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sand
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posted August 12, 2012 02:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
..like u know such things as being dumb, or physically weak or just being a whiney ****bag in general. :P

is it scorpio that hates this? ..aries?

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posted August 12, 2012 02:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sounds pretty mean..probably aries

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posted August 12, 2012 02:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lazyscarecrow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Definitely an Aries trait, or a fire sign trait in general. They especially hate physical or emotional shows of "weakness". And whining, too in some cases. I realize it's not accurate for everyone, just my observations.

Meh. As an Aries moon and Sag rising, I am not so hard on people. I do hate a lot of complaining...but that's it.

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posted August 12, 2012 02:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
sounds pretty mean..probably aries


that is what my cancer friend says to but i believe the reason for it is he views himself as weak and he himself has said such.. but at what i do not know!

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posted August 12, 2012 02:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Beautiful Disaster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds more like someone who thinks they are the &*^$ and are superior to everyone. No offense.

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posted August 12, 2012 02:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilithpluto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^^^ lol.

But I am like that too. I hate whiny ppl who complaints but do nothing to get themselves out of it. I'm human too, I hv weakness n I complain, but for everything i dislike, i alrdy hv a backup plan to get out of it if it doesn' t improve. I agree it is cruel... But I dun mix w ppl like that so I guess it helps ...

Aries in 7 th house. Mars Pluto in first house.

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posted August 12, 2012 02:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
..talking about the dislike of it and not lack of weakness on my part.

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posted August 12, 2012 03:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for scorpy_oh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i don't know about scorpio. i always try to be compassionate and understanding but i guess people with scorpio placements can be like that since they have intense likes and dislikes.

i can definitely see aries being like this since they lack the patience in handling people.

come to think of it, i have my limits with such people who choose to be that way for whatever reason. i just walk away because i start to absorb their negative energy and it brings me down. not because of a superiority complex but for the sake of my own sanity and happiness. lol. this could also be supported by my own fiery mercury.

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posted August 12, 2012 03:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I always thought it was my Cap Asc but could be Aries. I understand the need to whine here and there, God knows I do it too, but sooner or later gotta pick yourself up and get to work.

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posted August 12, 2012 03:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can never dislike someone who 's weak, physically! nor someone with mental disorder ...I will actually treat them better than I treat any of those who are close. But what I really can't tolerate; someone who's whiny, or those who act dumb on purpose...
and ooh the people who have no self-respect and can't back themselves up after a relationship breakup... I mean for the love of god, value yourself and show some self-respect.

I just love nobility, and I pretty much expect others to project it as well...

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posted August 12, 2012 03:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you scared of weakness?

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posted August 12, 2012 03:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for scorpy_oh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
doesn't special treatment towards people with mental disabilities/disorders kind of backfire in a sense?

when i was 17, i worked with a non-profit organization that dealt with developmental disabilities. heard too many stories about people just wanting to be treated equally. not any more and not any less.

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posted August 12, 2012 03:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
I can never dislike someone who 's weak, physically! nor someone with mental disorder ...I will actually treat them better than I treat any of those who are close. But what I really can't tolerate; someone who's whiny, or those who act dumb on purpose...
and ooh the people who have no self-respect and can't back themselves up after a relationship breakup... I mean for the love of god, value yourself and show some self-respect.

I just love nobility, and I pretty much expect others to project it as well...


i find a lot of smart women act dumb on purpose or try to dumbdown to, idk what, i guess to seem non-threatening(?)

hey iv groveled a lil bit for a woman to take me back after a breakup! so counterintuitive indeed..

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posted August 12, 2012 03:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
Are you scared of weakness?

me? not at all. i fear not being able to produce output or to work. or is that a yes?

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posted August 12, 2012 03:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
weakness in others is a huge turn-off for me, as well. being a coward, not standing up for yourself, letting others walk all over you, being afraid to assert yourself, all that...bugs the hell out of me! and i become my strongest when i am in the presence of those people! i don't treat them differently, though. i just think, "damn..grow some balls." ya know?

no Aries in me but i was raised by an Aries sun/venus father who thinks the same way.

i do have Scorp ASC/Venus/Pluto and Capricorn sun, Sagittarius moon, merc, uranus, saturn....all very strong-willed signs...maybe that's it..

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posted August 12, 2012 04:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sand:
i find a lot of smart women act dumb on purpose or try to dumbdown to, idk what, i guess to seem non-threatening(?)

hey iv groveled a lil bit for a woman to take me back after a breakup! so counterintuitive indeed..


Or maybe because of societal gender roles, women are told that being smart is threatening to men so in order to be perceived as desirable to men, she dumbs things down.

And what do mean by weakness, everyone has some kind of weakness, being heartless can even be seen as a weakness and how is this related to astrology?

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posted August 12, 2012 05:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilithpluto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by sand:
i find a lot of smart women act dumb on purpose or try to dumbdown to, idk what, i guess to seem non-threatening(?)

hey iv groveled a lil bit for a woman to take me back after a breakup! so counterintuitive indeed..


i knw the answer to this!!!! hehe.. cos if acting dumb gets things done, why not? Smart move. My view, it is not wanting to b non threatening.. it is what she wants. So she wants u back... that's flattering! But of course, decision still yours.

Btw, dun ya knw the person who is self sufficient n cn do everything n anything gets to do everything..

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posted August 12, 2012 05:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what? who wants who back?

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posted August 12, 2012 05:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilithpluto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol.. i thought some girl trying to act dumb get ya back?

No? lol..

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posted August 12, 2012 06:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nope lol! I'm easier than that.

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posted August 12, 2012 10:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for redshift     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It drives me crazy when women act dumb also, but, as a woman, I do see how it's encouraged in society. Just look at what women do in photos to look attractive: First thing is open their eyes wide in that "hey, I'm not threatening! I'm so passive and willing and approachable Mr. Big Strong Man"... and lots of men respond to that unfortunately. Blech. As a mars in Aries, venus in Cap, I wouldn't be caught dead playing dumb, quite the opposite, but not every man can handle that in my experience.

ANYHOO!

Here's my question to you Sand. Does it make a difference if someone is demanding you be strong for them versus someone actually needs your help, but hasn't specifically asked for it. Example: someone you love is going through a hard time, they aren't complaining or asking for anything, but it's getting the better of them, you can tell...does that make you angry with them, or do you want to help?
Okay that, versus, someone is making stupid decisions and complaining and whining to you and asking you to do this and say that to make them feel better. Is that what you mean maybe? The second type of scenario?
I can't stand people demanding my help, but I would bend over backward and tie myself in a knot to help someone who was feeling "weak" ie: sad, greiving, shocked, lonely etc. How about you Sand? Does it make a difference?

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posted August 12, 2012 11:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm an Aries gal *pats self on the back.* and I understand weakness but it doesn't mean I digest it easily. It's hard for me to have compassion for weakness, as in not being able to stick to your principles, but I'll always fight for the underdog or against unfairness.

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posted August 12, 2012 11:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Not at all, weakness to me just means their humanity is showing. And I know I have weaknesses in myself so how can I dislike someone else for something I have in myself?

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posted August 13, 2012 06:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sand:
or just being a whiney ****bag in general

o Sandie, sand, sand. Sigh...
I dislike whiny defensive cb's.
Keep your neuroses to yourselves people (!) That's what I say.
Get thee into therapy, or good drugs, or good sex, or something (!) and spare us sane commoners.
The Aqua Merc isn't the most patient mental specimen for BS. And it's angular. And it rules the 3rd.
Aries MC with Mars in the 3rd, also impatient and sometimes aggressive mentality.
Just be honest and own up to it and be done with it, or keep it to yourselves and deal with it.
The world is not your momma ready to kiss your every boo boo and be sensitive to you at all times.
The world has things it's gotta take care of and no matter what your response or action, it keeps turning.
Thankfully I don't have to deal with this often (at all) in my daily life, I can be as honest as I like. But online at this site it's a bit much at times, esp with a stranger for crying out loud. The only thing I can think of is the defensive reactions are these poor souls blowing off steam cos they're miffed in their offline life and this is their outlet. I remember even reading Donna Cunningham (famous astrologer) having to tone down her *honest* articles on her own site, because too many people were writing in defensively miffed. O please, people. Astrologers are allowed to be honest if what they see is what they see. Let us state our well-researched opinion and shuddup about it. And if you don't agree do your own research. That's what I liked about Donna's site, she was up-front. A stand-up gal
But I hated when she toned it down and gave in to those muppets

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posted August 13, 2012 06:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
weakness in others is a huge turn-off for me, as well. being a coward, not standing up for yourself, letting others walk all over you, being afraid to assert yourself, all that...bugs the hell out of me! and i become my strongest when i am in the presence of those people! i don't treat them differently, though. i just think, "damn..grow some balls." ya know?

no Aries in me but i was raised by an Aries sun/venus father who thinks the same way.

i do have Scorp ASC/Venus/Pluto and Capricorn sun, Sagittarius moon, merc, uranus, saturn....all very strong-willed signs...maybe that's it..


have u ever thought about what life experiences might have made these people this way? maybe emotional abuse in their family, not being allowed to assert their own power?
have some compassion first and foremost. what do u know what other people have been through? u never know. btw---you become ur strongest when in the presence of people u consider weak? What does that mean?

Lonake, it doesnt surprise me that you feel that way. at least online, you are not a very sweet person. and that usually shows someone who has built a hard shell around them which will prevent weakness from showing through.

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