away like a leo?
My wife doesn't sulk away. I come out from the bathroom, or the train station tunnel with no cell reception, and I see 3 IMs, 2 e-mails and 2 messages on FB. Then the butt kicking steps up progressively, arriving at the Spanish Inquisition. Where, what, who, why, what for, when, how, etc etc..
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ariesdragon
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posted April 09, 2012 06:29 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
My wife doesn't sulk away. I come out from the bathroom, or the train station tunnel with no cell reception, and I see 3 IMs, 2 e-mails and 2 messages on FB. Then the butt kicking steps up progressively, arriving at the Spanish Inquisition. Where, what, who, why, what for, when, how, etc etc..
LOL ohh man I would be scared hahaha http://youtu.be/4OiUf-sCIxQ IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted April 09, 2012 06:36 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
yes i am because most of the time it ends badly, one of the two ends up falling for the other,its usually the guy though and the girl blows a whole lot of smoke up your a** and says your the most amazing guy i ever met blah blah blah but i see you as a brother, i have only been close friends with 2 girls and both the same thing, never again lol.
Oh great, I'm a brother. Haha. I agree with you, I hate when girls do that. I hate when anyone does that. I just don't get it, I can peacefully be friends with just about anybody. Why don't you just be friends with them then? Don't romantically love them, and if they end up crushing on you.. .still be friends not lovers. They are your friend after all.. ???
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Desiring Shadows
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posted April 09, 2012 07:11 PM
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
I've never really thought much about the jealous = mistrust connection. Could you explain that/elaborate, if you care to? (I actually don't necessarily disagree; just have always considered them to be separate issues so I'd be curious to hear how they can be one). Interesting!
I am SO sorry for the late response. I just now read your post.
Hey, two libras with mercuries in libras coinciding? Imagine that~
Maybe we are talking about seperate issues? That could be the case. The issue I was referring to was about , say,i.e. person A is dating person B. Person A leaves person B home alone with their nanny who just so happens to be hot. Person B shows up and theyre upstairs poking eachother laughing in a friendly/close way. Then person A fires the nanny because they dont want person B to be around anyone when theyre not there because they dont trust them to be alone with the nanny. Did that clear it up?  IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart
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posted April 09, 2012 07:13 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i dont consider myself jealous personally but i wouldnt want my girlfriend hanging out alone with a guy unless said guy is gay or i trust my gf and the guy she is hanging out with completely, its not soo much that i dont trust the girl its more the guys im weary of,alot of girls are incredibly naive in thinking they have a guy bestfriend when the guy is hoping she will start wanting him. i personally think opposite sex friendships are very problematic and not alot of good comes from them.
Why is that? Are you saying guys can't control themselves? Or is it that many straight guys aren't interested in getting to know you at all unless they want to get in your pants? Because that isn't the girls fault. I like some people (gay or straight - it doesn't matter) for who they are. They are fun to hang out with or share my interest. Why would you want to turn one of your best friendships into a relationship? Why can't opposite sex friendships just be that?
I have plenty of straight male friends. I always had. And I won't stop seeing those guys for a boyfriend. So far none had a real problem with it (thank god).
But if you want something from a girl be upfront. Don't sneak around pretending to be her friend and then expect her to fall for you. That is wrong on so many levels. quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
yes i am because most of the time it ends badly, one of the two ends up falling for the other,its usually the guy though and the girl blows a whole lot of smoke up your a** and says your the most amazing guy i ever met blah blah blah but i see you as a brother, i have only been close friends with 2 girls and both the same thing, never again lol.
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lilithpluto
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Registered: Dec 2011
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posted April 10, 2012 09:11 AM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
My wife doesn't sulk away. I come out from the bathroom, or the train station tunnel with no cell reception, and I see 3 IMs, 2 e-mails and 2 messages on FB. Then the butt kicking steps up progressively, arriving at the Spanish Inquisition. Where, what, who, why, what for, when, how, etc etc..
Hmmm... sometimes I hesitate on leaving msgs on your fb, what if your wife starts asking like she did asked about Ami? Hehehe.. you are so gonna be in trouble if you say "Oh, I know her on an ASTROLOGY forum,. yeah? IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted April 10, 2012 01:31 PM
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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
Hmmm... sometimes I hesitate on leaving msgs on your fb, what if your wife starts asking like she did asked about Ami? Hehehe.. you are so gonna be in trouble if you say "Oh, I know her on an [b]ASTROLOGY forum,. yeah? [/B]
Oh she has already enquired and done all due diligence. Trust me. She is worse than a corporate finance lawyer. She logged on as me (yes, she has all my passwords to all accounts everywhere) and has checked out who you are, ascertained where you work, that you have sisters, and your recent travels. She has determined that you are not a threat. Otherwise, you and I would have already heard about it. Loudly. What makes you think she doesn't already know that I'm on an astrology forum? The cookies and internet browser cache are obvious. As we have a teenager, home internet supervision is like the KGB. My wife takes no prisoners and makes no apologies. That's the type of Leo she is. She's queen of the safari plains. IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
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posted April 11, 2012 08:14 AM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Oh she has already enquired and done all due diligence. Trust me. She is worse than a corporate finance lawyer.She logged on as me (yes, she has all my passwords to all accounts everywhere) and has checked out who you are, ascertained where you work, that you have sisters, and your recent travels. She has determined that you are not a threat. Otherwise, you and I would have already heard about it. Loudly. What makes you think she doesn't already know that I'm on an astrology forum? The cookies and internet browser cache are obvious. As we have a teenager, home internet supervision is like the KGB. My wife takes no prisoners and makes no apologies. That's the type of Leo she is. She's queen of the safari plains.
Lol...Oh my... thank goodness that I am always safe and proper on FB. Lol.  IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted April 14, 2012 03:03 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
u never made a mistake with this? i wonder sometimes if i did but i am no intuitive cancer sun.. leo moon thing?
no that's a scorpio thing I have pluto in the first and venus and mars sq pluto as well as my rising on the libra/scorpio cusp, my sun in the scorpio decan and sun trine pluto
I've talked to many scorpios and pluto in first house people with other pluto aspects as well who said that they agreed and thought that way too
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aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 14, 2012 03:39 AM
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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:
Why is that? Are you saying guys can't control themselves? Or is it that many straight guys aren't interested in getting to know you at all unless they want to get in your pants? Because that isn't the girls fault. I like some people (gay or straight - it doesn't matter) for who they are. They are fun to hang out with or share my interest. Why would you want to turn one of your best friendships into a relationship? Why can't opposite sex friendships just be that?
I have plenty of straight male friends. I always had. And I won't stop seeing those guys for a boyfriend. So far none had a real problem with it (thank god).
But if you want something from a girl be upfront. Don't sneak around pretending to be her friend and then expect her to fall for you. That is wrong on so many levels. [QUOTE]Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[b] yes i am because most of the time it ends badly, one of the two ends up falling for the other,its usually the guy though and the girl blows a whole lot of smoke up your a** and says your the most amazing guy i ever met blah blah blah but i see you as a brother, i have only been close friends with 2 girls and both the same thing, never again lol.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NSG97zCOlyo [/B][/QUOTE]
I'm not saying that guys can't control themselves,its just often times feelings start to grow and people tend. to act on their feelings don't they? And I have never snuck around pretending to be their friend,sometimes things just happen and you fall for the person, I am very upfront with how I feel and if I like a girl she knows it,in fact girls have complained I move too fast but that's what you have to do if you don't want to end up in the friendzone, not saying that friendship with a girl is a bad thing by any means but from a male perspective it is frustrating to like a girl and she just expects you to eat your feelings and be thrilled that she is with another guy, maybe its because I have so much aqua in my chart that I have trouble with pure Platonic friendships with women,because when I find a girl I have a close friendship with I fall for them everytime and want to be with her,and a lot of women have a weird hang-up with going from friends to lovers,that's why I don't do the whole friends with women thing.
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sand
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posted April 14, 2012 03:56 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
no that's a scorpio thing I have pluto in the first and venus and mars sq pluto as well as my rising on the libra/scorpio cusp, my sun in the scorpio decan and sun trine plutoI've talked to many scorpios and pluto in first house people with other pluto aspects as well who said that they agreed and thought that way too
Pluto in Scorpio always fux things up with fixed signs in our generation gah! Like I'm supposed to have a nice Venus in domicile Taurus and h7 but no it has to oppose Pluto lol! IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted April 14, 2012 04:00 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
Pluto in Scorpio always fux things up with fixed signs in our generation gah! Like I'm supposed to have a nice Venus in domicile Taurus and h7 but no it has to oppose Pluto lol!
lmao! exactly.
Sand, this thread just made me realize why I got along so badly with the people in my generation. I hated all of them and they hated me! haha. It's because I have venus square pluto with all of them duh. And then of course when I got to college and got to interact with people who i couldnt possibly have that aspect with...bingo! no tension there, i love them!
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/212896.html
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aquaguy91
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posted April 14, 2012 04:11 AM
But that's just my opinion and my experiences,but if opposite gender Platonic friendships work for you that's great,but I find them problematic,again its probably my aquaness that causes me to fall for the female friends I have had. Here's my philosophy, I have lots of Guy friends who I have great times with and I am looking for one girl to be friends with and when that happens I want to marry her and she will be my bestfriend IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted April 14, 2012 09:39 AM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Oh she has already enquired and done all due diligence. Trust me. She is worse than a corporate finance lawyer.She logged on as me (yes, she has all my passwords to all accounts everywhere) and has checked out who you are, ascertained where you work, that you have sisters, and your recent travels. She has determined that you are not a threat. Otherwise, you and I would have already heard about it. Loudly. What makes you think she doesn't already know that I'm on an astrology forum? The cookies and internet browser cache are obvious. As we have a teenager, home internet supervision is like the KGB. My wife takes no prisoners and makes no apologies. That's the type of Leo she is. She's queen of the safari plains.
Ack! You're making me paranoid about how far my Leo husband has gone, finding out where I've been on the internet. He's like that, too....nothing gets by him. I take it as an act of mercy that he hasn't been meddling with my computer, and I  love him for it! (My husband disapproves of astrology as much as Ian's wife does.)
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