posted July 24, 2012 06:42 PM            

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i do value friendship alot, i want the girl to be my friend . but its different with women for me because sexual attraction comes in. and when i have that and friendship with a girl i'll fall everytime. to me if a guy and girl are bestfriends they should be together,but thats just me.

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I hope you don't mind me jumping in here. I'm really interested. I totally get not wanting to just be friends with a woman if you see her as potential for more. Sounds heart breaking to try to be friends when you want more. What I am curious about though is: do you ever like a woman without desiring her? Like ever? Does liking a woman automatically equal desiring her? Likewise, if a woman is unattractive to you, can you still like her as a person or friend? Or can you only see women as potential partners or nothing? I don't mean that in a judgemental way. I'm really genuinely interested in how you see it Aquaguy.

I'm curious if anyone thinks there is anything in a man's chart that speaks of his ability to like women he's not attracted to. Can men do this? Is it possible?

posted July 24, 2012 07:17 PM            

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Originally posted by redshift:
I hope you don't mind me jumping in here. I'm really interested. I totally get not wanting to just be friends with a woman if you see her as potential for more. Sounds heart breaking to try to be friends when you want more. What I am curious about though is: do you ever like a woman without desiring her? Like ever? Does liking a woman automatically equal desiring her? Likewise, if a woman is unattractive to you, can you still like her as a person or friend? Or can you only see women as potential partners or nothing? I don't mean that in a judgemental way. I'm really genuinely interested in how you see it Aquaguy.

I'm curious if anyone thinks there is anything in a man's chart that speaks of his ability to like women he's not attracted to. Can men do this? Is it possible?

Edited to say: ooops, I'm getting off topic. Should start a new one. Sorry.

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posted July 25, 2012 10:55 PM            

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Originally posted by luisbunuel:
Hi Curious woman, I think you've just proved something.....you have moon square pluto and another woman (Lonake? Female?)is picking a fight with you and calling you untrustworthy and defensive and asking you to give her a break!!!

That's what your initial post was all about and it's ended with yet another woman(?) giving you a hard time!!

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posted July 25, 2012 10:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Alma Sun:
When it's intense dislike, it seems like they feel the Moon/Pluto native is sinister and they have to ban together against that person.

^ That usually goes away though, with time, when they realize you're not the Devil they're making you out to be.

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posted August 10, 2012 03:27 PM            

This is a true story, recently I was in court, and ended up paying a fine, they trumped up the fine . So I went to pay the fine at the window, I asked the lady why was the fine trumped up after one ticket was dismissed. She gave some BS reason .. I responded to her reasoning . I said thats fraudulent to just trump up the charge because I got a ticket dismissed. Then she said thats the way it is. Then I got really mad , in my head I was saying "I cant believe this woman is fkin serious right" She asked if I was alright, but not in a concerned way, but in a way like if she was wondering if I was gonna break something for punch someone. I just walked away.

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Originally posted by Astrochologist:
Im a male my Moon squares pluto. My experience with hades moon has been one of extreme anger. I agree with the idea that were perceived as "sinister" therefore others look at us with suspicion. The problem with me has been an easily volcanic temper that I need to express or im sapped of energy from holding it in.

This is a true story, recently I was in court, and ended up paying a fine, they trumped up the fine . So I went to pay the fine at the window, I asked the lady why was the fine trumped up after one ticket was dismissed. She gave some BS reason .. I responded to her reasoning . I said thats fraudulent to just trump up the charge because I got a ticket dismissed. Then she said thats the way it is. Then I got really mad , in my head I was saying "I cant believe this woman is fkin serious right" She asked if I was alright, but not in a concerned way, but in a way like if she was wondering if I was gonna break something for punch someone. I just walked away.

Not only do women find you threatening but easily pick up on your temper. Aside fro

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what is up mang? Nice to see you here!

posted August 11, 2012 10:01 AM            

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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
@geea
The problem is I REALLY REALLY GENUINELY WANT TO HELP EVERYONE, i am not the jealous type. At work as well, constant power struggle. I only want to work make money and leave, yet somehow my presence appear authoritarian without me trying, if i try to be nice, people think i am being fake, i want no power. i just want a good relationship with them that's all.

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posted August 12, 2012 09:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Astrochologist:
This is a true story, recently I was in court, and ended up paying a fine, they trumped up the fine . So I went to pay the fine at the window, I asked the lady why was the fine trumped up after one ticket was dismissed. She gave some BS reason .. I responded to her reasoning . I said thats fraudulent to just trump up the charge because I got a ticket dismissed. Then she said thats the way it is. Then I got really mad , in my head I was saying "I cant believe this woman is fkin serious right" She asked if I was alright, but not in a concerned way, but in a way like if she was wondering if I was gonna break something for punch someone. I just walked away.

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posted August 23, 2012 05:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
You have a sense of humor I get it. I don't think you have a Leo Asc like me tho judging by your reaction, but it still tickled a funny bone (!) cos I could relate. Sometimes I don't have to erupt and people acquiesce, I can tell they sense that I'm about to blow (Pluto conj IC adds to the depths of emotion here). But it's never felt right to hold in my Pluto/Moon square anger, I always have to get it out, and it's an Earth Moon so it comes across like a literal earthquake, gotta get out the shakes. Maybe with men or other elements it's different (?) Something funny I notice with me is the pressure I can feel building from behind my eyes, adding to their intensity, it does scare people judging by their reaction. I had no idea how much until I passed a mirror one day while in that mood and caught a glimpse. I actually scared myself, so now I don't blame them since I had no idea what I looked like from the outside; it's fierce. I don't like that I intimidate people, but if it's something building up that needs to be released, shrugs, then that's how the cookie crumbles.
I do make effort now to tone down the intensity in my eyes cos it can create problems when there are none, for instance they mistake my focus and concentration on something as having to do with them, and again who can blame them, so I've learned to take the initiative, read what they're thinking and just bring the situation out in the open to give them some relief.

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Originally posted by Lonake:
Yes we are abnormal, quite But lively (!)

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