posted December 03, 2012 10:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
You're a cardinal sign. Not mutable, YTA.

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posted December 04, 2012 11:03 AM            

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Originally posted by rose_s:
So it's like an ideal relationship for some Aqua people is Friends with benefits, but both probably have such a deep feeling for each other and agree to keep things in a more light/friendly way?

Thanks for sharing.

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That's probably the best way to look at it...labels freak me out. Titles come with responsibility & accountability but it seems more natural when you keep the relationship more lighthearted. It doesn't discount the emotional aspect of it all...just makes it seem less suffocating. Venus in Aquarius have very deep emotions but I know for myself & my s.o. we show it through more practical means- I might do his laundry or make him dinner; he will do my homework or run an errand for me. Maybe we will take a walk & have a deep intellectual conversation. Thankfully we are both caps with Venus in Aquarius because their is a lot of mutual understanding and I know for my past partners, I drove them nuts lol

posted December 04, 2012 11:36 AM            

1. How would you react toward people you don't feel anything with when they told you that they loved you?

Personally, I would be honest with them and break it to them gently. I have a libra who is following me even after I told him I'm not interested. He's been following me for 2 years now and I'm starting to feel bad for him.

2. Do venus in aqua lead people on?

When I was younger, I did. Now, no. I'm a friendly person and sometimes people get the wrong idea.

3. How long does it take you to open up about your feeling to those loved ones?

posted December 04, 2012 02:26 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Aqua sun and venus here, i liked what linda goodman said about us aquarius men "when he acts as if he doesnt like you,he is close to being hooked."

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posted December 04, 2012 09:00 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I've been consistent all my life. Don't like to chase. Don't like being chased. Don't like hiding feelings. Don't like mental games. Don't like pretending. I like you, I tell you how I feel. Can't handle the truth? Then it's too bad. Later. If you like me and play it cool? Can't handle affection? Then, goodbye. I don't have time to waste and no energy for such inclinations. This Venus in Aquarius is different.

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Not much different from my end...it's all black & white for me. Either you do or you don't....if not "NEXT!" lol

posted December 05, 2012 02:03 PM            

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Originally posted by cappy1277:
That's probably the best way to look at it...labels freak me out. Titles come with responsibility & accountability but it seems more natural when you keep the relationship more lighthearted. It doesn't discount the emotional aspect of it all...just makes it seem less suffocating. Venus in Aquarius have very deep emotions but I know for myself & my s.o. we show it through more practical means- I might do his laundry or make him dinner; he will do my homework or run an errand for me. Maybe we will take a walk & have a deep intellectual conversation. Thankfully we are both caps with Venus in Aquarius because their is a lot of mutual understanding and I know for my past partners, I drove them nuts lol

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I agree 100% with the label thing. I even had that conversation with my BF when he asked me to be his GF. I think my exact words were..."Boyfriend/girlfriend is just a title"

posted December 06, 2012 02:55 PM            

We met back in May through work but not till I saw him again in September that he asked me for coffee, walked me home, asked me out ...kissed me good night. Fast work! Aries moon I think. Then supposed to go for dinner...night got messed up for various reasons, delays etc. He came over and apologised and was kind of stressed about it!

I travel for work so was super busy, plus i'm a saggie with leo moon so like space but attention too.

We texted in between, then met up again. He was quiet but seemingly paying attention to my perfume and what I was wearing but we talked comfortably about lots of things (I have libra mars and venus so LOVE to talk) and he took my hand and was so sweet without saying much.

He has been busy but started to send me "good morning" texts, wishing me a good day. I reply a day later and then wait for his response.

BUT he is taking sooooooo long! seems he taking things slow or not at all?? He asked when my birthday was and said we can do some things after he submits his papers for his masters.

So yeah....i am taking it easy

posted December 09, 2012 09:36 AM            

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Originally posted by aquagembaby:
I agree 100% with the label thing. I even had that conversation with my BF when he asked me to be his GF. I think my exact words were..."Boyfriend/girlfriend is just a title"

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Oh boy do I totally agree with you. I'm actually a Cancer Sun/Asc/Mars with Cap Moon, and Taurus Venus...so I'm supposed to be all about titles (which to an extent I am...not about titles but about security and knowing that you won't up and bail if things get hard).

Anyway I have a Yod between my Sun/Asc/Mars Conjunction Inconjunct my Uranus in Sag and Jupiter in Aqua Sextile. I also have Mercury and IC (which for a Cancer is akin to a Moon Uranus aspect) Uranus aspects, and I have my Venus and NN in the 11th.

I can't do formal titles. In fact I have a need for relationships (7th house Moon), however I never quite feel like a girlfriend or that it's more than a friendship with physical stuff. Titles make me feel suffocated and uncomfortable (when I get them). Until then I'm a typical 7th house Moon and seek them out.

I honestly don't even want to get married or even live with someone. I always say that if I live with someone I want to at least have my own room where I can have my space. Heck, I can't even share the same bed as someone without feeling suffocated.

I've said I need periodic breaks where we have something happen so that I don't get bored. BUT my Venus in Taurus has a need that even if we do have "breaks" we ALWAYS end up back together at the end of the day when I'm with someone I truly care about.

I actually dated an Aqua Sun with Cap Venus, and he has the whole not wanting an obligation, and not wanting to invest when he isn't sure where he is going to be (this is the Cap side of him). He's spontaneous, free spirited, and has no problem going after a girl he is attracted to (Aries Mars). That is UNTIL his feelings get involved and then he needs the title (Cap Venus), is picky, worried about being annoying, needy, getting attached/being vulnerable to someone and they up and or cheat on him, and does not initiate a single thing (Virgo Moon). He also has MAJOR trust issues (a la his Mercury Trine Pluto, Venus Sextile Pluto, and 8th house Moon).

It was funny he said he doesn't "demote" girlfriends back to being just friends (I also suspect this has something to do with his Moon in the 8th house). With ex girlfriends he can stay a friend if they didn't mean much, and he won't stay friends if they hurt or **** him off, and then esp if he has feelings for them and they stop caring or betray him in a way (but again it is out of anger) He also says that there are girls who are "friend material," "hookup material," and then finally "girlfriend material." I actually think most guys think this lol.

Anyway having said that, it was so funny when after we broke up (I broke up with him once, and then he broke up with me once) saying we couldn't be friends as I was "too serious" and not spontaneous enough for him, however when describing me as a girlfriend he said I was a good one, but wasn't serious enough and that I was too fickle lol. So yeah.

posted December 17, 2012 09:00 PM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by JohnFKennedy:
[b] Yeah, I'm the same way although I have an Aqua moon/Uranus conjunct the IC. Even within two weeks of dating, I fall extremely hard if there's just SOMETHING about that person. If not, then it's just.. whatever. I won't really initiate contact otherwise and if someone wants to go out on a date, sure, but I'm pretty reserved unless they "prove themselves" to be really fascinating later on.

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My moon is in taurus in the third house, and i need to know where things stand, i dont like mystery,if they feel something for me i want to know. Unfortunately my experience has been that most women hold their cards and keep a poker face unless you say it first,so its always a big risk pouring my heart out.[/B][/QUOTE]

I'm definitely one of those women who keeps her POKER FACE up until I hear what YOU feel for ME.

posted December 17, 2012 10:05 PM            

so my aqua sun, mars, and venus dude has confessed time and time that he really really likes me..calls me future wife yada yada we know each other so i feel his very heart felt about it

it seems that when i contact him we talk for seriously only a little bit and he seems disinterested or just doesn't answer back...but when he contacts me nowww he wants to have a conversation...i called him first and he was busy so i just told him to call me back....he called me back a month later haha ( ) but i don't wanna be too needy so i act okay with it but hintly joking askin why he didn't call ONCE. you know what his reply was? he said the more and more i talk to you the more i want you (lol, and thats a bad thing?!?)....unfortunately i didn't pick up call hen he did call back cause he legit called so early in the morning and was sleeping lol..so i later called him back he never answered but texted me asking if i called...i told him to call me back all cute and what not...has not called me back yet........so im starting to think screw ever initiating any convo with him lol ill just wait till he comes to me which ive been doing a lot

posted December 17, 2012 10:38 PM            

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3. This is gonna be a problem I think with a lot of your typical aquas. There's a hugehugehuge problem with opening up/trust/expression feelings & emotions. If I like someone or am even just crushing on someone, it's hard for me to look them in the eye... I hate being 1:1 with that person... and I almost overcompensate my interest by acting super aloof. I need to know the feelings are reciprocated, and maybe stronger by the other person. That's the struggle I think with anyone who goes after an aqua dominant person - we need you to show your cards first and convince us you're not bluffing.

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O...M...G. On the money!

My love interest is doing this right now!! WTF ya'll are some confusing people for those of us who like it simple! LOL

posted December 17, 2012 10:42 PM            

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Lovelyaries: I too am Pis. ces with moon and Venus Aqua. If he's given you time and wants to see you consider that good. Remember friendship first with his type. We have to know our secrets and quirky ways are accepted and we feel safe..

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Ooooo tell me more then! LOL

He acts possessive of me one minute...and then turns around and says "I don't care" the next minute.

Lately...he waits for me to call him. Yet he'll ALWAYS answer me when I call and he texts me every single day.

WTH is he into me hardcore or NOT?!

posted December 17, 2012 10:44 PM            

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Originally posted by foxxyxo:
how about this scenario....

so my aqua sun, mars, and venus dude has confessed time and time that he really really likes me..calls me future wife yada yada we know each other so i feel his very heart felt about it

it seems that when i contact him we talk for seriously only a little bit and he seems disinterested or just doesn't answer back...but when he contacts me nowww he wants to have a conversation...i called him first and he was busy so i just told him to call me back....he called me back a month later haha ( ) but i don't wanna be too needy so i act okay with it but hintly joking askin why he didn't call ONCE. you know what his reply was? he said the more and more i talk to you the more i want you (lol, and thats a bad thing?!?)....unfortunately i didn't pick up call hen he did call back cause he legit called so early in the morning and was sleeping lol..so i later called him back he never answered but texted me asking if i called...i told him to call me back all cute and what not...has not called me back yet........so im starting to think screw ever initiating any convo with him lol ill just wait till he comes to me which ive been doing a lot

SO CONFUSED?!?!!?!

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Girl I feel your pain. LOL

posted December 22, 2012 09:23 PM            

He's not always the most expressive person nor is he one for romantic gestures (e.g. surprises, gifts).

However, he is more likely to take off from work to look after me when I am sick or take my car to the shop and get the brakes done so I am safe while driving.

He has moments where he seems so aloof, cold, and detached. And then there are moments where he is just all over me and nothing else in the world matters. I would definitely describe him as odd and his ex-gf that he dated for 4 years (I am friends with her) would say the same about his weirdness.

While we have been together I have been VERY expressive with my emotions (I have Venus in Scorpio...the poor man!). He was at first a little rattled by this but later told me how much he appreciated that and how it helped him to open up and be more expressive with his feelings. Over time, he does get a little sweeter, but he's still not a romantic guy.

He's committed, strong, and demonstrates a leadership type of role in the family and I adore this about him. He has demonstrated that he is here for the long-term & trustworthy. That must be the Capricorn bit.

I personally think a Venus in Aquarius is a cute & quirky placement... but not everyone can handle the weirdness.

posted December 23, 2012 12:38 AM            

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What about the cases where a guy isn't interested? Don't you have to be in a stable relationship with someone (stable meaning consistent, not exclusive) to see their Venus? (Sounds wrong lol.)

In response to Foxxyoo, I think Venus in Aquarius goes back and forth just like Libra or Gemini. Maybe the on/off quality is an air sign thing in general.

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Being on/off is definitely an air quality but if your bond is strong, it will feel like you never missed a beat when you reunite.

posted December 30, 2012 03:57 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by rose_s:
[b] and what if she's the one that you feel the same, how would you react? will you tell her straight away about how you feel or keep playing it cool?

Thanks.

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I would play it cool, but keep talking to her and seeing her, i dont spend time with a girl unless i really like her.[/B][/QUOTE]

Quick question:

Does the Venus in Aquarius man usually initiate the meetings/dates? Or does he follow her lead based on what SHE wants to do and when?

Since he's so "laid back" I would like to know.

Thanks in advance for the feedback!

posted December 31, 2012 01:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
If you need physical affection, stay away from people with this placement.

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