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Topic: Miserable or Non-Existent Love Life aspects
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 357 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:05 PM
quote: What are the house placements for this? Or natal birth chart aspects?
Capricorn 5H with Saturn. Saturn conjunct sun and Venus. Saturn square moon and Ceres. Capricorn NN. ------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by starfairy: Oh, oops, you have Neptune transiting your 5th! My brain isn't working today! So, Neptune transiting the 5th can indicate a lot of idealism and fantasy when it comes to romance and the love life. Neptune is going to be in your 5th for a really long time. It just finished squaring your Mars and opposing your Moon, which is good! Uranus will not enter your 7th until next year. It'll get close in July, but it will retrograde before making a direct hit to your Descendant. Around that time, your progressed Descendant will be within orb of conjuncting your natal Vertex, which should bring changes into your love life. Darn, I really like your chart. I love the Sun/Lilith/Juno conjunction you have in Sag. It's a sexy combo. And lucky you with Jupiter in the 10th..
You like my chart?!?? I will trade for whatever you have!!!! I don't even know what that Jupiter is doing in the 10th...is it supposed to give me a successful career? I have not received a single job offer yet. I have applied for at least 50 internships and 10 jobs and no one wrote back. But I honestly don't even care about that bc I want to be in a relationship with the man that I love. Does anything say that a relationship will happen for me between now and may/june/july? Will the Venus conjunct Saturn move anything forward? I did not know it would retrograde, I had chart readings before and no one actually mentioned that, this is interesting. IP: Logged |
12muddy Newflake Posts: 14 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 12, 2013 07:13 PM
I have venus conjunct saturn, and saturn conjunct/square a number of my other planets. I haven't had any real difficulty in relationships. I do have a somewhat tense relationship with my mother, but that's it. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by 12muddy: I have venus conjunct saturn, and saturn conjunct/square a number of my other planets. I haven't had any real difficulty in relationships. I do have a somewhat tense relationship with my mother, but that's it.
Wow lucky you! IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Capricorn 5H with Saturn. Saturn conjunct sun and Venus. Saturn square moon and Ceres. Capricorn NN.
So North Node in Capricorn does what exactly? I have it in my 4th house. IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 310 From: los angeles, california, USA Registered: Jul 2010
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posted February 12, 2013 07:18 PM
At the beginning of June, Jupiter will oppose your Venus."This transit can indicate harmony in relationships, or possibly even a new relationship. You want love very much, and are able to give it generously. On the other hand, this transit sometimes brings out a polarity between the need for emotional closeness and the latitude to move around freely. When this happens in a love relationship, one may want the freedom and the other may want the closeness. This can be resolved only by bringing the feelings out into the open with total honesty. The aspect also encourages your taste for the lavish and the beautiful in material things, and you need to be careful not to go overboard in squandering money" http://www.thefutureminders.com/Jupiter-transits/jupiter-opposition-venus.cfm And then Uranus is going to square your 5th house ruler, Uranus, starting at the end of march, which could indicate sudden events in your love life. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by starfairy:
And then Uranus is going to square your 5th house ruler, Uranus, starting at the end of march, which could indicate sudden events in your love life.
This I can believe. I have had tarot readings which indicated some developments for this period. Thanks again for the help It is just hard to be like this IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:29 PM
I'm just trying to figure out why I am so miserable. I thought my chart didn't indicate any of that.IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4177 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 12, 2013 07:32 PM
Surprisingly I have Libra Venus in the 7H, but it squares uranus 4d so maybe that's why I've never been in a relationship It's probably for the best because I love my alone time. Plus I have Sun-Moon conjunct Neptune which according to cafeastrology means Denying partnerships. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: Surprisingly I have Libra Venus in the 7H, but it squares uranus 4d so maybe that's why I've never been in a relationship Which is probably best because I love my alone time. Plus I have Sun-Moon conjunct Neptune which according to cafeastrology means Denying partnerships.
But if you are happy about it then it is fine right? Have you had intimate relations with others nonetheless? IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 357 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:34 PM
quote: So North Node in Capricorn does what exactly?
It makes me even more Capricornian/Saturnian, which hmmm...doesn't help. I have it in the 5th house. ------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4177 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 12, 2013 07:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: But if you are happy about it then it is fine right? Have you had intimate relations with others nonetheless?
Absolutely Just thought I'd share some aspects that might be of influence, and no never had any kind of intimacy. Unless you count my first & only kiss being a peck on the lips lol IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: Absolutely Just thought I'd share some aspects that might be of influence, and no never had any kind of intimacy. Unless you count my first & only kiss being a peck on the lips lol
Well that's actually really nice that you don't want any. I am the exact opposite, I want sex sex and lots of it. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: It makes me even more Capricornian/Saturnian, which hmmm...doesn't help. I have it in the 5th house.
So do you have a stagnant love life then? (all this cap influence is bad?) IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4177 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 12, 2013 07:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: Well that's actually really nice that you don't want any.I am the exact opposite, I want sex sex and lots of it.
Nothing wrong with that afterall we wouldn't be here without it. I am open to possibility of being in a potential relation in the future, however it wouldn't bother me if I ever did. IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 310 From: los angeles, california, USA Registered: Jul 2010
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posted February 12, 2013 07:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: Well that's actually really nice that you don't want any.I am the exact opposite, I want sex sex and lots of it.
Haha spoken like a true Sag woman! You're definitely very relationship-oriented. The Sun conjunct Venus people I know find it difficult to be alone because they find it so natural to be in a relationship. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: Nothing wrong with that afterall we wouldn't be here without it. I am open to possibility of being in a potential relation in the future, however it wouldn't bother me if I ever did.
I just envy the people that get into relationships so easily and have 3049304 suitors to choose from. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by starfairy: Haha spoken like a true Sag woman! You're definitely very relationship-oriented. The Sun conjunct Venus people I know find it difficult to be alone because they find it so natural to be in a relationship.
Yes definitely. Lol it is so sad. And my Venus is in Sag too, and all the others planets, the trio combo you mentioned...so much Sag. I love Sag men by the way. My love is a Sag. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 357 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:47 PM
quote: So do you have a stagnant love life then? (all this cap influence is bad?)
I chose to have no love life. ------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: I chose to have no love life.
Then you must not feel sad about it because you chose this yourself? it is sad for people who really strive to be in relationships and want others to love them back IP: Logged |
starfairy Knowflake Posts: 310 From: los angeles, california, USA Registered: Jul 2010
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posted February 12, 2013 07:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: Yes definitely. Lol it is so sad. And my Venus is in Sag too, and all the others planets, the trio combo you mentioned...so much Sag. I love Sag men by the way. My love is a Sag.
Why aren't you and your Sag together? IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 736 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: I just envy the people that get into relationships so easily and have 3049304 suitors to choose from.
No not really, I've been in so many relationships. Usually short and empty. The problem isn't them its me, I'm just too selfish to be a great lover.
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asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by starfairy: Why aren't you and your Sag together?
Please do not quote this I may delete it
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Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4177 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 12, 2013 07:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: I just envy the people that get into relationships so easily and have 3049304 suitors to choose from.
Well usually out of those dozens of people they don't always have genuine intentions in why they pursue them. I just tell myself, if it's mean to be than it will be IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 357 From: Poland/Saturn Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 07:55 PM
quote: Then you must not feel sad about it because you chose this yourself?
I'm ok with that. It would be perfect if I had no libido either ^^ Anyway, I intend to keep my virginity. ------------------ Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |