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Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4373 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 15, 2012 12:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by scrappydog: Hmmm this is intersting and im not completely sure, but im thinking a dominant moon with a weakly placed mars/pluto/sun.. I am a very dominant, aggressive female, my mars is not strong, But my moon is in its detriment in cappy in 8th h and square saturn too, I have a scorpio stellium and sun conj pluto almost exact.
I agree :] my sun-mars-pluto conjunct, and i'm also very dominant I think submissive women would have strong placements w/ venus IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 3977 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted April 15, 2012 12:14 AM
I prefer being submissive/protected but it takes a very strong man to put me in that position. I think what is key for me is a guy making me feel safe IP: Logged |
butterflyxoxxo Knowflake Posts: 284 From: seattle Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 15, 2012 12:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by scrappydog: Butterfly, yea I am a sag mars conj uranus in the 7th too, Lots of relationship problems with me, I do not bend and resent ant type of restriction. My uranus in 7th also forms a tight semi square to my moon in 8th.
scrappydog, how interesting! the fellow i have been seeing has neptune in the 7th not uranus but he is very independent. Also, i have Chiron in the 7th maybe that has a bit to do with some of the issues...
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butterflyxoxxo Knowflake Posts: 284 From: seattle Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 15, 2012 12:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by Sashar: Virgo tends to get cast as being a submissive sign. They're not, they serve. There is a subtle but big difference. Sorry... saw submissive and remembered another thing that irked me about reading Virgo info. lol Libras also get type cast into that area just because they tend to avoid confrontation... but that's only one side of the scale and if they stay on that side for too long it will tip back violently. To find your answer, I'd suggest working backwards (I like working backwards). What synastry aspects tend to point towards a dominate/submissive relationship? Then look at the possible submissive chart from that information. I myself prefer neither submissive or feminazi. Give/take in different ways making a team, filling in for each others strengths and weaknesses. Both people involved being submissive and dominate depending on the situation. 
I do not know much about synastry or this persons birth time but that would make more sense. I was thinking in more general terms. an equal based relationship does not appeal to me it feels dead, uninspiring. maybe it is all the scorpio in my chart but i prefer extremes IP: Logged |
Geminisquared Knowflake Posts: 630 From: nyc Registered: Nov 2011
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posted April 15, 2012 12:55 AM
feminazis are extreme case they want to be treated, well as a man, most of them I've mean are lesbian so that would make sence. Most women can be extremely feminine when they want too regardless of sign, since most men are attracted to a woman's femininity. Its natural. They can also be more masculine which is also normal. In todays age there hardly any submissive women since people usually have to play both gender roles. If my submissive you mean of confidence and willing to comply to a mans authority then thats something else thats not really what being a woman is all about, a man can be submissive also. ***I know thats not what you mean but there are people in this world who believe this..... IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 2886 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 15, 2012 01:10 AM
I don't know how one qualifies for either role, but I have strong opinions and if a man says something ludicrous, factually inaccurate or blatantly bigoted, I am not afraid to tell him that it's ludicrous and outline why. My boyfriend has actually accused me of being "too smart" which you don't need me to tell you I thought was ludicrous, lol. Aqua sun, Pisces moon, Aqua Mercury, Aqua Venus, Sagittarius Mars.
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Geminisquared Knowflake Posts: 630 From: nyc Registered: Nov 2011
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posted April 15, 2012 01:21 AM
I agree with you there, but traditionally there are roles for each gender, the woman stays at home and tends to the house and a man goes out and works feeds his family and had some power. In todays time women play and men play both roles which makes them equal and there thus there would be no roles, Some people still follow these roles so they are still there so yes there submissive women, but hardly by there choosing but really society unless they have sun conjunct uranus and rebel, just like how people define sexual orientation for example. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 9007 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 15, 2012 01:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by Geminisquared: I agree with you there, but traditionally there are roles for each gender, the woman stays at home and tends to the house and a man goes out and works. In todays time women play and men play both roles which makes them equal and there thus there would be no roles, Some people still follow these roles so they are still there so yes there submissive women, but hardly by there choosing but really society unless they have sun conjunct uranus and rebel, just like how people define sexual orientation for example. Like I one can be feminine with out being submissive.
I guess I'm just too controversial, but I don't 100 % buy the whole society engrained roles deal,I believe that women tend to be naturally more submissive in general in my experience,as an example every single girl I have ever took on a date expected me to pick the place and I would try to ask them What they would like to do and they insisted I call the shots and funny thing is that a lot appeared outspoken and independent but still deffered to me as the male even though I had asked the where they would like to go. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6661 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 15, 2012 01:49 AM
I like to play submissive, does that count?  IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Moderator Posts: 2376 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 15, 2012 02:06 AM
I tend to play dominant!  I most often wear the pants in the relationship. Hahhmm..I would say a water sign rising because feminine is their most natural way of going about things.. ======================================= "She stands for some while, thinking hollow thoughts, staring into what could have been her future. It is quiet, the peacefulness is broken by the silence. Something inside of her, deep within her heart of hearts must have wanted her to live. Something inside her subconscious, knew she deserved better than this." -Anonymous IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8068 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 15, 2012 02:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Geminisquared: [b]I agree with you there, but traditionally there are roles for each gender, the woman stays at home and tends to the house and a man goes out and works. In todays time women play and men play both roles which makes them equal and there thus there would be no roles, Some people still follow these roles so they are still there so yes there submissive women, but hardly by there choosing but really society unless they have sun conjunct uranus and rebel, just like how people define sexual orientation for example. Like I one can be feminine with out being submissive.
I guess I'm just too controversial, but I don't 100 % buy the whole society engrained roles deal,I believe that women tend to be naturally more submissive in general in my experience,as an example every single girl I have ever took on a date expected me to pick the place and I would try to ask them What they would like to do and they insisted I call the shots and funny thing is that a lot appeared outspoken and independent but still deffered to me as the male even though I had asked the where they would like to go.[/B][/QUOTE] It's possible. More testosterone makes people more sexual, playful, active, muscular, aggressive, dominant, have deeper voices. Did you know blacks genetically have a higher level of testosterone? Makes sense, as many have deeper voices and much higher muscles mass than other races, which is why they sink more when they swim and are better at other sports. Obviously all men have more testosterone than women. lol. It hasn't been proven totally yet, but there are studies that are trying to figure out if testosterone levels also determine sexual orientation or if its something else. So you could very well be right 
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posted April 15, 2012 02:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91:
What they would like to do and they insisted I call the shots and funny thing is that a lot appeared outspoken and independent but still deffered to me as the male even though I had asked the where they would like to go.
I didn't know that's deferring. When I do that, it simply means I don't care.IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Knowflake Posts: 4367 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted April 15, 2012 03:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by butterflyxoxxo: What astrology placements would explain a women who prefers a submissive role in a relationship vs a feminazi
I don't mean to be rude, but there ARE a lot of roles in between those two extremes... IP: Logged |
Planet Queen Knowflake Posts: 340 From: Portlandia Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 15, 2012 03:46 AM
What do mean by submissive women?Women who like to compromise? Women who only do what the man says? This is vague and I can tell this discussion is already getting one sided. IP: Logged |
Planet Queen Knowflake Posts: 340 From: Portlandia Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 15, 2012 03:47 AM
Astrologically I noticed that Virgos tend to be submissive, but this goes for both men and women. IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9348 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 15, 2012 03:49 AM
^ The man's in control & she likes it that way? That's how I read it. I would say maybe markers in the chart that focused on traditional male/female roles in romantic relationships.IP: Logged |
Planet Queen Knowflake Posts: 340 From: Portlandia Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 15, 2012 04:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: ^ The man's in control & she likes it that way? That's how I read it. I would say maybe markers in the chart that focused on traditional male/female roles in romantic relationships.
Ok gotcha. I think how you were brought up can be an indicator too or at least an influence. I IP: Logged |
lilithpluto Knowflake Posts: 2533 From: pluto Registered: Dec 2011
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posted April 15, 2012 09:08 AM
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Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 2886 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 15, 2012 11:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: It's possible. More testosterone makes people more sexual, playful, active, muscular, aggressive, dominant, have deeper voices. Did you know blacks genetically have a higher level of testosterone? Makes sense, as many have deeper voices and much higher muscles mass than other races, which is why they sink more when they swim and are better at other sports.Obviously all men have more testosterone than women. lol. It hasn't been proven totally yet, but there are studies that are trying to figure out if testosterone levels also determine sexual orientation or if its something else. So you could very well be right 
Black people also have higher estrogen levels (the men as well), so I'm not exactly sure what this is supposed to prove? lol.
Also, scientists have already determined the genetic origins of homosexuality (for anyone who's interested). This ultimately culminated in the creation of lesbian mice in a controlled lab setting by way of gene deletion. IP: Logged |
butterflyxoxxo Knowflake Posts: 284 From: seattle Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 15, 2012 01:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by RegardesPlatero: I don't mean to be rude, but there ARE a lot of roles in between those two extremes...
I know there is a wide spectrum of roles but I meant what i said, submissive. As in, the man has the final say in everything. Here is a link if anyone is more interested in what I am saying http://www.takeninhand.com/ To me the type of women in this relationship are submissive even though they claim not to be. I do understand that "submissive" can be relative
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SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 1069 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 15, 2012 02:37 PM
I find it sad that these two extremes are presented here and as it seems (by your use of language) one is thought to be better than the other. I think it is fairly clear which one. The word 'feminazi' is demeaning and unfair against women who choose to live a life with rights equal to a mans. I gathers that many think feminists are people who want to take rights away from men, tyrannise them and believe that women are better than men. None of this is true.Here is a definition of feminism for you from wikipedia : 'Feminism is a collection of movements aimed at defining, establishing, and defending equal political, economic, and social rights for women.[1][2] In addition, feminism seeks to establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment. A feminist is a "person whose beliefs and behavior are based on feminism." ' So please, the question here would be: Does a women prefer an inferior role in a relationship or likes to be equal to her counterpart? I want to be an equal. I am not a child anymore and my decisions and actions don't need to be dictated for me. I am capable of being my own person. I also wouldn't want to interfere in my partners desicionmaking either. If he wants my advice I'm glad to give it and I'd always be there for him to support and help. Something I would want him to do for me, too. I don't want a men who bows down and follows my every command and I don't want to be with a man who thinks he can control me and guide my actions. So all in all I prefer relationships were the partners are equals and take eachother seriously. I am a Virgo with Cancer Moon 5th house stellium and a strong 1st house. I am not sure what would make a woman submissive but my guess is that it has a lot more to do with upbringing than with astrology. If your question concerned the difference between the placements for a submissive or dominant woman you should have phrased it accordingly. To choose a word that compares a dominant woman (who has as much right to existance as any dominant men) to the Nazis is inappropriate and hurtful. To the women as well as to the real victims of the Nazis. That's all I have to say to this issue.
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butterflyxoxxo Knowflake Posts: 284 From: seattle Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 15, 2012 03:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by SmilingHeart: I find it sad that these two extremes are presented here and as it seems (by your use of language) one is thought to be better than the other. I think it is fairly clear which one. The word 'feminazi' is demeaning and unfair against women who choose to live a life with rights equal to a mans. I gathers that many think feminists are people who want to take rights away from men, tyrannise them and believe that women are better than men. None of this is true.Here is a definition of feminism for you from wikipedia : 'Feminism is a collection of movements aimed at defining, establishing, and defending equal political, economic, and social rights for women.[1][2] In addition, feminism seeks to establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment. A feminist is a "person whose beliefs and behavior are based on feminism." ' So please, the question here would be: Does a women prefer an inferior role in a relationship or likes to be equal to her counterpart? I want to be an equal. I am not a child anymore and my decisions and actions don't need to be dictated for me. I am capable of being my own person. I also wouldn't want to interfere in my partners desicionmaking either. If he wants my advice I'm glad to give it and I'd always be there for him to support and help. Something I would want him to do for me, too. I don't want a men who bows down and follows my every command and I don't want to be with a man who thinks he can control me and guide my actions. So all in all I prefer relationships were the partners are equals and take eachother seriously. I am a Virgo with Cancer Moon 5th house stellium and a strong 1st house. I am not sure what would make a woman submissive but my guess is that it has a lot more to do with upbringing than with astrology. If your question concerned the difference between the placements for a submissive or dominant woman you should have phrased it accordingly. To choose a word that compares a dominant woman (who has as much right to existance as any dominant men) to the Nazis is inappropriate and hurtful. To the women as well as to the real victims of the Nazis. That's all I have to say to this issue.
If astrology determines a person's characteristics and general deposition than it should have a factor as to whether the women is more aggressive or not as much as the upbringing. Like I have already said twice I selected my words to be on extreme sides of the spectrum. I do not condone the word feminazi nor did I coin the term but it is a popular label thrown at women who behave a certain way IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8068 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 15, 2012 03:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aquacheeka: Black people also have higher estrogen levels (the men as well), so I'm not exactly sure what this is supposed to prove? lol.Also, scientists have already determined the genetic origins of homosexuality (for anyone who's interested). This ultimately culminated in the creation of lesbian mice in a controlled lab setting by way of gene deletion.
That was one study that claimed they have higher estrogen levels, though. The rest claim higher testoterone. Very interested in that study about the lesbian mice lol. Please share! IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8068 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 15, 2012 03:13 PM
Pfffft....no the man does not have the final say in everything. Joo crazy?We're equals. That's not healthy at all. IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 1069 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 15, 2012 03:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by butterflyxoxxo: If astrology determines a person's characteristics and general deposition than it should have a factor as to whether the women is more aggressive or not as much as the upbringing. Like I have already said twice I selected my words to be on extreme sides of the spectrum. I do not condone the word feminazi nor did I coin the term but it is a popular label thrown at women who behave a certain way
What do you even mean by aggressive? Are we talking about violent women? Please use the correct terminology because the word 'feminazi' actually refers to feminists with quite logical claims and not to physically and verbally aggressive women. And yes, I know that Limbaugh coined it- just another reason to despise this word. I think upbringing is a more important factor here because of the fact that women used to be largely submissive back in the day for the exact reason. Even women with so-called 'strong' placements. Two of the earlier women's rights activists Margaret Sanger and Victoria Woodhull have both empty 4th houses. Maybe that's a clue. IP: Logged |