posted May 21, 2012 05:17 PM            

I'm falling for a guy with aqua sun and venus. Here are my questions.

1. How would you react toward people you don't feel anything with when they told you that they loved you?

2. Do venus in aqua lead people on?

3. How long does it take you to open up about your feeling to those loved ones?

posted May 21, 2012 05:34 PM            

I'm falling for a guy with aqua sun and venus. Here are my questions.

1. How would you react toward people you don't feel anything with when they told you that they loved you?

I would feel rather awkward and I would try to defuse it somehow.

2. Do venus in aqua lead people on?

I generally wouldn't lead anyone on, what would be the point to do that?

3. How long does it take you to open up about your feeling to those loved ones?

Much longer when I was younger and much shorter as I grow older.

please feel free to share your experience. Thank you.

posted May 21, 2012 05:56 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
And if i didnt feel the same way about someone i would tell them.

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and what if she's the one that you feel the same, how would you react? will you tell her straight away about how you feel or keep playing it cool?

Thanks.

posted May 21, 2012 06:04 PM            

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Originally posted by starfox:

I would feel rather awkward and I would try to defuse it somehow.

Much longer when I was younger and much shorter as I grow older.

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how would you do to defuse it?
how long was it for the long and short ones?

many thanks.

posted May 21, 2012 06:14 PM            

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Originally posted by rose_s:
and what if she's the one that you feel the same, how would you react? will you tell her straight away about how you feel or keep playing it cool?

Thanks.

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posted May 21, 2012 06:18 PM            

There's a 'Men with Venus in Aquarius' thread here where I already posted some stuff. I suggest reading over that one, too. I can't dig it out right now, but it's useful.

In short, be their FRIEND. Period. Don't talk commitment. Don't EXPECT commitments. Be casual. Have a life outside of them. Let THEM do any chasing. (They eventually will).

And, bottom line, their ACTIONS will show you they care. Their words? Only when pressed. And, again, it's best to give them space and be a good friend.

posted May 21, 2012 06:19 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by rose_s:
[b] and what if she's the one that you feel the same, how would you react? will you tell her straight away about how you feel or keep playing it cool?

Thanks.

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I would play it cool, but keep talking to her and seeing her, i dont spend time with a girl unless i really like her.[/B][/QUOTE]

and when is the right moment that you would finally open up to her?

posted May 21, 2012 06:34 PM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
rose_s,

And, bottom line, their ACTIONS will show you they care. Their words? Only when pressed. And, again, it's best to give them space and be a good friend.

-A.

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I give him plenty of space and can't really do the chase myself as he just won't response anyway, lol. I treat people the way they treat me, so the more space he needs, the more i give it to myself as well.

Thank you very much for your advice.

posted May 21, 2012 07:05 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
In reality, i fall fast,very fast. I know within a week or two how i feel about someone usually.but i withold that information atleast a month or so to get an idea if she feels the same. The reason i do that is a fear of rejection mostly.

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posted May 21, 2012 07:15 PM            

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Originally posted by JohnFKennedy:
Yeah, I'm the same way although I have an Aqua moon/Uranus conjunct the IC. Even within two weeks of dating, I fall extremely hard if there's just SOMETHING about that person. If not, then it's just.. whatever. I won't really initiate contact otherwise and if someone wants to go out on a date, sure, but I'm pretty reserved unless they "prove themselves" to be really fascinating later on.

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posted May 21, 2012 07:29 PM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
rose_s,

In short, be their FRIEND. Period. Don't talk commitment. Don't EXPECT commitments. Be casual. Have a life outside of them. Let THEM do any chasing. (They eventually will).

And, bottom line, their ACTIONS will show you they care. Their words? Only when pressed. And, again, it's best to give them space and be a good friend.

-A.

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This is very accurate. I have been dating an Aqua Venus man for over a year now and he's textbook - kinda cold though (outwardly) and the words may never come, so be prepared for a very long wait for any affectionate words. My bf has never uttered the word love, but he books vacations for us six months in advance and shows how he feels in other ways. We've been together about 14 months and it took him at least eight months to get comfortable enough to show real emotion and affection. And the first kiss? A long time coming, though very worth the wait. As aquaguy said, they do know very fast if you're 'the one' or not, even if they don't actually say that.

And they want FRIENDSHIP - it has to be there and that is what takes the dating process with these guys a long time :-) They are building a foundation. If you cannot talk with them on every subject imaginable, just forget it; they admire and respect intelligence a lot and really value freedom of mind and person. And, they do not, in my experience, lead people on - they are too honest and upfront for that. They really do tell it like it is, so be prepared for brutal and tactless honesty at times.

posted May 21, 2012 07:37 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
My moon is in taurus in the third house, and i need to know where things stand, i dont like mystery,if they feel something for me i want to know. Unfortunately my experience has been that most women hold their cards and keep a poker face unless you say it first,so its always a big risk pouring my heart out.

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it's like saying that if none of you wants to take the risk as both fear of rejection, then nothing will happen?
seems to be unconventional in the way that girls will have to put their emotion on the line first?

posted May 21, 2012 07:42 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
Our first date he told me we were going to look at architecture and he drove us to a cemetary. I was like??? Just yesterday he said we were going for a drive and we ended up at a Buddhist Temple during their worship hour, and neither of us are religious. So, a year later and the dates are still unusual and unexpected.

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posted May 21, 2012 07:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
If you need physical affection, stay away from people with this placement.

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posted May 21, 2012 08:03 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
@rose, i dont expect the woman to make the first move, but i want her to be doing her part as well, i dont like women who play hard to get.i want to be able to tell if she is really into me and not playing games.

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posted May 21, 2012 08:13 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I don't like mind games. If I feel the girl is holding back in this who-blinks-first mental game, I walk out.

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posted May 21, 2012 08:14 PM            

The stupidest thing that I did was to confess feelings in a very intense way (I was a hot mess as a teen; emotional and angsty even for that age group). It was a private revelation, but still too much/too intense. I definitely regret it. I can laugh at myself now, but it caused me a lot of shame and embarrassment when it happened (others found out). I can only hope that the person has forgotten. Luckily, haven't seen that person in years, so at least there's that; hopefully I will never run into that person again.

So, from personal experience, do NOT be too forward, too emotional, too over-the-top: basically, don't be too Venus in Scorpio .