posted February 12, 2013 06:15 PM            

I would think Saturn in 7th house, Venus Square Uranus, Venus Square Neptune, or Saturn in 5th house. Venus conjunct Saturn as well. I know three ladies past 45 who have never been married and they all share Venus Conjunct Saturn.

I do not have any of the placements, in fact, there is nothing in my chart that prevents any love relationship but I just have an absent love life (well it wasn't always this well, I am just not satisfied with the current conditions)

posted February 12, 2013 06:20 PM            

I don't think Venus square Uranus or Neptune necessarily means no love life, but it can certainly indicate misery... I have a couple of friends with Venus square Uranus, and their love lives are rich, but they find it difficult to commit. VEnus square Neptune can definitely indicate a rich love life, but one that is full of illusion and disappointment.

If you aren't satisfied with your current love life, check your transits and progressions!

What degree is your Ascendant? Is Saturn still transiting your 1st house? Saturn in the 1st can be quite lonely and depressing...

posted February 12, 2013 06:22 PM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
What are the house placements for this? Or natal birth chart aspects?

I would think Saturn in 7th house, Venus Square Uranus, Venus Square Neptune, or Saturn in 5th house. Venus conjunct Saturn as well. I know three ladies past 45 who have never been married and they all share Venus Conjunct Saturn.

I do not have any of the placements, in fact, there is nothing in my chart that prevents any love relationship but I just have an absent love life (well it wasn't always this well, I am just not satisfied with the current conditions)

Anyone want to speak?

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posted February 12, 2013 06:24 PM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Venus square Neptune wouldn't indicate a non-existent love life necessarily, just a fairy tale romance that might be harder to manifest in the "real world." But not non-existent.

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posted February 12, 2013 06:26 PM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Venus square Neptune wouldn't indicate a non-existent love life necessarily, just a fairy tale romance that might be harder to manifest in the "real world." But not non-existent.

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posted February 12, 2013 06:26 PM            

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Originally posted by starfairy:
I agree with all the Saturn stuff you mentioned.

I don't think Venus square Uranus or Neptune necessarily means no love life, but it can certainly indicate misery... I have a couple of friends with Venus square Uranus, and their love lives are rich, but they find it difficult to commit. VEnus square Neptune can definitely indicate a rich love life, but one that is full of illusion and disappointment.

If you aren't satisfied with your current love life, check your transits and progressions!

What degree is your Ascendant? Is Saturn still transiting your 1st house? Saturn in the 1st can be quite lonely and depressing...

Has Uranus entered your 7th house yet?

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posted February 12, 2013 06:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
uhm actually..
7th house rules business and partners even long term relationships. Marriage is a contact and represents give in take. Libra rules this house because it signifies pleasing other around you.
You can be in great solid marriage with out romance.

Love and romance department is ruled by the 5th house.
So if you feel your love life is non existant look at the 5th house

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posted February 12, 2013 06:36 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
from my observations people with venus/neptune or neptune in the 7th are prone to be deceived by partners and not see them for who they really are.

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posted February 12, 2013 06:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
^ what about its ruler?
is it afflicted?

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posted February 12, 2013 06:40 PM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Hey there! Saturn is now in the 2nd for me. Uranus is in my 7th yes! Anything supposed to change? I have progressed Venus conjunct my natal Saturn moving in which can indicate a marriage to an older partner (this would actually be very appropriate) and with Uranus in the 7th it could mean that such a relationship begins "all of a sudden" which is EXACTLY what needs to happen for me. My Libra Asc is at 13 degrees I believe. Give or take a few.

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Okay, if your Ascendant is at 13 degrees, Uranus hasn't quite entered your 7th house yet! It will get to 12.31 degrees Aries before it goes retrograde in July. Knowing your exact Ascendant is really helpful

Progressed Venus conjunct Saturn is exactly what my mom had when she met my dad (who is 11 years older than her). Progressed Venus to Saturn can also means a stagnated love life, though. They always say the conjunction can go "either way." The conjunction can certainly indicate a relationship, though. Looking at transits gives better clues, of course..

posted February 12, 2013 06:41 PM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Can you explain what you mean by this a little bit more? I am a bit of a novice still.

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posted February 12, 2013 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by starfairy:
Okay, if your Ascendant is at 13 degrees, Uranus hasn't quite entered your 7th house yet! It will get to 12.31 degrees Aries before it goes retrograde in July. Knowing your exact Ascendant is really helpful

Progressed Venus conjunct Saturn is exactly what my mom had when she met my dad (who is 11 years older than her). Progressed Venus to Saturn can also means a stagnated love life, though. They always say the conjunction can go "either way." The conjunction can certainly indicate a relationship, though. Looking at transits gives better clues, of course..

Anyway, I would definitely look for transits to your Venus and Mars (7th house ruler). Uranus rules your 5th house, so that, too.. You won't be getting any outer planets in your 5th house anytime soon, it seems.

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Is this bad that there will be no outer planets in my 5th house? Are they the ones that make things happen? (this is so sad)

posted February 12, 2013 06:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Like if 5th house is in the sign of leo its ruler would be the sun.
If 5th house half in libra and virgo its rulers would be venus and mercury.

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posted February 12, 2013 06:43 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
from my observations people with venus/neptune or neptune in the 7th are prone to be deceived by partners and not see them for who they really are.

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posted February 12, 2013 06:44 PM            

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Originally posted by starfairy:
Okay, if your Ascendant is at 13 degrees, Uranus hasn't quite entered your 7th house yet! It will get to 12.31 degrees Aries before it goes retrograde in July. Knowing your exact Ascendant is really helpful

Progressed Venus conjunct Saturn is exactly what my mom had when she met my dad (who is 11 years older than her). Progressed Venus to Saturn can also means a stagnated love life, though. They always say the conjunction can go "either way." The conjunction can certainly indicate a relationship, though. Looking at transits gives better clues, of course..

Anyway, I would definitely look for transits to your Venus and Mars (7th house ruler). Uranus rules your 5th house, so that, too.. You won't be getting any outer planets in your 5th house anytime soon, it seems.

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posted February 12, 2013 06:45 PM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Is this bad that there will be no outer planets in my 5th house? Are they the ones that make things happen? (this is so sad)

Should I post my chart?

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No, no, it's not bad at all! There are other types of transits that indicate love.

posted February 12, 2013 06:47 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
from my observations people with venus/neptune or neptune in the 7th are prone to be deceived by partners and not see them for who they really are.

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posted February 12, 2013 06:49 PM            

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Originally posted by starfairy:
No, no, it's not bad at all! There are other types of transits that indicate love.

Go ahead and post your chart.

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Here it is.

posted February 12, 2013 06:49 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
from my observations people with venus/neptune or neptune in the 7th are prone to be deceived by partners and not see them for who they really are.

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posted February 12, 2013 07:00 PM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Well, from what I remember of your chart, you don't have either, so who have you observed who've been deceived?

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posted February 12, 2013 07:04 PM            

Oh, oops, you have Neptune transiting your 5th! My brain isn't working today!

So, Neptune transiting the 5th can indicate a lot of idealism and fantasy when it comes to romance and the love life. Neptune is going to be in your 5th for a really long time. It just finished squaring your Mars and opposing your Moon, which is good!

Uranus will not enter your 7th until next year. It'll get close in July, but it will retrograde before making a direct hit to your Descendant. Around that time, your progressed Descendant will be within orb of conjuncting your natal Vertex, which should bring changes into your love life.