posted May 16, 2012 10:48 AM            

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Originally posted by wisleybear:
So what aspect always guarantees fame then? lulz

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There isn't an aspect or placement to guarantee anything. Most of the times there is a combination of various components, coupled with favorable transits/progressions/solar arcs. Personally I like the 5 pillars of fate.

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and it's no one's fault that these womenz you speak of really dig that these days.

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posted May 16, 2012 10:54 AM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
Ooh, that's a heavy one. One of the most volatile rapports I've ever had was his Mars on my SNode, squaring his Saturn. He HAD actually told me that he'd murdered me in a past life. In the middle of lunch. I think my response was, 'Huh. Great memory. I can't remember fifteen minutes ago some days.'

Because, otherwise, your brain is klaxoning, and there's a general sense of W. T. F.

-A.

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posted May 16, 2012 03:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
There isn't an aspect or placement to guarantee anything. Most of the times there is a combination of various components, coupled with favorable transits/progressions/solar arcs. Personally I like the 5 pillars of fate.

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I was being sarcastic heh

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By saying "fault" do you agree that it's wrong/incorrect/not so good (etc)?

Speaking of which, with your chart wouldn't you fancy more a girl who'd make you work for her admiration? Push you to overcome your limitations sort of chick?

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it is what it is, and what it is right now could be appreciated by others.

posted May 16, 2012 08:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
I wouldn't go with either, namely due to the harsh Mercury aspects. I saw those and I didn't look further. I winced. There's some tension up ahead. I'd go so far as to say, date older. It shows in your Venus/Saturn as well. The 1st shows that you have an unwillingness to listen to her pov, in a sense. Not completely, but there's a tension there. Plus she has natal factors for an aggressive personality & might even use sex to control you, as in withholding. That is not happy-making. She could be erratic but you would prob read that as 'excitement.' With the 2nd it doesn't seem as if you feel very close to her, tho I could be wrong. It's relatively hard to tell without being able to look at the natals individually as well. Good luck.

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thanks!

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Originally posted by Lonake:
get to know the woman [b]first. Look at the charts later, if at all. I would be wary of anyone who told you, after looking at the chart with no other info, to just run with it and make babies with someone. Do not ask the astrologer to make your decisions for you, that's what I'm getting at. A little life experience helps a lot. That's all.[/B]

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oh i know her well, it's just that i myself am teetering between two sides my own personality here and i cannot tell which one i like more sometimes

posted May 16, 2012 08:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
I wouldn't go with either, namely due to the harsh Mercury aspects. I saw those and I didn't look further. I winced. There's some tension up ahead. I'd go so far as to say, date older. It shows in your Venus/Saturn as well. The 1st shows that you have an unwillingness to listen to her pov, in a sense. Not completely, but there's a tension there. Plus she has natal factors for an aggressive personality & might even use sex to control you, as in withholding. That is not happy-making. She could be erratic but you would prob read that as 'excitement.' With the 2nd it doesn't seem as if you feel very close to her, tho I could be wrong. It's relatively hard to tell without being able to look at the natals individually as well. Good luck.

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thanks!

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Originally posted by Lonake:
get to know the woman [b]first. Look at the charts later, if at all. I would be wary of anyone who told you, after looking at the chart with no other info, to just run with it and make babies with someone. Do not ask the astrologer to make your decisions for you, that's what I'm getting at. A little life experience helps a lot. That's all.[/B]

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posted May 19, 2012 10:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
Depends on what I valued more, my freedom to do as I please, or stability. It's difficult knowing that you're missing out on an exciting relationship, and it could give you an incentive to cheat on a more boring partner. I get what you're dealing with. It's the Aquarius/Scorpio dichotomy. I was talking about it in another thread recently. These 2 energies are v.difficult to reconcile, and then you have them in a square. Are you using the relationships to balance out that part of yourself, hoping one of them will give you the peace you want? Girl 1 has some strong Uranus elements concerning her mate which you fulfill, and she has Scorpio to match you. The neg that you feel with her at times is just your own inner battle coming to the fore. Have you considered an open marriage.

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i would feel that open marriages are the stupidest thing to ever happen to marriage, while thinking that "dude, mobbing around town with my wife, my four other girlfriends, and our baby would be the sweetest thing ever".

posted May 20, 2012 02:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
If you know who you want to try for the long run with then you've made your decision, no?

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posted May 20, 2012 04:51 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Don't worry. You'll die anyway. Give it a few years.

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