posted October 25, 2012 03:01 AM            

"165 Conjunction Venus - Uranus

independent in love. His love life is rich, but with passing love affairs. He tires quickly and is scared of losing his liberty. If he marries, he will regret it. He has that little something that attracts the opposite sex: he likes amorous adventures, he is romantic. He is the eternal lover and, of course, is unfaithful if he has a serious relationship. He likes art, anything new."

posted October 25, 2012 07:40 AM            

As a conjunction it is highly creative, this guy will have his own unique approach to love, to many things (houses and house rulers need to be consulted here).

I have the square EXACT it dominates my chart and well learning astrology is no surprise. Neither is it that I take unusual photographs and notice things others don't.

In relationships I'm terrified of losing my freedom, I know what makes me happy and I know how creative and expressive this requires me to be. Most men are liable to suck this energy from me, so I'm drawn to the ones who let me be free. Even if this means loving from afar.

It doesn't sound like your guy has this dominating his chart, but to some degree he will need to be fascinated and stimulated by life and any important relationship he has. If you want the stable, predictable, nice car, decent house, go for a meal fridays life then you may as well rule him out.

If you're creative, intelligent and can show him the world in ways he hasn't seen it. If your eyes have electricity and depth and you really love meeting new people and exploring new things then not only is he likely to be drawn to you this is all you need him to see about you.

posted October 25, 2012 09:29 AM            

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Originally posted by waxlobster:

If you're creative, intelligent and can show him the world in ways he hasn't seen it. If your eyes have electricity and depth and you really love meeting new people and exploring new things then not only is he likely to be drawn to you this is all you need him to see about you.

Not only are us Venus Uranus folk creative, eccentric and fascinated by new and electric things. We're drawn to others who are too as we know instinctively they will neither bore us, nor have any interest in pinning us down. We'd prefer an unstable relationship with great love and great excitement, to the stable predictability which stifles our creative, innovative souls.

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Great description!

posted October 25, 2012 12:15 PM            

Id say the signs and house placements modify how this energy is expressed. I have the conj in Scorpio 11th house, ruler Pluto is in Libra 10th and Aquarius rules my 2nd house, which is empty except for asteroid Juno (love/marriage).

I am on my second marriage, the first ended due to domestic violence and stifled personal growth not out of reckless affairs. I love very deeply and do not embrace casual flings, reckless emotional storms are not my cup of tea. However, I must feel my partner is loyal and devoted to positive growth. Loving w commitment does not automatically equal paralyzed growth and boredom.

My husband is above all my friend/companion, which suits the 11th house very well. I couldn't love someone who isn't my friend and companion first. That's how I see it, he is Watson to my Sherlock Holmes. It'd be boring to seek the mysteries of life without someone who understands the desire and goes with the flow.

I love art and am intrigued by esoteric mysteries, especially astrology and different spiritual paths. My husband isn't particularly spiritual, but loves that I am and enjoys discussing subjects such as aliens and the paranormal w me.

He likes that I love cleansing the house from negative energies w incense, and encourages this by bringing home my favorite scents. He also set up a special prayer/ritual space for me and doesn't bat an eye when I do tarot readings. He gives me my space and I do the same.

posted October 25, 2012 03:41 PM            

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Originally posted by waxlobster:
That's a terribly written excerpt. If you want to get deeper into Venus-Uranus google it, read other interpretations.

As a conjunction it is highly creative, this guy will have his own unique approach to love, to many things (houses and house rulers need to be consulted here).

I have the square EXACT it dominates my chart and well learning astrology is no surprise. Neither is it that I take unusual photographs and notice things others don't.

In relationships I'm terrified of losing my freedom, I know what makes me happy and I know how creative and expressive this requires me to be. Most men are liable to suck this energy from me, so I'm drawn to the ones who let me be free. Even if this means loving from afar.

It doesn't sound like your guy has this dominating his chart, but to some degree he will need to be fascinated and stimulated by life and any important relationship he has. If you want the stable, predictable, nice car, decent house, go for a meal fridays life then you may as well rule him out.

If you're creative, intelligent and can show him the world in ways he hasn't seen it. If your eyes have electricity and depth and you really love meeting new people and exploring new things then not only is he likely to be drawn to you this is all you need him to see about you.

Not only are us Venus Uranus folk creative, eccentric and fascinated by new and electric things. We're drawn to others who are too as we know instinctively they will neither bore us, nor have any interest in pinning us down. We'd prefer an unstable relationship with great love and great excitement, to the stable predictability which stifles our creative, innovative souls.

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posted October 25, 2012 04:41 PM            

The way it manifests for my sister: She is attracted to men who are not from her ethnic group. She has a funky style, and finds "different"-looking people very attractive.

posted October 25, 2012 11:14 PM            

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Originally posted by PhoenixFire:
Excellently stated, wax lobster

Id say the signs and house placements modify how this energy is expressed. I have the conj in Scorpio 11th house, ruler Pluto is in Libra 10th and Aquarius rules my 2nd house, which is empty except for asteroid Juno (love/marriage).

I am on my second marriage, the first ended due to domestic violence and stifled personal growth not out of reckless affairs. I love very deeply and do not embrace casual flings, reckless emotional storms are not my cup of tea. However, I must feel my partner is loyal and devoted to positive growth. Loving w commitment does not automatically equal paralyzed growth and boredom.

My husband is above all my friend/companion, which suits the 11th house very well. I couldn't love someone who isn't my friend and companion first. That's how I see it, he is Watson to my Sherlock Holmes. It'd be boring to seek the mysteries of life without someone who understands the desire and goes with the flow.

I love art and am intrigued by esoteric mysteries, especially astrology and different spiritual paths. My husband isn't particularly spiritual, but loves that I am and enjoys discussing subjects such as aliens and the paranormal w me.

He likes that I love cleansing the house from negative energies w incense, and encourages this by bringing home my favorite scents. He also set up a special prayer/ritual space for me and doesn't bat an eye when I do tarot readings. He gives me my space and I do the same.

To summarize, I think this aspect brings about souls who think outside of the box and are a little quirky we wish love and companionship as anyone does, but must be w someone who encourages us to be our nonconformist selves when there is a purpose, friendship, understanding and respect we are happy and will not recklessly throw it all away. To do so would mean casting away our best friend

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posted January 16, 2017 09:50 AM            

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Originally posted by PhoenixFire:
Excellently stated, wax lobster

Id say the signs and house placements modify how this energy is expressed. I have the conj in Scorpio 11th house, ruler Pluto is in Libra 10th and Aquarius rules my 2nd house, which is empty except for asteroid Juno (love/marriage).

I am on my second marriage, the first ended due to domestic violence and stifled personal growth not out of reckless affairs. I love very deeply and do not embrace casual flings, reckless emotional storms are not my cup of tea. However, I must feel my partner is loyal and devoted to positive growth. Loving w commitment does not automatically equal paralyzed growth and boredom.

My husband is above all my friend/companion, which suits the 11th house very well. I couldn't love someone who isn't my friend and companion first. That's how I see it, he is Watson to my Sherlock Holmes. It'd be boring to seek the mysteries of life without someone who understands the desire and goes with the flow.

I love art and am intrigued by esoteric mysteries, especially astrology and different spiritual paths. My husband isn't particularly spiritual, but loves that I am and enjoys discussing subjects such as aliens and the paranormal w me.

He likes that I love cleansing the house from negative energies w incense, and encourages this by bringing home my favorite scents. He also set up a special prayer/ritual space for me and doesn't bat an eye when I do tarot readings. He gives me my space and I do the same.

To summarize, I think this aspect brings about souls who think outside of the box and are a little quirky we wish love and companionship as anyone does, but must be w someone who encourages us to be our nonconformist selves when there is a purpose, friendship, understanding and respect we are happy and will not recklessly throw it all away. To do so would mean casting away our best friend

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posted January 16, 2017 02:03 PM            

When he called to apologize I said " Its cool. I don't think you want a relationship" and left it there.

I think they can go off on tangent and leave one in a tailspin-if you are the needy ,clingy type.

The one I dated wasn't exactly "exciting". I suspect he had a passive,feminine Asc sign.

posted January 16, 2017 02:09 PM            

-Mental stimulation-this is MOST important!
-Excitement through traveling, books, movies etc
-Need the "freedom" to express myself through thoughts, feelings, clothes etc etc This is also very important! I cannot stand someone that cannot think outside the box. Just because I play with ideas doesn't mean I'll follow through..

posted May 30, 2018 01:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:

His Venus Uranus square is 5 degrees apart!!! I looked at the link to his chart and had a peak at it. An orb of 5 degrees is very wide for an outer planet/personal planet aspect. The influence of the Venus/Uranus conjunct will bearly show in his nature. I wouldn't worry about him having Venus/Uranus in his chart. It's hardly an issue... Not that Venus/Uranus is 'bad', it's just not a particularly strong aspect in this person's chart.

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posted May 30, 2018 01:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
I don't know if this is helpful but I have Uranus conjuct 7th H cusp.
I need mental stimulation more than anything.
Freedom is keyword of course.
But I can chat with the one I like all day long via messages/internet etc..
I had platonic relationships like that.. I had one for 2 years and two other ones for a year and a half. I mean it's not what most would call normal relationship.. I don't find the reason to cheat because once I am bored it's the end. I am not easily bored though when I have physical freedom.

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