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Topic: what sign or aspects would make someone a master manipulator?
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scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 1066 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted April 09, 2012 06:57 PM
I agree with lower type water signs and often geminiand a strong but afflicted mercury, sometimes libra. Virgo or capricorn I dont really see. And uranus they often call the "truth teller". I have mercury conj uranus in scorpio on my 7th angle and I feel very uncomfortable with decieT. Its funny a few times when I actaully tried to really lie or be fake about something I actually busted out laughing and gave myself away horribly. Too funny.IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 1069 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 09, 2012 07:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: 7th house emphasis.Just look at how many Hitler had. And he had Mercury conjunct the descendant and ruling the 11th - manipulating a large group through his words - as well as 9th (politics).
Hitler wasn't the genius manipulator. That was Goebbels. Hitler was "just" the one those men chose to follow. Goebbels gave the genius speeches and made people excited for war. He could manipulate people just by talking. It was him who gave the most famous speech of that era with the quote "Wollt ihr den totalen Krieg?" ("Do you want the total war?") Mercury, Sun, Mars and Uranus in SCORPIO in the 4th house
Moon in CAPRICORN in the 5th house Venus and Jupiter in LIBRA in the 3rd house Pluto and Neptune rx in GEMINI in the 11th house ASC in LEO Mercury conjunct Sun Moon square Jupiter Mercury trine Neptune IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Knowflake Posts: 4379 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 09, 2012 07:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by SmilingHeart: Hitler wasn't the genius manipulator. That was Goebbels. Hitler was "just" the one those men chose to follow. Goebbels gave the genius speeches and made people excited for war. He could manipulate people just by talking. It was him who gave the most famous speech of that era with the quote "Wollt ihr den totalen Krieg?" ("Do you want the total war?") Mercury, Sun, Mars and Uranus in [b]SCORPIO in the 4th house
Moon in CAPRICORN in the 5th house Venus and Jupiter in LIBRA in the 3rd house Pluto and Neptune rx in GEMINI in the 11th house ASC in LEO Mercury conjunct Sun Moon square Jupiter Mercury trine Neptune[/B]
There's the afflicted moon lol Nicely written btw smiling heart 
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SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 1069 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 09, 2012 07:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by ariesdragon: There's the afflicted moon lol Nicely written btw smiling heart 
Thanks!  Do you think it's the Moon? Because he had Moon square Venus Moon opposition Neptune too.
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sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted April 09, 2012 07:50 PM
i see i have sum hitler and globalls in me! i have hitler's sun, venus, merc in h7. merc conj desc ruling 11th. also his cap jupiter. i have globall's mars. merc trine neppy tune. his moon in cap h5 is like the inverse to my moon in leo h10. moon square venus. moon inconjunct neptune. i see they both had cappy moon and h3 neptune. IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Knowflake Posts: 4379 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 09, 2012 07:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by SmilingHeart: Thanks!  Do you think it's the Moon? Because he hadMoon square Venus Moon opposition Neptune too. Ohh ya totally for sure!
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Pennylane Knowflake Posts: 136 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 09, 2012 10:39 PM
Ha! This is funny. The most calculating and manipulative person I know has his sun in libra, moon in capricorn, mercury and venus in virgo, and mars in gemini. It's kind of scary, actually. Whenever he wants something or someone, he tells me in detail how he plans to "move the chess pieces around" or how he's going to "play the hand". The fact that he refers to people frequently as objects is what creeps me out the most. True story, he used to like me a lot, but I liked his best friend, who or may not have liked me back. He told every guy in our department not to talk to me. He also told me negative things his best friend had supposedly said about me and at the same time, he told his best friend I wasn't interested and was just playing games, knowing full well that both of us were too shy to confront one another. He constantly tries to turn people against each other, and freely and proudly admits it. Oh man I could write a book about all the manipulation issues he has. Once he even told he how much he wants "pure power". Yeah. IP: Logged |
tautomer4314 Knowflake Posts: 659 From: Oregon Registered: Dec 2011
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posted April 09, 2012 11:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by Pennylane: Ha! This is funny. The most calculating and manipulative person I know has his sun in libra, moon in capricorn, mercury and venus in virgo, and mars in gemini. It's kind of scary, actually. Whenever he wants something or someone, he tells me in detail how he plans to "move the chess pieces around" or how he's going to "play the hand". The fact that he refers to people frequently as objects is what creeps me out the most. True story, he used to like me a lot, but I liked his best friend, who or may not have liked me back. He told every guy in our department not to talk to me. He also told me negative things his best friend had supposedly said about me and at the same time, he told his best friend I wasn't interested and was just playing games, knowing full well that both of us were too shy to confront one another. He constantly tries to turn people against each other, and freely and proudly admits it. Oh man I could write a book about all the manipulation issues he has. Once he even told he how much he wants "pure power". Yeah.
I can relate to him a lot actually. In the sense that I can do what he does. To me people are extremely logical and predictable and can easily be pushed to fall into certain paths and patterns. The difference is I know doing that sort of thing is very bad, and I have a moral code that forbids me from doing that unless there is a true purpose to it (which there honestly hasn't ever really been for a while now). It's satisfying to know that I have this skill, and part of me likes to brag about this ability because it is a strong point I have, and it is something that makes me stand out. I have to admit I'm doing it now by discussing it. It's a power thing, and as with any sort of power, it feels good to the one who uses it and wield it; it's an ego boost. It's a tempting thing let me tell you. I also can relate to the "pure power" bit. I do desire that, and it took me until a few months ago to fully acknowledge that in myself. Now that I am aware of it though, I will not allow myself to be driven to that and it goes against everything I stand for. ------------------ It's All Elemental ----- My Chart if relevant IP: Logged |
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posted April 09, 2012 11:44 PM
^ Congratulations, no typos! quote: Originally posted by SmilingHeart: Hitler wasn't the genius manipulator. That was Goebbels. Hitler was "just" the one those men chose to follow. Goebbels gave the genius speeches and made people excited for war. He could manipulate people just by talking. It was him who gave the most famous speech of that era with the quote "Wollt ihr den totalen Krieg?" ("Do you want the total war?") Mercury, Sun, Mars and Uranus in [b]SCORPIO in the 4th house
Moon in CAPRICORN in the 5th house Venus and Jupiter in LIBRA in the 3rd house Pluto and Neptune rx in GEMINI in the 11th house ASC in LEO Mercury conjunct Sun Moon square Jupiter Mercury trine Neptune[/B]
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 9547 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 10, 2012 04:14 AM
wow seems like almost any sign can be manipulative in their own way, i have to admit being an aqua i can tell you the most absurd story with a straight face and you will believe it haha but its all in good fun and i always let it be known that i was joking afterwards.IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9395 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 10, 2012 04:26 AM
^ I sometimes talk absurdly too, just to see what their reaction will be. If they don't know I'm joking then they soon figure it out, but some people can't figure whether or not I'm joking even when I'm serious..I guess because maybe I do it a lot, that or they're slow on the uptake. If it's a serious matter then I'm not like that at all but everything else is fair game. Love to play around with words..just for my amusement really.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 9547 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 10, 2012 04:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: ^ I sometimes talk absurdly too, just to see what their reaction will be. If they don't know I'm joking then they soon figure it out, but some people can't figure whether or not I'm joking even when I'm serious..I guess because maybe I do it a lot, that or they're slow on the uptake. If it's a serious matter then I'm not like that at all but everything else is fair game. Love to play around with words..just for my amusement really.
haha i do it just for jokes,i was able to fool one of my friends really good one time even though he knew very well the jokes i like to pull on people, i told him that an escaped psycho person had been spotted less than a mile from his house,and late that night i got this text"omg! i just heard a car alarm go off next door,do you think it is that psycho?" lmao it was great IP: Logged |
Pennylane Knowflake Posts: 136 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 10, 2012 04:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by tautomer4314: I can relate to him a lot actually. In the sense that I can do what he does. To me people are extremely logical and predictable and can easily be pushed to fall into certain paths and patterns. The difference is I know doing that sort of thing is very bad, and I have a moral code that forbids me from doing that unless there is a true purpose to it (which there honestly hasn't ever really been for a while now). It's satisfying to know that I have this skill, and part of me likes to brag about this ability because it is a strong point I have, and it is something that makes me stand out. I have to admit I'm doing it now by discussing it. It's a power thing, and as with any sort of power, it feels good to the one who uses it and wield it; it's an ego boost. It's a tempting thing let me tell you. I also can relate to the "pure power" bit. I do desire that, and it took me until a few months ago to fully acknowledge that in myself. Now that I am aware of it though, I will not allow myself to be driven to that and it goes against everything I stand for.
Well at least you know it's a little on the unhealthy side...and I mean, I think we're all capable of a little manipulation. I'll admit, I know I can be very persuasive when it comes to getting people to do favors for me. But I consider that harmless, and I'll always try to return the favor. There's a difference between that, and actually sabotaging someone's happiness for one's own selfish motives. And yeah this guy doesn't really have too much of a guilty conscience. He slept with the girlfriend of a guy we're all friends with and kept bragging about how he felt no remorse. The *hilarious* thing to me is how he pretty much has a God complex about himself, and gets all sanctimonious when it comes to religion. He all but told me he thinks I'm going to hell. IP: Logged |
Lava Flower Knowflake Posts: 429 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 10, 2012 05:02 AM
quote: Originally posted by Pennylane: Well at least you know it's a little on the unhealthy side...and I mean, I think we're all capable of a little manipulation. I'll admit, I know I can be very persuasive when it comes to getting people to do favors for me. But I consider that harmless, and I'll always try to return the favor. There's a difference between that, and actually sabotaging someone's happiness for one's own selfish motives. And yeah this guy doesn't really have too much of a guilty conscience. He slept with the girlfriend of a guy we're all friends with and kept bragging about how he felt no remorse. The *hilarious* thing to me is how he pretty much has a God complex about himself, and gets all sanctimonious when it comes to religion. He all but told me he thinks I'm going to hell.
He sounds awful. One day though, I bet he will regret all this quite a bit when he is all alone. Reading of his behavior makes me sick. What a waste of creativity  IP: Logged |
Lava Flower Knowflake Posts: 429 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 10, 2012 05:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by pandacake:
Pisces are more shrewd than they appear and can always turn themselves into a victim and make the real victim become the perpetrator.
That's true about my Pisces friend. Pretty bad about it. When I think of a master manipulator, it would be someone who is somewhat tactful about it... This Pisces is very obvious and his drama queen ways make me lose a lot of respect for him. Can't wait till he grows out of it. He was born on a lunar eclipse, almost exact. But he has a highly afflicted Venus in the 12th so I imagine that's a big part of his issue. IP: Logged |
Pennylane Knowflake Posts: 136 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 10, 2012 05:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lava Flower: He sounds awful. One day though, I bet he will regret all this quite a bit when he is all alone. Reading of his behavior makes me sick. What a waste of creativity 
I think it all comes down to low self worth. :/ What finally got me to cut him out was hearing the pure glee in his voice when he called specifically to tell me about how the best friend I liked was now dating someone else, knowing I still had feelings for him, and seemed to enjoy hearing me hurt. It was a small thing, but as they say, when someone shows you who they really are, believe them. The sad thing is he is truly one of the funniest people I've ever met and we used to have great philosophical discussions on a daily basis that I really enjoyed. :/ IP: Logged |
Lava Flower Knowflake Posts: 429 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 10, 2012 06:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by Pennylane: I think it all comes down to low self worth. :/ What finally got me to cut him out was hearing the pure glee in his voice when he called specifically to tell me about how the best friend I liked was now dating someone else, knowing I still had feelings for him, and seemed to enjoy hearing me hurt. It was a small thing, but as they say, when someone shows you who they really are, believe them. The sad thing is he is truly one of the funniest people I've ever met and we used to have great philosophical discussions on a daily basis that I really enjoyed. :/
At least he makes it obvious how dangerous he is to trust. That's not really a little thing he did maybe in comparison. Pretty evil. IP: Logged |
scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 1066 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted April 10, 2012 10:21 AM
Pennylane, what were his main aspects?IP: Logged |
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posted April 10, 2012 10:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lava Flower: At least he makes it obvious how dangerous he is to trust. That's not really a little thing he did maybe in comparison. Pretty evil.
And the girl...? She's the one who cheated. The only rule he might've violated is that lame "bros before ho's" cr*p that insecure young guys like to tout.IP: Logged |
fairaqua Knowflake Posts: 585 From: Registered: Feb 2011
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posted April 10, 2012 10:59 AM
Ive been called a Master Manipulator... I like to think of it as convincing arguments  Sun & Mercury Aquarius Venus Pisces Moon & Jupiter in 8th house Very Mutable Chart MC Gemini AC Virgo
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 7323 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted April 10, 2012 11:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: What do you think?
Sigh. I hate being that finger wagging poster but so be it - every sign manipulates, will manipulate, can manipulate. I think the difference is in what provokes them to. A Gemini is going to manipulate you to test, and out of curiosity BUT not maliciousness. That's totally different from why a Scorpio rising/Scorpio anything manipulates. Also, are we talking about manipulation with a negative connotation or someone who's good at persuasion? I notice those with fewer Scorpio placements in their chart are good at manipulation without being caught, and those with a lot of Scorpio in their chart are more Sagittarian in nature (i.e. they control that side of their behavior better). We also have to take into consideration what sign they're trying to manipulate, because in order to be a "master" at it you have to be competing against someone of a lesser level. In my experience as an Aries, I've found Pisces are good at truly manipulating me. It's usually for my own benefit because I'm quite hard on myself but it still sucks I have to find out FACTS on my own vs. just being told like I would expect. I know a Libra with Scorpio rising, and found it quite easy to see through him - not sure why, but I tend to see through most Libras, so I would never label them as "masters." Again, I'm brought back to Pisces or people with Neptune on their ASC. IP: Logged |
Thefish Knowflake Posts: 203 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted April 10, 2012 03:32 PM
I too have been known to manipulate although it more to get my friends to do things that they are resisting even though they are missing out on an experience. Ascendant Capricorn Sun Pisces Mercury Aquarius Venus Pisces I've found that Pluto in the first house can be very manipulative.
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posted April 10, 2012 03:40 PM
^ I have Pluto in the 1st and can't manipulate my way out of a paper bag. Pluto in the 1st is just good at controlling what/how much others see of their persona.IP: Logged |
vickymadness Knowflake Posts: 2025 From: Minnesota Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 10, 2012 06:34 PM
gemini moon venus oppo plutoI have them, and manipulation flows naturally in me but I hate it and try to tone it down ... I rarely care about people in general ( except the ones i realllyyy love ); I have this (in love/ out of love ) switch. I would say aqua mars, sun, moon are quite manipulative too. They are sooo good in playing different roles. IP: Logged |
ueharaa Knowflake Posts: 625 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted April 12, 2012 08:58 PM
I'd say that scorpio and capricorn definitely have a huge potential for manipulation, also virgo and taurus, and to a lesser extent gemini and libra (but I feel like since they're air signs it's easier to see through it?) moon in capricorn can really be a master at manipulating people. And I'm not saying all capricorn moon people are like this (I have a capriorn moon) but I rememeber this classmate who had her whole circle of friends wrapped up aroung her fingers. They would do anything for her. She would boss them around like no one ever did without even being nice to them. I found out later that she had a capriocorn moon (nearly conjunct mine!) and she also had a lot of planets in taurus. She was lazy, but ambitious and always managed to get people to do her chores and help her out with stuff. I didn't like her much because of this cold, despising and manipulative attitude of hers. IP: Logged |