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Topic: Miserable or Non-Existent Love Life aspects
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asclibrasagsun
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posted February 12, 2013 08:31 PM
  
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I'm not going to approach people I find attractive at the corner of the block, thats just inappropriate.
Majority of couples meet at social gatherings.
why is it inappropriate? you can meet interesting people everywhere... some people might be b*tchy towards ya,but so what? if someone is into you they wont mind you randomly talking to them[/B][/QUOTE] check check check mark. agreed. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
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posted February 12, 2013 08:33 PM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
check check check mark. agreed.
yea if a girl is into me she wouldnt care if i approach her at a store or at a club,if she isnt into me approaching her at a social function wouldnt change that.IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted February 12, 2013 08:34 PM
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Ohh, okay, so now it all makes sense.Like you indicated earlier,the progressed Venus to Saturn could indicate falling in love with an older man. I was thinking about the fact that transiting Neptune has been squaring your natal Mars (7th hosue ruler), and Moon. The Moon rules your 10th house, so falling in love with an older person who is your superior at work makes a LOT of sense. Neptune transits make us feel like we have met our soulmate. They can make us kinda unrealistic and impractical when it comes to love, especially when it makes hard aspects to our love planets. People under these transits tend to idealize partners, or fall for unattainable lovers. Anyway, the transit is over now, so as Neptune keeps moving, I think things will become more clear for you. Again, I think Uranus sq your Uranus will get things going for you.. Your Venus conjunct Saturn progression isn't even exact yet. I think it'll be in effect for another year or so..?
Yes Okay  ))
So I was actually told that the Venus conjunct Saturn is not about the falling in love (I mean I fell for him a while ago when I did not have this progression right?), it is about the beginning of a serious commitment? IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted February 12, 2013 08:35 PM
So many love and beauty threads O___O signs of V-day approaching.IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted February 12, 2013 08:35 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
[b] check check check mark. agreed.
yea if a girl is into me she wouldnt care if i approach her at a store or at a club,if she isnt into me approaching her at a social function wouldnt change that.[/B][/QUOTE]This is such truth. This is why I think if guys see you in class at college, if they like you they will go for you if it is meant to be, if they saw you at some "social function" it wouldn't make them want to be more attracted to you. What you see is what you get. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted February 12, 2013 08:35 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
[b] check check check mark. agreed.
yea if a girl is into me she wouldnt care if i approach her at a store or at a club,if she isnt into me approaching her at a social function wouldnt change that.[/B][/QUOTE]and how many times have that worked for you?
People are more open in social gatherings. I would be freaked out if some person I don't know when I was alone approach me and flirt with me... IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted February 12, 2013 08:36 PM
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Originally posted by ail221:
So many love and beauty threads O___O signs of V-day approaching.
That's pretty ironic. I blame Cupid. Little b*stard .I say we tie up his wings. IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted February 12, 2013 08:38 PM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
That's pretty ironic. I blame Cupid. Little ******* .
 I actually like v-day. Don't blame Cupid its his mama Aphrodite its her fault. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted February 12, 2013 08:40 PM
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Originally posted by ail221:
I actually like v-day. Don't blame Cupid its his mama Aphrodite its her fault.
I like it too. I love Holidays! Aphrodite is great though.
Cupid is nice too. I was just trying to be cool. IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted February 12, 2013 08:44 PM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
I like it too. I love Holidays! Aphrodite is great though.
Cupid is nice too. I was just trying to be cool.
Don't worry you still have your Lindaland street cred.  I agree clubs are not the place to meet guys especially since they think groping is cool because of the location. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted February 12, 2013 08:53 PM
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Originally posted by ail221:
Don't worry you still have your Lindaland street cred. I agree clubs are not the place to meet guys especially since they think groping is cool because of the location.
Ewie. Groping. AHAHAHAH oh yeah. I liked clubs when I was 13, I am way past that age. I actually partied a lot and began dating early - age 12, then after age 15 I became so mature and really grew into myself. Did not party hard after that. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 08:54 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
and how many times have that worked for you?
People are more open in social gatherings. I would be freaked out if some person I don't know when I was alone approach me and flirt with me...
actually most of my success has come from this... my experience has been that its alot harder to meet girls at parties... they usually all fight over one particular guy and the rest of us are sh*t outta luck. haha IP: Logged |
AriesKat
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posted February 12, 2013 08:58 PM
I have pluto in 7th and Saturn in the 8th, and venus opp pluto I think these three did me in. Every relationship theres a issue or betrayal. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted February 12, 2013 09:07 PM
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Originally posted by AriesKat:
I have pluto in 7th and Saturn in the 8th, and venus opp pluto I think these three did me in. Every relationship theres a issue or betrayal.
These sound very difficult, lots of heavy planet influence
Venus opposite pluto is another, I forgot to put that in the op IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted February 12, 2013 09:07 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
actually most of my success has come from this... my experience has been that its alot harder to meet girls at parties... they usually all fight over one particular guy and the rest of us are sh*t outta luck. haha
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asclibrasagsun
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posted February 12, 2013 09:20 PM
Starfairy,You have Venus in Cap. right?
Your guy has Venus in Cap. or you had an experience with Venus Cap from what I remember?
Well with my man, I have his Venus in Capricorn conjunct my Saturn in Capricorn in synastry, to add to that I have the progression coming up in my natal/progressed right...so for me I am thinking, will this aspect be finally activated in our synastry? it is supposed to bring longevity to the relationship. and it is a conjunction a hard aspect but at least it is not a square. My question is: don't you think that usually this aspect is kind of dampening for a love relationship but in our case because his Venus is in Cap and my Saturn being in Cap, the actual ruler being Saturn for Cap, wouldn't this be more comfortable for the aspect then? Do you know what I mean?
It would be different if it was his Venus in Leo conjunct my Saturn in Leo, I don't think Leo likes to be in Saturn which is synonymous with Capricorn IP: Logged |
AriesKat
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posted February 12, 2013 09:20 PM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
These sound very difficult, lots of heavy planet influence
Venus opposite pluto is another, I forgot to put that in the op
Im actually happier when I am single. I get lonely but its not that much. Everytime I get into a reationship **** hits the fan. Its like I cant calm down and always suspicious. I have huge trust issues but none were unfounded,in fact the people who I havent trusted I was spot on. I attract some shady characters. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 12, 2013 09:21 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
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why is it inappropriate? you can meet interesting people everywhere... some people might be b*tchy towards ya,but so what? if someone is into you they wont mind you randomly talking to them[/QUOTE]
I'm not going to creep on people, thats just weird.
I also find that really irritating, I don't know you I'm not that attracted to you go away. In social gathering are more appropriate, people that are single are looking. These are people who creep in public http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kTFZyl7hfBw [/B][/ QUOTE]
dude, my point is "people who are into you " wont care if you talk to them at a store or whatever.. so you're saying i shouldnt talk to a girl if i see her checking me out? IP: Logged |
starfairy
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From: los angeles, california, USA
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posted February 12, 2013 09:37 PM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Starfairy,You have Venus in Cap. right?
Your guy has Venus in Cap. or you had an experience with Venus Cap from what I remember?
Well with my man, I have his Venus in Capricorn conjunct my Saturn in Capricorn in synastry, to add to that I have the progression coming up in my natal/progressed right...so for me I am thinking, will this aspect be finally activated in our synastry? it is supposed to bring longevity to the relationship. and it is a conjunction a hard aspect but at least it is not a square. My question is: don't you think that usually this aspect is kind of dampening for a love relationship but in our case because his Venus is in Cap and my Saturn being in Cap, the actual ruler being Saturn for Cap, wouldn't this be more comfortable for the aspect then? Do you know what I mean?
It would be different if it was his Venus in Leo conjunct my Saturn in Leo, I don't think Leo likes to be in Saturn which is synonymous with Capricorn
Yup, I have Venus in Cap. I have the same Sun and Venus as your guy And my ex has Venus in Cap. I can definitely see your point. I think the fact that Saturn is in Capricorn in your chart shows how comfortable YOU are with your Saturn (because Saturn is in 'domicile' in Capricorn). I think his Venus on your Cappy Saturn is also good, because you know how to handle Saturn energy quite well, so he can certainly learn a lot from you in this sense. Venus in Cap isn't the best when it comes to love, so being with someone with a strong Saturn would be great for him! And I think the fact that his Venus is conjunct your Saturn in Capricorn is very appropriate, given your progression. The progression indicates that you were meant to meet an older man, and so the synastry conjunction between his venus and your Saturn illustrates that he's the one you were supposed to meet! At least, that's how I see it. Seeing parallels between progressions and synastry are really interesting. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted February 12, 2013 09:43 PM
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Originally posted by starfairy:
Yup, I have Venus in Cap. I have the same Sun and Venus as your guy And my ex has Venus in Cap.I can definitely see your point. I think the fact that Saturn is in Capricorn in your chart shows how comfortable YOU are with your Saturn (because Saturn is in 'domicile' in Capricorn). I think his Venus on your Cappy Saturn is also good, because you know how to handle Saturn energy quite well, so he can certainly learn a lot from you in this sense. Venus in Cap isn't the best when it comes to love, so being with someone with a strong Saturn would be great for him! And I think the fact that his Venus is conjunct your Saturn in Capricorn is very appropriate, given your progression. The progression indicates that you were meant to meet an older man, and so the synastry conjunction between his venus and your Saturn illustrates that he's the one you were supposed to meet! At least, that's how I see it. Seeing parallels between progressions and synastry are really interesting.
Aww, this really makes sense! Thanks again. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted February 12, 2013 09:44 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I'm not going to creep on people, thats just weird. I also find that really irritating, I don't know you I'm not that attracted to you go away. In social gathering are more appropriate, people that are single are looking. These are people who creep in public http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kTFZyl7hfBw [/ QUOTE]
dude, my point is "people who are into you " wont care if you talk to them at a store or whatever.. so you're saying i shouldnt talk to a girl if i see her checking me out? [/B]
Thats different situation completely. I was saying chances are people are busy out and about and no one is really looking around. Sitting in coffee shop and noticing some eyeing you is different, that person is inviting you. IP: Logged |
thundered
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From: Australia
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posted February 12, 2013 09:44 PM
Bumpity bumping this thread for when I get home!IP: Logged |
peregrine
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posted February 12, 2013 09:46 PM
been figuring out how to croon this without looking stupid.  less country more bryan ferry. #vday
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ySb02SdU-Gc again ima go with the bazi on this one there are decades where relationships might not be ideal. for me it started wheni was 19. i'm turning 29 soon. it's been such an unsuccessful endeavor that whole decade. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted February 12, 2013 09:47 PM
I have Venus conjunct Neptune. Maybe I don't have the best judgement, but I was always extremely cautious about getting into relationships. It's not like I automatically fumbled into deception after deception. All things considered, I think I fared about *average* in relationships, and now marriage. Neptune alternately clouds and informs Venus. It's like an alternating current ESP. IP: Logged |
peregrine
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posted February 12, 2013 09:49 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Thats different situation completely. I was saying chances are people are busy out and about and no one is really looking around. Sitting in coffee shop and noticing some eyeing you is different.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pp95olCn3lY ^that's how i imagine myself in public. no joke. i even move that slow and just flash a smile here and there. i am never in a rush but always punctual. i love me.  IP: Logged |
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