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Topic: Venus and Pluto aspects and danger ?
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lovehate122
Knowflake Posts: 498
From: Ireland
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 19, 2012 05:05 AM
  
lonake , lolz that was hilarious and you sound exactly like my sister ! Im sure if you gave him a peice of your mind he'd give you it right back (he's stubborn and egotistic)i didn't really understand the link though ?? as far as i know (he who shall not be named) has pluto in his 2nd house and mars on the cusp of his 3rd house (it maybe the reason for him saying such creepy and intense things and appearing kind of mean and nasty ) if you were refering to me.. mine is in my 11th house slightly in my 10th (as im sure you already know) or if you were refering to us venus-pluto then i get it , Im supposed to feel transformed and better than ever when i forget about him . thank you for being so "motherly" i kind of wish my mam was like that . She just doesn't want me to see him cos my sister told her he was 24 and she did not like that part (i didn't tell her the comments and the dirty looks ) but she gave me a choice which is why im not communicating with anyone till i feel somewhat carefree again . And yes lioness my self esteem is waaaaay down at the moment and i guess it just sucks and im going to have to deal with it . IP: Logged |
Lonake
Knowflake Posts: 9347
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 19, 2012 05:15 AM
You have progressed Venus opp natal Pluto, so the quote is for your chart, in general.
Also you have solar arc Venus coming up to opp n.Pluto but that's a few yrs off, I think 3 yrs maybe.IP: Logged |
lovehate122
Knowflake Posts: 498
From: Ireland
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 19, 2012 05:45 AM
what does that mean ????? please tell me it does not mean more of this !IP: Logged |
lovehate122
Knowflake Posts: 498
From: Ireland
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 19, 2012 05:56 AM
aah i see and sometimes it can get violent . my parents had a very violent relationship
and my mother has this aspect in her 8th house . Im her first child so maybe thats why i have it too . IP: Logged |
Lonake
Knowflake Posts: 9347
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 19, 2012 07:11 AM
imho it means you should find someone who is *grounded* because you basically have for the moment, a Venus/Pluto/Neptune/Jupiter grand cross. Jupiter will soon move out of orb, but Neptune will be in orb for a yr or so giving you a Venus/Pluto/Neptune t square, the up side is that it's a v.creative combination  IP: Logged |
lovehate122
Knowflake Posts: 498
From: Ireland
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 19, 2012 07:38 AM
well thank you lonake
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LoVeLy
Knowflake Posts: 404
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Registered: May 2009
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posted January 16, 2014 12:25 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Honestly - this is never a good sign.I have this happen when their Mars is near my Venus (which is opposite my Pluto).
If he has a Mars/Pluto aspect and his Pluto is in aspect to your Venus - then his Mars would also be in aspect to your Venus.. right? I would class this as the worst *all time* thing to happen to a woman.... to meet a man with a Mars/Pluto or Mars/Saturn aspect -- or Mars/Saturn/Pluto all together - touching her Venus.
It is just UGLY as crap. I've seen stories from abuse to disfiguring her to attempting to give her a deadly std - and others.
So please take care of yourself.. and walk away.
I'm going through something similar, he is younger than me a teenager and has Mars conjunct Pluto in sag squaring my Venus and sun
He talks about raping me and is very abusive calls me a **** and when he sees guys looking at me calling me a **** gets louder
He bites me and hits me and says he is joking but I have scars and it's not fun
I thought all this was because he has ADHD but after reading this entire thread I think it must be the Mars and Pluto squaring my Venus
He also burnt me with a puffer ( that white liquid that's inside it )
I am not in a relationship with him but he kisses me by force and does a lot of things by force, he is very strong and I can't stop him, I've told his father and grandfather they yell at him but it hasn't stopped and there is no way that I can avoid him completely 
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Sun in Virgo conjunct Venus ( 11th House )
Moon in Libra
Rising sign Libra
Honesty is Confidence - Hoodie Allen ❤ IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 1415
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 16, 2014 01:39 AM
My ex has venus square pluto in his natal. he was always suspicious I felt like he was saying I was a ***** . if i answered a text too late it meant I was with another man. Pathetic.The rape thing ummm well if this was when u guys were being all wild during sex and fantasizing then i could understand but if he just meant it in a bad threatening way then that is a huge red flag.
Edit: wait you are 15. Holy crap.
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Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 1415
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 16, 2014 01:43 AM
quote:
Originally posted by LoVeLy:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Odette:
[b] Honestly - this is never a good sign.I have this happen when their Mars is near my Venus (which is opposite my Pluto).
If he has a Mars/Pluto aspect and his Pluto is in aspect to your Venus - then his Mars would also be in aspect to your Venus.. right? I would class this as the worst *all time* thing to happen to a woman.... to meet a man with a Mars/Pluto or Mars/Saturn aspect -- or Mars/Saturn/Pluto all together - touching her Venus.
It is just UGLY as crap. I've seen stories from abuse to disfiguring her to attempting to give her a deadly std - and others.
So please take care of yourself.. and walk away.
I'm going through something similar, he is younger than me a teenager and has Mars conjunct Pluto in sag squaring my Venus and sun
He talks about raping me and is very abusive calls me a **** and when he sees guys looking at me calling me a **** gets louder
He bites me and hits me and says he is joking but I have scars and it's not fun
I thought all this was because he has ADHD but after reading this entire thread I think it must be the Mars and Pluto squaring my Venus
He also burnt me with a puffer ( that white liquid that's inside it )
I am not in a relationship with him but he kisses me by force and does a lot of things by force, he is very strong and I can't stop him, I've told his father and grandfather they yell at him but it hasn't stopped and there is no way that I can avoid him completely [/B][/QUOTE] WTFFF um I think its about time u tell your parents or confide in a school counselor or call the police. Do u have any male brothers or cousins that can teach him a lesson? IP: Logged |
Odette
Knowflake Posts: 3438
From:
Registered: May 2012
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posted January 16, 2014 03:53 AM
LoVleY - There is no such thing as "I can't avoid him completely" in your case. This has gone too far.
He should not come near you. There is no reason whatsoever that would justify you having to see this guy.
His behaviour is blatantly abusive.. It's not "borderline".. It's not just a little out of line. He has run roughshod over the line. I completely agree that you should let your parents know and the school, if you both attend the same school.
Talk to your parents about exactly what happened and make a joint decision about the next steps to take and whether you should contact the police. IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae
Knowflake Posts: 1550
From: Venice, California, US
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 16, 2014 04:53 AM
Are we talking RAPE or kink? Is he fantasising in a kinky fashion and failing to articulate it?IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae
Knowflake Posts: 1550
From: Venice, California, US
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 16, 2014 04:56 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
My ex has venus square pluto in his natal. he was always suspicious I felt like he was saying I was a ***** . if i answered a text too late it meant I was with another man. Pathetic.The rape thing ummm well if this was when u guys were being all wild during sex and fantasizing then i could understand but if he just meant it in a bad threatening way then that is a huge red flag.
Edit: wait you are 15. Holy crap.
FIFTEEN? Oh, I second that. Good lord ....
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summerlite
Knowflake Posts: 736
From:
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 16, 2014 05:11 AM
quote:
Originally posted by LoVeLy:
I'm going through something similar, he is younger than me a teenager and has Mars conjunct Pluto in sag squaring my Venus and sun
He talks about raping me and is very abusive calls me a **** and when he sees guys looking at me calling me a **** gets louder
He bites me and hits me and says he is joking but I have scars and it's not fun
I thought all this was because he has ADHD but after reading this entire thread I think it must be the Mars and Pluto squaring my Venus
He also burnt me with a puffer ( that white liquid that's inside it )
I am not in a relationship with him but he kisses me by force and does a lot of things by force, he is very strong and I can't stop him, I've told his father and grandfather they yell at him but it hasn't stopped and there is no way that I can avoid him completely
He is not treating you right or with respect. Get help before anything bad happens. IP: Logged |
LoVeLy
Knowflake Posts: 404
From:
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 16, 2014 01:11 PM
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Sun in Virgo conjunct Venus ( 11th House )
Moon in Libra
Rising sign Libra Honesty is Confidence - Hoodie Allen ❤ IP: Logged |
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