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Topic: i believe moon square pluto in woman's chart attracts
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curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 1029 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 17, 2012 11:08 AM
Jealousy from other women. Can anyone share any about it please!IP: Logged |
depth Knowflake Posts: 574 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted July 17, 2012 11:54 AM
My virgo m0on's in the 8th sextile pluto in the 10th and I d0n't kn0w any w0man who's jealous of me. I d0n't attract such people. I do attract a lot of scorpios though.My m0m's taurus m0on's trine pluto and she keeps yapping about how so and so w0man's jealous of her success. I feel it's her scorpio head fabricating n0nsense than any real life jealousy. She suspects a lot you see. My aqua friend's leo m0on's sq pluto. She's very particular about who she interacts with and has maybe 3 or 4 female friends. And we're n0t jealous of her. N0r has she ever menti0ned such a thing. I've an0ther friend with a le0 m0on sq pluto and every w0man she kn0ws speaks highly of her. She's one of the sweetest things around. N0 jealousy there either. The aspect's said to attract such w0men but I haven't met any yet. IP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 1029 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 17, 2012 12:06 PM
I have this aspect and I yearn for a genuine female friendship. I make friends with women but they always end up against me somehow. I am the best friend anyone can have and warm too and I have the moon in leo square pluto as well. IP: Logged |
intriguingineveryway Knowflake Posts: 80 From: USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 17, 2012 12:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by curiouswoman: Jealousy from other women. Can anyone share any about it please!
I believe so. I've seen it many times between the person who has the moon square and their own family members. Truly sad. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Knowflake Posts: 7028 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 17, 2012 12:43 PM
i'm a man with the moon/pluto opposition and i have women who are hateful towards me for no good reason lol.IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Knowflake Posts: 1580 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 17, 2012 02:18 PM
@aquaguy, I have Moon opposition Pluto with a female family member in synastry and she is sneakily apathetic and envious of me to the point where she's wished I'd never been born, since I'm the 'sun' and she's 'pluto' and I suck up all the attention (not true in my book, and pretty funny about the pluto part too right?). So similar to you, I also have the aspect where a woman I'm close to hates me for no reason. Just not in my natal chart but even in synastry it hits hard and with a vengeance... IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 5428 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 17, 2012 02:27 PM
I haven't noticed it, personally, but it's a possibility.To me Moon/Pluto square is about intense emotions that are hard to express in a healthy way and/or emotional obsession. IP: Logged |
MillyX Knowflake Posts: 758 From: canada Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 17, 2012 03:25 PM
I have moon square pluto. Other women aren't jealous of me. In fact no one is jealous of me (I hope). I'm actually really possessive when it comes to me friends. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Knowflake Posts: 7028 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 17, 2012 03:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by sweet-scorpion: @aquaguy, I have Moon opposition Pluto with a female family member in synastry and she is sneakily apathetic and envious of me to the point where she's wished I'd never been born, since I'm the 'sun' and she's 'pluto' and I suck up all the attention (not true in my book, and pretty funny about the pluto part too right?). So similar to you, I also have the aspect where a woman I'm close to hates me for no reason. Just not in my natal chart but even in synastry it hits hard and with a vengeance...
its not women in my family that hate me, its women i dont know lol IP: Logged |
CAY_512 Knowflake Posts: 495 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 17, 2012 03:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by curiouswoman: Jealousy from other women. Can anyone share any about it please!
I know a women in her late 50s with it and she doesn't have any female friends and she talks bad about her sisters & mother. The jealously between her and her sisters go both ways. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Knowflake Posts: 1580 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 17, 2012 05:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: its not women in my family that hate me, its women i dont know lol
Sorry I didn't notice that. :') Regardless if it makes you feel any better I have Moon sextile Pluto and even though its a positive contact I am definitely one to cause jealousy or insecurity in other women who I don't know well! It's unintentional and I feel bad about it. I get along better friendship wise with males. But the Moon-Pluto opposition in the family synastry is probably one of the worst contacts I've ever had, so I can't imagine how tough it must be for you to deal with bringing out those intense and oft negative feelings in other women you don't know well either. Have you figured out a way to get around it? IP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 1029 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 17, 2012 07:03 PM
I attracts much competitveness from family members and close friends and now at work. Women at my job do anything in their power to try to screw me over and I blamed it on the fact that I have a powerful presence. I try to be beyond nice and there is no change it seems like it gets worse. Any advice?IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Knowflake Posts: 7028 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 17, 2012 08:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by sweet-scorpion: Sorry I didn't notice that. :') Regardless if it makes you feel any better I have Moon sextile Pluto and even though its a positive contact I am definitely one to cause jealousy or insecurity in other women who I don't know well! It's unintentional and I feel bad about it. I get along better friendship wise with males. But the Moon-Pluto opposition in the family synastry is probably one of the worst contacts I've ever had, so I can't imagine how tough it must be for you to deal with bringing out those intense and oft negative feelings in other women you don't know well either. Have you figured out a way to get around it?
not really, i just try to avoid talking to them if at allpossible lol. i also have venus square pluto, venus square mars, venus square moon , and venus quincunx chiron lol. those all probably have a hand in it.
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Lehia2 Knowflake Posts: 120 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 17, 2012 10:15 PM
I have this position and I think it sounds about right.IP: Logged |
Astra Knowflake Posts: 490 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 17, 2012 10:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by intriguingineveryway: I believe so. I've seen it many times between the person who has the moon square and their own family members. Truly sad.
I have moon square pluto and do have a tendency to get betrayed by females. My own aunt literally tried to sell me to some random man when I was only 5 years old. IP: Logged |
intriguingineveryway Knowflake Posts: 80 From: USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 18, 2012 12:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by Astra: I have moon square pluto and do have a tendency to get betrayed by females. My own aunt literally tried to sell me to some random man when I was only 5 years old.
I'm sorry. Were there someone to protect you at that time? No one should even go through that..... I know someone (who has moon square pluto) in that same situation like yours with family and betrayal. Her own family betrayed her, her own sister and mother ganged up on her, and closest friends. They would do their best to keep her from achieving her dreams, and just want to make money off her instead. When she has something new(which she rarely has), they'd be envious, and constantly put her down, and take it away from her. I feel sorry for her. I didn't know such "loved ones" existed. You expect that from others, but not family or relatives and closest friends. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 5145 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 18, 2012 01:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: i'm a man with the moon/pluto opposition and i have women who are hateful towards me for no good reason lol.
Pluto deals with the subconscious. Maybe subconsciously you put off a guarded and intimidating vibe without realizing it. The Aqua guy at work has this aspect (and he's an Aqua like you, with a Taurus moon, like us - weird) and it made him appear very arrogant, cold, hard to approach. I think this aspect hampers friendliness, and I'm used to being able to approach anyone unhindered so I was kind of put off from him for awhile. It gets better as I'm sure you know I have this aspect too. Women who become close to me become jealous of me over time but it's not something that happens right off the bat. IP: Logged |
pandacake Knowflake Posts: 325 From: Europe Registered: May 2011
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posted July 18, 2012 09:02 AM
So many sad stories ...Someone close to me has this and she has a very hard time keeping female friends ... she literally attracts hatred and drama from women... She has a big water stellium with some earth. She's extremely emotional. And for some reason her relationships with women in general *always* turn sour. In the best case, they ignore her, in the worst case they actually want to make her life hard. I tried to help her analyze the situation: Who's fault is this? Who started this? Why and how did things come this far? Can't you be honest and talk things out? Can't you apologize? Can't you ask them to tell you what the deal is? Sadly things aren't as simple as that. I do often get the reply of: "They're just jealous of me." And if I ask again of what they are jealous of, I don't really get responses that could help her further. I guess she just has the power to evoke really intense emotions/responses from others. The situations she's in is like one giant blob of manipulation, misunderstandings and made up stories so systematically rooted that things have gone beyond the point of: "Let's talk things out and be friends again". (edit) Not sure how much of this can come from a Pluto Moon aspect only actually. I've Pluto Moon too (conjunction) and I know how emotional intense I can be myself but it's striking of how different we are. I feel sad for her because deep down she's no bad person ... IP: Logged |
luisbunuel Knowflake Posts: 269 From: Hampshire, England Registered: May 2009
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posted July 18, 2012 09:31 AM
Hi Curious woman, I find that the best way out is the easy way - to not attempt to form close friendships with women. The "sisterhood" is not a concept that works well for those with Moon square Pluto. (I can confirm this, wholeheartedly) IP: Logged |
luisbunuel Knowflake Posts: 269 From: Hampshire, England Registered: May 2009
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posted July 18, 2012 09:46 AM
The Moon Square Pluto Woman's List Of Most Hated Words (as compiled by me):Sorority sisters Girlie nights in Women's networking events You can add yours to the list...
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butterflyxoxxo Knowflake Posts: 264 From: seattle Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 18, 2012 09:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: i'm a man with the moon/pluto opposition and i have women who are hateful towards me for no good reason lol.
ahahahaha IP: Logged |
pandacake Knowflake Posts: 325 From: Europe Registered: May 2011
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posted July 18, 2012 09:57 AM
Also, the girl I was talking about, her problems with other women always seems to arise when she starts getting to know them on a more personal level ... Told her once maybe she should keep a distance until they're proven trustworthy and to never share any personal information too soon but that doesn't seem to work well either ... IP: Logged |
intriguingineveryway Knowflake Posts: 80 From: USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 18, 2012 10:04 AM
Are oppositions like a switch or something, they can control their intensity, and squares are more uncontrollable?IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Knowflake Posts: 7028 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 18, 2012 10:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by butterflyxoxxo: ahahahaha
whats funny? lol IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Knowflake Posts: 7028 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 18, 2012 10:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: Pluto deals with the subconscious. Maybe subconsciously you put off a guarded and intimidating vibe without realizing it. The Aqua guy at work has this aspect (and he's an Aqua like you, with a Taurus moon, like us - weird) and it made him appear very arrogant, cold, hard to approach. I think this aspect hampers friendliness, and I'm used to being able to approach anyone unhindered so I was kind of put off from him for awhile. It gets better as I'm sure you know I have this aspect too. Women who become close to me become jealous of me over time but it's not something that happens right off the bat.
hmm what was his ascendant? maybe i do appear intimidating lol.
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